INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ef20e59-2410-4611-a428-c946648e003b','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>拥有好的品格可以帮助你获得好的人际关系。品格也是长远成功的因素。即使受过高等教育的人，内心不够成熟，空有技能也是枉然。谦卑能帮助我们体谅他人，勇敢是所有美德之父。只有走过许多冤枉路，才能逐渐看见自己犯的错，然后才能获得内在的人格整合。</p>','2024-06-27 04:11:01.56','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3aa6eef6-2fce-474d-8a84-6bdac6527b0c','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>谁该为资讯流买单？</p>
<p>线上零售把线下实体店当成资讯流的体验店，让客户去实体店验证测试物品，再去线上买。</p>
<p>这种方式无形中影响了线下零售的发展，从而导致实体店的营业额下降而被迫结束营业。</p>
<p>但实际情况，线上零售也是有局限。有某些物品是很依赖实体店所带来的资讯，如球鞋，需要实体测试才能决定要不要购买。</p>
<p>因为这个原因，实体店(线上零售)不会消失。但或许会演变成另外一种方式，和线上零售互相获益。而这就是&ldquo;新零售&rdquo;。</p>
<p>把线下零售，整顿成品牌的资讯流，为客户提供实体体验。让客户再到线上去购买。</p>','2024-08-25 15:47:22.895','2024-08-26 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e207773-d9b9-4e78-bb53-ae5f4b9bb37c','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>跟随让人突破这句话令我想起了以前店长和经理常说的：&ldquo;听话照做，必有收获&rdquo;。 现在这样看来，是真的有这么样的。补活在别人的看法里，应该好好的了解自己。</p>','2024-09-06 11:12:30.083','2024-09-06 11:12:30.083',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 11:12:30.082',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0cb51968-89eb-45c9-9ee6-55747be7d2d7','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第六章：孤独是可以治愈的。专注在爱就可以了，对很多人来说其实不简单。感到孤独和独处不一样，独处是情绪健康与心情平静的关键；孤独是感到情绪上社交上被孤立。研究已经证实，孤独引发的压力会导致免疫力下降，生病，失眠，认知迟缓与高血压。赫兹书中提到，孤独感的危害等于同一天抽15根烟，而且比过重更糟糕。孤独也与认知衰退和失智强烈相关。访谈中医生也告知，找他们看病时间最长的患者，通常是极度成功的人士，他们只是为了找人说说心底话。孤独流行病的元凶是未参与社交团体，朋友少，关系紧张。还有最孤独的也是已婚者，他们有伴侣，但另一半缺席。另外如果在工作之外，面对社交互动手足无措的人，退休后会变孤独。评论曾经指出，最孤独的两个职业，是律师与医生。</p>','2024-06-27 05:55:40.139','2024-06-27 05:55:40.139',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 05:55:40.138',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9df32ff5-1ff3-46f0-950f-74550aa48836','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">39</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">9/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">二）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">211-214</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当你用自己的弱点与他人连结，生活中的愛会成长，你终于不再担心被人看破手脚。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">明白自身的弱点，反而是愈來愈強大的祕诀，你失去的事、你的衰退，有可能是你和他人的礼物。</span></p>','2024-06-27 06:25:03.932','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5c4094ca-e3c5-4947-9946-02ca1c00b47b','a1520244-7ca1-4ef1-bdfc-892a7751e36f','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p><br>人生大道的配方 ： 觉知+ 接受 + 臣服。&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-25 15:59:32.9','2024-08-25 15:59:32.9',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-25 15:59:32.9',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('987a4a3b-dc73-41d0-bf6a-4d35acb06827','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>职場可謂我們一呆最久的地方，可是上屬和下屬必定會有隔閡，而同事之間也會因利益关係，很難获得真正的友情。所以說在职場上，要建立真正的友誼關係是有一些難度。</p>','2024-06-27 07:01:47.582','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('587e5579-7cfe-453a-b7a0-536c3c188a2d','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>能减少孤独的关系，包括恋爱和亲密的友谊。</p>
<p>感情稳定、相互了解与承诺的&ldquo;友伴式爱情&rdquo;才能带来真正的幸福。可是，如果你与亲友的关系紧密良好，即便单身也能幸福。这说明我们还需要建立配偶以外的交友圈。</p>
<p>基于&ldquo;与家庭成员互动通常是迫于义务，和朋友在一起则主要是为了开心&rdquo;再次说明拓展朋友圈很重要。</p>','2024-06-27 09:40:47.027','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('23a885bf-96a3-4662-97c0-1c785d5a5a59','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>爱与友谊会用掉大量的时间，工作狂的人就不想干这活，甚至有人不谈恋爱，不生孩子，不建立真正友谊。</p>
<p>所以他们会说：我真的没有时间。</p>
<p>这样的人生优先事项真的不平衡啊。</p>','2024-06-27 09:00:57.228','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0b72acd3-face-4e51-ab63-f6d83fd3e776','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>忙与盲。</p>
<p>反思自己。</p>','2024-07-05 08:09:08.271','2024-07-05 08:09:08.271',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-05 08:09:08.27',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7c9ce18f-9a3e-4eb4-b21d-47c18c7a40db','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>与家人（妻子）一起共修，相互扶持。</p>','2024-07-02 09:24:05.773','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ace910d-3412-4763-a32d-2f23b3183300','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>身为佛教徒，我的良师是三宝（佛、法、僧）。</p>','2024-07-03 01:41:05.323','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('185fed69-0f95-4f15-a2a2-90e345333c3b','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们要探索宗教里的奥秘，找寻宗教带给我们的智慧</p>','2024-06-21 00:09:14.206','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b0865ce3-9215-4493-91d2-12deac12acb6','906725a7-7a0b-4dbe-9746-547bbde4cace','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>只有从环境中得到教训，关系破裂，我们才能接受事实，那就是尊重、同理心、诚实与信任的原则，才能主宰一切力量。忠实于我的良知，忠于我视为正确的原则。只有受人尊敬才能选写自己的剧本，活出自己的人生。瘾头是阻碍，只有戒了瘾头才能走上通往进步的路，这时品格培养才能突飞猛进。</p>','2024-06-27 06:18:39.535','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0493ad1b-1439-4759-b7c2-bf4f2e1fdbc5','7c5848d5-a834-4b49-9612-226a7c0be88c','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>资讯流：高效性 vs 体验性</p>
<p>线上零售，能帮客户节省货比三家的时间。同时能帮客户迅速找到需要的物品，并提供商家信息和物流服务。</p>
<p>线上零售，主打高效～又快，又全，又便宜。</p>
<p>但提升效率的同时，也就损失了体验性。</p>','2024-08-25 15:56:36.339','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('404ffe64-1273-4dfd-a65f-064c6b93c4ad','dfda4c62-e9f0-4d90-8c15-9d0d03a92154','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>&nbsp;记住别人的名字是建立亲近感的第一步。名字代表着一个人的身份和个性，当我们能准确并主动地称呼别人时，能够让对方感受到尊重和被重视。名字看似简单，但它在社交场合中起到拉近关系的关键作用，这一点往往被忽视。一个被记住名字的人，往往也更愿意建立更深层次的联系。</p>','2024-09-14 23:09:35.231','2024-09-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61b6c714-f991-4602-8e0c-56b3c3404abc','52a4bc58-f6a7-4154-8a07-a342f3a28e74','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">名创优品也就是我们熟知的MINISO。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">他们在短短的3年内开了一千八百多家店，还在海外五十多个国家开了三百多家店。一年的销售额做到了一百亿。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">他们也把定倍率做到了一。也就是说他的销售价基本就是别人的出厂价格。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">怎么做到的？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">他们利用短路经济M2b和直管模式。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">也就是别人投资，自己管理。投资者带着店铺位置和钱，MINISO负责管理。</span></p>','2024-09-23 08:44:50.307','2024-09-23 08:44:50.307',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 08:44:50.306',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('28f48c0e-9c09-4c07-8977-c52c96c7da5b','5dee7524-1060-479d-8140-dbc92b730c83','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>短路经济是通过减少中间环节，直接连接供需双方，以提高效率、降低成本的一种经济模式</p>','2024-09-19 12:38:04.687','2024-09-21 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c8b6cd5a-2de6-45fb-8f7a-3cc4b1c74ba0','5f2ea392-0ddd-4af3-ba9e-0de4e9f1b9fd','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有些人只想榨干你的价值</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有些人只想骗你、阻扰你，甚至让你背锅</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为了拯救自己，我们需要利用以下3种方法：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。直面他们</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。消除影响</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。远离他们，确保他们不会黏着你。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这些人叫做&rdquo;精神穷人&rdquo;</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们拒绝自己做决定或解决问题，他们反而希望你花时间手把手帮助他们解决生活中的所有问题。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们需要不间断的帮助和关注，用情感绑架你，只有在你因为他们惹上麻烦时才会表达感激之情。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">无论你为他们做什么，都远远不够。不是偶尔向你寻求支持，而是完全依赖你，直到你压得喘不过气。一旦你成了救命稻草，他们无论如何也不会松手。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这种人格的征兆：</span></p>
<ul class="ul2">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们的要求比抱怨更多。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们极度害怕被遗弃。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们要么理想化你（&ldquo;你是我活着的理由&rdquo;），要么貶低你（&ldquo;你就像其他人一样自私&rdquo;）。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们没有核心人格。脑袋看起来空空如也，因为他们就是如此，为了填补这一空洞，他们寄生在距离自己最近的人身上。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们冲动行事。例如，他们喜欢不安全的性行为，或者爱开快车。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们有极端的情绪波动，经常大发雷，甚至以自杀相威胁。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">他们可能会表现得很偏执（&ldquo;你看似很在乎我，其实你只想伤害我&rdquo;）。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如何判断自己是不是在和一个精神穷人打交道呢？如果物</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">围：1~3，1=完全不会；2=有时；3=几乎总是）；</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">怀疑自己陷入了这种状况，用下列问题给对方打分看看（分值能</span></p>
<ul class="ul2">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人会发牢骚吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人爱抱怨吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人看起来像受害者吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人似乎是在说：&ldquo;感觉对不起我吗？&rdquo;</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人想要得到你的同情吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">如果事情不尽如人意，这个人会哭吗？会表现得很受伤吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个人有没有试图让你感到内疚？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">在你看来，这个人是不是一个需求永远得不到满足的无底深渊？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">你想要远离这个人吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">每当你收到对方的语音邮件或电子邮件，你会不会感到焦躁不安？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">你有没有想对这个人大喊一声：&ldquo;坚强一点！&rdquo;</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">你会因为站在对方的对立面感到内疚吗？</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">以下是对应的评分等级：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">12=无须费神费力：一个值得留在你生活中的人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">13~24=中度费神费力：这段关系真的值得你花时间吗？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">25~36=费神费力：如果可以的话，在这个人把你吸干之前赶紧远离吧。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果他们是精神穷人又是一位对自己关系很重要的人，可以直面面对说出自己感受，选择给对方改变的机会。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这种回复会导致两种结果。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。如果这个人认真对待你传达的信息，我们会看到事情往好的方向发展。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。另一种情况则是这个人可能拒绝改变，甚至变本加厉，那么这段关系可能就不值得挽留了。</span></p>','2025-05-21 10:41:46.637','2025-05-21 10:41:46.637',NULL,'f',NULL,'2025-05-21 10:41:46.634',NULL,NULL);
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<p>如果你与亲友的关系紧密良好，即便单身也能幸福。</p>
<p>我有个朋友磪是和弟媳弟弟，还有兄弟姐妹的感情好好，也看到她的磪幸福。</p>','2024-06-27 08:33:18.697','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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<p>孩子长大了，会有他自己的世界，父母不应该成为他们人生的羁绊。关系的质量是在于彼此如何去建立人际上的连接。工作忙，只是一种借口。一段让彼此如沐春风的关系，有谁会选择远离？</p>','2024-06-27 08:41:22.381','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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<p>线上零售擅长资讯流的&ldquo;高效维度&rdquo; ～ 更快，更全，更便宜。</p>
<p>而线下零售擅长资讯流的&ldquo;体验维度&rdquo; ～ 更复杂，更多感，更立体。</p>
<p>例子，买床垫，单看图片数据，你还是对床垫的合适度存疑。唯有到了实体店去实物测试了床垫的合适度，客户才能决定购买。</p>
<p>这就是线上零售无法完全取代线上零售的因素。</p>','2024-08-25 16:04:20.409','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>职场上成功的人，卻在人群里孤独。</p>
<p>听起來多么无奈啊，所谓的高处不胜寒。</p>','2024-06-27 08:25:03.899','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
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<p>好彩，我有几个，但不多。</p>
<p>交友是需要练习时间与投入的技能，更需要交心。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 08:42:46.86','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3cd35b0-1100-4cd4-9132-004c37b638c7','78b52e5c-7a06-49f1-b767-d719b1a31045','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">42</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">12/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">五）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">223-228</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当你诚实虛心面对自己的弱点，你将更能自在做自己。</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">当你用自己的弱项与他人连结，生活中的愛会成长，最后你终于能放下担子，不再担心被人看破手脚。<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">分享你的脆弱，不去管別人会怎么想，这是一种超能力。</strong></span></p>','2024-06-27 07:20:31.023','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>第二曲线需要从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。</p>
<p>当人际关系成为意义和满足感的正式来源，获得奖励不可胜数。</p>
<p>懂得爱人与被爱。</p>','2024-06-27 08:12:49.716','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7eed19d5-da21-442d-ac5c-b3bdc0722d30','50df68a4-e707-498c-9585-1afea5c7dbfa','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>这一部分强调，无论经历了多大的波折或压力，我们最终都要回归到平稳、理性的状态。职场中的挫折与挑战常常会让我们陷入焦虑或过度紧张，但真正的成熟表现是能在面对变化时迅速调整自己，恢复到一种正常的状态。无论成功或失败，我们都不能让情绪控制我们的决策，而要时刻保持平衡，回到理性中来。这让我认识到，在职场中，情绪管理与自我恢复力是持续发展的关键能力。</p>','2024-09-14 23:20:19.386','2024-09-23 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-23 00:00:00.022','2024-09-23 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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<li>时常回到本心和初衷，可以帮助陷入迷茫的我们找回自己。</li>
<li>改变自我，它不仅是企业成功知道，同时也是人生幸福之道。做到了，你可以两者皆有；做不到，必然两头落空。</li>
</ul>','2024-09-23 08:46:36.322','2024-09-23 08:46:36.322',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 08:46:36.322',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>反方向的商品供应链：C-b-B</p>
<p>海尔按照客户的需求，生产冰箱。专属于客户个人需求的冰箱。</p>
<p>从而减低库存数量，也减低生产成本。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>把客户的需求放在首位。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-28 16:03:03.713','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd938c27-02ed-46ed-be0b-d91fd859e787','3bd16092-efcd-4fc4-aa79-9b38ac2d4a46','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>教育后，还要化之，才算创造落地生根，长久的企业文化。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 06:59:17.016','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9265c222-4ecf-4e98-9efd-ba3eea6f69ea','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>谁该为资讯买单</p>
<p>如果用户只是在商场逛而到线上买，那线下店谁还要做？而解决这个方式则是品牌雇佣代理商提供专属店，只试穿不买，让顾客体验了到线上购买</p>
<p>线上和线下不是原路返回，而是要利用科技再提升效率融合现实，</p>
<p>这是不是商机就要看之后的造化了</p>','2024-08-23 04:14:15.24','2024-08-26 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01e442c1-e71d-4c16-a8fd-59e14a7b95ee','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>爱好与兴趣，能帮助摆脱孤独感，而且最好是有同伴一起。我们都有许多角色，其中一个很重要的是&ldquo;我&rdquo;。必须照顾好与&ldquo;我&rdquo;的关系，才会身心灵健康。</p>','2024-06-27 12:07:31.332','2024-06-27 12:07:31.332',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 12:07:31.331',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e6afec79-b45f-42b5-8684-64ed2ccb61c0','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','257784b6-4e0d-4767-ad9e-6c9c79e29683','<p>置心一处、就能启用；</p>
<p>真心用心、打动人心；</p>
<p>置于何处、且问初衷。</p>
<p>我觉得现在年轻人的挑战就是太多太多的诱惑与社交媒体的碎片化知识、让到我们的思维会天马行空、常常感觉比上不足、比下有余；把关注放在外边太多了，这一来就忘记了自己的初衷究竟是什么？所以看回自己的人生历程、从中好好去提炼属于自己的价值观与信念、就会知道自己想成为怎样的人、这一辈子有什么初衷。</p>','2024-08-24 14:46:40.803','2024-08-26 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0bbed25d-6f20-46c5-bdba-f62e270b08bd','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>独处 vs 孤独 是不一样的。&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>当我们在打拼第一曲线时，不要忘了保持良好人际关系、参与对的圈子。这能减低孤独感。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>孤独会引发病并带来痛苦。&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>最孤独的职业是律师和医生。</p>','2024-06-27 12:08:27.309','2024-06-27 12:08:41.08',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 12:08:41.079',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3ba4649f-6e13-414d-af41-694958022622','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>这本书给我最大的意义是：<br>每一个人都会有巅峰期及衰退期，而在转化这期间，我们应该能做些什么。<br>我们更加应该放下对成功的执着及成功的上瘾，不为欲望奔波一辈子。<br>更应该寻求什么才是自己感兴趣，有意义及有趣的事物。<br>人生真的很短，我们能为自己做些什么呢？</p>','2024-06-27 12:27:06.975','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d71fec4b-84e4-46d5-b487-88dfbb37e957','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 27 ：6月27日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 孤独是可以治愈的（Page 151-154）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>独处通常被看作独自一人、不与他人交流的客观状态</strong>，同时包含情感体验、认知评价和行为表现，<strong>既可以是积极的，也可以是消极的</strong>，还可以是中性的。</p>
<p><strong>孤独带给每个人的痛苦程度不一</strong>。有的人喜欢独处。有的人由于生活环境的缘故，孤立程度高过别人。婚姻状态则有重大影响，相相较于离婚、丧偶与从未结婚，已婚人士比较不可能孤单，然而最孤独的也是已婚者，他们有伴侣，但「另一半缺席」。</p>','2024-06-27 12:50:57.216','2024-06-27 12:50:57.216',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 12:50:57.215',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4563cca2-5628-4d36-9572-53b44b624cae','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>孤獨感不是獨處的時間長短問題，而是就算不是一個人獨處也感受到寂寞。孤獨不只是心裡感受不好，還會影響個人健康。</p>','2024-06-27 12:42:50.26','2024-06-27 12:42:50.26',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 12:42:50.259',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('719262cc-11e4-473a-a2c3-3f400233e56b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>今天认识了一个词句&ldquo;中阴&rdquo;，就是死亡与重生之间的状态~<br>就是所谓转变过程的&ldquo;过渡期&rdquo;，度过以后，就是重生</p>','2024-06-27 12:14:27.306','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('378384af-287a-464b-98f0-cdb0202351d2','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>独处并不代表是孤独，我们的心态是很重要，独处其实可以让我们更好的重新认识并调整自己！</p>
<p>职场上的友谊真的很重要，有倾述的对象，可以互相理解，交流，鼓励，学习，生活也不会那么么纳闷！</p>','2024-06-27 12:44:35.158','2024-06-27 12:44:35.158',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 12:44:35.157',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf8206fb-4b3f-4708-b3b6-37c2e387fb79','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 30 ：6月30日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 你有真朋友，还是商场上的朋友？ （Page 163-167）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>交真朋友的目的是情感的连接和需求，追求快乐</p>
<p>交商场的朋友目的是合作共赢。</p>','2024-06-27 12:08:37.037','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('85c3cbe8-8f75-4fe8-bf18-9eaea112b02e','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>雖然只到人生的半場，但也感受到知心朋友越來越少，或很少聯絡，多數是生意上的朋友反而時常見面。真心知己一定要有一兩個，不然人生會少了一些色彩。</p>','2024-06-27 12:43:51.027','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9a206cae-85ba-4644-8caa-7e5fa8118726','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>在追逐名利的人們會有一堆藉口讓自己不必花心思在人際關系，但是如果不及時跳出這個老鼠圈，人生將會錯過和失去一些意義。</p>','2024-06-27 12:44:14.191','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b2989ad1-b9f7-46cd-a594-b555c761315b','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>聽到大師的回答「當你心平靜下來後就發現裡頭等你的保藏。」</p>
<p>我聽了好像遇到知己。</p>
<p>沒錯，認識我自己，就那樣而。</p>
<p>我最近開啟了「林棲期」這扇窗。非常感恩，能在書裡找到好多寶藏！</p>','2024-06-27 12:35:14.474','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8293ff1-1d4e-4f9b-8e02-8b9da0ac555d','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>從這邊開始作者想要討論關於信仰。我有點反感。</p>','2024-06-27 12:42:58.763','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('605ceaf6-682d-43e4-bd2c-85eb22497cd1','e6cd9495-df01-4883-94f2-66c1471c447e','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>对自己的期望，达成自己想要的样子，对别人却以随和的心态面对不完美的他人。</p>
<p>其实这恰恰就是以为君子风范。我们内心里都有两个我，一个是君子，另一个是小人。若我们能同时兼顾好这两个隐藏在我们心中的自己，我们就正在的展现了 &ldquo;仁&rdquo;这个态度</p>
<p>在勇敢与体谅中，也显现了对自己与对他人的态度，但成了 "仁义" 的意义</p>','2024-06-27 12:38:50.877','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3aee199-f0d6-4a36-b50d-cbb4c62bfcc4','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。<br>把爱用在错误的地方，<br>踏上欲望跑步机，只会徒劳无功。<br>我们一直以为欲望和物质能带个我们快乐，那是真的吗？这快乐会长久吗？<br><br></p>','2024-06-27 12:22:25.024','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13f46dc5-38b0-4da5-9c05-044dfa605a20','8339f16e-03cd-4d3a-9230-ce25708648b7','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>勇气是美德之父，而谦卑是美德之母</p>
<p>一切为社会贡献价值的美德都需要勇气来建造，但价值观的可持续性发展却需要谦卑与体谅来维持</p>
<p>只要掌握好这两点，就能在人生的道路上改写命运</p>','2024-06-27 13:54:56.848','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d9dea2fb-d3a6-4ac7-803c-5d717e26c8a7','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 151 -154</p>
<p>【重启人生】孤独是可以治愈的</p>
<p>专注在爱就可以了！</p>
<p>听起来容易</p>
<p>独处是一个人的美妙，孤独则是感到形单影双的痛苦</p>
<p>孤独如何危害健康?</p>
<p>离婚、丧偶、未婚人士的孤独，相交下已婚者最孤独，伴侣缺席（工作狂）</p>
<p>退休人士的孤独。</p>
<p>什么职业最孤独。</p>
<p>最孤独的2种职业【律师与医生】</p>','2024-06-27 13:19:04.726','2024-06-27 13:19:04.726',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 13:19:04.725',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8b8408b1-f85a-4db1-8bec-e6cc0b2a62c4','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>我们的起心动念，接下来就影响下一个动作。</p>
<p>管好我们的念头。慢慢就会养成好习惯。</p>
<p>找回我们的真心。用心 ，专心，置心一处。全神贯注当前份内事。</p>
<p>放下批判的心。不去批判别人。不批判自己。每一个发生都是最好的发生。盡其在我，活在当下。</p>','2024-08-24 14:50:58.792','2024-08-26 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004','2024-08-26 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc051818-36b5-4442-841d-af798a7a0664','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>今晚读书会刚刚谈到孤独。我觉得孤独的层面很多，我觉得把孤独换去一个人的成长，是否更好。</p>
<p>然后在创业上 很多时候是孤独的。</p>','2024-06-27 13:23:34.53','2024-06-27 13:23:34.53',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 13:23:34.529',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30d84ce1-9668-4efc-b5f8-0986763b81e2','03b95036-4f7c-4291-8edd-6c46026f016b','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>Focus page 61-65</p>
<p>I prefer to do hosting on talk show or live talk compare to others, like newsletter or video..having a sales team need more money to pay them..</p>','2024-06-27 13:53:33.637','2024-06-27 13:53:33.637',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 13:53:33.636',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a13b46ce-1d51-430b-91ff-02e49e525985','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>孤独让人影响健康，但也有人喜欢活在自己的世界里。</p>
<p>不同层面，生命里有爱更好</p>','2024-06-27 13:55:46.085','2024-06-27 13:55:46.085',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 13:55:46.084',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('878c2945-a963-4d22-8707-955231a5880b','49179117-eaa1-42ea-bb39-e18447870dcb','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>每个人的人生过程里都抄袭了他人的&ldquo;人生剧本&rdquo;，更贴切一点，我们是改写，而不是编写人生剧本，即是对原有的思维转换。</p>','2024-10-02 12:32:38.042','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89f46cb3-ee4d-4d41-b9bd-4a10f4c581db','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>自上两個月没工作以来，我很多时候都是獨處一個人，虽然也有些寄托但缺少良好人際關系的圈子，而内心深處也對未来充满未知感的恐惧，讀了這幾篇才知孤獨感的危害等同于一天抽15只香烟，真的是时候做些调整改變，很慶幸能在此刻 能翻阅這本書。<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">贊同其中一位讀友(Ebbie Wong) 所寫的.......&ldquo;人生最快樂的，是當你在獨處時而能深深地感受到幸福感&rdquo;</span></p>','2024-06-27 14:11:04.761','2024-06-27 14:11:34.611',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:11:34.61',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('391a9393-cd08-48be-92e8-acb958bbd1d9','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>随着年龄的增长，我反倒觉得适当的孤独是必须的，而且要学会安住在孤独。毕竟天下无不散的宴席，岁月会逐步把我们身边的朋友带走，最终我们还是得学会如何自己一个人过却不感觉孤独滴！我反而觉得人生最可怕的孤独是，身在人群喧闹中，而内心深处却依旧感觉孤独。</p>','2024-06-27 14:25:53.888','2024-06-27 14:25:53.888',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:25:53.888',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7118971e-8854-43fe-87b6-47393569ad3d','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 27 ：6月27日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 孤独是可以治愈的（Page 151-154）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1">孤独与独处</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">孤独是一个人的时候依旧能与他人有情感和社交上的连结。</span></p>
<p class="p1">独处是情绪健康与心情平静的关键。依然有的人只要依旧拥有健康的社交与情感连结，其实对一些人爱独处来说也可以很快乐很享受。</p>
<p class="p1">孤独是感到情绪、社交上被孤立。</p>
<p class="p1">孤独也可能造成健康的威胁，在饮食上可能倾向吃高卡路里、高脂肪的饮食而导致肥胖。</p>','2024-06-27 14:28:12.453','2024-06-27 14:28:12.453',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:28:12.452',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Personal Branding (Page 060-065)</p>
<p>🎯Thoughts after reading：</p>
<ul>
<li>i feel like educating your customer about you and your business through mkt is important as in strategy no 15, 16 n 17</li>
</ul>','2024-06-27 14:29:02.191','2024-06-27 14:29:02.191',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:29:02.19',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5031e00b-8fcc-40d7-bbd0-b7d4affce919','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>孤处是情绪健康和心情平静的关键。<br>有些人只要依旧拥有健康的社交与情感连结，其实他们独处时很快乐。</p>','2024-06-27 14:51:54.536','2024-06-27 14:51:54.536',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:51:54.535',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eca64ab8-4122-45fc-84e6-92975d18cb31','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>爬得越高，摔得越重。职场上成功的人，却在人群里孤独。成功人士，身边永远围绕着其他人，但却都是泛泛之辈，很难拥有真正的友谊。</p>','2024-06-28 02:27:54.273','2024-06-28 02:27:54.273',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 02:27:54.272',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d687164-bfa1-4080-b950-58839061af11','2c0de07f-f196-4319-afe2-52ddaecebad6','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>非常同意修行要每天。</p>
<p>每天靜下來，多了解自己，反省之後，改變思維，明天過得更好一點。</p>
<p>如果再加上每天做10公里路，再走的時候做修煉，那是多麼好的一件事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 13:15:21.922','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c772f529-5f80-4c64-8c7a-c15de60954a8','af3b3ccc-86d3-4f5e-b9b7-c45b68bfe593','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>或許讓一個精英承認自己軟弱，就如同讓高高在上的權貴認錯一樣，不可能。我讀著此章節後有種慶幸自己是普通平庸的人。原來因此，我有了「恩典」可以與人深度的連結。</p>
<p>你永遠不會知道，你的努力將帶來什麼樣的影響。</p>','2024-06-29 15:02:44.772','2024-07-10 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022','2024-07-10 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('93c02d01-75f1-4940-8405-5d043bcfaa3c','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>职场上友谊必须保持一定的距离。我接触过一句话，&ldquo;以爱为管理，以戒为制度&rdquo;。职场上没有所谓的朋友，领导下属一定有一段距离，可是这个距离是一种威严一种尊敬。身为领导要向下服务，身为下属要向上管理。</p>','2024-06-27 14:39:03.456','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3b6aa5c-aafe-4332-8b7c-de1e24f820df','9fb1f442-8e2e-4672-8718-cf1fa7cebf0e','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>如何执行原则不掉</p>
<p>1）普遍为真：指南针是一个我们依靠的原则来认知前方道路如何前进，它也是个人生指标</p>
<p>2）永恒不变：这世上的根本，本质就像一个指南针一样，永远都都是我们的GPS。不管过了几千万年，或趋势如何改变。指南针永远指向南方，告诉我们这就是根本</p>
<p>3）不证自明：若中途有人反驳指南针的方向，只需要由时间来证明一切，最终南方还是南方</p>
<p>其实很多时候本质是永恒不变的，例如人之初，性本善。我们往往会跑偏离轨道是因为我们特别在乎次要成就大于首要成就</p>','2024-06-27 14:43:51.283','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('701c94e3-79d5-4bf2-9a33-978334991893','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果未来的趋势都是线下体验，线上买单（因为价钱比较便宜），哪线下的经销商还怎么愿意营业？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">其实最不愿意让经销商倒闭的也是品牌方，因为如果没有线下的话，谁来让消费者体验？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以最可能发生的就是体验店的诞生，开店的目的是让你看、让你摸、让你闻、让你喜欢上我的产品，而不是销售。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">那如果不以销售为目的，经销商就赚不到更多的钱，那唯有品牌商自己来开，就像Apple Store。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">那未来的趋势就可能把以销售为目的的经销商转为体验为目的的服务商。品牌考核经销商的不再是销售额，而是用户满意度。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这样的改变也可能影响到百货公司收取抽成的联营模式。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">未来的店更有可能是只提供体验，完全不卖货。但达到这之前，可能会有很多层次的过渡期。</span></p>','2024-08-26 00:00:19.661','2024-08-26 00:00:19.661',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 00:00:19.66',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第四章： 更好的自己 </span><span lang="EN-MY">&nbsp;8. </span><span lang="ZH-CN">跟随让人突破 </span><span lang="EN-MY">&ndash; 9. </span><span lang="ZH-CN">分身既镜子（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page127-131</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">生命的限制是【想】，生命的突破是无想的做。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">每一次放下自己，做到跟别人一样时，他们的生命就突破了，就把别人的优点完完整整的复制了。能跟多少人一样，就吸收了多少人的优点，生命就在这个过程中不断广大。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人际关系的实相，就是：你有千百个分身，活在别人的人生里，同时也有千百个别人的分身，活在你的人生里。过度在意别人对自己的看法，是没有意义的。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-06 11:22:03.964','2024-09-06 11:22:03.964',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 11:22:03.963',NULL,NULL);
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<p>6.13 学【记名字】</p>
<p>把遇到的人当家人看，珍惜每一个缘分，是一种生活态度。记名字，是自省对待人的认真度与真诚度。</p>
<p>【有朋自远方来】</p>
<p>修炼，修境界。自我、共修、得道了，出淤泥而不染。</p>
<p>19/9</p>
<p>7.1 发愤忘食 乐以忘忧</p>
<p>敬业乐业。找到使命，不分日夜，动力十足，能量满满。</p>
<p>7.2 心真事实 愿广行深</p>
<p>用心、认真。细心策划，百分百行动。</p>
<p>7.3 离苦得乐的药方</p>
<p>有欲望，没有实际的行动计划和执行力，就是妄想。尽全力办事，平常心看待，一切是最好的安排。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-19 13:11:23.769','2024-09-19 13:11:23.769',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 13:11:23.768',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5fd43c5-feba-41ff-95bf-29984cc08e6d','047c64d1-252f-4040-9762-804141afea0f','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>欢喜做，甘愿受，人生來此就只是一个做字。</p>
<p>如果大家都想同一件事，那事能不成吗？</p>
<p>心想事成，却不不是腦想事成阿。</p>','2024-09-23 08:57:31.083','2024-10-03 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-10-03 00:00:00.013','2024-10-03 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e3c98bf-7f42-4a38-b05f-fb3b3c04ac03','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','fb3be631-8f71-4db1-adec-776df52da27c','<p>我们要有强大的动力才可以让企业成功，也要把公司交给有经验能力的人管理</p>','2024-08-19 11:22:23.29','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ca5195f-fce1-4e9e-9624-1e87c4f52340','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>如果经营不具备独排众议，这家公司就不值得投资。</p>
<p>价值观打九折是行不通的，是一定会出事的。</p>','2024-10-03 03:03:47.374','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7427bfda-2340-4f25-bd77-4106b388c756','49179117-eaa1-42ea-bb39-e18447870dcb','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>人生要改写不是篇写，人生的意义就是不断发现。发现生命的意义，从小到少年到中年，以至到年老，生命中会出现不一样的意义。从不一样的角度看自己，观察者自己做的每个决定，深度思考。&nbsp;</p>
<p>要成为怎样的人？想成就什么样的事业？要追求的成功是什么？我们有多了解自己？这些都是值得探讨的问题。</p>','2024-10-03 13:06:35.599','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a49cc88-51ec-4516-8c4a-8c19c46720c4','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>萬事萬物,始於我们無时無刻&amp;長久累积下耒的念头ing。那你的人生將因此差之毫釐，謬以千里。。！！</p>','2024-08-26 00:24:28.755','2024-08-26 00:24:28.755',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 00:24:28.754',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3432a921-6d06-422e-9d5d-17a3f85566ab','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>朋友好几种类型。</p>
<p>你的朋友是真朋友还是生意上的朋友？</p>
<p>完美友谊就是：-</p>
<p>智力促进彼此的幸福。</p>
<p>有共同的爱好，热情。一同做符合道德的好事。</p>
<p>一起追求超越自我，</p>
<p>可能来自宗教信仰</p>
<p>对社会理念有热情。</p>
<p>这种友情不功利，不会当成手段。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>江湖一句老话，朋友是拿来利用的，兄弟是拿来出卖的。当然是开玩笑的，但是纯真正的友谊是经得过时间考验的。</p>
<p>中年过后最重大的幸福就是想都不需要想。说出几个知己的名字。这个我做得到。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 15:05:22.53','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('02b0d922-3635-4bec-bb00-5a5061d8d4b9','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>4.8 【跟随】让人突破</p>
<p>老老实实做人，踏踏实实做事。没有了职位和头衔，大家都是身份平等的人。学习从成全小我提升至成全大我。</p>
<p>4.9 【分身】即镜子</p>
<p>从别人眼里的&ldquo;我&rdquo;自我反省，但不需要太在意别人对我们的评价，这样会自我限制，没办法把&ldquo;真我&rdquo;活出来。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-06 11:52:16.057','2024-09-06 11:52:16.057',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 11:52:16.057',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d2bccf85-a717-4518-a2ad-4067b3412bef','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>独处是一个人的美妙,孤独则是感到形单影只的痛苦,孤独是感到情绪上、社交上被孤立,但孤独是可以治愈的</p>','2024-06-27 14:59:46.927','2024-06-27 14:59:46.927',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 14:59:46.927',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e171405c-5afc-44a6-a08d-2185508f5a1e','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>盒马鲜生真的是把線上的痛点解决在線下.線下的痛点在線上解决.这真的是新零售的模范生.</p>
<p>有勇气捨近利而从顶层设计来做布局,真的需要很大的guts 和领导能力.这也考验了帅的领导力👍💪</p>
<p>敢想,敢做,敢承担👍</p>','2024-09-14 23:32:57.776','2024-09-14 23:32:57.776',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-14 23:32:57.775',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('abbd36ad-66f7-48f2-9a51-4346c271d6c3','9c0a5f1b-3482-4551-af97-14ef8563c2a8','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>价值观 不等于 原则，但有原则的人一定会有好的价值观</p>
<p>若发现价值观不在原则之上执行，那就以原则为中心点来行事。我们就能与自然法则的步调一致</p>
<p>自觉力，良知，独立意志，创造想象力，是人类的独有天赋</p>
<p>我们能透过自我察觉与忏悔，发现自己的深层内心的良知，然后建立了个人的自我意识，最后打破了格局发挥我们想象的创造力，透过一系列的天赋来创造经济的发展，家庭和谐，健康推广，社会福利等等</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 14:57:31.287','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5af140ee-6752-47c8-bdc1-70b87d74926d','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">孤独感的危害如同一天抽</span><span class="s2">15</span><span class="s1">根烟！</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">孤独感带来的痛苦不是一般的痛，最孤独的两个职业是医生和律师</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:12:29.08','2024-06-27 15:12:29.08',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:12:29.079',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13be97d2-fc8b-4c0b-9a53-8ccdbae4ee95','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>独处有别于孤独，与他人的情感还有连接。而孤独感是沮丧的，孤立无援的感受。</p>
<p>孤独未必发生在长时间单独工作或喜欢独处的人身上。反之，长期接触人们或喜爱活在喧闹中的人们越可能感受到寂静的孤独感。</p>','2024-06-27 15:13:04.828','2024-06-27 15:13:04.828',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:13:04.827',NULL,NULL);
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<li>独处是健康的，可使内心回归平静</li>
<li>孤独是不健康的，完全与世隔绝</li>
</ul>','2024-06-27 15:13:32.644','2024-06-27 15:13:32.644',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:13:32.643',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ef28a56-3b50-47ee-84bc-c38d4ec8c5a1','0107441d-ad92-4023-b1db-5e65481df3ad','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY 43</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; 13/7/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">六）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.231-234</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">转变、转換等，都是不变的道理。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">作家</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Bruce Feiler </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">归纳道：重大的人生转变，平均</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">18</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">个月就会出现一次。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">大部分的转变是非自愿的。就连集体的转变，照样是规律发生的经常性现象，大约十年出现一次。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">佛陀：变动是宇宙最主要的特性，卻也是我们最难接受的事。让自己平靜的前提，是接受人生无常。</span></p>','2024-06-27 14:55:23.979','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('531e9d60-eb57-4b5c-b867-a0badcbdc04a','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">44</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">14/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">日）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">235-238</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">转变的过度期总有阵痛，阈态（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">liminality</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）因此令人不舒服。如书中引述某教授的迷茫状态：</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">几乎有三年了，我掙扎走过似幻似真的人生故事</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&hellip;&hellip;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">那些故事永远令我感到不完整</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&hellip;&hellip;&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">然而，即便是不受欢迎的转变，事后回想起來，我们通常会认为，过去的重大事件是正面的。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Roy Baumeister</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">在</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">《</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Meaning of Life</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">》一书中说道</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">:<span lang="ZH-TW">人一旦找到意义，生活看來会更加安定。或许矛盾的是，转換时期的痛苦，将创造出生活的意义，人因此能安心度过后续的变动，替老化与各种转变帶來最大的安慰。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">愛默生</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">:&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">人天生要战斗，而不是休息。人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在于转变。</span>&rdquo;</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:07:11.894','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
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<p>文化看不见、摸不到、嗅不到、但是心却感受得到、就像进入一个大型磁场、会想要成为与文化一样的人。</p>','2024-09-23 14:19:32.984','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3cec85a9-a93f-4984-b20a-76cf49edb7ad','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>独处是重要的，但独处不是孤独。我们有爱，知道如何爱，那就不是自己一个人。</p>','2024-06-27 15:17:36.385','2024-06-27 15:17:36.385',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:17:36.384',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9febbac5-f61a-4773-867e-8be3d18e19e0','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&rdquo;独处是一个人的美妙，孤独则是感到形单影只的痛苦&rdquo;。人必须学会独处。</p>','2024-06-27 15:18:43.534','2024-06-27 15:18:43.534',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:18:43.533',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6cb35dc7-fd8f-40ee-9979-465c65da3b8b','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>独处不孤独，孤独是一种自己孤立自己的状况</p>','2024-06-27 15:27:35.623','2024-06-27 15:27:35.623',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:27:35.622',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2617883e-9bac-408b-a896-a6d85bc3b2c3','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">45</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">15/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">一）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">238-242</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">人生有起伏，低潮时，不是危机，而是人生功程中的一个转变或变动。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">我们要做的是，有智慧地顺应人生不同阶段的需求，转換自己的人生轨道，以达到最大限度地实现自我。</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:15:05.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c8661b05-72c5-403c-aaa2-54dae181430a','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>人生最重要的事是要知道自己在想什么，管好自己的念头，好好过。</p>
<p>无论做什么事都要认真，真心，用心去做才不会带来烦恼，包袱和业障。</p>
<p>放下评断，臣服于发生，活在当下。</p>','2024-08-26 01:21:37.007','2024-08-26 01:21:37.007',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 01:21:37.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6dcdf9d-d25e-4154-ac3c-a800c58e86c0','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','fd00afa6-39f6-4b3c-95b4-4d413e535fb9','<p>1.学习别人的优点，跟随他人，把&lsquo;想&rsquo;变成&lsquo;做&rsquo;。</p>
<p>2. 听听别人口中的自己，不是要成为别人想像的自己，而是成为更好的自己。</p>','2024-09-06 12:49:02.754','2024-09-06 12:49:09.795',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 12:49:09.794',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22fe472f-c9c0-480d-ad02-61604a980057','290fa633-6870-4ef2-9cde-6a1ee2e397d3','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>思维不同，对事情的反应、行为也会不一样，但不管思维如何转换，也要以原则为基准，例如，想要有钱，却不去打拼赚钱而是打抢银行，这是违背原则的。</p>
<p>原则是灯塔，是人类行为的指南针，指引着我们走在正确的轨道上。 &nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-19 13:46:50.568','2024-09-19 13:46:50.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 13:46:50.568',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e13dd3d-5127-44dd-8d23-4bc7bce67fe0','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>通过学习打开了觉知，放下自己，跟随比我们宽阔的人学习，突破自己的限制。</p>
<p>别人对我们的看法，无须造成我们的限制，但可以成为我们的镜子。一念之转，我们就活进了不同的世界。</p>','2024-09-06 13:14:30.482','2024-09-06 13:14:30.482',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 13:14:30.482',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2391eb32-a4ac-435c-a26a-1217582158da','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>当某些品牌霸级超市进军本地市场时，让许多mini market的老板起早贪黑的跑去买货，再搬回自己的mini market 售卖给消费者。</p>
<p>如今类似天猫小店的99 Speed Mart, Happy Mart, Family Mart ，7-11等等已经取代了大部分的旧式的杂货点。</p>
<p>这就是新数据带来的革命～新零售</p>','2024-09-06 13:16:31.259','2024-09-06 13:16:31.259',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 13:16:31.259',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ee013b1-428f-4d9d-9ee8-43bfdefd4112','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>销售漏斗公式</p>
<p>SALES-流量x转换率x客单价x回购率.</p>
<p>坪致极没制了offline的零售想像力.</p>','2024-09-06 13:10:27.172','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b0b19103-8ad9-4fd2-be5d-2c39d3c26388','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>学会静下心来聆听，不擦嘴，用心的去了解对方想传达的讯息才发言，是加强与人更好沟通的一种生活方式。 学会赞美人，令人觉得被重视，也会加强彼此的关系。</p>','2024-09-12 14:05:04.446','2024-09-15 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('24b4a70c-f72b-4ba4-ade3-422fd8b7e6ed','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','257784b6-4e0d-4767-ad9e-6c9c79e29683','<p>学听话，看着对方说、心在当下、脑是空的、好好用心听。</p>
<p>一直很向往学说话的最高境界，只说一句话、当头棒喝的那种。</p>
<p>有一种赞美，没有任何目的，只是出于对对方的欣赏而说的，说完了对方被滋养、自己感到很感恩，因为很幸福可以接触美好的人。</p>','2024-09-03 14:41:26.348','2024-09-15 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('688dfa2a-94c0-4b21-8f81-792e1d45fc32','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>用心聆听。不插嘴，不忘断，不心不在焉。别人说的话，结结实实的听进去。听进不是听过，因为过去就没有放在心上。</p>
<p>如何说话？</p>
<p>第一，别人不问，不轻易说。</p>
<p>第二，必要说的时候 只说几句。</p>
<p>第三，说话的时候整个人都在把心放在听者身上。</p>
<p>第四，说话留下很大空间，让听者自己去想明白。</p>
<p>第五，每说的一句话都是自己正在做的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>如何做好赞美</p>
<p>首先他必须是一个无我的人，因为这样才能跟人同在。</p>
<p>第二，充满爱的能量。这样才能出爱语。</p>
<p>说好话也是一门学问。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-14 14:07:48.236','2024-09-15 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b85161ce-c421-42b3-9357-88672d6298a0','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>用心听，别插嘴，不妄断，把别人的话，结结实实给听进去。</p>
<p>听到听到的，也听到没说的。</p>
<p>不轻易说别人不问的。必要的说的时候才说，说的时候，人在，心也放在听者身上。</p>
<p>说话留下空间，让听者自己去想明白。</p>
<p>说得岀来的都是自己正在做的．</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-06 08:56:50.03','2024-09-15 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0d0d86a5-0c44-42b8-a15e-082c4ad853f5','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 39：9月 25日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起<br>第八章： 领导的修炼3. 事上练心 &ndash; 5. 归零即突破（Page242-247）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>事上练心</strong><br>付出的是以团队的需要而不是自己的需要。领导者需要修练一颗真心。修对了，领袖的气质就出来，就会吸引更多跟随者。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>权力与力量</strong><br>借权力是可以解决问题/威胁，但借力量开发自己的内在并带来更完美，更有意义的结果。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>归零即突破</strong><br>过去的挫折与成功都要在现实和意识中归零。这样才可以没有负担地"活在当下"。</p>','2024-09-25 14:54:07.068','2024-09-25 14:54:07.068',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 14:54:07.067',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c5dafc30-a5bb-4ff3-8491-488de48d4985','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>孤独是可以治疗的，用爱就可以了。</p>
<p>就是打开心房接纳其他人的情感交流。</p>
<p>孤独和孤处不是同一个概念。</p>
<p>孤独是情绪上社交上的孤立。</p>
<p>而孤处则是一个人呆着但依然和外界保持情感上社交上的连结。</p>
<p>孤独会带来不同程度的痛苦。</p>
<p>而孤处则是个人的生活方式，是建立在快乐的基础上的选择。</p>','2024-06-27 15:38:32.694','2024-06-27 15:38:34.303',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:38:34.303',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6578325e-e35f-4462-a83a-b1b4867d2196','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">逆境的三句咒语-作者巧妙的把我们常用的对不起、我爱你、谢谢你，联系上我们每个人都应时时持有的惭愧心、慈悲心及感恩心，并把它们列为在逆境时应保有的心态。的确，一切回归最基本，有时不是方法，而是心态的调整回去最初的模样。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">叫停的机制-现在的时代，我们一直都在赶路，从出生到求学，到出来社会工作，那什么时候才是可以停下来呢？我们都应该在必要的时候喊停，做出调整再上路，尤其出现矛盾，纷争和困惑的时候。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">爱自己的方式-爱自己=自爱，是从小就听师长时时给我们的劝告。到底什么是自爱？是不停的在物质、地位上的提升？还是我们都应该去观照内在的状态提升呢？作者特别提到爱生气的人是不自爱的人，的确这让我看到了自己。我，还在学习自爱的路上。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></li>
</ul>','2024-08-26 03:53:40.314','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1c0fbfa3-7080-4213-afe8-32e2ba77c27d','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>我时常用独处的时间来丢弃内心的情绪垃圾。</p>
<p>独处和孤独都有好的一面，可以有一个冷静期。</p>','2024-06-27 15:56:42.275','2024-06-27 15:56:42.275',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 15:56:42.274',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('57cf665b-4df9-4138-877e-05ad6cbf821e','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 29 ：6月 29日 星期六&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章 ： 工作狂最常忽略的两种关系（Page 158-163）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Companionate Love 友伴式的爱情-持继有爱。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人是有感情，即使结婚，如果有灵魂伴侣是bonus&hellip;如果单身，有好朋友的陪伴也可以很幸福。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">关系须经营的。将心比心，－切都可以美好。我的想法比较单纯，用真心、真诚经营关系就会有幸福感。</span></p>','2024-06-27 16:00:39.934','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('53587df3-8ab1-467e-a293-ec8c658c5757','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY 46</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; 16/7/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">二）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.243-247</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">在人生的下一个阶段</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">&hellip;&hellip;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你打算继续从事那些活动？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你将改造哪些活动，換个方式进行？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你打算放弃哪些活动？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">你将学习哪些新活动？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">在不久的将來，要开始的事</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&hellip;&hellip;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">接下來一星期，你打算做哪些事，以蛻变成新的你？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">接下來一个月，你计刬要做么么？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">接下來六个月，你要做什么？</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">接下來一年，在你的努力下，希望最先出现什么成果？</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:24:05.564','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">48</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">18/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">四）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">251-254</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">惟敢于冒险，勇于</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「跳下去」，方得重生，度过那段困惑期，达到第二曲线去。</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:41:39.996','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('859ba2b0-51a6-4ec9-90ef-02eb13087315','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY 49</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; 19/7/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">五）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.257-260</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">踏上欲望跑步机，只会徒劳无功。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">六字诀：<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">用物．愛人．敬天。</strong></span></p>','2024-06-27 15:46:22.503','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-15 00:36:14.383','2024-09-15 00:36:14.383',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 00:36:14.382',NULL,NULL);
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<p>以往所发生的每一个点，当他们都互联起来时，我们才知道这些一切都是最好的安排</p>
<p>抱着感谢的力量，可以让我们更加的小我，每个路程走下来，都能谦卑的面对</p>
<p>这样一来，我们就能更达观</p>','2024-09-06 13:03:32.513','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f946d2c5-1b35-4f34-aef1-6864fade5030','0fcaef92-e4f4-42a8-b0c2-0f3521178269','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>改变就会有结果</p>','2024-09-25 15:02:18.558','2024-09-25 15:02:18.558',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:02:18.558',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5bca1f0c-1c32-4714-8f1e-7e18ee203da3','615f01ab-2a6a-4b82-a57c-4901f5b8d73b','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>独处是美妙的，而孤独无处不在，带给每个人的痛苦程度各不相同，甚至可能威胁健康。然而，通过专注于爱与连接，孤独是可以治愈的。与他人建立深厚的联系，参与社交活动，以及培养感情，可以帮助我们缓解孤独感，提升身心健康。&rdquo;</p>','2024-06-27 16:03:21.013','2024-06-27 16:03:21.013',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 16:03:21.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d3aa6356-30fb-42e2-bed2-c06612d95a0d','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>在职场中和同事，无论上司或下属，成为好朋友不是一件容易的事。同事之间有太多利益冲突。</p>
<p>或许和其他公司同等地位者成为好友比较适合。</p>
<p>通过商会和其他组织认识不同的朋友，成为好友。</p>','2024-06-27 21:09:43.459','2024-06-27 21:09:46.209',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-27 21:09:46.208',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('75f86b9e-c8f2-4fd0-af5d-954034d8a409','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>我在20多年的职涯里，曾经有一位一起工作十多年的老板，一直到他退休。我们的关系一直非常好。我想这辈子能遇到这样的老板，我好幸运，我也非常努力。我相信职场上会有友谊，这需要双方努力去经营，但是这需要经历过一定的磨合期，彼此懂得处理好界限、互相尊重、互相体谅和坦诚相待。我不相信在职场上成功的人，一定要在人群里孤独。</p>','2024-06-27 08:23:47.649','2024-06-27 23:38:47.934',NULL,'f','2024-06-27 16:00:00','2024-06-27 23:38:47.933',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa158fc1-3d9c-42cf-b0ca-41264a1eca5e','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>朋友分为三种：1）生意上的朋友，有目的性、有利益交换。 2） 为了快乐的朋友，彼此喜欢和仰慕，拥有互相吸引的内在特质。3）完美友谊，致力促进彼此的幸福，拥有共同热爱的好事、宗教信仰、或者一起追求超越自我的事物。</p>
<p>中年后，有几个知己？ 友情是需要经营的。</p>','2024-06-27 09:09:19.95','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e42f4560-28ef-4111-a10a-7228c897dae9','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">60-</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">過去四年有信能夠加入這個讀書會才有幾百天的機會去看見。了解自己在想什麼，了解過去怎麼活，了解誰影響我最深。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">創立了15年的雪花棧，本來想要收了，結果有個真心想繼續經營的主管想繼續做。我成全了她也成全了我自己。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">64</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">對不起，我愛你，謝謝你。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">慚愧心，慈悲心，感恩心。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">結果心想事成。</span></p>','2024-08-26 04:29:21.301','2024-08-26 04:29:23.796',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 04:29:23.795',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a5a2085c-d87c-4e0f-92ee-211dd8615484','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 23：9月6日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">05 天猫小店：大数据助力线下零售（Page121-127）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">阿里巴巴依靠了极强大的数据能力，对店铺周边的人群画像。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">天猫小店他都是去选品更加精准，他会根据每一个店铺的店面大小，老板年龄资金状况以及方圆1公里内消费群体构成结合淘气数据计算出什么样的产品最适合这家超市和社区。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">网络的数据为线下，并能提高效率，而线下小店为网络带来新的流量增加用户，所以网络充来不代表新零售，线下更不代表，只能用数据，并能线上线下结合的零售才是新零售。</span></p>','2024-09-06 14:32:58.706','2024-09-06 14:32:58.706',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 14:32:58.705',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a0c1de7a-6abe-41df-b405-ed595bb5cf9e','29487247-79c2-4782-bedc-761849d1a95d','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>30分钟配送是经过了计算， 食物保鲜度和消费者的接受度，为了达到这准则，因此运送范围限制在三公里以内</p>','2024-09-15 01:26:00.91','2024-09-16 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd8f0ec6-7d05-4df2-8fb2-48b408251692','5cd3184b-4a1e-4da9-b7e4-dd0070addfc7','257784b6-4e0d-4767-ad9e-6c9c79e29683','<p>修愿力，要用脑去修，我真的不管多辛苦，多艰难、都愿意为我的愿景、我的人为之努力吗？有个朋友曾经和我说觉得自己被公司绑架了，失去了自由，身不由己，原来那是陷入了业力；有愿力才能在企业中大自在的解脱。</p>
<p>修自己的愿力，让自己身边聚集一大群有愿心之人！</p>','2024-09-06 14:48:58.98','2024-09-29 00:00:00.018',NULL,'f','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f28dd79-93ae-4c9d-b409-563cc2499bc4','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day33：9月19 日 《活学》Part3&nbsp; 跟人在一起</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章： 职场的修炼 &nbsp;1. 发愤忘食 乐以忘忧 &ndash; 3. 离苦得乐的药方（Page204-209）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">甘願受，欢喜做，就是做重要的人生修炼。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我也相信任何工作卯和人的需求有关。但&rdquo;事&rdquo;只是缘分，让人有机会一起&rdquo;做&rdquo;，在&rdquo;做&rdquo;中能找到意义，念头对了，感受就出来了。如果能让自己做到发愤忘食，乐以忘忧必随之。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">只有心真願广，人生才算没错过，人生才算活出了自己的好样子。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-19 13:49:24.004','2024-09-19 13:49:24.004',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 13:49:24.003',NULL,NULL);
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<li>微小进步，改变行为；巨大进步，改变思维。</li>
<li>只是看见是没有用，要有行动改变才能有不同的结果</li>
<li>改变/调整要有条理，否则没有方向乱串会得不到效果</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 15:05:10.989','2024-09-25 15:05:10.989',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:05:10.989',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c13525f2-97de-4c29-924f-3ce7a3366a2a','3bd16092-efcd-4fc4-aa79-9b38ac2d4a46','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>上一回讲到道，这个道是一定长期有效的放租四海皆准。合於大自然的定律。</p>
<p>不是一般企业讲究的势，道，法或者是术。</p>
<p>要把这个道发挥的淋漓尽致，应用在公司组织里。就要文化生根。事实行深，公司全体上下打造出一个共修环境，形成一个能让每个人共频共振的能量气场。</p>','2024-09-28 14:45:34.282','2024-10-01 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007','2024-10-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4911f909-12dd-4d31-9e4a-0c16fa3c30ab','a102d505-0817-487e-81ca-d2a47560df6c','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 14 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 4 &nbsp;LeadGeneration</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Strategic Alliances (Page 066-072)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Strategies alliances-collaborate with other business and help each other through joint events - this is what we did in bni. Must win win relationship </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Write books -to develop your credibility and becoming an expert in my field </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Educational seminars- have to use social media to promote the event- this is farmer mentality </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Trade shows/ exhibition - database collection</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Referal system - like BNI always the best .</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Appointing distributors agent- must select right to promote your brand </span></li>
</ol>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">For me still the best is Referral system , road show , education seminar - in long run will get the right clients .</span></p>','2024-06-24 14:36:00.991','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('02a43986-92fe-4120-b38b-c1f588b7e599','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>在职场上成功的人，卻在人群里孤独</p>
<p>领袖会孤独的原因，在於他们是靠操控与说服他人成功。</p>
<p>领袖会刻意和员工保持距离，以求能公正评估绩效。</p>','2024-06-25 02:27:54.842','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('605c983f-6191-40bd-a1d0-735fb133b9af','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>不要羡慕很出名的名人，如果他们成功但不感到孤独，随喜赞叹。如果他们成功但非常孤独，同情他们，祝福他们能够离开孤独。</p>
<p>职场上真的很难找到真正的朋友。因为利益摆在最前面。</p>
<p>上司和下属的关系也是会保持距离，很难可以有很好的友谊关系。但是上司如果能够真诚诚恳的对待下属，下属是感受得到的。</p>','2024-06-25 23:55:35.392','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ae906a9-3954-42dd-9097-09386fc74316','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>正面情绪的时刻：</p>
<ol>
<li>性爱</li>
<li>社交</li>
<li>放松</li>
</ol>
<p>最能带来快乐的互动伙伴：</p>
<ol>
<li>朋友</li>
<li>亲人</li>
<li>配偶</li>
</ol>
<p>最带来负面感受3大活动：</p>
<ol>
<li>工作</li>
<li>育儿</li>
<li>通勤</li>
</ol>
<p>最负面互动伙伴：</p>
<ol>
<li>上司</li>
<li>顾客</li>
<li>同事</li>
</ol>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-26 06:02:37.271','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('632ca6d3-be25-4cf9-97a4-528c82f33446','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>领导者特别容易感到孤独，很大原因是职场上难擁有真正的友谊。下屬 会物化领导者，只把领袖视为权力，资讯与金钱的分配者。领袖通常会刻意和员工保持距离。</p>
<p>成功上瘾的工作狂，害怕落於人后。工作狂的人生没有太多空间给親友，除了深爰的工作，他们一无所有。</p>
<p>快乐的工作生活中，最重要的元素就是朋友。生活上的幸福感需要親情，友情与人际关系的连结。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-26 07:39:12.399','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('842dc63a-7278-4436-ae51-384a926524b6','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">领导者通常会可以和员工保持距离，以求能公正评估绩效。这个我赞同。</span></p>','2024-06-27 11:22:11.282','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61bafecf-f506-4dda-83a2-e82b374aa4fa','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>为什么很多成功人士都不心？原因太过重事业而忽略了人际关系?</p>
<p>跟家人,朋友多一点互动,多增进感情😃.</p>','2024-06-26 13:34:01.155','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3b075ae-1269-4d38-b1a5-39cc1e68b23b','a102d505-0817-487e-81ca-d2a47560df6c','539803dd-b433-42a0-bcbb-3fef5b3a20fe','<p>Strategic Alliance &amp; Educational Seminar currently is most effective way in my business. We have spent almost 30% of time on this 2 ways.&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 00:59:18.902','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8f90806-eccb-49cd-9ea4-3f0d00df3a3e','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">职场上的友谊极度重要，70%的受访者表示，快乐的工作生活中，最重要的元素是有朋友。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">老板或主管有时碍于他们的领袖地位，无法在工作时建立深入的人际连结。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以最终需要在工作与同事取得一个平衡点。</span></p>','2024-06-27 08:02:26.324','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab628d6a-153d-4784-9700-21a228705633','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>职场上的友谊极度重要，但在职场上成功的人，却在人群里孤独。</p>','2024-06-27 09:35:01.899','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('edab45a3-186b-4208-ab55-93e44ba74a8f','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>職位越高就越難和下屬建立友誼，這是為了不會造成偏袒或評估，而且一般人也不喜歡和上司打交道。但同事之間的友誼也是員工服務長久的因素之一。</p>','2024-06-27 12:43:10.021','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a6fd428f-92c8-481e-a2b6-8cb17baf60f5','a102d505-0817-487e-81ca-d2a47560df6c','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>All strategies are very useful. &nbsp;Referral system is one of the strategies I had been usedbefore. In my experience, this strategy really can get many new clients, especially you reward them with a free gift as a token of appreciation.</p>','2024-06-27 13:22:59.401','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c20f8df6-8139-42af-8d9b-591bf4c802cd','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>权威人士容易孤立自己，主要原因是他们是靠操控与说服他人成功，他们也通常会刻意和员工保持距离，以求能公正评估绩效。</p>
<p>下属会感到缺乏自由意志，而不愿和上司建立平等友谊。</p>
<p>因此领导者很难在职场拥有真正的友谊，在职场上成功，却在人群里孤独。</p>','2024-06-27 14:10:14.915','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1a98aaf6-7749-4882-8ba0-5bd23eddc904','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 28 ：6月 28日 星期五 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章 ： 职场上的友谊极度重要（Page 155-158）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在工作确实也要找到同行的朋友，－个人不能什么都懂，我们是须要有朋友的互持。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在职场上成功的人，却在人群里孤独。少了参加社团活动&hellip;. 可以活跃在不同的社团活动，认识新的朋友，让自己放松下来。找有意的事情去参加，就会消失孤独感了。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 15:42:18.588','2024-06-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014','2024-06-28 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
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<p>领导者常感孤独，因职场难有真正友谊。下属常物化领导，仅视其为权力与资源分配者。领导者与员工保持距离，成功上瘾的工作狂缺乏亲友，唯有工作。快乐工作需友谊，幸福生活需亲情与人际关系。</p>
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</div>
</div>
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<div class="mt-1 flex gap-3 empty:hidden juice:-ml-3">
<div class="items-center justify-start rounded-xl p-1 flex">
<div class="flex items-center">&nbsp;</div>
</div>
</div>','2024-06-28 02:41:58.699','2024-06-28 02:41:58.699',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 02:41:58.698',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc8f2561-0431-4f7a-8e8d-eebb39c7bf79','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>人的念頭是千百億個变化，心猿意馬，一忽兒東一忽兒''西，難于抓模，念頭如此之多，一般認為都很可能从未發生，所以人最重要的還是管好自己的念頭。</p>
<p>唯有自己最認真的時刻，用真心「做」 事 才不會心生煩惱、 包袱和业障，一心不亂活在當下。</p>
<p>完全接受，臣服當下，放下就能好好生活。</p>','2024-08-26 04:44:30.769','2024-08-26 04:44:30.769',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 04:44:30.768',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b9ae633-b3d8-48f4-adb9-e4cf1580706a','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>其实源自礙於领袖地位，无法在工作时建立深入的人际关系。在职场上成功的人，却在人群里孤独</p>','2024-06-28 06:41:33.568','2024-06-28 06:41:33.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 06:41:33.568',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3263f318-86b4-4301-b3ab-7c1e7cdf1f2f','9c0a5f1b-3482-4551-af97-14ef8563c2a8','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>以价值观为导向人生蓝图的人，换成以原则为人生罗盘。我们人类有四种独特的天赋：自我觉知、良知、独立意志与创造性的想象力。</p>
<p>自我觉知：自我促使我们检视自己的思维模式（我们看世界的角度）。拥有自觉我们便能受制于次要成就，负起重新设定人生的责任。</p>
<p>良知：良知是我们内在的指引系统，帮助我们察觉自己的行为是否违背真确的原则。</p>
<p>独立意志：帮助我们做出选择的能力。</p>
<p>创造性的想象力：我们能任凭自己的想象力驰骋，规划自己想要的未来蓝图。</p>','2024-06-28 05:04:53.868','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bdba5ebe-103b-463e-bc6a-b198ed1b89da','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第六章：职场上的友谊极度重要。一向努力往上爬的成功人士，在能力开始衰退时，最容易感到痛苦。孤独也是类似原理，孤独是很多功成名就者特有的病。对成功上瘾的工作狂，太害怕会落于人后，没有留太多空间给亲友，即便和家人在一起，或是身处众人围绕的工作场所，工作狂依旧感到无比孤独，除了深爱的工作，他们一无所有。领导者特别容易感到孤独，很大的原因是职场上很难拥有真正的友谊，或是不可能和下属交朋友，但职场上的友谊极度重要。在职场上成功的人，却在人群里孤独。研究显示：下属会物化领导者，不把领袖视为世上的另一个人，而是权力，资讯与金钱的分配者。即便员工并未感到上司具备负面特质，双方的关系依旧尴尬无趣。此外，权威人士也会孤立自己。日后研究发现，领导者通常会刻意和员工保持距离，以求能公正评估绩效。</p>','2024-06-28 06:45:02.48','2024-06-28 06:45:02.48',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 06:45:02.479',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7ce9ffe3-f5b4-40ff-b688-c39944868a25','c9e40b89-e7c9-4b28-8aa3-1eef72b5fefa','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作中要时刻保持敬畏、尊重和专业的态度,踏实地发挥自己的能力和热情。同时也要亿科学的方式安排工作和生活,做到工作时专注,下班后放松享受。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">另外要对工作负责任,但也要懂得生活和工作的平衡。不管是工作还是生活,都要保持积极主动、专业负责的态度,同时也要懂得放松自己,享受生活的美好时光。</span></p>','2024-09-06 14:33:52.82','2024-09-06 14:33:52.82',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 14:33:52.819',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2c0eaa8f-fb3e-46d4-b55a-533d60d2999f','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>唯有轉化內在目標，跨出腳步，才會獲得真正想要的，做好準備跳下第二曲線的準備。第二曲線是.從愛出發,分享關係、 分享智慧.</p>','2024-06-28 06:42:56.474','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e52253f3-72ac-4b0e-8f33-8079ecd1f53b','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>我们不需要别的。</p>
<p>光是能活著，光是能呼吸，</p>
<p>光是能踏出一步，就够美好。</p>
<p>人的一辈子都是工作狂与成功成瘾者。尽管出人头地了，卻不快乐。随着年龄的增长，一辈子的兢兢业业，年老力衰令人感到痛苦，甚至极力抵抗这样的变化，向衰退怒吼，拒绝承认改变的事实。</p>
<p>文卡塔拉曼上师（Nochur Venkataraman) 给我们这种人一个建议：</p>
<p>&ldquo;认识你自己。就那样而已，没别的。那是获得解脱的唯一办法&ldquo;。</p>
<p>&ldquo;那要怎么做？&ldquo;作者问</p>
<p>&ldquo;往内心寻求。&ldquo;上师回答：&ldquo;当你的心平静下来后，你就会发现里头一直等著你的宝藏。&ldquo;</p>','2024-06-28 03:29:22.332','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('de8622d6-bb7a-43d4-96ee-38cf6f508c7f','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>我们周遭有哪些可能会导致我们分心的讯息，事务，全都列出来。</p>
<p>然后在找出解决方案如何不调入这些圈子或行为</p>
<p>然后如何持续性的运用每个方法来让我们专注与原则之上</p>
<p>列出短期计划，并在接下来的每一天执行它</p>','2024-06-28 06:22:21.817','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
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<p>慚愧心讓人反求諸己，慈悲悲誏人体悟到自己和別人正在一同受苦，助人放下對道理和利害的''执著，有機會一起从苦中解脫。有感恩心才''能把逆境度成逆增上緣。</p>
<p>「 叫停」 就是知止，是人生一大功課，知止要懂得停止說活，不想任何事情。</p>
<p>&nbsp;愛生氣、 抱怨、 嫉妒、 比較、傲慢、 偽裝、 依賴、 冷漠和好強都是不愛自己而產生苦惱。</p>
<p>&nbsp;如果能誏自己對自己很滿意，更喜欢自己就表示做對了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-26 05:16:52.203','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
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<li>跟随让人突破。放下自己，在跟随中突破自己的限制，才能享受到生命突破的喜悦。</li>
<li>别人对我们的看法，可以成为自我了解的镜子，帮助我们看见自己看不到的自己，也可以成为改善关系的触媒。</li>
</ul>','2024-09-06 14:46:12.565','2024-09-06 14:46:12.565',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 14:46:12.564',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3ea897dc-8f4f-417d-a22f-90cc75402487','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>领导是非常孤独的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>孤独主要原因是在于他们是靠操控和说服他人成功、很难拥有真正的友谊。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>领导物化下属； 下属物化领导。导致双方中间隔着大河，无法有良好关系。 而职场上的友谊良好关系能减轻孤独感、提升幸福感。</p>','2024-06-28 09:26:55.268','2024-06-28 09:26:56.272',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 09:26:56.271',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff2c590c-1635-4ecd-82db-48f83ca1e566','a102d505-0817-487e-81ca-d2a47560df6c','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p>Day 14 28/6/24 Onion Marketeology - Chapter 4 Lead Generation</p>
<p>Strategic Alliances (Page 066-072)</p>
<p>🎯Thoughts after reading：</p>
<ul>
<li>appointing agents is costly and imo can work when you''re selling a product easily distributed not in services.</li>
<li>Strategic alliance and referral system is like word of mouth marketing&nbsp;</li>
<li>While the trade shows or exhibition need through deciding whether it matches your target market bcs it consumes a lot of time and energy for the staff who joins</li>
</ul>','2024-06-28 09:50:35.455','2024-06-28 09:50:35.455',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 09:50:35.455',NULL,NULL);
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<p>追求最高的荣誉和成功不是错，总需要牺牲掉一些东西。我觉得对于一直忙碌于工作，一直忽略人际家庭的人（就是自己），是一个很好的提醒。</p>','2024-06-28 09:54:20.953','2024-06-28 09:54:20.953',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 09:54:20.952',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('20d963fb-604b-406c-82e0-c52a0c17b4a9','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>避免落入工作狂与成功癮的陷阱，试试三部分的练习：</p>
<p>1: 事先分配时间。如何运用时间培养良好关系。</p>
<p>2:做你的核心要務。爱的关系不是階层制，而是互恵制，给予别人想要和需要的，而不是看你自己方便。</p>
<p>3:聪明投资。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 08:28:44.197','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('47468e46-dfd1-44b0-af45-aa4a64b2e202','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>当人际关系成为意义与满足感的正式来源，你獲得的奬劢将不可勝数，有人比喻为挖到宝藏。</p>','2024-06-28 08:56:50.12','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>保持内在目标的人过得更快乐、也是让人跳上第二曲线的准备。第二曲线需要从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。所以，当人际关系成为意义和满足感来源，这才是挖到宝。</p>','2024-06-28 09:27:14.338','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e6fa29e5-9b29-4dd6-8060-8101ca4c1919','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>古印度四个人生阶段的概念， 每个阶段为期25年：1）学生期 - 学习与成年早期， 2）家居期 - 建立事业，累积财富，成家立业。容易掉入追逐财富、权力、享乐和荣耀等四尊偶像，导致自我物化，令人痛苦。这也是二度成人的开启。放下名利，走入人生转换。 3） 林棲期 - 退隐原本公私责任，投入深度智慧、灵修修行，重新调整人生。这是进入第二曲线。 4）遁世 - 避世隐居，达到灵性成长，甚至是开悟。</p>
<p>内心寻求，那里有一直等待自己的宝藏。</p>','2024-06-28 09:56:31.266','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('800a5a91-b541-45f0-8a61-f3db547fbaa0','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>中年后，人一般会对宗教与灵修感兴趣。信仰宗教和灵性成长的成人，一般比较快乐、健康、对人生有满足感。从我、我、我走入开拓宇宙观、思考真理源头，是去我执和傲慢心的过程。</p>','2024-06-28 10:06:47.359','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('380f2045-9803-4414-9b40-05675534e5ca','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>许多人在年轻时忽视透过宗教信仰，培养对灵性的觉醒。随着年龄的增长，会开始更想往透过宗教，追求对性灵的成长，而令自己更快乐。</p>','2024-06-29 13:47:35.288','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('910f813a-7eb6-449f-a636-b7f07c8ae8f4','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>我与宗教的缘分从19岁的一个生活营开始。到了30岁后，又离开宗教活动十多年。人生最困难的时刻，宗教书籍就出现在生命里，非常奇妙的缘分。今年一名易经老师送了&ldquo;井&rdquo;卦给我贺年。我告诉他我找到了我的&ldquo;井&rdquo;，我的人生资源，那就是学佛。</p>','2024-06-28 10:18:05.771','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('76d243e2-8aec-4327-b970-2c58b0c21634','d44b0c5c-9fc2-462d-acda-eaee15bed4c0','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>盒马生鲜通过各种模式，背后的逻辑就是要把它做成一个被实体店包装的电商</p>','2024-09-15 01:28:54.188','2024-09-17 00:00:00.031',NULL,'f','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3cf852b2-940c-4eca-a23c-84a7da26f94f','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>越成功越龎大的组织，共犯结構为禍的能量越强。</p>
<p>唯有回到自己的良心吧，离开这样的环境。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-23 09:12:21.663','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('643a82b1-1b99-49bb-8b0c-96bafa8be18a','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>在职场上成功的人,却在人群里孤独,因为职场上的友谊常常是被忽略的一部分</p>','2024-06-28 11:09:27.864','2024-06-28 11:09:27.864',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 11:09:27.863',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3cedefe5-6dbf-4524-a4de-89c07982b322','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>每个在职场上成功的人 大部分都感到孤独 因为防备心强和如果和别人关系太亲密也怕会影响工作效率等以类似这样的问题 。</p>
<p>只能说每个人都需要去抓个平衡点 分配好每段关系，因为生活中也不是每个人值得我们去深交。</p>','2024-06-28 11:10:56.548','2024-06-28 11:10:56.548',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 11:10:56.547',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0d370482-306c-4044-b00b-2cb92c34f99e','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>人的一个念头会產生多种不同的情绪，要管好情绪，首先要看见它的存在。</p>
<p>找回真心，找回初衷。</p>
<p>接受自己的不完美，放下评断，活在当下。</p>','2024-08-26 06:10:13.507','2024-08-26 06:10:13.507',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 06:10:13.506',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('acc4fa48-3426-4805-9bc8-9bed24931580','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 28 ：6月28日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 职场上的友谊极度重要（Page 155-158）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br>一向努力往上爬的成功人士或领导者，在能力开始衰退是，最容易感到痛苦和孤独，因为时间都给了工作，也没有什么时间给亲友，所以在职场上很难拥有真正的友谊。</p>','2024-06-28 11:26:46.124','2024-06-28 11:26:46.124',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 11:26:46.123',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35eb6923-f9fb-49b9-808e-8f615ff1d1a7','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>在在职场上不容易有交心的友谊， 但很庆幸我在职场上有关系密切的伙伴。我们几个人在行内一起配合十多二十年， 彼此互相扶持鼓励， 一起度过低潮一起迈进行业主流， 一起看着彼此的家庭&ldquo;成长&rdquo;. 其中最重要是公私分明。</p>','2024-06-28 12:24:40.797','2024-06-28 12:24:40.797',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 12:24:40.796',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b1a5ab91-2aa1-435a-a764-436af27ff93a','a102d505-0817-487e-81ca-d2a47560df6c','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>So far have done road shows and educational seminars. Now considering doing referral program and strategic alliance or collaboration.</p>','2024-06-28 12:27:47.329','2024-06-28 12:27:47.329',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 12:27:47.328',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('41ea9e64-72fb-47d7-9ade-d1959b9a704a','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>我们不需要别的。光是能活着，光是能呼吸，光是能踏出第一步，就够美好。</p>','2024-06-28 11:55:49.874','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2fe071bd-f6a2-493b-a230-c0013d27cda0','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>当面对困境的时候，应该先理清事故的根源，坚持自己的观点，独排众议，不受别人议论影响，用心去结决问题。</p>','2024-09-28 13:08:14.324','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ce62ed57-a79c-4f6a-b151-d36da393a4ca','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>要在职场上建立深交的友谊尤其是上司，</p>
<p>确实真的有难度。</p>
<p>因为需要拿捏那一条基准线，</p>
<p>过了就会被骂受伤，就不想再重蹈覆辙。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 12:34:50.131','2024-06-28 12:34:50.131',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 12:34:50.13',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab4c705b-584e-4edf-9297-8e5e0b0c0836','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>在职场上成功的人，多数在人群里被孤独化。</p>
<p>研究显示：下属会物化领导者，不把领袖视为世上的另一个人，而是权力，资讯与金钱的分配者。即便上司没有具备负面特质，双方的关系依旧尴尬无趣。</p>
<p>权威人士也会孤立自己。领导者通常会刻意和员工保持距离，以求能公正评估绩效。</p>
<p>领导者特别容易感到孤独，很大的原因是职场上很难拥有真正的友谊.&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 12:41:31.873','2024-06-28 12:41:31.873',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 12:41:31.873',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44126033-116b-4867-bf66-76d5f531bdb2','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>对成功成瘾的主管一般都很孤独吧？</p>
<p>不能和员工过于熟络，员工也会有避忌的和你相处。</p>','2024-06-28 12:54:09.205','2024-06-28 12:54:09.205',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 12:54:09.205',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('47147007-d349-48b3-ae13-af085bf36486','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>当老板的注定在自己创立的企业里是孤独的。毕竟老板很难真正与下属或团队建立真正的友谊。哪怕是与股东或合伙人都不容易。</p>','2024-06-28 13:23:32.568','2024-06-28 13:23:32.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 13:23:32.567',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab2d50ee-6355-4dab-86e5-b7e7718c2df0','4daec129-87ee-4e7b-ba29-41f6c67e7900','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>For my business , I think providing list of benefits and testimonials is the most effective way to convince and convert customers.</p>','2024-06-29 15:14:06.237','2024-06-29 15:14:06.237',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 15:14:06.236',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5c64485-fcf5-4514-a834-8ff04917b796','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>&ldquo;领导力就是透过沟通，帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值与潜能，使他们渴望亲眼目睹自己尽情发挥。&rdquo;</p>
<p>这个说法很棒。这是一份深层的接纳，接纳每个人都拥有独特的使命和价值，无法比较。一朵花不需要成为一棵树，一头狮子不要成为一头马。完成主要成就（你的本质 、内心深层的目的与渴望），次要成就（外在成就表象：人气、头衔、职位、财富、荣耀）也会随之而来的。但是从追逐外在表象人生转入完成主要成就，人生才能迎来深刻的平静、满足和智慧。</p>','2024-06-28 10:36:40.716','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('febe1e12-f88e-4aa2-811d-90c39c551529','33ec7ac3-58a4-43c0-be75-8dad7c8aabb3','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>Regarding the offer product sampling and try before decide, these methods can reduce the pressure of both parties.&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 12:57:31.96','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('979a8017-2a2c-4bd8-befc-700cebb460fd','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>追求表象成功是倒置了人生的优先顺序。首要的成就是来自内在的，次要的成就是来自于外在的。建立于外在的成就是无法恒久存在。</p>','2024-06-28 10:47:12.731','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d4e2db60-6d21-423c-9936-43df07460ef5','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>品格才是决定成败的主因。</p>','2024-06-28 12:28:26.58','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b0e4f461-d0ac-401c-989c-cd57c07abc51','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>明白自身的弱点，勇于接受而做改变，不逃避及变脆弱，会是个激发自身变强大的秘决，</p>','2024-06-29 15:12:09.594','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b680a703-81d1-44f1-91e7-39c74bc9b8ef','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 28 ：6月28日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 职场上的友谊极度重要（Page 155-158）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>有些人进入公司好多年，可就是因为没有能够得到领导的信任；</p>
<p><span>① 当领导不信任你的时候，你的工作情况怎么样，他是不会太关注的。往往是不闻不问，权当你不存在。而一旦问起来的时候，又没完没了，给人以想找茬的感觉</span></p>
<p><span>② </span>领导在对你不信任时，会显得对你的一些表现有超常的关注。比如说你拿着一叠需要核销的凭证找他签字审核。如果信任你的话，粗略看一下就直接签字了。</p>
<p>③ 当领导不信任你的时候，对你进行批评指责时，会毫不留情，甚至压根就不考虑你的个人感受。之所以如此，就是因为你在他的内心中已经没有了地位没有了影响力没有了存在感。</p>
<p><strong>不管你喜不喜欢，工作真的占据我们人生很大一部分，所以如果你想要有个快乐人生，无可避免地，你的工作生活也必须要快乐。</strong>我不相信从未得到工作成就感的人，可以真的过着幸福快乐的人生。</p>','2024-06-28 13:37:38.589','2024-06-28 13:37:38.589',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 13:37:38.588',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f10f509b-a047-4413-8eb0-f07dafd8585d','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>接受上司与下属本来就没法平等发展友谊关系，心情应该会好一些。但必须弄清楚身为上司（或下属）本有着什么角色和责任。&ldquo;爱&rdquo;必须主动传出去；&ldquo;爱&rdquo;不是个形容词。</p>','2024-06-28 14:23:30.702','2024-06-28 14:23:30.702',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 14:23:30.701',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c3dd2fd8-e2f2-41aa-b308-7653a0cde831','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>一旦把人物化，我们就与人没有好的人际关系。没了好的人际关系，也就缺了幸福，多了孤独。</p>','2024-06-28 14:32:44.135','2024-06-28 14:32:44.135',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 14:32:44.135',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b193040c-25d4-429f-9d6f-69a1f22aae5a','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 155 - 158</p>
<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>职场上的友谊极度重要</p>
<p>孤独反映出你对于人际关系的感受。</p>
<p>负面互动冠军对象是上司。</p>
<p>快乐互动伙伴前三名：朋友、亲人、配偶</p>
<p>正面情绪活动前三名： 性爱、社交与放松</p>
<p>负面的三大活动：工作、育儿、顾客与同事</p>
<p>物化关系、对象</p>','2024-06-28 14:37:20.78','2024-06-28 14:37:20.78',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 14:37:20.779',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44fa88e5-edae-4b55-b93b-d28c603ecf8a','88103f26-30f0-4d3a-849c-c39e089f8826','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>对不起，我爱你，谢谢你。</p>
<p>叫停机制，让彼此有空间沉静下来。</p>
<p>爱别人，來自爱自己。<br>爱自己，来自修行</p>','2024-08-26 06:22:26.663','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78e49e26-3b37-4467-b1b1-006de46ef364','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>不再把靈性成長當作是嗜好，而是人生的頭等大事。</p>
<p>我也要祝福所有讀到這本書，走到此章節的書友。</p>','2024-06-28 15:09:22.389','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab5a6484-888e-479d-9e32-6ebb62fdb088','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>正面情绪活动：性爱、社交、放松</p>
<p>负面情绪活动：工作、育儿、通勤</p>
<p>负面互动伙伴：顾客、同事、上司</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>上司是很孤独，要是与下属太亲近会容易误判，要是要开除对方，也很难开口，所以，都会选择保持距离。 而下属也不敢（不想）和上司太亲近，因为视上司为权威的人，所以，会感觉压力。&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 15:07:31.99','2024-06-28 15:07:31.99',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:07:31.989',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ec59fd47-f459-452f-bbcf-91ec6936e293','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>领导者难和下属做朋友，因为需要权威就只能减少关系。但应该可以在工作外的找到朋友。除非你的生活只剩工作</p>','2024-06-28 15:11:05.266','2024-06-28 15:11:05.266',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:11:05.265',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dcd6360c-f843-4886-b395-38b95f295996','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>高处不胜寒，居高位者如果在人生中没有灵魂伴侣或者亲密朋友，很容易会陷入孤独症。</p>
<p>职场上的人际关系对我们的心理健康也很重要。虽然不至于到亲密的关系，但要好的同事、欢乐的工作氛围，可以使我们活得健康。</p>','2024-06-28 15:15:11.208','2024-06-28 15:15:11.208',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:15:11.208',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6ce2a3f-c846-41d3-9736-8caa64806f35','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>绝大多数身处高位的人都有很大的孤独感。</p>
<p>他们大多花很多时间在工作上。每天跟很多人见面，工作，交流。</p>
<p>但那些仅仅是表面上的交流。实际上高位者没有什么人可以与他们深度交流（交心）。</p>
<p>孤独感一直存在，直到他们无法承受的那天，或许就是悲剧的结尾。</p>','2024-06-28 15:27:28.329','2024-06-28 15:27:28.329',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:27:28.328',NULL,NULL);
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<p>我认为，最重要还是朋友。用心就可以交到职场上的好朋友。当你从高位退下，还是需要找朋友喝茶闲聊的。</p>','2024-06-28 15:40:53.03','2024-06-28 15:40:53.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:40:53.029',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-26 07:04:03.473','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2258136c-e3b2-4795-8776-a0f633cb39e8','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>2000多年前亚里士多德写道，友谊分为几种层次，从最低到最高。在底部是功利型的友情，更高阶的朋友只是为了快乐；最高阶的就是完美友谊。这种友谊致力於促进彼此的幸福，他们对某种符合道德的好事有共同的热爱，一起追求超越自我的事物。最后友谊对幸福来说十分重要。研究结果也显示男性通常比女性更难交朋友。其实，中年之后的重大幸福特征就是能不假思索说出几个知己的名字。</p>','2024-06-28 14:24:29.27','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e196436c-f96d-4025-90a5-c86cbe5b31ec','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>我們大多數的時候，腦子都只有我，我，我，如有一天之中一遍又一遍，看著一模一樣的無聊電視節目，實在太無趣了。</p>','2024-06-28 14:58:02.848','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('80327ae1-e779-49f2-8ff1-9340c2439f48','fd52586d-4120-4c6a-a1dd-6179fa248308','257784b6-4e0d-4767-ad9e-6c9c79e29683','<p>企业要活得长久，其中一个关键就是奉行的价值观是否为长久之计，是否对社会有所帮助？而这要回到自己内在的良知与标准，才能走得远走得久。</p>
<p>经营者要看见更长远的契机，别人看不见的时候自己要看见，然后领着大伙儿走向那。</p>','2024-09-23 14:33:09.198','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1afd52a-6c04-449d-ba75-29c02940afb1','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>值得深思的觀點&ldquo;在職場上成功的人，卻在人群里孤獨&rdquo;, 拿我上一份工作及剛辞职的工作就有一個很强的對比及感受，我确实認同，在職場上需要建立友誼，要不然整個職場文化就會大的差别，也間接影响每個职场人的心态，但大多数人就很难做到很公私分明及客观觀去处理事件，导致了員公工及上司的隔阂.</p>','2024-06-28 15:42:31.02','2024-06-28 15:42:31.02',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 15:42:31.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e0b1ff24-4405-4606-8f2e-ca961dc0a402','b5159a30-f703-4273-80f3-9c306143759a','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>即使拥有全世界最棒的工作，对工作充满热忱和热爱。但因为私人问题和人际关系处理不当，最终可能陷入深不可测的孤独感；甚至一无所有。</p>
<p>在职场上，高层人士常常在人群中感到孤独。是否应该与上司成为朋友？下属通常会因此感到不自在。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-28 16:22:52.486','2024-06-28 16:22:52.486',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 16:22:52.486',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f341498e-4b10-4dfe-b4a9-4ec5627f2e9d','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>这几页有关友情的内容提醒我友情的力量，必须在这方面多下功夫。</p>
<p>朋友不在多，而在深。重质不重量。</p>
<p>配偶从朋友关系开始，到发展成蜜友，然后成为配偶。关系必须从爱情转换成亲情，才能维持久长。</p>
<p>男性对女伴需求常大于一，这也是破坏关系的一大挑战。</p>','2024-06-28 21:38:28.133','2024-06-28 21:38:28.133',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 21:38:28.131',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('52cbd17f-3b79-4911-bf86-18e4b8ec8340','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>恋爱和亲密的友谊，能减少孤独的关系。</p>
<p>友伴式爱情，细水长流，能带来真正的幸福。和无血缘关系的朋友来往比与家庭成员互动来更幸福开心。</p>','2024-06-28 23:22:24.878','2024-06-28 23:22:24.878',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-28 23:22:24.877',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4a12a0b8-55ac-4d7e-a288-bedb247ab644','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>领导力是通过沟通，帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值和潜能，使他们渴望亲眼看见自己并尽情发挥。<br><br>人生有两种生活方式：<br>1.最求首要成就：品格，正直，内心深处的目的与渴望<br>2.次要成就：人气，头衔，职位，名声，财富，荣誉</p>','2024-06-28 22:36:57.425','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ee4750b-db10-4428-bf5b-e12e2780337c','0fcaef92-e4f4-42a8-b0c2-0f3521178269','0e562b75-3f9f-4c9f-bbda-b896493a717b','<p>Day 10 &nbsp;9月25日 (星期三）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</p>
<p>😇第二章 072页 - 074页</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p>转念，改变思维，是改变最重要的第一步。</p>
<p>所见--所做--所获，思维决定行动，行动成就收获。</p>
<p>非常认同人生和生活有很多方向，也有很多选择，就像一堆杂乱的数字中，要准确的找出数字，对我而言，很难，数到的数字明确的反应了我的效率。一套有规律的模型方式，确实非常有用，且被需要。</p>','2024-09-25 15:09:08.719','2024-09-25 15:09:08.719',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:09:08.718',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bbe6b269-d087-4b6a-a359-152bcb1bab63','e4648b91-0e1e-47c6-a0cb-06f7abb5b725','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>只要是真金，与几斤几两无关。<br>只要思维正磪，熱情努力，活出百万人生。</p>
<p>快乐人生自己做主。<br>快乐我决定。</p>
<p>你的言语成了你的世界。</p>
<p>Words create world 。</p>','2024-08-26 06:52:57.483','2024-08-28 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005','2024-08-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('41b4a6fb-82eb-402c-8170-2c76378cda12','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p><strong>Day20：9月 6日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生</strong><br><strong>第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;8. 跟随让人突破 &ndash; 9. 分身既镜子（Page127-131）</strong><br><strong>🎯今日读后感悟：</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>跟随让人突破</strong><br>有觉知的人 可以放下想法，跟随他人，把不可能变到做到。感受生命突破的喜悦。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>分身既镜子</strong><br>别人的看法，无需造成自我的限制，或关系中的障碍，反而成为自我了解的镜子，成为改善关系的触媒</p>','2024-09-06 14:56:59.144','2024-09-06 14:56:59.144',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 14:56:59.143',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8520bc1-fb01-42c7-bcf0-906bc98d9446','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>一个领袖通过修身养性，可以领悟并掌握道、天、地、将的精髓。当他展现出一颗真诚的心时，自然会吸引他人愿意跟随他，这种领袖的气质也因此自然而然地显现出来。</p>','2024-09-25 15:12:59.297','2024-09-25 15:12:59.297',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:12:59.296',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('169a2c1b-a334-4c4b-8d3e-bd706d2dd7de','c47adc2e-045f-4a1f-818a-64cd48c507b5','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>新零售就是更高效率的零售。短路经济也是追求更短的交易过程以达到更好效率，总言之就是回归效率</p>','2024-09-15 01:44:28.657','2024-09-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('112fdcc9-1d18-4b91-90cb-a1f26c34a992','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">发愤忘食乐以忘忧-甘愿做，欢喜受，对于事情既然是自己选择的，那就全力以赴，以喜乐的心去做。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">心真事实愿广行深-只有真心真意要去办的事，才能结出丰硕的果实。倘若无心，干什么都是蜻蜓点水，表面工，则无法把事情给圆满。</span></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">离苦得乐的药方-干任何事情都会有不顺心事，要喜乐的去面对一切，就得从事情中抽离，往自己的内心探索，去看看自己的心怎么想，从心调整，才回去把事情处理好。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-19 13:50:24.799','2024-09-19 13:50:24.799',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 13:50:24.798',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p2"><span class="s1">敬天愛人這一套在西方的企業經營好像比不太適合。在美國的世界級的企業，跟著企業的策略改變或是經濟未來經濟體的前景隨時會做裁員。聽起來很殘酷，但是為了公司非常偉大的願景裁員又好像只是經營企業的其中一組工具。我一直對這個部分感到很困惑。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">舉個例子像馬斯克，他本人為了人類的福祉做偉大的犧牲，大半輩子一天超過16個小時都在為這些願景，每天解決非常棘手的問題。這些願景將為人類超過一半以上的人提供更高品質的生活。但可能明天你就聽到可能三萬人突然被裁了。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">230</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">我們成功是因為很多人成全。非常同意。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">但一流人才賺到的錢，讓二流的人才把它花掉，這樣就有與偏俱全。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">232</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">非常幸運在20歲的時候，我就接觸到到盛和夫的經營學。敬天愛人是真理。要改變就從自己開始。</span></p>','2024-09-23 09:00:21.727','2024-09-23 09:00:21.727',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 09:00:21.726',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('947d4e4b-e348-449e-bb94-1a8d1aff7216','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>Day 29 ：6月29日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 工作狂最常忽略的两种关系（Page 158-163）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>有两种关系需要我们培养包括恋爱与亲密关系。持有爱的方式是「友伴式的爱情」。它之所以能带来真正的幸福，因为它具备了友谊的基础。配偶以外的交友圈也很重要。它可以帮助我们在情感上的支持，也预防我们只有配偶一个友人和让我们更幸福。</p>','2024-06-06 07:30:22.123','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a1aef02c-d75c-43d6-845d-0e47ff30e36b','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，而这要仰赖心理学家所说的&ldquo;友伴式爱情&rdquo;。</p>
<p>即不是起起伏伏的激情，而是稳定的感情，相互了解和承诺。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-25 03:36:24.664','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eaed46db-d567-4721-ad5e-3b5b1b09b57b','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>跟老婆認識已經23年，大部分的時候都是以朋友的關係相處。</p>
<p>但動不動哪條神經不對勁，我心裡的那隻猛獸都會想要跑出來打發拳腳。</p>
<p>感覺好難根治這個問題。</p>','2024-06-25 11:05:36.803','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4709f3ef-ee56-496e-a074-5938f71398ec','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 29 ：6月29日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 工作狂最常忽略的两种关系（Page 158-163）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p><br>我的憾悟是工作狂一般上最常忽略亲人。</p>
<p>亲人比较像义务，朋友是开心。</p>
<p>可能导会致亲人向外寻找情感上的支持。</p>','2024-06-27 12:07:04.942','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7a70ef67-da72-43d8-9e7a-7d4d548dd379','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>人生最重要的兩個關係即是家人和朋友。和另一半的關係應該是細水長流友伴式的比較穩定。彼此處得好像朋友，互相理解陪伴。就是和家人關係良好，同時也應該和朋友建立關係，以免另一半不在時會難以承受孤獨感。</p>','2024-06-27 12:43:30.48','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c95945f5-3f78-46c0-94f2-d9b9cc7b5f9f','4daec129-87ee-4e7b-ba29-41f6c67e7900','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>First of all, yes! A good customer service always crucial for every business, then there will have a good marketing strategies to kick start.</p>','2024-06-27 13:32:09.809','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('367f631c-a8a4-42e9-a134-421984d40d0a','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>工作狂會一味的工作，而忽略了身邊親人和朋友。把配偶視為摯友的婚姻，帶來的幸福感遠比別人高，而細水長流也能帶來健康快樂。好朋友會因為彼此的陪伴，更覺喜悅和滿足和有意義。</p>','2024-06-28 01:08:29.794','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4bb9496c-4c29-40a2-a78a-12c0bd0b2c93','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>幸福的密切不是堕入爱河，而是持续有爱，这个爱是&ldquo;友伴式爱情&rdquo;。</p>
<p>婚姻和家庭就是有义务和责任。但是和无血缘关系的朋友来往，反而幸福感会更强。是如果你和亲友的关系紧密良好，即使单身也能幸福。</p>
<p>如果能把配偶视为摯友的，婚姻肯定比其他人幸福，对待孩子也是一样。</p>
<p>好朋友会因为彼此的陪伴心中有喜悦，满足感和意义。因此彼此成为最好的人，友善的互开玩笑，一起享受乐趣。</p>
<p>朋友一生一起走。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 14:47:46.672','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ee8676e-0e59-4535-a422-f5b0b22eef15','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>compassionate love友伴式爱情，像朋友又像情人的关系。要达到这样的关系切实不简单，毕竟大家生活在一起好久了。可是也不是做不到，好好经营夫妻关系。把伴侣当成情人也兼顾朋友身份。</p>','2024-06-27 14:55:10.118','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('795330fc-ec06-4379-bcbb-300b85ad43c4','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>&ldquo;友伴或爱情能带来真正的幸福&rdquo;</p>
<p>把配偶视为挚友的人士,婚姻带来的幸福远比其他人高,这样的爱能走过危机,超越时间,也因此能带来快乐健康的人生</p>','2024-06-28 11:18:47.895','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5dd0095a-57f0-4fb5-a59d-62ba486d8a16','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作狂最常忽略的两种关系，包括恋爱和亲密的友谊。幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，就是细水长流的&ldquo;友伴式爱情&rdquo;。他能带来真正的幸福，原因是具备友谊的基础。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">与家庭成员互动，通常是迫于义务，和朋友在一起则主要是为了开心。</span></p>','2024-06-28 12:32:45.911','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('897abe0e-7519-43b4-87b3-74122dd9ea7d','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>幸福的秘诀不是坠入爱河，而是持续有爱，这就是心理学家所说的&ldquo;友伴式爱情&rdquo;。那是一种稳定的感情、相互了解与承诺。</p>
<p>激情式的爱情对比友伴式爱情，差别就在新鲜感过后熟悉度带来的相互理解与包容。</p>','2024-06-28 13:37:42.728','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8a0f11d5-55fc-454c-874c-5161f6264734','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>『幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河， 而是持续有爱，而这要仰赖心理学家所说的「友伴式爱情」。』就是我们比较常听到说当情侣发展成为夫妻是因为爱情，而夫妻相处久了就变成了亲情，相伴一生的家人。</p>','2024-06-28 14:57:46.3','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006','2024-06-29 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('200d99ca-8bde-4385-8de7-71e56571e33a','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>对巴哈的答复留下深刻印象：所有音乐的目标，最终不过是荣誉上帝，洗涤灵魂。</p>','2024-06-29 01:25:01.734','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab126ccf-2023-47c2-8958-e3c0fc3817d3','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>无常是常态。<br>突破是日常。<br>继续成长，让人生花园百花齐放，百花争艳。</p>
<p>放下的定义：<br>努力完成，苦尽甘来，享受成果，潇洒退埸。</p>','2024-08-26 07:43:43.022','2024-08-29 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-08-29 00:00:00.024','2024-08-29 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25f3c300-5396-4503-a9e0-6250901139e3','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>我是生病的因缘才接触到佛教。自从皈依三宝后，觉得自己没以前那么执著、妒忌心及嗔恨心也都消沉了。</p>','2024-06-29 01:18:12.241','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2db3b797-305b-4e13-b755-9ff9b4a57023','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>所谓细水长流，友伴式的婚姻关系比较能持久。在婚姻里，过度依赖或仰慕对方的感情，比较有可能因为失去瞬间绚丽或失去对对方的依赖而失去自我。</p>
<p>除了另一半，也应该要有几个关系密切的好友。毕竟，不能全部的事都能向对方全盘托出吧！😁</p>
<p>另外，如果想控诉另一半，当然也得有可靠的人来聆听吧！😆</p>','2024-06-29 03:07:14.516','2024-06-29 03:07:14.516',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 03:07:14.515',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3fd6731b-666b-47d1-90b1-537c083d9729','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，要有友伴式爱情。</p>
<p>友伴式爱情是把配偶视为好朋友，这样的爱能带来快乐健康。</p>
<p>如果和亲友的关系紧密良好，即使单身也能幸福。</p>','2024-06-29 03:27:14.598','2024-06-29 03:27:14.598',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 03:27:14.597',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6fc37874-e7b9-4150-87b3-c650d07b21c8','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>幸福的秘訣是持续有爱，稳定的感情，相互了解与承诺。</p>
<p>如果你与親友的关系紧密良好，即便单身也能幸福。</p>','2024-06-29 04:01:42.546','2024-06-29 04:01:44.317',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 04:01:44.316',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f45127a3-5efc-4313-a92c-fdf985c48e22','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>辛福的secret 是持续有爱❤️.夫妻间有companionate love有足稳定感情.把spouse 当做摯友更好.</p>
<p>如果兴亲友的关系保持良好,即使单身也能幸福❤️</p>','2024-06-29 06:52:38.415','2024-06-29 06:52:38.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 06:52:38.415',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60c78c8a-34dd-42ee-b833-1425f944d188','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>正直是品格的基本要求。懂得宽厚待人，善体人意，负责任&hellip;吸引力法则，帮助我们强化自己。</p>','2024-06-29 07:30:24.95','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44b391f1-b034-44f5-82e2-0c9002f8989a','092b46a7-71e8-4be1-b11e-1c4a34b10fea','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>四种培育天赋的方法：</p>
<p>1）透过写日记培育自觉力-每天深入分析与评价自己当天的经历。</p>
<p>2）透过学习，倾听与做出回应，培养良知-要清楚听见良知的声音，通常需要进入反省或沉思的状态。</p>
<p>3）由做出並兑现承诺，培养独立意志。-要培养正直的人格，必须先从做出与兑现承诺做起，一点一滴累积。</p>
<p>4）透过视觉化开发创造性想像力。看见恶劣环境，按照原则与奠基于原则的价值观做出反应，而非平常的习惯做出反应。预测未来最好的方法，就是自己创造未来。</p>','2024-06-29 07:15:56.411','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('332524d4-334f-4d5e-98c2-6eabbe1322ca','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>人们的幸福秘诀不仅是陷入爱河而已，而是面对考验时还持续有爱、稳定的感情、相互了解与承诺。</p>
<p>孩子们需要给他们过他自己的生活，而不是父母亲认为的生活方式，才能活出自己的故事。</p>
<p>因为彼此的陪伴，好朋友会心中涌出喜悦、满足感与意义。</p>
<p>好朋友让彼此成为最好的人，友善的互开玩笑，一起享受乐趣。</p>','2024-06-29 08:46:28.63','2024-06-29 08:46:28.63',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 08:46:28.629',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('79873067-b350-4276-a992-69eb66520340','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>怕麻烦，才麻烦。<br>越麻木，越麻烦。</p>
<p>太多的（我认为），变成自以为是</p>','2024-08-26 08:22:20.695','2024-08-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27d6eddd-35b1-4e28-8b85-ff0426603437','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱。</p>
<p>与亲友的关系紧密良好，即使单身也能幸福。</p>','2024-06-29 09:14:36.987','2024-06-29 09:14:36.987',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 09:14:36.986',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e871c0d1-ca89-451d-94b1-d193a98f5042','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>有伴式爱情是能带来正在的幸福是具备友谊的基础</p>
<p>持续要有爱的环境很重要</p>','2024-06-29 09:09:00.953','2024-06-29 09:14:46.894',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 09:14:46.893',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('006258ba-93d4-40e0-a134-8603bffd5baf','4daec129-87ee-4e7b-ba29-41f6c67e7900','5f3adfd3-d0f4-4812-8040-48b8b340a8c2','<p>The guarantee seems like a great way to boost confidence in the customer in your product.</p>','2024-06-29 09:40:53.823','2024-06-29 09:40:53.823',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 09:40:53.822',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a6bcf9d5-7b3d-49ef-aa24-29b96d6f2a40','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>爱情要维持长久并非是激情，而是友伴式的感情。&nbsp;</p>
<p>我想这样的方式，无论是套在爱情或是亲情也很管用，因为一段关系若保持像朋友一样，不会因为太爱而有压迫感。&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 10:34:39.881','2024-06-29 10:34:39.881',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 10:34:39.88',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('add9969d-37a1-473f-a733-8f24c4ec3efa','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>生意朋友vs真正朋友.需要反思😁.</p>
<p>Quality Vs quantity 朋友.人生有一两个知己,就很好了😁</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 06:59:12.749','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('59f4cb96-d24d-4261-a51a-3be9fdf4ca66','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>领导就是要通过沟通帮助别人了解自己的价值和潜能，然后给他们尽情发挥。</p>
<p>两种生活方式。第一首要成就就是个人的本职，自己的品格。正直内心的渴望。次要成就就是by product 。包括人气，头衔，职位，名声，财富与荣耀。</p>','2024-06-29 10:37:34.747','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f623ba3f-2479-4ebc-bf4e-491b9b924315','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我们都有亲眼见证好态度决定命运和企业高度！ 成功的人善用杠杆，事半功倍。</p>','2024-06-29 07:11:06.115','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d7646024-aa0c-4583-a432-e85d85df9950','27f9a1c8-c5d2-41aa-9b3c-457e661a39bf','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我们对自己很吝啬，私密时间不多，反而花很多时间陪大众度过，无法满足自己的人生目标。是时候需要好好思考分配适合时间用于私密空间。</p>','2024-06-29 08:13:20.844','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8c352a61-ec48-466e-b4db-23909b35e5c3','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>当多种力量汇集，比如这文化（道德文化），次文化（家庭、群体、团体、单位或企业）以及个人或哲学思考结合在一起，就会造成强烈的扭曲。谦卑使我们与自然法则保持和谐的关系，一旦违反，必会受伤。若我们的价值观是以原则为皈依，因此得以深入每个人心中。原则有如罗盘上的指针指向北方一样，一旦我们一意孤行，就会偏离北方，走上傲慢与失败之路。</p>','2024-06-29 08:33:47.413','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3ebf4d8c-7457-4471-a1a6-62d981e2dbd4','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>普通的努力才会让人累,超级努力就不累了</p>
<p>人生智慧必须学,必须向高手学！</p>','2024-09-06 15:16:28.787','2024-09-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11c160f3-30e0-482b-b3a2-a0f9acf00b0a','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>要与人建立长远关系，可以练习以下三个习惯：</p>
<ol>
<li>事先分配时间-学习每周分配一小时时间做思考，如何活用时间培养关系，让生命无悔。</li>
<li>做你的核新要务。学习了解及专注别人需要的及自己能提供的，用于培养关系。</li>
<li>聪明投资。投资在最爱的人，定下三件能为他们做的，尽力为他们达成。</li>
</ol>','2024-06-29 11:06:47.496','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('82c4da53-a89b-43dc-aebf-e44e76af08a6','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>想往以拥有美好人际关系而满足为内在目标的人， 会成为更大的动力，学会抓住美好的机会，以懂得爱人与被爱，步向喜悦得泉源。</p>','2024-06-29 11:16:17.169','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5099c144-ace3-4453-b704-bfef5c5f2921','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>放下傲慢，以谦卑之心向他人学习、跟着他人一样去执行也是一种突破。这基于把自己与他人一样看待，无分别心。</p>
<p>太在意他人的看法或过于希望他人改变对自己的看法会令自己活得很痛苦。可以更积极地从别人的反馈看自己，找到真实的自己和学习与他人的相处之道。</p>','2024-09-06 15:21:55.924','2024-09-06 15:21:55.924',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:21:55.923',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('237349eb-a227-4e16-ab19-55332080beaa','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>婚姻关系/伴侣很重要，也可说是比较方便但也需要更多包容度的关系，因为俩口子的起居饮食一般都是一起的。</p>
<p>爱好和宗教信仰是很好交到健康（但不一定知心）朋友的地方。</p>
<p>当我们卸下职位，就会发现身边真正的朋友可能不很多。</p>','2024-06-29 11:49:27.716','2024-06-29 11:49:27.716',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 11:49:27.715',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d33a9ea-8c21-4496-aa08-0b81b38b6050','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，而这要仰赖心理学家所说的 【友伴式爱情】 companionate love。&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>是稳定的爱情、相互了解与承诺。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>然而婚姻不能是你唯一的真友谊。除了配偶之外，至少还有一名好友的人，拥有较高的人生满意度和自尊。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 12:17:55.519','2024-06-29 12:17:56.667',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 12:17:56.666',NULL,NULL);
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<p>把另一半当成挚友般相处。</p>
<p>但除了另一半，还可以有其他生活中的挚友。</p>
<p>当婚姻有问题的时候，或失去另一半的时候，才不会突然顿时依靠。</p>','2024-06-29 13:11:18.537','2024-06-29 13:11:19.849',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:11:19.848',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6f719606-75fc-414b-a78a-4e146f7d9c26','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第六章：工作狂最常忽略的两种关系。需要加以培育的白杨，包括恋爱和亲密的友谊，即能减少孤独，但奋斗者通常会忽略这两种关系。可以说，陷入爱河是幸福的启动成本，这个阶段令人狂喜，但压力也很大，必须先度过这个阶段，才有办法进入真正能带来满足感的关系。幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，而这要仰赖心理学家所说的友伴式爱情。这样的爱，比较不是起起伏伏的激情，而是稳定的感情，相互了解与承诺。友伴式爱情能带来真正的幸福，因为具备友谊的基础。好朋友会因为彼此的陪伴，心中涌出喜悦，满足感与意义。好朋友让彼此成为最好的人，友善地互开玩笑，一起享受乐趣。如果你与亲友的关系紧密良好，即便单身也能幸福。有许多上了年纪才发现这件事，开始建立配偶以外的交友圈。研究发现相较于联络成年的孩子，和无血缘关系的朋友来往，反而与幸福更强烈相关。与家庭成员互动通常是迫于义务，和朋友在一起则主要是为了开心。</p>','2024-06-29 13:18:26.762','2024-06-29 13:18:26.762',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:18:26.761',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13fd3726-7d13-4030-bdc2-35aff09083a1','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>关系满意度才是健康与幸福的重点。而幸福的秘诀是持续有爱。</p>','2024-06-29 13:20:05.061','2024-06-29 13:20:05.061',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:20:05.06',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1b7e3fc-e19b-4444-b251-b1edb3e94127','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>婚姻关系不是让我们有幸福感的唯一一种关系。亲密好友给予更多的幸福感。</p>','2024-06-29 13:21:48.267','2024-06-29 13:21:48.267',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:21:48.266',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d855f1c3-e293-4714-849d-cd392b9e0b72','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>（补，28/06/2024）</p>
<p>27/06，读多了，也写多了！</p>
<p>职场上的友谊真的很重要，有倾述的对象，可以互相理解，交流，鼓励，学习，生活也不会那么么纳闷！</p>
<p>工作中的友谊更是上班的动力！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>29/06/24</p>
<p>友谊不只是形容伴侣以外的人，就算是与伴侣，如有着友好式的感情，生活上的情感会有不同的效果，激情的爱是短暂，伴侣应有着持续的爱，双方的感情会更温存！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 13:36:49.945','2024-06-29 13:36:49.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:36:49.944',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11ab1f2b-3780-4a3c-a88a-4bfa5b669be5','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>以人能活100岁做标准，可把人生以每25年分为一个阶断。第一个阶段是成长与学习的；第二个阶段是建立事业，家庭的拼搏期，也是最能迷失自己的时候；第三的阶段，是以步入中年，体力及智力开始退下，必须重新调整；最后的阶段，是老年进入性灵阶段，完全投入开悟的时刻。我们该往内心寻求，让心平静下来，领悟每个不同阶段的自己。</p>','2024-06-29 11:34:41.171','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f7d5a25-27d7-48db-b49c-b168c5929451','2c0de07f-f196-4319-afe2-52ddaecebad6','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>走路能让身心合一，开始观察到周围环境的一些细节。每一个当下，就提供了小小的满足感。</p>','2024-06-29 11:35:33.558','2024-07-08 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035','2024-07-08 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88dc5473-8e77-42e4-85ac-d2b07bf552df','baeb96f7-bad8-4ca9-892f-59dbea86575d','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>归零是让过去不成为负担,反而成为滋养.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 15:14:12.55','2024-09-25 15:14:20.881',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:14:20.88',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d013872b-fd3f-4249-8e77-f4723e7221b2','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 29 ：6月29日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 工作狂最常忽略的两种关系（Page 158-163）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br>能减少孤独的关系，即离我们最近、需要加以培育的白杨，包括恋爱和亲密的友谊。</p>
<p>关系满意度才是健康与幸福的重点。</p>
<p>把配偶视为挚友的人士，婚姻带来的幸福远比其他人高。这样的爱能带来健康快乐。</p>
<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱。</p>
<p>婚姻不能是你唯一拥有的真友谊。</p>','2024-06-29 13:44:31.265','2024-06-29 13:44:31.265',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:44:31.265',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bd47239e-0042-4086-8c7a-e10f3018ce1c','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>谁该为资讯流买单？</p>
<p>相信有透过霸级百货公司售货的厂家，对于这个问题的答案应该都＂心中有数＂呗？</p>
<p>所有人都受益＋同时更高效＋更稳定的新交易结构＝新零售；皆大欢喜的［新零售］？</p>
<p>［不卖货的体验店］，是新零售的一个趋势，但一定不是唯一的趋势。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-26 08:29:36.311','2024-08-26 08:35:37.42',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 08:35:37.419',NULL,NULL);
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<p>这些原则就像杠杆一样。杠杆让我们省力，借助杠杆移动去改变自己和世界。科维博士提出十二有效的原则（杠杆）去获得成功的人生，包括：正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</p>','2024-06-29 14:47:49.78','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>无论是伴侣的亲密关系还是友情之间的关系。个人认为，一定要有好朋友，这个好朋友是没有involved 你工作的。</p>','2024-06-29 13:57:47.304','2024-06-29 13:57:47.304',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:57:47.303',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0551175f-9d2f-48da-b7b8-201c80e926ab','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>情感过度与不及都不见得好，所以儒家说&ldquo;中庸&rdquo;，这真的是智慧, 让我们避过不幸。</p>','2024-06-29 13:58:18.785','2024-06-29 13:58:18.785',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 13:58:18.784',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f6a28d1a-795f-4ef4-b55b-43750de56aea','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>关系满意度才是健康与幸福的重点.</p>
<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱.</p>','2024-06-29 14:06:48.492','2024-06-29 14:06:48.492',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:06:48.491',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Day 29 ：6月29日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 工作狂最常忽略的两种关系（Page 158-163）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>从管理取向角度，工作沉迷是一种积累的、潜在的和致命性的疾病，会影响个人健康以及会带来家庭冲突和不良的人际关系。人际关系须经营的～将心比心～一切都可以美好。用真心、真诚经营关系就会有幸福感。</p>','2024-06-29 14:30:15.048','2024-06-29 14:30:15.048',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:30:15.047',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1121f6b-0daa-4b87-8da5-699b02a96665','4daec129-87ee-4e7b-ba29-41f6c67e7900','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Day 15&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;29/6/24&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5&nbsp;&nbsp;Conversion Rate</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Conversation Rate (Page 074-078)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span></p>
<ul>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">having strategies to actually turn lead into customer 😀👍</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Testimonials should be genuine from past customers to attract newer ones especially in the service industry&nbsp;</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Guarantee is warranty for customer&nbsp;</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Company and team profile shud be disclosed when their credentials and qualifications are of value to the service you provide then only the customer can have faith in buying</span></li>
</ul>','2024-06-29 14:35:15.571','2024-06-29 14:35:15.571',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:35:15.57',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('feb086db-c764-43d5-9633-f9f0b06ebdb2','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>我们都需要关系的维持，不只是孤独一人的面对。</p>
<p>现在用不到，未来不一定用不到。</p>','2024-06-29 14:37:14.81','2024-06-29 14:37:14.81',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:37:14.81',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4c87f48b-b496-4f4b-afe2-71281a26c6fe','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>關係確實是一門大學問，從自小的親情到有生活圈子的友情，直到我們捕獲自己生活的愛情，又回到親情的建立，若能如魚得水保持良好及满意的關係，那就是健康与幸福的起點。虽然說&ldquo;與家庭成員互動通常是迫於義務，和朋友在一起則主要是為了開心&rdquo;, 但只要能拿出誠心相待，相信复雜的關係就能持續有愛，而轉化為&ldquo;友伴式愛情&rdquo;.</p>','2024-06-29 14:43:43.092','2024-06-29 14:43:43.092',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:43:43.091',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('17c8075e-728a-4cee-8303-235bf669e925','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>关系需要经营。只有舒坦的关系才可以让我们无后顾之忧地地做好事情。做为一个高高在上的领导，首先需要经营良好的人际关系。真诚为人，与人为善，无须刻意。</p>','2024-06-29 14:48:08.912','2024-06-29 14:48:08.912',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 14:48:08.911',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('59a63a39-90cb-4ee0-a748-3d111f4491e6','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>对宗教信仰的追求，会随年龄增长而改变。在接触信仰的旅程上，能拥有良师的培伴，也会令事半工倍。</p>','2024-06-29 14:16:20.253','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63b9433b-04cd-4bc2-8393-6f9999ee24c8','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>要培养以信仰增长性灵的发展，必须克服拖延的习惯，投入时间，安排冥想，阅读相关的知识以作培养。</p>','2024-06-29 14:34:58.068','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63b41264-a7e3-4a27-963f-30fbe601405c','427944ca-335d-4f0b-b95a-8f4a5bfbf25c','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>如果人人都根「刺」，我們將會謹慎地活著，不再覺得生活和日子是理所當然。我反而從保羅的經歷裡看見神的愛。因為愛，所以即使有刺，保羅仍舊能夠成就。</p>','2024-06-29 14:58:44.489','2024-07-09 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026','2024-07-09 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b369b399-d047-4368-9e35-b7c020796f3b','2f505f70-db25-49ee-9524-3cf23b2d3cbc','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>這章節，是讀書至此我最最喜歡的一章。</p>
<p>"我不希望發生那件事....但如果你感謝生命....你得全部都感謝，不能只挑一部份感謝"。</p>
<p>或許就是這樣的，演化沒有淘汰憂傷的原因，在於憂傷能帶來認知上的好處。</p>','2024-06-29 15:08:30.149','2024-07-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003','2024-07-11 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('de7bc68d-a1b3-4927-9dba-b3b762d3cdc8','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 158 - 163</p>
<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>工作狂最常忽略的两种关系</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>奋斗者通常忽略的两种关系：恋爱与亲密的友谊</p>
<p>关系满意度才是健康与幸福的重点</p>
<p>幸福的秘诀不是陷入爱河，而是持续有爱，而这要仰赖心理学家所说的【友伴式爱情】</p>
<p>如果与亲友的关系紧密良好，即便单身也能幸福</p>','2024-06-29 15:10:26.086','2024-06-29 15:10:26.086',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 15:10:26.085',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a5f5d06e-333d-4b43-8843-fc19871ce5b7','aeb150c0-8e79-4d78-be24-2a95024a2696','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>维持像友谊般的关系如婚姻关系，可以走的更远，沟通更为顺畅。通常健康的心理关系的人，都拥有亲密好朋友，创造幸福感以及陪伴渡过孤独感。</p>','2024-06-29 15:11:43.362','2024-06-29 15:11:43.362',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-29 15:11:43.361',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab5349c4-9519-46f1-bde7-d8ed0d9af21f','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>所有人都获益，同时更高效，更稳健的新交易结构，就是&ldquo;新零售&rdquo;。从作者的案例来看，代理商的优势和存在会慢慢的消失和被取代，品牌体验馆将会是新趋势。</p>','2024-08-26 09:37:11.414','2024-08-26 09:37:11.414',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 09:37:11.413',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('be917cac-1923-40ca-a636-ba5721808e93','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>在別人的人生裡所認識的我可能有幾百個版本，真的是一個很有趣的現象。</p>
<p>哪一個我是最真的？也許不是我認識的那個我！</p>
<p>人的一生所有的艱難和苦難都是最好的安排。那些都是珍貴的學習機會。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-06 15:24:45.265','2024-09-06 15:24:46.834',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:24:46.833',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b17a6889-8e7b-405b-978d-700e15d656a9','6763357d-93b0-4762-8330-91fab5a98a48','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;真正的累是心是，不是身体累，累的源頭在于自已不在別人，把重心放在事上一定累 ，把重心放在人上就不會累。</p>
<p>活在當下是人生唯一重要的事，心在就會帶着生命前進，前進到有力量 ，也能帶着別人的生命前進 。</p>
<p>活</p>','2024-09-23 09:18:45.878','2024-09-24 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-09-24 00:00:00.013','2024-09-24 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3cb51958-7b28-4f2a-84e2-d1d918fed362','2b29e337-9a61-4278-8c2b-df277a4a67aa','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>C2C模式在激活二手市场、优化交易流程、提升用户体验方面的巨大潜力，启发我在自身领域中思考如何通过简化流程来提升竞争力与效率。</p>','2024-09-25 15:28:58.103','2024-09-25 15:28:58.103',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:28:58.102',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5bd3fbd8-96e8-4eaa-a35b-2cd0ab093e61','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">学［听话］，就是</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">用</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">心听</span></p>
<p>当别人说话<br>不插嘴，不妄断<br>不心不在焉<br>每一句话结结实实给听进去<br>如何修？<br>不断提醒<br>不断练习<br>不断做到<br>习惯成自然</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>学［说话］<br>1. 别人不问，不轻易说<br>2. 必要说时，几句就好<br>3. 说时整个人都在，心放在听者上<br>4.说话留下空间<br>5.说的都是自己正在做的</p>
<p>练习<br>1不说<br>2少说<br>3为人说</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>学［赞美］<br>以助人为目的<br>无我为人，修行也</p>','2024-09-15 02:03:12.578','2024-09-15 02:05:41.74',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 02:05:41.74',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3668868-7549-4785-8a69-85baabdb40f3','05566191-e261-4871-9aca-8bb3f945ac17','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 36：9月19日《新零售狂潮》第四章：短路经济：环节愈短，效率愈高</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">定倍率（Page188-193）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">定倍率就是商品的零售价除以成本价得到的倍数。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">100元成本的东西卖500元，定倍率是5。</span></p>
<p class="p2">，</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">化妆品、首饰、眼镜等商品的定倍率高於十。香水是市场的780元，原材料才15元。定倍率为50。</span></p>','2024-09-19 14:09:30.119','2024-09-19 14:09:30.119',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:09:30.118',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章： 领导的修炼11. 成功后的恐惧症候群 &ndash; 12. 不是英雄 就别领导（Page259-264）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">成功后的恐惧症后群</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">心病终须心药医</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">重点不在成败本身，而是你从其中学到了什么。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不是英雄就别领导</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">英雄式的领导具备四种特征：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一、自觉：了解自己的长处，短处价值和时间观。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">二、才智：在不断变化的世界里充满自信的创新与调适。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">三、爱心：人与正面及关怀的态度与他人交往。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">是、英雄豪气：豪情奔放的熊雄图激励自己和他人。。</span></p>','2024-09-27 10:15:41.279','2024-09-28 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>失去絕對是最大的恐懼。</p>
<p>我投資經營20年，回報上百倍，我唯有把它看成慈善事業，才能接受他，就算歸零也無所謂。這樣晚上才睡得著。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我的英雄就是馬斯克。</p>
<p>我暫時缺少的是英雄豪氣，曾經想要當台灣總統，一直在思考自己的立足點是什麼，才可以用英雄豪氣去激勵我的團隊。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-28 11:48:49.344','2024-09-28 11:48:49.344',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 11:48:49.343',NULL,NULL);
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<p>推卸责任很容易，但是我们可以让自己对自己负责，掌握主动权。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>关注自己的影响圈</p>
<p>消极的人会一直看着关注圈。但是太过关注了，会导致多想，焦虑，停滞不前。</p>
<p>积极主动的人会关注自己的影响圈。积极的人会专注自己力所能及的事，并且慢慢扩大自己的影响圈。</p>
<p>扩大影响圈</p>
<p>做事，专注于事情本身，不需要把太多的事情放在情绪，是非上。专注事情本身，考虑周全，让自己能力提起来，积极主动做事，提高自己的能力，和影响圈。</p>','2024-09-29 11:56:46.766','2024-09-29 11:56:46.766',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-29 11:56:46.765',NULL,NULL);
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<p>而我也認為，貝多芬不是世間的人。</p>
<p>對於苦難的人，他們並沒有人們想像的輕鬆和自由，伴隨著他們的是許多難以想像的苦楚。我想起了貝多芬，也想起了梵谷，還有香港作家西西。</p>
<p>這或許像書裡作者說的「當你誠實虛心面對自己的弱點，你將更能自在做自己」。</p>','2024-06-29 15:15:51.6','2024-07-12 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009','2024-07-12 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>当经销商不再有利润，那谁还愿意继续经营？</p>
<p>品牌商的体验馆，也将在新零售中占据一个话题点。</p>','2024-08-26 11:21:22.782','2024-08-26 11:21:22.782',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 11:21:22.781',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d160bb13-b5e6-4afa-b3dd-357386e36385','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day20：9月 6日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;8. 跟随让人突破 &ndash; 9. 分身既镜子（Page127-131）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">超喜欢这句话，生活的限制是&rdquo;想&rdquo;，生命的突破是无想的&rdquo;做&rdquo;。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">别人视角中无数碎片化的自己，有助我们发现自我的完整拼图。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">了解这个真相就不能发泄过度在意别人对自己看法是有意义的。</span></p>','2024-09-06 15:26:57.031','2024-09-06 15:26:57.031',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:26:57.03',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('41e9db31-275a-4252-8dec-e3848733631c','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>这篇文章让我反思朋友的三分层次。功利型的朋友，真正的朋友和完美友谊。我三个部分的层次都有，最高哪一层是最少的。而且我们的关系是接近配偶的关系，很奥妙。我会建立更多这样的完美友谊，大家一起往同样的使命出发，互相扶持。</p>','2024-06-29 15:54:20.511','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b18f9a4d-6f45-4376-b03a-9a508eb1616d','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>当年龄越来越大，更注重的是质而不是量。</p>
<p>以前的FB朋友很多，但真正关注的渐渐变少。朋友也一样，真正可以一起聊一起玩的也越来越少。</p>
<p>我有好几个知心朋友，我觉得我是幸福的！❤️</p>','2024-06-29 16:02:53.373','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac026d0d-d460-44d5-822e-fcd70507eca0','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>把要事第一做好，人生的大石头就会兼顾得好。</p>
<p>建立关系如建立信任一样需要付出很多时间与耐心，莫等到情感账户干枯了才来挽救。</p>','2024-06-29 16:11:53.291','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('23455de6-4367-4c48-b73d-0478a2cb9a1e','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>优先顺序</p>
<p>我们常常会不会摆错位，把不重要的东西放在第一位。</p>
<p>要成功就要做好首要任务，达到首要成就。不要追求表象的成功，逃避自己的本职。</p>
<p>知道做到。</p>
<p>知道做不到。</p>
<p>不知道，做不到。</p>','2024-06-29 15:55:09.232','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('df3d49a9-47a5-449b-9466-e8b430a5f48b','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>品格决定成败。种善因得善果。恶有恶报。</p>
<p>内在的品格远比才能，智力，环境重要，真的。</p>
<p>改变并非容易的事。但是不是不可能的事。</p>
<p>要成功必须看看自己的品格，然后改掉不好的习惯。</p>','2024-06-29 16:13:35.432','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f341af25-0628-49a9-ac5e-3c1648c72e06','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>线上线下结合是必须的，否则不易在竞争激烈的环境生存。</p>','2024-09-06 15:27:26.9','2024-09-06 15:27:26.9',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:27:26.9',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d550b3d1-6e32-4c3c-a354-e4809704fe3e','f1497574-e296-4316-8620-4c77f1d25124','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>在刺激与回应之间，人们有选择的自由。</p>
<p>人类有特殊的天赋：自我意识、想象力、良知、独立意志，可不受本能和平日训练的制约。</p>','2024-09-27 10:21:34.689','2024-09-27 10:21:34.689',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-27 10:21:34.688',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27501459-68cb-4a98-bfa5-b3741a3aec46','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','fd00afa6-39f6-4b3c-95b4-4d413e535fb9','<ol>
<li>不是每个人都能找到自己热爱的工作，但至少要找到合适自己的工作并从其中找到对自己和他人的意义所在。</li>
<li>用心感受每一个当下，真心对待每一个瞬间。</li>
<li>念头一转，放下妄想和执着，离苦得乐就不远了。</li>
</ol>','2024-09-19 14:27:01.922','2024-09-19 14:27:08.748',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:27:08.748',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f9f3668-284a-4b50-ac2d-3ded56f37c4e','0fcaef92-e4f4-42a8-b0c2-0f3521178269','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 10 &nbsp;9月25日 (星期三）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;<br>😇第二章 072页 - 074页<br>&nbsp;<br>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li>所见决定所做， 所做决定所获。</li>
<li>思维决定行为，行为决定结果。</li>
</ul>
<p>即使小小的变化，也可以促进新的行为持续，最后变成习惯。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>七个习惯提供一种方法，一份条理的模式，一种思维方式，帮助更好看清，找到方向，实现目标和解决问题。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🌹让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！<br>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 15:29:50.835','2024-09-25 15:29:50.835',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:29:50.834',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('747909f6-fd88-46bc-88ce-2184712c358b','e7bf3b26-40b9-4c41-a81b-c14d593b45be','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>先診斷，後開方。但是要能在&rdquo;自傳式回應&ldquo; 的理解下，提醒自己。</p>','2024-09-28 12:14:21.418','2024-10-28 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-10-28 00:00:00.011','2024-10-28 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1088a55-3e5f-40b9-97a5-953f43bf7665','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">30</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">30</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/6/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">日）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.1</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">63-167</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">亞里斯多德将友谊分为几个层级：在底部的是功利型的友情，情感连结最弱，益处也最少；更高阶的朋友则是为了快乐&mdash;&mdash;虽然比功利型高一阶，但基本上依旧是工具性质；最高阶的是「完美友谊」&mdash;&mdash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN">这种友谊致力于促进彼此的幸福，你们对某秉符合道德的好事有共同的热爱，一起追求超越自我的事物。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">2018</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">年孤独调查研究显示：受访者多常感到沒有懂自己。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">54%</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">的受访者表示，他们</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「永远」或「偶尔」有这种感受。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">研究显示，男性通常比女性更难交朋友。女性交朋友一般是为了社交与情绪支持，男性的友谊则更可能來自从事共同的活动，包括工作。換句话说，女性有更多真朋友，男性有更多生意上的朋友。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">友谊关乎人生下半场的幸福，且十分关鍵。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">无数研究显示：中年之后的重大幸福特征，就是能不假思索，说出几个知己的名字。</span></strong></p>','2024-06-25 02:25:29.238','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('42636083-4879-4901-bd87-bcdfcf6f44a0','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>友谊分为几种层级：</p>
<ol>
<li>功利型：情感联结最弱、益处最少，有目的的，互蒙其利。</li>
<li>工具性质：为了快乐、有喜欢、与仰慕彼此的地方，喜欢对方内在性质。</li>
<li>完美友谊：致力促进彼此幸福，一起追求超越自我的事物</li>
</ol>
<p>加深友谊，深刻的议题：幸福、爱与性灵。</p>
<p>交友是需要练习、时间与投入的技能。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-26 06:16:03.95','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('633c4d18-ef43-4731-858f-e6e8f958fcc4','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>WOW 这里有真朋友、生意上的朋友和完美友谊。</p>
<p>生意上的朋友为功利型友谊，情感连结最弱。</p>
<p>好朋友是为了快乐、彼此欣赏对方风趣、好玩、漂亮或聪明等，内在特质。</p>
<p>但依旧是工具性质的友谊。</p>
<p>完美友谊会因某种符合道德的好事有共同热爱 一起追求超越自我的事物。</p>
<p>这种友谊可以来自宗教信仰、对社会理念的热情，不功利，大家彼此分享热情以及内心的渴望。</p>
<p>问问自己 我多久没有培养真正的友谊？</p>
<p>不假思索可以说出几个知己的名字？</p>
<p>与朋友建立关系时 可以谈谈幸福、爱与性灵。</p>
<p>这时友谊可以加深 有时就蜻蜓点水之交。</p>','2024-06-26 12:16:30.311','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5e0f4e9-129f-4ad3-8bbe-f3d4d0dc222b','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>我也在思考真友谊的朋友，想到的是工作后，便很难结交真正可以聊心事的好朋友，得反思一下！</p>','2024-06-29 13:44:12.475','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('23a8233c-eb55-4be8-a908-21a27b8bfa9c','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>在商場與职場上的朋友，多是有利益關係，很難交心。真朋友是能講心的可以促進彼此幸福的，知己能有共同熱愛的事物，一起追求超越自我的事物，這種友情不近功利，分享你的熱情，追求內心的東西，而不當成手段。</p>','2024-06-28 06:29:27.223','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1c37eb9-6dd5-44e2-af2e-1b66617cbb8d','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>中年之后的重大幸福特征，就是能不假思索，说出几个知己的名字。</p>','2024-06-28 07:14:58.162','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ae4b8cac-7900-42c7-ade6-97f4c303cbd1','33ec7ac3-58a4-43c0-be75-8dad7c8aabb3','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>I am looking into upgrading my demos and sampling as well as provide free trials of the machine. Ya good tips in the book.&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 15:16:18.381','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1905f87-63fc-434f-b80f-0a03d2f137d2','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>友谊分为几种层级：</p>
<p>功利主义的友情</p>
<p>完美友谊</p>
<p>混合型</p>
<p>你有&ldquo;真朋友&rdquo;吗？</p>','2024-06-28 11:32:04.977','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a38c4c5c-53ed-4a72-80aa-cd2504acd799','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>真朋友无需多，只要能坦诚相待，分享与关怀，不求功利，在危机時刻能及時伸出援手。</p>','2024-06-29 07:14:18.957','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29f13f86-c42b-457c-85cb-8ad343e0d02a','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>很好的深思，真的朋友=知己</p>
<p>生意上的朋友=互相成功、利益</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 09:08:37.267','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ba8f02f2-de28-45e4-a555-aa36a3400a30','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>仔细想想，我确实商场上的朋友比较多，至于真朋友是有的，那种真心交的，五个手指数完😁</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 13:40:49.219','2024-06-30 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028','2024-06-30 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('008ef313-6450-4880-9398-1a3e265787e6','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day9：8月 26日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二章： 可以不一样4. 管好念头 &ndash; 6. 放下评判心（Page060-065）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人一生重复最多次的、不是呼吸而是念头，很惊讶超过百亿。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">这些不受控制的念头，会影响健康，诱发情绪，决定人际关系、事业成败、人生的方向和意义。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生最重要的事，就是管好自己的【念头】。要管好一件事，首先要能【看见】，看见自己想什么？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">找回真心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">置心一处，就能启用；置于何处，且问初衷。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">稻盛和夫：只充实的度过今天，就能看见美好的明日，因为无论是什么工作，只要全力以赴，就能产生很大的成就感和自信心，让人更积极的挑战下一个目标。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">无论发生什么事，用真心才不会错过；无论有什么疑惑，用真心自有答案；前途茫茫时，真心会带着你开创坦途；真心不会带来烦恼、包袱和业障。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">活在当下不容易，尝试稻盛和夫方法；不管怎样，竭力尽全力、专心致志、全神贯注于当前份内之事，这样，渐渐的在痛苦之中逐步产生喜悦感和成就感，自然会大转变。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">凡事皆有初衷。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">放下评判心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当完全接受、臣服于当下时，终于放下头脑、得失、开始享受过程。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">放下评断、臣服于发生、尽其在我，就是活在当下！</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-26 12:04:54.261','2024-08-26 12:04:54.261',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 12:04:54.26',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c834724-1587-4d2d-9536-ca737bf8f5c2','cf1d9957-66ce-45c3-84cb-df8823480d25','936da307-54f9-4bdd-8d1b-a0e16f23d864','<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">「自卑情結」有兩種呈現方式：</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Aptos; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Aptos; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">因爲我不</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">沒</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">缺</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">XXX</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">，所以我沒法</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">YYY</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Aptos; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Aptos; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">如果我有了</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">XXX</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">，那我一定能</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">YYY</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">沒有人能長期忍受自卑狀態，所以一定會設法擺脫。健康的方法就是自我增值，二二不健康的方式就用自卑情結來暗示自己回避無能感，以維護自尊。</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">「優越情節」：可以展現自己展現</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">炫耀自己的優勢，甚至僞造</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">虛構</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">誇大這些自己看重的優勢，拉出【等級</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">權威】差距，透過這個差距獲得正向回饋，以滿足虛榮的自尊需求。</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">并非真的優秀，實際上是靠權威來墊高優越感。（沒了權威就是</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> tin kosong</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">）</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">「權威」是別人的價值觀，靠遵守別人的游戲規則（權勢、金錢），來膨脹自己的虛榮，但卻沒法真正的充實自尊，一旦失去「權威」，就會回到低價值狀態</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">包括活在過去的榮光、想當年勇，都是「優越情節」的表現，靠過去的成就來膨脹當下的自尊，實際上卻因沒有自我增值，現在已經缺乏能力和價值。</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">【</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">pride</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">】是「優越情節」的表現，刻意誇耀自己的優越</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">/</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">特別，來掩飾真正的「不穩感」（自卑感）。</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">【炫耀不幸】，誇大與沉浸在自己的【不幸遭遇】，好似沒人能懂自己的遭遇，來凸顯自己的【特別性】（至少他自己覺得很特別）</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">把不幸當成武器，來</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> trigger </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">別人的憐憫（越特別越憐憫）。這模式是沿用嬰兒處於最脆弱，卻有最容易獲得助力的模式。我猜這類人應該是小時候最受保護的，一點傷痛都會獲得重要他人的照顧，這個模式不斷被沿用，因爲他深信這個方法能「支配」在乎他的人。</span></p>
<p><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Aptos; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Aptos; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">「不幸與脆弱」是他支配人的手段，因此他必須永遠處於「不幸與脆弱」的狀態，無法成長和發展。</span></p>','2025-06-26 18:14:29.129','2025-07-01 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2025-07-01 00:00:00.009','2025-07-01 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0160cf72-ede6-4dd0-953f-80b5e37fa38a','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>How will you measure your life?这本书有很多跟7 habit of highly effective person相象.</p>
<p>Example-put thing first,focus 大石头, focus relationships by first seek to understand and to be understood.</p>','2024-06-30 02:05:31.177','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e1dda38-a8cb-4812-ac3f-06d962de0962','5ebb7805-a99c-4c88-b2fb-253204799581','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>要真诚善良地对待每个人，保持清醒，养成阳光的生活习惯，活出当下自己喜欢的开心快乐的方式。</p>','2024-08-26 12:55:49.088','2024-08-26 12:55:49.088',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 12:55:49.088',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e140cf9-f751-4094-a8c6-9e861627ca36','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>把伴侣当朋友的同时，也有有自己的知己与好友。</p>
<p>这样才可以有一个平衡，一个人的世界不能只属于一个人或是一件事情或是一个岗位。</p>','2024-06-30 02:57:40.655','2024-06-30 02:57:40.655',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 02:57:40.654',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d9598cd-bfa3-419b-97b9-6e85eca6c4ec','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>今天这一篇文提醒了我要好好经营友谊。</p>
<p>原来真朋友是这么定义，并非是聊得来就算是朋友了。</p>
<p>真朋友是当遇到难处或有心事的时候，会马上想到他，即便不是找对方处理，只是谈心。&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 03:21:41.236','2024-06-30 03:21:41.236',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 03:21:41.235',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3826ee55-88cd-460c-b3a8-72b79a80335e','c9e40b89-e7c9-4b28-8aa3-1eef72b5fefa','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>真诚地、热情地、专业地对待工作，对得起自己的人格，就是对自己的职业的尊重。</p>
<p>每个人应该追求合理、保持健康轻松的状态、热情自由地、坚信每一个不曾起舞的日子都是对生命的辜负。创造自己的工作计划与目标，能够帮忙创造有价值的自己。</p>','2024-09-06 15:38:13.312','2024-09-06 15:38:13.312',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:38:13.311',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2b9dbe92-b9b6-4fdc-9d0f-aec25cadb3f5','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>友谊有分层级。从最低到最高。最低的是功利型又情，情感最弱。以利益为主。</p>
<p>高一层的朋友是为了快乐。喜欢对方的风趣，好玩，依旧是工具性质。</p>
<p>最高阶级的是完美友谊。有共同的热爱和追求。不功利，不讲手段。</p>','2024-06-30 05:37:40.846','2024-06-30 05:37:40.846',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 05:37:40.845',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f7264fd-7141-435c-a343-61fca25ca687','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','a1b3cb7c-f3c4-4ffb-82dc-fe72e7a3628c','<p>中年之後的重大幸福是就是不假思索說出幾個知己的名字。人生下半場需要人際連接幫助自己攀上第二曲線。婚姻與家人不足於取代親密友誼。</p>','2024-06-30 08:11:33.292','2024-06-30 08:11:33.292',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 08:11:33.291',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fc142eb4-4a56-42fd-a0a4-859b020f95c8','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>我很看重友谊</p>
<p>但是谁把我们当作真正的朋友，就要看我们如何经营。是的，是商场的朋友还是真心朋友这个让我们重新思索。</p>','2024-06-30 09:03:13.394','2024-06-30 09:03:23.509',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 09:03:23.508',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('73563c30-8592-4d25-b5ba-4ffb1bca9586','5da7e621-68d1-4f28-9636-630c86d9d4e5','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作和生活的意义在于心态的调整。作者提到的&ldquo;重新定义工作&rdquo;让我意识到，找到工作的意义和价值，才能真正享受其中。比如，有时候我在工作中感到疲惫，但如果能把它看作是实现自我价值的机会，心态就会变得积极。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">另外，作者提到的&ldquo;离苦得乐&rdquo;的方法也让我深有感触。我们常常被外界的压力和烦恼困扰，但如果能抽离出来，关注内心，反而能找到解决问题的办法。就像我在忙碌时，偶尔停下来深呼吸，反而能更清晰地思考，找到更好的解决方案。</span></p>','2024-09-19 14:27:30.942','2024-09-19 14:27:30.942',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:27:30.941',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('33313e9b-3c77-4a42-bc94-f411bcd1a45a','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>要如何衡量你的人生？</p>
<p>这里有3部分练习 避免落入工作狂与成功瘾的陷阱 并可以培养带来有满足感的人际关系。</p>
<ol>
<li>事先分配时间 ：比如设定一个星期日一段时间 花一个小时想象自己处于人生尽头 爱的人都在身边 想着他们对我说些什么？然后回到现实中分配接下来几个星期的时间 如何培养关系。</li>
<li>做自己的核心要务 ：关系里 我们需要给人想要与需要的东西 而不是看自己的方便。哈哈 简单一点，我有被利用的价值在哪里？</li>
<li>聪明投资 ：了解每个你爱的人的要做的3件事，然后想尽办法协助他们在人生中达成这3件事。</li>
</ol>','2024-06-30 02:26:09.557','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f95cb40b-4460-4a7c-b3d4-67705f193008','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>人生基本有2种目标：</p>
<ol>
<li>内在目标 ：追求长远关系带来的满足感</li>
<li>外在目标 ：财色名食睡</li>
</ol>
<p>来到人生第二曲线 内在目标才是真正需要的。</p>
<p>建立关系、分享智慧 是第二曲线重新出发的核心要务。</p>
<p>与其死命抵抗职涯衰退的趋势 不如抓住美好的机会 走向喜悦泉源</p>
<p>学习懂得爱人与被爱 从容跨过第一曲线换到第二曲线</p>
<p>Agape 是人对神圣的爱。属于最顶级与最喜乐的爱 带来难以形容的狂喜。</p>
<p>但努力在世俗成功的人不容易感受这种爱。因为他们的信念只有世俗的奖励。</p>
<p>但来到人生第二曲线 我们可以如何得到Agape呢</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 02:56:10.345','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06854804-7db8-4992-b588-b0035567ba38','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>古印度理论中的阶段Ashrama 谈如何在开悟中走过幸福中年。</p>
<p>第一阶段：学生期 Brahmacharya 这是中华四季的春 出世期到20岁左右，旨在学习和吸收养分阶段 每个阶段为约20年。</p>
<p>第二阶段：家居期 Grihastha 这是四季里的夏 大概20岁到40岁当中 正是事业发展阶段 也是许多人开始步入名闻利养的阶段 为世俗奖励而奋斗 自我物化 却陷入无法满足 内心空虚的陷阱</p>
<p>第三阶段：林栖期Vanaprastha 这是四季里的秋 这个阶段人开始思考重新调整人生目标，比如退隐公私责任，投入性灵、深度智慧、晶体智力、教导与信仰。</p>
<p>第四阶段：循世Sannyasa 这是四季里的冬 也是老年时最后性灵阶段 步入开悟果实 获得内心喜悦</p>
<p>衰老是自然现象。但偏有人逆向思考 奋力抵抗这种自然现象。</p>
<p>认识自己 就是人生这辈子的功课。</p>
<p>往内心寻求。当心平静下来后 我们会发现里头一直等着自己的宝藏。</p>','2024-06-30 03:21:51.935','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7fd089ba-4612-41e9-acbd-e91a6ec495f2','3a0f73bf-a222-4322-84b8-96b6760e4865','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>就算过去忽视人生 一旦处于人生转型阶段</p>
<p>开始对信仰与超越方面的成长感兴趣&nbsp;</p>
<p>这都是符合人类发展阶段的方向</p>
<p>没有必要抗拒。</p>
<p>信仰让人进入宇宙 思考真理的源头、生命的起源、他人的好处</p>
<p>这些都引人入胜 让人探索人生的意义与秘密，让人喜悦、快乐。</p>','2024-06-30 03:33:48.801','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7c3eb4a9-504e-4b19-8d70-a7b7e5b16398','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','ef10631b-65db-4272-af44-c5d7da8f94f4','<p>三成层智慧</p>
<p>要双赢</p>
<p>看长远</p>','2024-12-03 15:59:10.217','2024-12-03 15:59:54.62',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:59:54.619',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ba461fa-ce12-4ccc-8d19-156b107dd474','22a20a6c-e780-4bfd-8e6d-7b2b1e7b7694','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>好市多，以超优价和会员制成就了美国零售之巅</p>','2024-09-15 02:21:18.395','2024-09-21 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01','2024-09-21 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('077e2b9f-990f-4997-96ed-d6a54eec96f5','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>你有真朋友，還是商場上的朋友？再把它延伸到工作上的朋友？突然感覺似有似無，看来是需要認真去培養真正的友誼了.&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 10:59:26.14','2024-06-30 10:59:39.531',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 10:59:39.53',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2094c67a-9ca4-49f6-b432-ad056cffbad3','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>有时候会觉得，所有事情都很重要，到底哪个是最重要的？时间管理对于我这个有选择困难症 + 无法 multitasking 的人来说，简直太难了，因为每次都在困扰，到底要先做什么事呢？每次我的办法是，每天花一些时间，将当天需要做的事情写下来，并决定我的大石头（紧急+重要的事），还有那些能够帮助提升自我的事（如：读书会 :D）。现在我还在练习中，希望有一天能够完全成为自律的人 :)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我之前听过一句话 &ldquo;真心换真心&rdquo;，我很同意这句话。只有自己拥有真心，找到自己的初衷，遵从原则，才能换来别人对你的真心。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>每个人都不是100% 完美的，所以不要评判别人，更不要批判自己。要学会接受别人的优点和缺点，更要接受自己的优点和缺点。</p>','2024-08-26 13:07:15.412','2024-08-26 13:07:15.412',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 13:07:15.411',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f159a2ea-b729-4270-98ad-8e170761a625','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>这一段内容让我反思，我究竟有没有真朋友？生意上的朋友是肯定很多的。真正的朋友呢？我年轻的时候居无定所，经常搬迁，之前曾经统计过，换过二十多次地址。小学同学就分两批，中学一批，学院一批，真正从小到大的朋友没有。旧同事里的老友是有的，算是真朋友吗？这是我必须好好思考并开始改变的。</p>','2024-06-30 11:54:23.948','2024-06-30 11:54:23.948',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 11:54:23.947',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('99496970-f7a0-4b32-8083-2995b5659ddf','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>随着年纪越大，交心的朋友知己也会越来越少，一定要好好珍惜</p>
<p>朋友能是我们感到快乐幸福，让我们更容易跳上第二曲线，但不应该是很刻意，有利用性质的交友</p>
<p>为了工作上的便利，往往会把时间花在和工作上的朋友培养感情，但他们走后友谊就淡了，很明显不是长久最真诚的友谊；不该因为这些短暂的友谊而忽略了自己的挚友，交心的知己。</p>','2024-06-30 12:02:42.011','2024-06-30 12:02:42.011',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 12:02:42.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c4c2a8e9-6560-43a2-ae39-849295e92616','0845c5b0-66ec-432c-bf3f-e541ae5a1b2d','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>生命的限制是&ldquo;想&rdquo;，生命的突破是无想的&ldquo;做&rdquo;，但最震撼的，是&ldquo;跟随&rdquo;的力量。作者想告诉我们，不要因为自己有高职位，就决定自己与其他人都厉害，而是应该放下自己，学会做到与别人一样，老老实实的跟随，不要聪明反被聪明误。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>接受与面对别人对我们的看法非常重要。他们的看法像镜子，帮助我们了解真实的自己。</p>','2024-09-06 15:47:03.618','2024-09-06 15:47:03.618',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:47:03.617',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ce386f20-9af0-410d-b6f6-dd5e71fa27b2','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>真朋友与商业朋友，这种分类的确重要。一种会带来幸福快乐，一种是商场利益之友。</p>','2024-06-30 13:19:28.403','2024-06-30 13:19:28.403',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:19:28.403',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89ed9a7b-357f-4a7e-9b2b-9c4e8b246ab4','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>有点玄。</p>
<p>除了商场上/有利益关系的朋友，真的朋友，在当今高效能和现实的社会，越来越少。一般人都认为是在浪费时间/消耗生命。</p>
<p>在几个爱好中，应该是高尔夫球能够让我活动到很大的年纪，又有同伴的运动。应该考虑再次提升球技，考取教练执照，回馈社会。</p>','2024-06-30 12:35:21.866','2024-06-30 12:36:08.545',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 12:36:08.544',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('534b6dad-51e5-41b9-a05c-f5d52c01c495','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>友谊知己可能都会经历过生活上的一些磨合才能达到真正的一份情谊。中年之后的重大幸福特征，就是能不假思索的说出几个知己的名字。需要重新思索真心友谊在生活中的角色。</p>','2024-06-30 12:44:23.035','2024-06-30 12:44:23.035',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 12:44:23.034',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89c967b0-c91b-47e7-a4a0-9d7211596f86','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">完美友谊，是致力于促进彼此的幸福，一起追求超越自我的事物、对某种符合道德的好事有共同的热爱。这种友谊可能来自宗教信仰或是对社会理念有热情。因此要让社交生活建立在聊更深刻的议题，比如谈幸福、爱与性灵。</span></p>','2024-06-30 13:14:50.636','2024-06-30 13:14:50.636',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:14:50.635',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8aa160df-398e-426e-beb6-32001ed4d333','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">天猫小店利用用户地址来分析杂货铺附近的用户在淘宝上的购买习惯来协助他们。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">天猫小店让杂货店/便利商店真正回归到它的本质，你家的二级库存。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们的99 Speedmart 就是大量使用近这个优势，但他们是否有用数据来赋能采购的产品就不得而知了。</span></p>','2024-09-06 15:55:11.299','2024-09-06 15:55:11.299',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:55:11.298',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('48ba556b-5cb9-45ea-95a3-3474652e0d98','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>真正的朋友 vs 工作上的朋友 (功利）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>亚里斯多认为最高阶的是 【完美友谊】 ： 这种友谊致力与促进彼此的幸福，对某种符合道德的热爱，一起追求超越自我的事物。这种友谊不功利。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>为何说到此事？ 因为幸福指数高的人有多过一位完美友谊。因此我们必须在此下功夫。&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 13:16:37.848','2024-06-30 13:16:38.679',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:16:38.679',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('277ef012-d847-49b6-99c6-4433570c8b34','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>友谊分为几种层级，从低到最高.<br>在底部是功利性的友情, 高階的朋友促进彼此的幸福快乐.</p>','2024-06-30 14:25:40.4','2024-06-30 14:25:40.4',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:25:40.399',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9dcf2e42-dcac-43b8-8ebd-eb14f55ac598','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<ol>
<li>以生命尽头为铺垫，思考生命最终重视的是什么，并开始分配时间；</li>
<li>定期列出需要加强关系的名单，并根据他们的需求提供只有我能提供的事；</li>
<li>多投资时间在协助我最爱的人完成三件事。</li>
</ol>','2024-06-30 12:40:14.027','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d0da71d-fca6-4072-99f7-2208c6469855','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>要分辨一个人追求的是首要还是次要成就，在事情发展不顺哦，最能看清。</p>','2024-06-30 11:14:48.625','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
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<p>许多努力工作，想拼出一番事业的人，有很多生意上的朋友，但没有太多真朋友，因此相当孤独。友谊对幸福来讲十分重要。研究结果显示，男性通常比女性更难交朋友。此外女性交朋友一般是为了社交与情绪支持，男性的友谊则更可能来自从事共同的活动。换句话说，女性有更多真朋友，男性有更多生意上的朋友。无数的研究都显示，中年之后的重大幸福特征，就是能不假思索，说出几个知己的名字。其实不需要相交满天下，也能够幸福。</p>','2024-06-30 13:37:55.94','2024-06-30 13:37:55.94',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:37:55.939',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac0aa7f3-f530-40ac-8af8-3b457eb53e45','33ec7ac3-58a4-43c0-be75-8dad7c8aabb3','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 16 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 &nbsp;ConversionRate</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Selling Exclusive Lines Or Limited Edition (Page 079-083)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Selling exclusive lines or limited edition -must unique , own brand . </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Offer product sampling / product demo / test drive -get good customer experience </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Try before decide- provide customer with a free trial before making - get feedback from prospect .</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Add value instead - add value to your customer - people will buy event prestige product like LV</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Before and after photo - for those who physically like lost weight , will attract people to engage your service.</span></li>
</ol>','2024-06-30 13:39:15.422','2024-06-30 13:39:15.422',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:39:15.421',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('17aaa7f0-6830-487f-af25-cdc3b4721716','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 30 ：6月30日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 你有真朋友，还是商场上的朋友？ （Page 163-167）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br><br></p>
<p>问的好，真朋友应该不会很多，因为真朋友需要互相有时间培养真正的友谊。</p>
<p>友谊分为几种层级，从低到最高，在底部是功利性的友情，情感连结最弱，益处也最少。</p>
<p>高階的朋友则是为了快乐。最高階的是完美友谊也可以促进彼此的幸福，有共同的热爱，一起追求超越的事物。这种友情不功利。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 13:42:04.009','2024-06-30 13:42:04.009',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 13:42:04.008',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7b09441f-5b7c-42fa-9db2-cf251287786f','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 30 ：6月 30日 星期日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章 ： 你有真朋友，还是商场上的朋友？ （Page 163-167）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">哈哈！是当有事情发生时，真正朋友会帮你。也要看你自己平时怎么帮人，有没有情感帐户，真诚待人！</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">把时间规划好，没有太多时间化在太多touch and go 的表面朋友。宁愿把时间放在跟有真诚的朋友一起交往。</span></p>','2024-06-30 14:24:24.212','2024-06-30 14:24:24.212',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:24:24.211',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1dac5f8-2c99-4be9-8334-91e08bbc04f9','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 3: 3/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">三）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.18~23</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">对</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">123</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">名幼儿进行长达数十年追踪研究的</span><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Perry Preschool Project</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> (1965</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">年</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">)</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">，其研究结果显示：教导孩子以优良的基本品格，对孩子的正向影响既深且远；相较于其他同齡人，这些孩子从学校毕业的机率高出许多，受雇並获得高薪的机率是其他人的兩倍，而入狱或靠政府补助金过活的机率仅有其他人的一半。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">成功的关键在于遵循恒久不变的原则，並且努力不要脫离正轨。</span></p>
<p><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">要想成功，我们就必须反思和正视自己的品格与目的，按照主宰成功的原则行事。</span></p>','2024-06-30 14:08:39.933','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6ba61563-892e-4833-8840-a23ad4e26ca7','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 4: 4/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">四）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.24~29</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">成功人士遵循的十二个有效原则：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">正直、贡献、优先目标、牺牲奉献、服务、责任、忠诚、相互性、多元性、持续学习、自我更新、教学相长。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">要分辨一个人追求的是首要还是次要成就，在事情发展不顺利时，最能看清。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">十二个槓桿並非是成功的方程式，而是获得真正成功不可或缺的基石。</span></strong></p>','2024-06-30 14:09:08.739','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
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<li>很多事情是好是坏都是在一念之间。多了惭愧心、慈悲心和感恩心，逆境对自己的磨练就不是苦，而是让人生更添一道彩虹。</li>
<li>在着急的时候会忙里有错，在气头上说的话也格外刺耳。这些时刻若可以停一停，来个深呼吸，冷静一下，就不会因匆忙或冲动而促成大错。</li>
<li>爱自己，做让自己更满意更喜欢自己的事。</li>
</ol>','2024-08-26 13:34:43.823','2024-08-27 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012','2024-08-27 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30d46b8e-a7b4-4d8a-bdf1-824dd4322c8b','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>越在乎对错、得失，就更难衡量轻重、得失，同时做出更正确的判断。</p>','2024-12-01 14:17:54.458','2024-12-01 14:17:54.458',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:17:54.457',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2949ab0-f6ad-49c3-b404-fc45994cee6d','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>博弈的智慧是共赢和感激</p>','2024-12-03 16:00:59.147','2024-12-03 16:00:59.147',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 16:00:59.117',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('81218ce0-9574-48ef-9365-9dc5d044078b','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>非暴力沟通与运用，无论对自己，对他人都有利，是社会和谐的要素。</p>','2024-12-04 13:01:55.934','2024-12-04 13:01:55.934',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:01:55.933',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8aca5c79-2ebb-4d46-bad1-8b74f156f75b','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>真朋友 vs 生意上的朋友</p>
<p>真朋友，没有利益冲突，能交心的那种。</p>
<p>生意上的朋友，以利益为交流的基础。没有利益关系，估计友情也就止步了。</p>
<p>人生中幸福的事，除了伴侣，还有两三位真朋友。彼此能交心，互相关怀，以对方为主。</p>','2024-06-30 14:29:08.3','2024-06-30 14:29:09.976',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:29:09.975',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9384cd72-560b-4b55-81ff-62a2ed634cd4','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>管好念头，自己在想什么，刚才我在想什么。认真做事，莫忘初衷，就能产生充实感，带来良性成果。</p>','2024-08-26 13:43:48.751','2024-08-26 13:43:48.751',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 13:43:48.751',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('87eae47e-a76c-4a74-916d-d22d55082966','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>人生遇到的每一道难题，都是修行，要过的去，要放得下。一切都是最好的安排。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>感谢是宇宙间的大能量，是人生解脱和突破的錀匙。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>尤其是对自己［过不去］的人，真心的说谢谢，直到可以面带微笑为止。</p>','2024-09-06 15:47:27.835','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7981024f-7d2c-4fd5-810b-939993191076','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','fd00afa6-39f6-4b3c-95b4-4d413e535fb9','<p>1.学听话实在不容易，自己的时间有限还要用心听别人的事，很多时候都做不到，不然就是即使做了也心不甘情不愿。但实在该好好修这门功课，尤其是对身边亲人，多些耐心多些关心。</p>
<p>2. 学说话，先学不用说话。</p>
<p>3.学赞美前先学会观察，如果观察细微，别人的优点或进步很容易入眼帘，那么赞美的话是真实的也是发自真心的，适时的还能给到被赞美的人力量与鼓励。</p>','2024-09-15 03:11:19.1','2024-09-15 03:11:23.568',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 03:11:23.567',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">选择积极的态度和价值观会让生活更加美好。比如，面对困难时，如果能保持乐观，反而能找到解决问题的办法。过度的善良虽然出于好意，但也要把握分寸，帮助他人时要让他们有成长的空间。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">生活中，享受美好、关注细节，才能让每一天都充满阳光。无论是与朋友分享快乐，还是在工作中追求自己的热情，这些都让我感受到生活的真实与满足。心中有爱，生活就会充满希望。</span></p>','2024-09-19 14:28:24.071','2024-09-19 14:28:24.071',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-19 14:28:24.07',NULL,NULL);
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<p>思想决定行动，行动决定习惯，习惯决定品德，品德决定命运。要想改变不良习惯，&ldquo;起飞&rdquo;需要极大的努力，但一旦脱离&ldquo;引力&rdquo;的束缚，就会迎来广阔的自由天地，创造出高效能生活所必需的凝聚力和秩序。<br>要想养成一种习惯，知识（做什么、为何做）、技巧（如何做）和意愿（想要做）三者缺一不可。<br><br>人类成长的三个阶段：依赖期、独立期和互赖期，互赖是一个更为成熟和高级的概念。<br>生理上互赖的人，可以自力更生，也更明白合作比单干更为有效；情感上互赖的人，能充分认识自己的价值，也知道爱心、关怀以及付出的必要性；智力上互赖的人懂得取人之长，补己之短。<br><br>pg63-67</p>
<p>真正的效能包含：产出（金蛋）和产能（下金蛋的鹅 - 生产的资产或能力）。</p>
<p>效能在于平衡，唯有在金蛋（产出）与鹅的健康和幸福（产能）之间取得平衡，才能实现真正的效能。</p>','2024-09-23 09:49:54.689','2024-09-23 09:49:54.689',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 09:49:54.688',NULL,NULL);
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<p>国民购买力提升，消费升级，结果就是有很多闲置物。</p>
<p>二手平台使用了短路经济的理念，简化了二手货买卖的流程：把 C-b-B-b-C，简化成 C-C。</p>
<p>大大的提高了效率。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-25 15:43:50.569','2024-09-25 15:44:01.989',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:44:01.989',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">04 闲鱼，瓜子二手车：C2C打开万亿二手市场（Page214-216）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">好奇怎么样C2C？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">C2b2B2b2C变成C2C</span></p>','2024-09-25 15:51:50.972','2024-09-25 15:51:50.972',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:51:50.971',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a714d4da-c4aa-43d9-bc7c-3f87d3399531','2b29e337-9a61-4278-8c2b-df277a4a67aa','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 42：9月25日《新零售狂潮》第四章：短路经济：环节愈短，效率愈高</p>
<p>04 闲鱼，瓜子二手车：C2C打开万亿二手市场（Page214-216）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>二手市场最大的痛点是：中间商很多，造成很多不可控因素。</p>','2024-09-25 15:57:12.9','2024-09-25 15:58:00.94',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:58:00.939',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2294b65c-daa2-4ad8-ae3d-e72312f56a14','db078fe3-fb3e-4a02-9631-8c174674a27b','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p>我们常常忙于追求结果，却忽略了团队的幸福和彼此的支持。比如，和同事合作时，如果能多一些理解和信任，工作会变得更轻松，大家也会更快乐。</p>
<p>放下对成功的执念，专注于享受过程，才能真正体会到工作的乐趣。就像在做自己喜欢的事情时，时间总是过得飞快，心情也特别好。</p>
<p>另外，培养团队的能力和幸福感是关键。帮助他人成长，不仅能提升团队的整体水平，也能让自己感到满足。</p>','2024-09-25 15:58:09.36','2024-09-25 15:58:09.36',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-25 15:58:09.359',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77074cad-ca5c-4926-92bf-3e5e90119323','5c91ae35-fe25-4058-bc23-efb07e06d81b','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 13 &nbsp;9月28日 (星期六）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;<br>😇第三章 093页 - 097页<br>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>真正接受了 "我昨日的选择决定了今日的我" ，才可能说 "我有权另做选择"</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>伤害我们的并非悲惨遭遇本身，而是我们对于悲惨遭遇的回应。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>逆境往往能激发思维转换，使人以全新的观点看待世界、自己与他人，审视生命的意义，进而思考应该如何回应。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>采取主动是实现人生产能与产出平衡的必要条件。</p>
<p>采取主动是七个习惯的必要条件和根基。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>时刻观察我们的语言。语言会暴露我们是否积极处世的真实写照 :&nbsp;消极被动的语言 vs 积极主动地语言</p>
<p><br>🌹让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！</p>','2024-09-28 12:18:29.238','2024-09-28 12:18:29.238',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 12:18:29.237',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('590d65c3-488e-4a53-a525-15696793ec62','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg163 -167</p>
<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>你有真朋友，还是商场上的朋友</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>生意上的朋友</p>
<p>友谊分为几种层次，从最低到最高</p>
<p>功利形的友情，情感连结最弱，益处也最少；</p>
<p>有喜欢和仰慕彼此的朋友，彼此喜欢对方的内在特质，也因此有比功利目的朋友高一阶，但依旧是工具性质。</p>
<p>完美友谊，致力于促进彼此的幸福，对某种符合道德的好事有共同的热爱。不功利。</p>
<p>中年之后的重大幸福特征，就是能不假思索，说出几个知名的名字。</p>
<p>可以探索幸福、爱与灵性的朋友。</p>
<p>无法和某些人建立更圆满关系，就别费精力。</p>','2024-06-30 14:31:02.558','2024-06-30 14:31:02.558',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:31:02.557',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67269b78-c769-4b85-b7ca-760ee631dfa9','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>很多时候，批评他人让我们看不见自己，念头的出现让我们只看见对方的缺点~</p>
<p>要做好一切的情绪管理，从看待别人开始</p>
<p>一切万物，反求诸己</p>','2024-08-26 13:45:51.087','2024-08-26 13:45:51.087',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 13:45:51.086',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1dbb643-8871-46d2-9642-82e549aab750','b7abe075-bc37-4188-a133-8442b8afca00','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>解决了跨度这个问题，让货来找你，不是你去找货，我们解决了供应上的问题</p>
<p>让客户马上得到他们想要的东西，这是一个能够取舍货来找你的优势</p>
<p>要嘛全世界的货自己找主人，不然就是那个货品离人够近</p>','2024-08-26 13:48:14.66','2024-09-02 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-02 00:00:00.016','2024-09-02 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('23696cd5-2b6d-4c41-af32-fa7519d77425','f40de936-aba3-4658-8302-7c2f93613505','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>现今的短视频其实就是一个例子</p>
<p>我马上想转台，马上想看什么内容，就立刻给我换</p>
<p>连广告的5秒出现，都马上恨不得给关掉</p>
<p>其实这种马上想要的心态，如果 能被满足，在商业角度里，我们就能够赚大钱</p>','2024-08-26 13:51:04.258','2024-09-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c03eadc0-3a7c-45e4-93fd-4cc870550eb5','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day 23</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">9</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月</span><span lang="EN-MY">6</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能</span><span lang="EN-MY">&ndash;&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN">线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">05&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN">天猫小店：大数据助力线下零售（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page121-127</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：<br>傳統小雜貨店面對數據，連鎖超市，電商的圍攻下，原本已經是逆境生存。然而，大數據卻賦予小雜貨店在&ldquo;近&rdquo;這個優勢上，加上針對不同社區&ldquo;客制化&rdquo;呈現，變成一個新的零售概念。</span></p>','2024-09-06 15:58:04.224','2024-09-06 15:58:04.224',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-06 15:58:04.223',NULL,NULL);
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<p>-人性的本质是<strong>主动</strong>而非被动</p>
<p>-自我思维（Self-paradigm）- 它影响我们的行为态度以及如何看待别人。如果不能客观地看待自己的方式，也就不能理解他人。因此我们无意间就会把个人意愿强加在别人身上，内心却还觉得已经很客观了。</p>','2024-09-28 12:33:09.266','2024-09-28 12:33:09.266',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 12:33:09.265',NULL,NULL);
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<li>每一天从睁开眼睛看到我爱的人和爱我的人都在身边就很感恩。事无大小，感恩每件事情的发生。</li>
<li>面对复杂的人与社会要交出自己完全的信任不易，但做人总要信，信天信地信人，最重要的是要有信念。相信信任是双向，你抛出去的亦会收回来。</li>
<li>发脾气的人也在释放求救讯号，如果能接近他们聆听他们破译这些讯号，将他们解救，何乐而不为？</li>
</ol>','2024-09-15 03:30:21.662','2024-09-16 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6b4e26e-9a3a-42e7-8b26-e4410ec8ca8f','77552dc0-d25b-47c4-a345-b948e704f433','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>最近几天身体不舒服，感觉到世事都乏味无比，做什么事都提不起劲。连吃东西也没味道。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>身体是革命的本钱，这句话是真的啊！身体才是最终的产能。没有健康的身体，谈什么产能、产出都是枉然。</p>','2024-09-23 10:03:05.793','2024-09-23 10:03:05.793',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 10:03:05.792',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e5b70753-0b4e-477a-bda5-b7a95f5851cf','edd95530-41e4-42a4-833d-ebd3b924a847','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>成功后的恐懼症候群，恐懼「失去」，恐懼无法「更上层楼」。心有恐懼，终将淪喪。</p>
<p>成功和失敗都是一门課。</p>
<p>重點不在成敗本身，而在你從中学到了什么。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>英雄领导者必须兼具：</p>
<p>自覺</p>
<p>才智</p>
<p>爰心</p>
<p>英雄豪氣</p>','2024-09-28 12:19:51.042','2024-09-28 12:24:16.152',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 12:24:16.151',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章： 领导的修炼13. 他的原意 你的愿力 &ndash; 14. 企业的最高效能（Page265-269）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我願意-讲这句话是要负责任的。将心比心，你希望别人怎么对你，那自己就先对别人好,一切都完美人生。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">企业也是如此，同事之前，谁有挑战，愿意互相帮助，企业老板自己本身也要愿意去培养同事，彼此之间的关系可以更进一步。</span></p>','2024-09-29 12:07:34.706','2024-09-29 12:07:34.706',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-29 12:07:34.705',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('231cf7a7-9119-48e2-9890-9423f9afbcee','de62930f-49c3-4fc3-8239-0f97999e3c08','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">短路经济要有两种形态：环节短路和链条反向。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是链条反向？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">链条是正常的商品供应链D-M-S-B-b-C，零售在末端。但这个再正常不过的方式也带给商业界一个坏处，那就是库存，甚至有一个专门的名字叫长鞭效应Bullwhip Effect。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最末端的零售商会预测可以卖多少再向上级代理定货，原本预测可以卖1千套，但又怕不够卖所以定了1千5百套。上级代理收到所有的订单后有1万5千套，因为怕零售商会临时追加订单所以最后向上级订购了2万套。以此类推的话到最后生产商时就会形成和真正需求很大的差距而造成不必要的库存。</span></p>','2024-09-30 01:24:31.216','2024-09-30 01:24:31.216',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-30 01:24:31.215',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4b634bee-ec12-44c5-87b9-26335f49df95','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>&ldquo;生意上的朋友&rdquo;还是&ldquo;真朋友&rdquo;。友情是需要用心付出的。虽然我们很难交到工作上的真朋友，但也可以不妨用心付出。虽然可能无法像那些从长期岁月建立起关系的真朋友，但还是可以找到战友的，那也是难能可贵。<br><br>除了家人，真朋友可以帮忙纾解压力，提升幸福感。不需要相识满天下，但几个可以随时交上喝茶的朋友还是很重要的。</p>','2024-06-30 14:33:59.834','2024-06-30 14:33:59.834',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:33:59.833',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0d489466-c4f2-464b-ab0d-668cab6b7caa','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 30 ：6月30日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 你有真朋友，还是商场上的朋友？ （Page 163-167）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>真心朋友，顾名思义，你们双方都会把内心的真实感情透露给对方，这是友谊的最高境界。<br>好朋友，没有太多精神层面上的交流，但平常相处的过程中关系很好，在物质上双方都会帮助对方的。<br>普通朋友，仅是停留在相知、相处的层面，也就比陌生人高一个等级。</p>
<p>身边有许多高级层面的，真不缺普通朋友😂</p>','2024-06-30 14:34:44.883','2024-06-30 14:34:44.883',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:34:44.882',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83b2e345-d048-48c8-bb48-727bd33e01ea','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>真心朋友是喜欢对方的内在特质，也因些比有功利目的的朋友高一階</p>','2024-06-30 14:35:28.469','2024-06-30 14:35:28.469',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:35:28.468',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f628fafd-7593-4e3e-a4c1-2ea90bc9f60d','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>有几个真正知心朋友是幸福的，亦是足矣。他们总能在需要帮忙时伸出援手、在心情低落时聆听陪伴也能在开心时无所不谈。</p>','2024-06-30 14:50:03.956','2024-06-30 14:50:03.956',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:50:03.955',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0f93c768-793d-41eb-a138-ddb2dc221392','09c24204-aa49-44e6-b5aa-fbcb1346c42c','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>7-eleven ，天猫小店 就是个非常典型的例子</p>
<p>数据赋能让他们在各区域都知道1公里范围内的居民要什么</p>
<p>而家里就变成了一个小仓库</p>
<p>解决了快 又近的问题</p>','2024-08-26 13:53:09.033','2024-09-04 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2024-09-04 00:00:00.027','2024-09-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1d76fd2-42f9-49b2-a34f-916538cb88d3','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>零售，就是连接 ''人'' 与 ''货'' 的场。</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>销售漏斗公式：</strong></p>
<p>销售额 = 流量 x 转换率 x 客单价 x 回购率</p>
<p>～流量：有多少人会进店逛逛？人流量大，可称为黄金店面&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 转换率：进店的人，有多少人会买东西？这是成交率</p>
<p>～ 客单价：平均每个消费者花了多少钱？</p>
<p>～ 回购率：即回头客</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>** 坪效 = 消费额 / 店铺面积</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-04 15:32:53.465','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7e253b1-f515-46cc-8266-12120847d6b0','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「用傳統的方法，盡量接近坪效極限，這需要顧客導向和產品導向；但要突破，甚至大大突破坪效極限，唯有依靠交易結構思維，用時代賦予的高效率工具才能做到。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-05 03:33:23.039','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('544ff905-0b6f-4571-b617-cf5a2cc6323b','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>一切都是最好的安排，透过不断察觉和整合，学习和修炼，重新融为一体，这过程中，充满感恩和喜悦，每个人都尽力了。</p>
<p>人活着，就要感谢。只有在感恩的状态下，才能正真的得到。陷入绝境时，所有的方法都试过仍无法脱困时，感恩之心是最终的出口。</p>
<p>感谢你在今生让我遇见你，感谢你为我带来的看见和学习，感谢你成为我人生的一面镜子，感谢你认真扮演了自己的角色。</p>','2024-09-05 08:47:19.036','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3312ce3b-00eb-4463-b741-2a3eaeab57be','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>营销漏斗 也就是：</p>
<p>销售 = 流量 x 转化率 x 客单价 x 复购率</p>
<p>整个策略布局都做好，最后的销量就会大增</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-28 13:55:43.313','2024-09-07 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026','2024-09-07 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('31520cd7-1e94-4a04-a92c-33c92f13e4ed','20c75932-58f0-4bdc-b799-ee32b8d5806d','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>普通人的通病。</p>
<p>不了解什么是生命中最重要的。</p>
<p>有时不清楚自己的价值，想活的有意义。</p>
<p>对员工期望很高，希望他们能够独立而负责。</p>
<p>总是感觉到时间不够用。</p>
<p>看到别人的成就自己难受。</p>
<p>有时感到不安</p>
<p>&nbsp;婚姻生活归于平淡，没有往日的火花。</p>
<p>儿子不听话。</p>
<p>儿子不会料理自己。</p>
<p>不能信守自己的诺言，时常做不到。</p>
<p>父母就是孩子们的榜样。要孩子做好就得先做好父母的本分。</p>
<p>要改变现状，先改变自己，要改变自己 先改变对问题的看法。</p>','2024-09-15 03:32:27.568','2024-09-17 00:00:00.031',NULL,'f','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7030bd60-7d06-4d2f-8f5f-d0cbf0b46d60','77552dc0-d25b-47c4-a345-b948e704f433','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>我理解的效能=效益。要如何才可以得到最好或最高的效益呢 ？</p>
<p>资产基本可分三种： 物质类型，金融类型及人力资源类型，要如何才可以得到效益最大化的资产呢 ？</p>
<p>金鹅与金蛋，－般我们只看到成果，个体因素造成的这个果也是非常重要。</p>
<p>所以，要得到效益最大化，两者必须要相互相承，缺一不可。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-23 11:31:14.986','2024-09-23 11:31:14.986',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-23 11:31:14.985',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f9e5f47-623b-4c22-86d6-1a1c57f2dd9e','657aebfc-a90d-4c9d-beb6-5626e552ed14','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>習慣5，的確很具挑戰。當我們局的自己是對的，就很難聽進去別人的話。</p>
<p>很多人以為習慣5自己可以執行的很好，其實，實際上是做的最差的。</p>
<p>我很喜歡這句話，&rdquo;從自己的立場走出來，要走進對方的頭腦&ldquo;&nbsp;</p>
<p>當我們真正做到深入了解彼此的時候，就打開了通向創造性解決方案和第三中選擇的大門。對於卡住的事，才有可以突破的可能。</p>','2024-09-28 12:22:35.898','2024-10-30 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-10-30 00:00:00.009','2024-10-30 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6d757461-5cbc-41ab-984b-17451f5bdf99','7ca02b23-4523-4353-ac0b-4aef3faeaf59','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>我也常會，聽到一個拒絕或放棄的想法時，第一個想法都是想要勸服對方，包括讓對方有負罪感。</p>
<p>而解決衝突其實並不是同理心傾聽的目標，理解才是。</p>','2024-09-28 12:26:41.93','2024-10-31 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-10-31 00:00:00.021','2024-10-31 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0fad4a4-75bf-4811-9754-56d08930d3e0','dce28fb7-de86-4930-9356-ba6b110e0c97','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人在沟通时，往往在策略上坚持立场而忽略了表达感受和需要而导致大家不愉快。</p>
<p>作者的观点好棒！</p>','2024-11-06 13:17:20.614','2024-11-06 13:23:35.567',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-06 13:23:35.567',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8ea08324-996b-48a9-a8a7-07d606360c43','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>朋友是有难时出现，有福是他远离。</p>
<p>有些朋友让我们生存下来，</p>
<p>有些朋友让我们有了生活，</p>
<p>有些朋友让我们了解生命。</p>
<p>感恩伤害过我的朋友 因为他磨练了我的心智</p>
<p>感恩欺骗过我的朋友 因为他曾进了我的见识</p>
<p>感恩遗弃过我的朋友 因为他教导了我应自立</p>
<p>感恩绊倒过我的朋友 因为他强化了我的能力</p>
<p>感恩斥责过我的朋友 因为他助長了我的定慧</p>
<p>朋友是前世修来的缘分，才会出现在生命中</p>','2024-06-30 14:36:24.813','2024-06-30 14:36:24.813',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:36:24.813',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2883597e-ec81-4a0d-8c09-567677d53f9c','33ec7ac3-58a4-43c0-be75-8dad7c8aabb3','b39b0560-2afe-40f2-bd69-0114180ed19e','<p>Day 16 30/6/24 Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 Conversion Rate</p>
<p>Selling Exclusive Lines Or Limited Edition (Page 079-083)</p>
<p>🎯Thoughts after reading：</p>
<ul>
<li>sell a product / service that is uniquely yours so the customer knows to differentiate you from others.</li>
<li>Free samples products or free trials for a service can benefit as the customer can experience it before deciding</li>
<li>Good to provide comparison photos of your service, ie health improvements from your service or product = potential customer will be more inclined to purchase&nbsp;</li>
</ul>','2024-06-30 14:41:45.271','2024-06-30 14:41:45.271',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:41:45.27',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2b879f6-dc12-4259-aeca-74c7bb63e192','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>the author states that we should consciously build social connections by discussing deep topics.</p>
<p>And it''s important to convey such intention to other parties</p>','2024-06-30 14:45:51.276','2024-06-30 14:45:51.276',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 14:45:51.275',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a53590a-7ff9-4eb3-b36a-ba588247f7b7','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>迪羅倫的經歷和故事，只讓我覺得他在對抗和逆天。我沒有看到只是一種從流體智力轉換到晶體智力，而是看到了逃避因此做了許多倒退的事。</p>
<p>反觀作者的祖父，安靜，自然，順流地，進入了轉換。</p>','2024-06-30 15:43:48.591','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7915ca47-b0f7-4842-9cc6-246ffb4bf1bb','2363fbdb-1016-4c8d-8c55-3722077e7e3f','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>看懂数据，看懂人性</p>
<p>透过数据来分析市场需求，需求点可以缩小到一个小镇，乡村，小街等</p>
<p>透过每一个地点需求，给予他们最方便，最快，最容易得到手的东西</p>
<p>商家就可以大大降低成本，提升效率</p>','2024-08-26 13:55:12.553','2024-09-05 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-05 00:00:00.022','2024-09-05 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d966d7bd-2e44-4648-9fd4-bb35d937a0fc','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>小时后觉得朋友多很好 ，长大后 才知道朋友需要分类 有几个真心的就已经满足了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 15:45:51.854','2024-06-30 15:45:51.854',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 15:45:51.853',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Make sure the buying process is simple and guided with short and clear explanations.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 14:40:32.165','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dbaec62f-c413-4d58-a655-b0ad7915a1c7','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>人际关系的基本摘要</p>
<p>强大的人际链接。</p>
<p>健康的亲密关系。</p>
<p>友伴式配偶关系。</p>
<p>培养友情。</p>
<p>交友需要投入练习时间。</p>
<p>真正的友谊。</p>
<p>我真的没有时间，最好的借口。Oh, my god.</p>
<p>知道做不到。打算，一直在打算。</p>
<p>行动胜于空谈。Just do it</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 14:34:27.586','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('248bba0d-ae7d-4a7c-aa28-4c09d543a434','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>培养亲密关系需要练习，如果长期忽视「心爱之人」，基本上会失去他们。这是对自己的提醒，不要一打算就打算了十年。</p>','2024-06-30 15:00:17.444','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89a8cc59-4ccd-4d96-99d0-2bcf51ac00d7','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 31 ：7月1日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 排除爱的障碍 （Page 167-171）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>快乐的人生，需要有与家人和朋友保持健康的人际关系。</p>
<p>重新建立人际关系需要<br>*投入时间<br>*真实的行动<br>*真诚和勇气</p>','2024-06-30 15:38:54.837','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>對於轉換，或許不安，但是我們一定要能平靜。</p>
<p>佛陀說過，變動是宇宙的特性，卻也是我們很難接受的事。讓自己平靜的前提，是接受人生無常。</p>','2024-06-30 15:30:31.998','2024-07-13 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003','2024-07-13 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e9267149-e001-46d8-95ac-5283783a6a36','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>只要願意轉變，九成的時候，人們最終會判定自己成功轉換，有驚無險，沒有造成永久的挫敗。</p>
<p>轉換時期的痛苦，將創造出生活的意義，人因此能安心度過後續的變動，替老化與各種轉變帶來最大的安慰。</p>','2024-06-30 15:38:49.624','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c519ec49-8918-4bac-ac64-74cc5ea1e430','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>好事的確會發生在願意等待的人身上，以及願意工作，犧牲，甚至是受苦的人。最重要的，讓自己做的事，有趣點。或著，讓它變有趣起來。</p>','2024-06-30 15:49:00.1','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3ed525f-4789-4c48-ab8f-d3352e4bd352','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>一切都是最好的安排,<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">所有的发生,自己一定參於@有圈涉在其中,一定有讓我们@人要去学习也是为成就我们让我们成长。</span></p>
<p>对所有发生的必然,顺境@好事都要时时存有感恩的心，你会發现事事越来越顺利好運。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-07 00:51:14.999','2024-09-07 00:51:14.999',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 00:51:14.998',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78174950-5e85-4912-a02e-fe0a9e998c5e','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>今天阅读的文章真是待人处事的大智慧！要做【好】听话、说话、赞美，这修行之路，需要先做好谦卑。把自我放小，绝对是第一步。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>从现在开始，我也要好好学习【会说话】，改掉爱说话的坏习惯。</p>','2024-09-15 03:38:23.333','2024-09-15 03:38:23.333',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 03:38:23.332',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1ac47f15-0b20-4925-b7a4-1b60a0a56796','26118367-caec-408b-bb9b-0ff103fca063','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>讲到品尝味道，哪会有比体验现买现吃来得新鲜刺激的呢？就如品尝本地榴莲，现开现吃，的确回味无穷。</p>
<p>所以假如可以做到现吃味道和打包（邮寄）送到家里吃味道都是一样的话，那么可称为＂无往而不利＂了。</p>','2024-09-15 03:51:47.747','2024-09-15 03:51:47.747',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 03:51:47.746',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c54dfc29-48af-4cec-aec2-76d75883aec7','c8ea5f02-3872-43d8-8547-be51252602fd','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们可能会不知觉的混淆了工作上和生活里真正的朋友。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">友谊可以分为几种层级：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。最低的是功利型，情感连结最弱，益处也最少。大家当朋友是有目的的。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。第二层是为了快乐的朋友，大家有喜欢与仰慕彼此的地方，喜欢对方的内在特质，但依旧是工具性质。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。最高阶的是完美友谊。这种友谊促进彼此的幸福，对某种符合道德的好事有共同的热爱，一起追求超越自我的事情。这种友谊可能来自宗教信仰，或是对社会理念有热情。这种友情不功利，另一人分享你的热情，追求某种内在的东西，而不是当成手段。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">女性交朋友一般是为了社交与情绪支持，男性则更可能来自从事共同的活动，包括工作。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以女性有更多真朋友，男性有更多工作上的朋友。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">中年之后的重大幸福特质，就是能不假思索，说出几个知己的名字。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人年纪越大，交友也越挑，减少亲近的人数，真朋友的数量必须打破零鸡蛋，而且不能只有配偶。</span></p>','2024-06-30 15:46:50.765','2024-06-30 15:46:50.765',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 15:46:50.764',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf99dace-68f6-4677-8391-4d685f49da45','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>人际关系需要培养，所谓情感账户的存款。首先必须接受朋友的重要，交友需要时间和精神。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 22:51:31.88','2024-06-30 22:51:31.88',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 22:51:31.879',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6c98658-b303-41fa-8a83-eac4c8c1c22c','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>柯维知道他要什么，所以放弃家族为他计划的家族事业。还好他父亲通情达理，支持他的决定。他发挥自己的专长，所以才有过后的成就。</p>
<p>首要的成就就是以原则为上的人生，拥有这素养就会得到次要人生的收获：财富、荣耀、地位和名誉。</p>','2024-06-30 23:02:43.818','2024-06-30 23:02:43.818',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-06-30 23:02:43.817',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('99bfa9a8-0a46-4caf-951c-fe5d693db1d1','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>事先分配时间</p>
<p>做你的核心要务</p>
<p>聪明投资</p>
<p>重点在于人生，事业和关系取个平衡点。</p>','2024-06-30 23:08:16.661','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff8b84fe-ce3f-40b2-95e2-323e0ef46e53','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们常常把没意义的事列在重要事的清单里边<br>首要的成就是内在的，次要（名气，地位）的才是外在<br>不要只是追求表象的成功，逃避自己的本质。而我们却常常把成功与次要的事混为一谈。</p>','2024-06-30 23:36:46.839','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('252d58f8-8442-430d-ad76-efd55782b6de','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>作者的祖父和父親，都經歷轉換。雖然書中作者提到父親的結局不是很圓滿。可是，我卻想到了之前章節的一段話「宇宙即變化，人生即看法」。圓滿與否，都是看法。</p>','2024-06-30 15:47:02.517','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('53018360-286d-4867-9a71-bd6d8ef106ad','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>轉換並不是只有一種。然而，如今人們崇尚成功文化，以為這就是指標。我們其實需要順流而上，從流體智力是追求的物質金錢的成功，進入第二期晶體智力銜接在職業生涯裡獲得的能力，服務他人。</p>
<p>所以，面對轉換，別想了，就跳吧。</p>','2024-06-30 15:55:41.539','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c296d716-8de3-4b0c-8e4d-52164821ba4f','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>擺脫執著，讓自己強化靈性生活，不再物化自己，讓自己陷入「偶像」裡。）即：金錢，名聲，權力，享樂。）</p>
<p>當然，豐盛的物質不是壞事，問題不在「物」而是在「愛」。我們擁有的東西是拿來用的，不是拿來愛的。愛是留給人的，不是留給東西的。</p>
<p>祝福大家，餘生幸福美滿。</p>','2024-06-30 16:08:24.389','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fda9c33c-42f4-4609-8019-5789d528eea2','4f2afb82-0b00-45bb-a546-e8d65b80c940','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>原本不被看好的杂货店，竟然被阿里巴巴拯救起来了</p>
<p>阿里巴巴结合了所有夫妻店，给予他们数据的力量，强强联手来淘汰掉大型超市，和便利店</p>
<p>杂货店因为方便，店面体积小，所以不用到大型超市走那么久才买到想要买的东西。</p>
<p>便利店都卖方便性，但没有杂货店来的全面居家</p>
<p>一旦数据涌入了杂货店，就可以如鱼得水的贯穿消费者的身边，透过互联网的力量在还没到店购买前，就已经知道价格，哪里可以买到，线上或线下购买都行</p>
<p>如果要解决一时之需，走路即可买到</p>','2024-08-26 14:01:16.517','2024-09-06 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-09-06 00:00:00.016','2024-09-06 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('177ff2d4-1e22-4272-b599-e574a5a3caeb','a4e05cbf-f836-4ea8-8fe9-e8be7e5a66fb','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人效 = （流量 x 转换率 x 客单价 x 回购率) / 人数</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">坪效 = （流量 x 转换率 x 客单价 x 回购率) / 店铺面积</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">根据2017年eMarketer和CoStar的报告，苹果零售店平均每平方英尺可以为苹果带来USD5564的销售额，Frozen Yogurt Reis &amp; Irvy USD 3970，加油站便利商店 Murphy USA USD 3721，Tiffany &amp; Co USD 2951，Lululemon USD 1560。</span></p>','2024-09-07 01:09:58.796','2024-09-07 01:09:58.796',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 01:09:58.795',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f8873be-3634-4e80-805e-fe084be086b3','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>当头棒喝，会不会残忍了一点？校长。</p>','2024-09-15 03:49:34.03','2024-09-15 03:49:34.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 03:49:34.029','24b4a70c-f72b-4ba4-ade3-422fd8b7e6ed',NULL);
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<p>2. 学不计较的第一步是先学&lsquo;捉着&rsquo;计较那小人。</p>
<p>3.助人为快乐之本，只有真正能让求助者和施助者的生命同时转动才是真正的助人，才能感受真正的快乐。</p>','2024-09-15 03:49:48.534','2024-09-17 00:00:00.031',NULL,'f','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03','2024-09-17 00:00:00.03',NULL,NULL);
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<p>*需要强大的人际连接，助你攀上第二曲线，一路向上</p>
<p>*不论你多内向，少了健康的亲密关系，不可能快乐到老</p>
<p>*如果是已婚者，有爱的友伴式配偶关系是幸福的关键</p>
<p>*婚姻与家人不足以取代亲密的友谊，培养友情不能随缘</p>
<p>*交友是需要练习、时间与投入的技能</p>
<p>*即便刻意结交的工作伙伴，同样能带来满足感、工作上的关系，不足以代替真正的友谊</p>
<p>&ldquo;打算&rdquo;要改变人生、结果一打算，就打算了数十年</p>
<p>开始交朋友需要行动，光是用想的没用</p>
<p>必须重新分配时间，把时间用来重新建立友谊与家庭生活</p>
<p>对关系来说，行动胜于空谈</p>','2024-06-26 02:04:47.718','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>次要成就：物质享受，权力，外表，金钱，社会名声等等</p>
<p>要达成次要成就，就必须先提升内在本质，把首要成就做好，物质上的成就就自然的达成</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-27 01:33:32.153','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eadd7f9f-ee9d-4225-aef6-70d12f8b500d','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY 31</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; 1/7/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">一）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.167-171</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">关于人际关系的几点认识：</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">有助于接轨至第二曲线。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">老年幸福必有的健康亲密关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">友伴式配偶关系是幸福的关键。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">亲密的友谊并非是婚姻与亲情所能取代的。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">交友是需要练习、时间与投入的技能。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">工作上的同事关系代替不了真正的友谊。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">我们可以通过适宜的男或女性活动，重新建立疏忽已久的人际关系；並且立即起而行动。</span></p>','2024-06-27 01:42:59.311','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Give answer before they asked.</p>
<p>Easy payment shall be provided for customers to release their financial pressure.</p>','2024-06-27 05:32:47.517','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<li>你需要强大的人际连结，助你攀上第二曲线，一路向上。</li>
<li>不论你多内向，少了健康的亲密关系，不可能快乐到老。</li>
<li>如果是已婚者，有爱的友伴式配偶关系是幸福的关键。</li>
<li>婚姻与家人不足以取代亲密的友谊，培养友情不能随缘。</li>
<li>即便刻意结交的工作伙伴，同样能带来满足感，工作上的关系，不足以代替真正的友谊。</li>
</ul>
<p>&ldquo;我真的没时间&rdquo;&ldquo;我的关系千疮百孔，不知从何救起&rdquo;&ldquo;我不认为人们会原谅我&rdquo;这都不应该让它们成为你搞好人际关系的障碍。</p>','2024-06-28 07:24:10.649','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>这些障碍的背后都是某种的逃避。除了自己找出逃避的真相，还需要意识到交友是需要练习，时间和投入技能。小孩子交友非常容易，成年人很难，因为成年人太多执着的框框条条和我执。</p>','2024-06-28 07:45:21.646','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('66851a56-a75e-44da-8c1c-e1f9df7b619f','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>首要成就带来一些本质上的收获（平和的心境），有益他人的贡献，令人满足的人际关系。然而次要的成就例如金钱，人气，自我为中心，这些并不会令我们满足。说到这里，已经足以令我很对接下来的文章大感兴趣和期待，希望我们都大大有收获。</p>','2024-06-29 10:48:25.774','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>displaying awards certificates- to gain the trust of customers &nbsp;</p>
<p>offer easy payment plans- to reduce the burden of customers&nbsp;</p>
<p>provide options sales techniques- strengthen customer desire to buy&nbsp;</p>
<p>sales scripts- well trained staff in sales and product knowledge&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-29 13:54:39.614','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('507e0599-5cf9-4df3-908d-492fe2842f67','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>1）重新分配时间，把时间用来重新建立友谊与家庭生活</p>
<p>2）开始交朋友需要行动</p>
<p>3）除了说出口，还需要配合行动及新的行为才行</p>
<p>行动胜于空谈</p>','2024-06-30 00:24:39.842','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8fbd36ba-943d-4c2e-9303-86c2b134062e','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>学到-</p>
<p>1.要快乐需要有健康的亲密关系一.</p>
<p>2.婚姻和友谊很重要.</p>
<p>3.交友需要练习,投入时间和技能</p>
<p>4.工作上的友谊,不足于代替真正的友谊.</p>','2024-06-30 01:54:34.868','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e977434e-4f56-4f83-8bc3-f1bd6b6a0a23','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>领导力就是通过沟通，帮助他人了解自己的价值和潜能，使他们渴望亲眼目睹自己尽情发挥。Stephen相信每个人都有独一无二的使命要完成，並拥有无穷的价值与潜能。</p>
<p>希望通过这本书了解两种人生追求：首要成就primary greatness 我们的本质（品格和内心深处的渴望）- 也是柯维要我们聚焦的成就。</p>
<p>和次要成就 secondary greatness 人气、头衔、财富、名气。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 09:46:37.422','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('541bfe47-2ad2-4725-a875-02677ba492be','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>爱在心里口难开。</p>
<p>工作成瘾者通常会说我真的没时间。</p>
<p>确实建立爱与友谊需要时间的参与。</p>
<p>但人生许多事项需要平衡。他们需要重新分配时间 建立友谊与家庭生活。</p>
<p>另一个情况会是：我的关系千疮百孔 不知从何做起。</p>
<p>亲密关系需要练习。多年没培养亲密关系和长期忽视心爱之人，终究会失去他们。</p>
<p>当下有必要展现人际关系的能力 说出自己渴望更深的连结 发出讯号 并大声说出口 提醒自己。</p>
<p>当然 需要配合实际行动 而不是耍嘴皮。</p>
<p>相信参加一些能够重新学习技能的活动 可以协助重新培养交友和人际关系的能力。</p>
<p>这些都是实际行动。</p>
<p>也有人会说：我不认为人们会原谅我</p>
<p>因为过去漠视家人而关系变调 家人通常已经痛恨生命中很少出现的亲人</p>
<p>家人需要他的爱与关注的时候 多年求而不得变成恨。</p>
<p>这时需要做的尽管只是弥补 但也需要一段时间认真的行动</p>
<p>才能让人感受真诚的改变。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-06-30 02:09:55.908','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e2e8c546-4e7d-4f5c-bbee-aa28b09ef05e','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作狂本身未必是因为没有时间建立亲密关系或朋友之间的关系。更大的问题是他们已经忘记了如何去交朋友或建立亲密的关系。如果是这样，我们就要唤醒休眠的人际关系能力。这如同戒酒一样，戒酒精成瘾者，如何做康复计划，工作狂可以从中学习。</span></p>','2024-06-30 13:15:28.646','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa70f576-ecea-4008-80ff-bc7488779ae1','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 1: 1/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">一）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.5~9</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「领导力就是透过沟通，帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值与潛能，使他们渴望亲眼目睹自己尽情发挥。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">」</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">一个人的成功以追求个人的品格、正直，以及內心深处的目的与渴望为首要目标；人气、头銜、职位、名声、财富与荣誉为次要的成就。</span></p>','2024-06-30 13:26:42.789','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>行动永远胜于空谈，如果自知处理不当，需要弥补，主动行动才是最好的证明自己！</p>','2024-06-30 14:22:30.362','2024-07-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019','2024-07-01 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<li>人生最重要的事，就是管好自己的念头！世间之事，多是困于想，而破于行。</li>
<li>人生有没有收获，其实和发生了什么&rdquo;事&rdquo;无关，只和自己有没有用&rdquo;心&rdquo;有关。心是一個人的主宰，不管學習什麼，用心最重要。</li>
<li>放下评断，臣服于发生，尽其在我，就是活在当下。</li>
</ul>','2024-08-26 14:03:19.678','2024-08-26 14:03:19.678',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 14:03:19.677',NULL,NULL);
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<li>高处不胜寒，不妨尝试归零出发，从低处再慢慢往上爬。</li>
<li>自觉、才智、爱心和英雄豪气，是领导人该具备的也是每个人该学习的特质。</li>
</ol>','2024-09-28 12:48:50.46','2024-09-28 12:48:57.405',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 12:48:57.404',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a639e2b7-d630-4b36-88f8-4b66097420e4','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>这一篇提到什么是心想事成。因为研究发现，你希望人生有什么，八成会心想事成。也因此更加印证了那句老话，「许愿要小心」。所以第二曲线需要我们从爱出发，建立关系，分享智慧。有个小秘诀，作者跟大家分享，想象一下，我们在派对上有人问你是做什么的，我们的答案与职称的外在的事物无关，我们必须回答我们知道能带来最多使命感，意义，和喜乐的事。那些事与我们的精神生活，人际关系，服务他人的方式有关。懂得爱人与被爱，让我们从第一曲线转换到第二曲线。</p>','2024-07-01 00:41:25.378','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9a6da3c2-5137-4a19-b3ff-32e68baaf235','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>根据古印度的学说，认为正当生活分为四个阶段。第一阶段是学生期，第二阶段是家居期，新的阶段叫林棲期，而最后一站就是遁世。当我们内心平静下来后，我们会发现里头一直有等着我们的宝藏。</p>','2024-07-01 00:45:09.827','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb02ef47-8525-4e0e-8cd4-6b96c6f76211','dce28fb7-de86-4930-9356-ba6b110e0c97','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>只要把需要放在讨论的第一位，最后往往都能找到一个双方都满意的策略。</p>
<p>爱是一种需要。</p>','2024-11-06 14:33:21.029','2024-11-06 14:33:21.029',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-06 14:33:21.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1a4f559-9f34-4075-a686-427556e3353f','fe863a09-a43c-41df-8c10-cebc6a28d034','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>灵性发展和治病一样重要，必须挪出时间、按时冥想、禱告、阅读与修练，每天都不能懈怠。</p>','2024-07-01 06:54:46.979','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e71371fb-f7fe-4160-abf2-4f6af389e24b','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>工作狂如果要搞好人际关系，就要先戒瘾，重新分配时间，把时间用来重新建立友谊和家庭生活。</p>
<p>这事情越早做越好，不要把没时间，不知从何做起，人家会不会原谅我等等的借口。把它放入脑海里，不要只是说说而已。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 01:51:35.69','2024-07-01 01:52:21.065',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 01:52:21.064',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efb99fb4-3fa8-4c91-ab8c-e7db26c52401','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>领导力就是透过溝通帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值与潜能，使他们渴望亲眼目睹自己尽情发挥</p>','2024-07-01 03:10:00.407','2024-07-01 03:10:00.407',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 03:10:00.406',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('79dc0396-bd1e-41c8-9394-59af433cfded','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>家人， 朋友之间的親密关系是需要培养与互動。</p>
<p>强大的人际连结，助你攀上第二曲線，一路向上。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 04:00:46.143','2024-07-01 04:00:46.143',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 04:00:46.142',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06338f40-2725-4455-b1d6-83f25da3a032','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>平和的心境、有益他人的貢獻，以及豐富且令人滿足的人際關係。這些收穫遠比次要成就帶來的外來收穫更為重要.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 04:44:19.154','2024-07-01 04:44:19.154',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 04:44:19.154',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e9ae1cf8-609c-43b2-8307-6461196711d3','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>作者的父亲希望作者不要被次要成就所困扰，而是专注于首要成就，培养内在的品德和正直。强调了内在价值和长远发展的重要性，不要被外在的短暂成功所迷惑。</p>','2024-07-01 04:52:35.837','2024-07-01 04:52:35.837',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 04:52:35.836',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67d87ce8-a536-43ce-b01c-686a991e48f3','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>幸好史蒂芬&bull;柯维坚持追求当老师的梦想，否则我们现在都无法学到高效能人士的7个习惯和与成功有约。我也要活出精彩、独一无二的人生！希望我也能有书中所说的领导力！</p>','2024-07-01 05:19:01.867','2024-07-01 05:19:01.867',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 05:19:01.866',NULL,NULL);
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<p>很多时候，我们的脑中只有我、我、我，有如一天之中一遍又一遍，看着一模一样的无聊电视节目，太无趣了．</p>
<p>信仰让人进入宇宙，思考真理源头，生命的起源，以及他人的益處。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 06:07:52.354','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c45375f6-0777-4cff-912a-f6231d3fe679','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生最重要的是管理好自己的念头，因为它决定了生活的方方面面。不断重复的小事往往比重大事件更重要。要过得好，得把心放在关键的地方，保持专注。最后，真正的幸福是在放下评判心，完全接纳自己和他人时出现的。</span></p>','2024-08-26 14:52:05.166','2024-08-26 14:52:05.166',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 14:52:05.165',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d9f3448-fdd4-4997-bc15-9be0754f04eb','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day9：8月 26日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第二章： 可以不一样4. 管好念头 &ndash; 6. 放下评判心（Page060-065）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>管好[念头]<br>人生最重要的事就是管好自己的念头。<br>时刻提醒自己，想办法看见"自己在想什么？"</p>
<p><br>找回[真心]<br>用真心的做，才不会带来烦恼，包袱和业障。</p>
<p><br>放下[评判心]<br>评判心对象是别人也会是自己。放下评判心，完全接受，臣服于发生，尽其在我，就是活在当下。</p>','2024-08-26 14:55:44.61','2024-08-26 14:55:56.716',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 14:55:56.715',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('07344a78-c458-4bcd-9e56-a62c7d114700','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 167 -171</p>
<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>排除爱的障碍</p>
<p>人际关系的基本摘要【白杨林关键】：</p>
<p>- 强大的人际连结，第二曲线的助力，一路向上</p>
<p>- 健康的亲密关系，快乐到老</p>
<p>- 已婚者的友伴式配偶关系是幸福的关键</p>
<p>- 婚姻与家人不足取代亲密友谊，培养友情不能随缘</p>
<p>- 交友需要练习、时间、投入的技能</p>
<p>- 刻意结交工作伙伴，同样带来满足感，工作上的关系，不足以取代真正的友谊</p>
<p>对于关系，行动胜于空谈，赋予时间，持之以恒地去爱，建立亲密关系。</p>','2024-07-01 11:16:55.8','2024-07-01 11:17:15.365',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 11:17:15.364',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 04:51:42.171','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d18e805d-7630-4bec-afd6-24b234055f12','a0099eb1-3c3d-4b2d-8590-dba3fad9c831','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>柯維博士曾說：「如果兩人看法相同，其中一人必屬多餘。」當我們學會重視與善用不同個體的多元優勢，就擁有較大的成功機率。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 05:18:15.399','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a1f50014-f841-43b3-a8b0-30c456a8016d','b8eefc96-cf52-4f21-8098-378b2a315c9f','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>从内心深处寻求來认识自己。</p>
<p>当内心平静下来后。就会发现里头等着你的宝藏。</p>','2024-07-01 05:56:13.57','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6d343bb0-5c36-40d8-9c95-d2ddee049d4a','d7d9d2b3-accf-4f14-b54a-1b9b83bfc767','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>印度宗教经典《乌達瓦梵歌《Uddhava Gita 》，黑天教导世人：</p>
<p>你若是渴望进入人生的第三階段林棲期待，应当怀包寧静的心进入林中，离开妻子与成年的儿子。</p>
<p>不过，又补上一句：（或是带着妻子一起。）</p>
<p>作者的太太虽然很晚才信教，但却引领他走向公义道路，教他读经文，協助禱告，就有如上师说得：她是作者的老师。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 06:21:13.449','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2873e9c3-d3d7-4771-801f-bcf1d32171ab','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>把注意力放在对的东西上</p>','2024-12-01 16:26:25.282','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2cc4d18f-b26e-4524-87c0-625ea5b1a5bb','2b795f2f-6621-4112-af05-42a4a20516df','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>好习惯需要一点一点积累。</p>','2025-07-03 11:24:13.586','2025-07-03 11:24:13.586',NULL,'f',NULL,'2025-07-03 11:24:13.585',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f60a955-3912-4bca-8660-d81bd111ec03','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 31 ：7月1日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第六章 ： 排除爱的障碍 （Page 167-171）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>人际关系的基本摘要，培育你的白杨林关键：</p>
<p>你需要强大的人际连结，助你攀上第二曲线，一路向上。</p>
<p>不论你多内向，少了健康的亲密关系，不可能d快乐到老。</p>
<p>已婚者，有爱的友伴式配偶关系是幸福的关键。</p>
<p>婚姻与家人不足以取代亲密的友谊，培养友情不能随缘。</p>
<p>绝对赞同交友是需要练习、时间与投入的技能。</p>
<p>即便刻意结交的工作伙伴，同样能带来满足感，工作上的关系，不足以代替真正的友谊。</p>
<p>成瘾行为的典型徵兆，就是非人的东西开始取代人际关系。</p>
<p>工作狂如果要戒瘾，必须要认真思考是否重视这段亲密关系而重新分配时间，把时间用来重新建立友谊与家庭生活。</p>
<p>如果长期忽视心爱之人，基本上会失去他们。</p>
<p>对于关系来讲，行动胜于空谈，尤其如果你过去曾经经常空谈.</p>','2024-07-01 07:04:16.721','2024-07-01 07:04:16.721',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 07:04:16.72',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e4ac5e02-af04-474a-a416-93acb49864a2','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 1 <span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>1<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">序文。活出独一无二的幸福人生（</span>Page 5 - 9<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">听自己内心最真实的心声。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">领导力就是透过沟通，帮助他人清楚了解自己的价值与潜能，使他们渴望亲眼目睹自己尽情发挥。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">我也相信每一个人都有独一无二的使命要完成，并拥有无穷的价值与潜能，无法互相比较。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">两种生活方式-追求首要与次要成就的人生。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">首要成就，指的是人的本质-品格、正直，以及内心深处的目的与渴望。次要成就指的是人气、头衔、职位、名声、财富与荣誉。拥有首要成就，通常也会拥有次要成就。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">首要成就到来平和心境，有益他人的贡献，以及丰富且令人满足的人际关系</p>','2024-07-01 07:33:31.359','2024-07-01 07:33:31.359',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 07:33:31.358',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('85607a5e-b335-4da3-8100-bfea6392792a','83bfaa3c-fda6-4201-a6c9-f1971200a917','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 17 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 &nbsp;ConversionRate</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Frequently asked Questions (FAQ) (Page 084-088)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Frequently asked questions (FAQ)- this is good - give customers the answer even before they asked .</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Displaying awards/ certificates - must show your talent .. credibility </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Offer easy payment plans / financing - nowadays ppl lack for money , give instalment will help </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Provide option sales technique - give a and b options </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Sales scripts - prepare a well thought out sales script, </span></li>
</ol>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Love tue break down structure </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Start with an intriguing "hook" question,</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Identify their problems,</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Give them solutions,</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Always end with a Call for Action - what they can buy from you to solve the problem?</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-01 07:58:25.116','2024-07-01 07:58:26.303',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 07:58:26.302',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a80141e-1040-4d63-a97a-20e702dffcdb','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 1 ：7月1日《成功哪有那么难》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">序文。活出独一无二的幸福人生（Page 5 - 9）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">教练是帮助我们看到自己的价值和潜能。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">对！其实我们追求的是人生。稻盛和夫&rdquo;作为人，何为正确！&rdquo;，坚持把作为人应该做的正确事情，以正确的方式是彻底贯彻到底。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">人的本性都充满着，&rdquo;爱、真诚和谐&rdquo;。打造利他的环境。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 08:32:58.514','2024-07-01 08:32:58.514',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 08:32:58.513',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 08:01:04.32','2024-07-06 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009','2024-07-06 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 08:19:19.396','2024-07-07 00:00:00.011',NULL,'f','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01','2024-07-07 00:00:00.01',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5bb59f90-7798-409c-9f5d-b839ff85e6ef','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>6.4 学【听话】</p>
<p>用心听、不插嘴、不接话、老实地听。&ldquo;有些事，只要用心听，就圆满了。&rdquo;</p>
<p>6.5 学【说话】</p>
<ul>
<li>别人不问不轻易说</li>
<li>必要时只说几句</li>
<li>说的时候人在当下，用心体会听者感受</li>
<li>说话留下空间，让听者自己想明白</li>
<li>只说自己在做的</li>
</ul>
<p>6.6 学【赞美】</p>
<p>赞美不是为小我，而是为大我（成全、肯定、给力），让他人更有能量发光发热。</p>
<p>不懂得赞美、看不到他人的优点、不认为需要帮助他人的人，是因为&ldquo;心&rdquo;生病了。要先修身养性，从小我到大我，世界才会变得精彩可爱。</p>','2024-09-15 03:47:31.043','2024-09-15 03:47:59.964',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 03:47:59.963',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11bf877d-6d98-4966-b487-c532032db16f','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','f96bb3ac-81d2-449d-bcab-c984308b1d78','<p><strong>人性，道德和法律（Page 019-023）</strong><br><br>我喜欢这句&ldquo;个体愿意接受道德的约束，是因为群体的繁荣最终会让个体受益&rdquo;。与其说喜欢，应该说我认为如果大家都知道&ldquo;群体的繁荣最终会让个体受益&rdquo;，人人朝着这个方向努力，就是在实现世界大同的理想，是博爱的象征，是菩萨心肠，是利他思维的结果。<br><br>但我不赞同作者提到&ldquo;道德常常反人性&rdquo;，是人类太善于模仿，太适应环境，因为我们人类是群居动物，也容易产生&ldquo;群体效应&rdquo;。当整个大环境都是处于盲目追求名利、争夺的平台，进入这个环境的人也容易收起干扰而转变。这种弱肉强食的本能是石器时代的发展，生存需求留存至今的固有观念。但是道德体系不是反人性，我们的本质跟道德是互通，是连结，是统一的，所谓&ldquo;人性本善&rdquo;，所以在看到小孩可能性坠楼的时候，不假思索的动作就是&ldquo;立刻救人&rdquo;。哪个不假思索的0.05秒直觉散发的能力，就是与道德，与上帝相同的时刻。</p>
<p>那为什么人性还是本知错误还是持续，是在一次次否定我们0.05秒的直觉力，是在一次次掩盖我们内在良知（道德觉悟），一次次违背道德底线的习惯下，慢慢扩大了不良习惯、不良行为，最终造就不好的人生结局。</p>
<p>道德在这个社会的角色，是告诉我们社会的本来面貌，人类将道德应用在日常生活中，叫做&ldquo;美德&rdquo;，是做人的准则。真正遵守道德标准，有美好品德的人，才是在这世界走得最长远千古留名，万古流芳，是世人的典范。这些准则其实本来就具备，本来就拥有，只是在我们一次次的否定和掩盖下被忽略和遗忘。<br><br>而现在全球在追求的真善美，身心灵平衡的课程，就是在挽化世风，大家开始察觉物质过剩，心灵确实的空洞感，填满身心灵的最终，其实就是道德。当我们能把道德和美德行云流水般应用在每日言行中，就是我们置身于人间天堂的那一天。<br><br>人性不来自&ldquo;自私&rdquo;的基因，自私是七情六欲、占有欲，欲望很高且不满足造成的结果，是后来的添加，不存在基因本质内。母爱是伟大的是无微不至的，父爱是伟大的不顾辛劳不求回报的，子女从小对父母的依赖和与生俱来的爱是天性本如此。这伟大的爱自古无人教导，也无需教导，如有违反只因他内心有更大的利益和欲望，掩盖了本该有的伟大的爱的本质罢了。如果一个母亲杀死自己孩子，本质就是缺道败德，说不后悔不过是违心之话，不可能不受到良心的谴责。</p>
<p>作者说道德不是人性的内在要求，但是道德经第一章，若要将人与天地同体之关系，和道德互用以生万物之关系，根据老子所言的【道生一，一生二，二生三，三生万物】知理，则道生一，一生天地（二），天地（二）再演化天地人（三：人本是三才之一），三（天地人）生万物，所以人类是万物之灵，先与其他所有生物降生在世。所以说道德不是人性的内在需求，但事实却是人类本道而生，如果用作者惯用的&ldquo;圆形图&rdquo;来呈现，那人性是属于道德之中。<br><br>道德经之所以流传2500多年至今，就是它一直揭露着人类最真实的内在需求，最本来的面貌，真善美的纯然境界。</p>','2024-11-25 06:02:47.29','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">Frequently asked Questions (FAQ) (Page 084-088)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US">🎯</span><span lang="EN-US">Thoughts after reading</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span></p>
<ul>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">sales script is helpful especially for newer sales rep</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Providing option of a or b instead of yes or no can help them feel like they have a final say in their purchase decision&nbsp;</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Displaying awards can help to increase comp credibility&nbsp;</span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">Providing faq is good, if they have time to read it</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-01 08:45:19.158','2024-07-01 08:45:19.158',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 08:45:19.157',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第二章： 可以不一样4. 管好念头 &ndash; 6. 放下评判心（Page060-065）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人一生重复最多次的，不是呼吸，而是&rdquo;念头&rdquo;。所以就是要管好自己的念头，想办法看见自己在想什么，尤其是还没弄清楚事情或者情绪时就问自己我刚才在想什么有意无意的察觉自己的思维。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Simon Sinek &ldquo;Start with why &ldquo;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">找回真心，才能够把事情做好，行不乱家活在当下，全身贯注，此时此刻慢慢地把在痛苦之中的自己，也会产生喜悦感和成就感。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-26 14:59:59.918','2024-08-26 14:59:59.918',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 14:59:59.917',NULL,NULL);
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<p>当有人问：&ldquo;你是做什么的？&ldquo;</p>
<p>你要回答你知道能带来最多使命感、意义与喜乐的事，那些事与你的精神生活、人际关系、你服务他人的方式有关。</p>
<p>&ldquo;我是妻子。我有三个年幼的孩子。&rdquo;</p>','2024-07-01 09:18:10.381','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-10-01 22:10:29.998','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5cd05999-67d5-4a53-a276-5e27bc272c44','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>建立牢固的人际关系是个人成长的关键。健康的连接对于终身幸福至关重要，即使是内向的人。已婚人士在爱与伴侣关系中找到幸福。友谊至关重要，需要付出努力。工作关系虽然充实，但无法替代真正的友谊。成瘾行为往往替代人际关系。工作狂需要重视亲密关系，分配时间重建友谊和家庭纽带。忽视爱人可能会失去他们。在关系中，行动胜于空谈，尤其是过去曾空谈。</p>','2024-07-01 10:35:41.468','2024-07-01 10:35:41.468',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 10:35:41.467',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bd68b787-9d3e-41b5-b3be-e0dad5483920','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第六章：排除爱的障碍。人们十分抗拒立刻开始建立关系的资讯与建议，原因是没时间，爱与友谊会用掉大量的时间。工作狂如果要戒瘾，必须重新分配时间，把时间用来重新建立友谊与家庭生活。如果关系已千疮百孔，不知从何救起，则需要重新唤醒休眠的人际关系能力。第一步是说出自己渴望更深的连结，发出讯号，让别人知道自己下定决心要改，同一时间也将能提醒自己。还有得需要行动，光是用想的没有。有些关系不好的特征是被爱的那一方感到愤怒，所以自己会担心不被原谅。弥补的时刻到了，成功成瘾者可以从酒精成瘾者身上，学戒瘾的方法，尽可能直接补偿。对关系来讲，行动胜过空谈，尤其如果过去讲的几乎是空话。</p>','2024-07-01 09:53:16.537','2024-07-01 09:53:16.537',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 09:53:16.536',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27a45202-ffda-4286-9634-ab7d62af35e2','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>重新建立关系，不要光说不练，这是需要实际行动的。说空话，别人最多是相信你一两次，之后再也很难相信你是真心的。<br>感情需要时间和行动来培养。不要觉得投资感情是浪费时间。</p>','2024-07-01 11:06:58.692','2024-07-01 11:08:34.515',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 11:08:34.515',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bfa41732-11e9-4892-abf5-3a844fadfd9e','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>好的人際關係本質,是获取幸福快樂的基本,基本生活條件本是非常簡單, 只要我們願意生活從簡,精神生活是能讓人 ,上升到更高 的境界. 與其死命抵抗职涯衰退的趨勢, 不如抓住美好的機會, 走向喜悅的泉源, 懂得愛人與被愛 , 从第一曲線轉到第二曲線.</p>','2024-07-01 10:00:17.18','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5476b51d-1bb8-4510-a4e5-3beefd5fc793','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 12：8月26日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">谁该为资讯流卖单（Page069-075）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">现在要线上线下一起。喜欢品牌体验店，就是要开店让你看、摸、闻、喜欢上我的产品，而不是销售。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所以我们要用线上回到线下，但不是原路返回、而要用钢路的工具和方法，提升传统零售的效率，实现融合。</span></p>','2024-08-26 15:15:17.03','2024-08-26 15:15:17.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:15:17.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61019684-e237-42b3-af5d-d00efb5c7592','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>我阅读了这一篇，不明白作者想表达什么。</p>
<p>不懂是说建立关系，要在爱以上。 还是不要把感情放的太深？看不懂。。。</p>','2024-07-01 12:37:08.963','2024-07-01 12:37:40.254',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 12:37:40.253',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ae253d3c-9280-4aef-8f89-42acc71082d2','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>现代这个社会已经很久不是单打独斗就可以成功的了，在家里有父母亲，兄弟姐妹，爱人，孩子等。在公司有合作伙伴，上司，下属，客户，竞争对手等。社交有同学，同事，驾车的，送饭的，搞卫生的。。。</p>
<p>除了家人需要＂用爱来搅拌＂才会有幸福可言，同样在职场上其实很多人不只缺钱，更缺爱！有些不缺钱，也会缺爱。</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">人际关系能不打好，就可以圆满的成功吗？😅</span></p>','2024-07-01 12:48:24.748','2024-07-01 12:48:24.748',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 12:48:24.747',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30aede83-1535-479c-84b8-f97e4d6b0757','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>先处理工作狂的问题，才有办法开始做别的事。</p>
<p>培养亲密关系不只家人而已。朋友之间的关系需要亲密联系。</p>','2024-07-01 12:48:25.651','2024-07-01 12:48:25.651',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 12:48:25.65',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f669d5d-c2ec-44a5-b4e4-01818fd10aa9','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>维持和维修亲情、友谊和亲密关系能助我登上第二曲线。&nbsp;</p>
<p>不要只是讲、不做。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 13:00:24.77','2024-07-01 13:00:24.77',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:00:24.769',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c807ab1-21e2-4bef-a1da-b093ffa58ee7','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>放下所有自己认为的局限，将部分的时间和精力留给情感上的流动，如人与人之间的互动，亲密关系或者建立友谊以让自己在第二曲线的生活里更自在。追求成功却忽略情感，将会是生活上的一种缺失。</p>','2024-07-01 13:10:00.789','2024-07-01 13:10:00.789',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:10:00.789',NULL,NULL);
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<p>爱需要说出口，有行动。</p>','2024-07-01 13:15:15.647','2024-07-01 13:15:30.64',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:15:30.639',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fdfaaa46-7b74-4a05-acb7-093a6f5e5daf','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>亲情、友情都重要，都需要营造，否则便成为划饼充饥，只是空谈。</p>','2024-07-01 13:35:13.751','2024-07-01 13:35:13.751',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:35:13.75',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d9acdaf9-6753-4738-a764-0907067e4fdf','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>先聚焦首要成就的人生，而后拥有次要成就。柯维先生的子女们非常幸运，从小就被爸爸妈妈的教育理念围绕、熏陶，开心快乐地长大也各自拥有卓越的人生。而读着本书的我们也是幸运的，有机会了解柯维先生的智慧，成为更好的自己。</p>','2024-07-01 13:43:42.983','2024-07-01 13:43:42.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:43:42.983',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2eca0c27-1ca2-4e7d-be1d-ed35730f96b4','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>先聚焦首要成就的人生，而后拥有次要成就。柯维先生的子女们非常幸运，从小就被爸爸妈妈的教育理念围绕、熏陶，开心快乐地长大也各自拥有卓越的人生。而读着本书的我们也是幸运的，有机会了解柯维先生的智慧，成为更好的自己。</p>','2024-07-01 13:43:42.983','2024-07-01 13:43:42.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 13:43:42.982',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5662f168-3e7b-4a20-8da7-791491e32e3e','420bd683-be16-4617-9278-cef24ae183b0','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>很多人无法改变的思维，是停止自己不去创新的障碍</p>
<p>未来已经来到了我们面前，但我们是否能抓住机会，一直都是我们认知上的问题</p>
<p>什么是本质，以人为本就是本质，零售永远不会改变，因为零售就是本质</p>','2024-09-16 11:01:35.268','2024-10-04 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018','2024-10-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4d35da62-735c-465c-80be-9d995b56f2df','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>首要成就：品格、内心深处的目的与渴望</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>次要成就：人气、头街、职位、名声、财富、荣誉</p>','2024-07-01 14:10:15.409','2024-07-01 14:10:15.409',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 14:10:15.408',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1ebe8268-ec96-439e-815c-d99ea62af164','a904e147-bc6a-4807-86ca-bfc40db264af','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p><strong>Smile Always</strong>: It&rsquo;s the best strategy. No matter how much effort and investment you put into marketing, if customers have a bad experience, all that effort goes down the drain.</p>','2024-07-01 12:23:00.833','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5cdbe84a-97a9-4b41-b077-27558aefa8d1','d28e5036-c4f8-42d5-bf66-6920a6791b2d','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p>Creating loyal customers is equally important as acquiring new ones. Loyal customers not only make repeat purchases but also help spread the word, bringing in new customers.</p>','2024-07-01 12:25:39.678','2024-07-04 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014','2024-07-04 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('653d91db-840f-4882-a4ce-1df43ac6c4cd','a83de9e4-af47-4da9-b850-9c6d3880cef8','2873165e-9cfb-4c47-b7a9-c94e7f96e55d','<p>Hiring individuals with a smiling face and a positive attitude is crucial. They not only establish strong relationships with customers but also have the power to turn customers into loyal friends.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 12:28:12.033','2024-07-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008','2024-07-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afd748c9-7d30-498a-b54d-06c505aa94e1','d1bf3465-9908-4f6f-a6d6-2026d50a9d7e','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>人生要会玩，也要玩得尽兴，玩出风格，玩出境界，玩出格局，伟大的事业一定是玩岀来的．</p>
<p>身为少年的父母的我，让孩子玩得尽兴，活出自己，我也和他一起玩</p>','2024-09-30 05:46:45.025','2024-10-11 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-10-11 00:00:00.009','2024-10-11 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd687ef3-5f76-46cc-a41b-98766df83dc6','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>交友需要练习 这句话点醒我。简单来说：所有的关系都需要经营，那么走进第二曲线时候，就不同了。</p>','2024-07-01 14:19:57.045','2024-07-01 14:19:57.045',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 14:19:57.045',NULL,NULL);
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<p>作者勇敢听从自己心中的声音，转而成为人师。他也完美诠释了什么是领导力，领导力就是通过清楚的勾勒出他人的潜力与价值并让他们坚信並发挥出来。</p>','2024-07-01 14:36:49.474','2024-07-01 14:36:49.474',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 14:36:49.473',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>人有两种生活方式</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">1</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">. 追求首要成就的人生 ~ 本质</span></p>
<p>2. 追求次要成就的人生 ~ 人气</p>','2024-07-01 14:40:50.814','2024-07-01 14:40:50.814',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 14:40:50.813',NULL,NULL);
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<p>首要成就 = 人的本质、品格</p>
<p>次要成就 = 人气、头衔、职位、名声、财富、荣誉</p>','2024-07-01 14:41:45.992','2024-07-01 14:41:45.992',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 14:41:45.991',NULL,NULL);
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<li>管好起心动念</li>
<li>初衷、心法、保持热忱</li>
<li>减少评断别人</li>
</ol>','2024-08-26 15:16:27.938','2024-08-26 15:16:27.938',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:16:27.937',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd29d9dc-5e4f-4d71-8cda-3baf1c4a1991','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 31 ：7月 1日 星期一 &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章 ： 排除爱的障碍 （Page 167-171）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">读后，感觉会不会是对号入座？😂</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">排除愛的障礙‼️</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">以下是人際關係的基本摘要，培育你的白楊林關鍵：</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">你需要強大的人際連結，助你攀上第二曲線，一路向上。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">不論你多內向，少了健康的親密關係，不可能快樂到老。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">如果是已婚者，有愛的友伴式配偶關係是幸福的關鍵。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">婚姻與家人不足以取代親密的友誼，培養友情不能隨緣。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">交友是需要練習、時間與投入的技能。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">即便刻意結交的工作夥伴，同樣能帶來滿足感，工作上的關係，不足以代替真正的友誼。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">都对‼️承认自己是工作狂，要改变只有把重心点放在投资情感帐户多一点。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">是时候要戒&rdquo;工作狂毒&rdquo;了😂</span></p>','2024-07-01 15:06:31.594','2024-07-01 15:06:31.594',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:06:31.593',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9c5002ab-67fd-467a-bb38-7fcf4a4f8a2f','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>好好珍惜，道理如同大家在过每一天的时候，要活得像这是我们人生中的最后一天。</p>
<p>1)事先分配时间</p>
<p>以终为始</p>
<p>2)做你的核心要务</p>
<p>定期列出需要加强关糸的名单，什么事情是我能提供的</p>
<p>3)聪明投资</p>
<p>最希望儿子的人生做到哪三件事</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 14:43:17.128','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa15577a-01ed-4ed2-b455-6dd5c985620e','e156cdbe-9d10-4d01-be9d-6ae421e9d6f6','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>建立长远的好关系也不是件简单易事，时间是重点，因为每个人只有24个小时，且不等人，我们得为自己，为生活，为事业，为家人，所以可以提前分配，善用它，也专注在核心和重要的事情，才不至于浪费光阴，</p>','2024-07-01 14:58:30.325','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0633a6c9-3216-402f-b2a1-67ed42998f35','094b7f8b-043d-4b40-902e-4367fdde83fc','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>唯有转换到内在目标，才会获得真正想要的，需要从爱出发，建立关糸，分享智慧</p>','2024-07-01 14:46:40.087','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f57a8f6e-b556-40f8-89fe-05aac2ce7542','9e9691fc-b2e0-4444-84c9-af3c23181c24','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>无论线上、线下的经商都得满足客户需求以及竞争优势。</p>','2024-08-26 15:19:18.992','2024-08-26 15:19:18.992',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:19:18.991',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4d38f4e9-86f4-4b85-9a6a-764161b849aa','be0f09a0-625f-4174-9c91-995ba5955735','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>我是基督徒，我相信上帝给我的一切都是最好的安排，我接受，我感恩，我无怨言。</p>
<p>当遇到过不去的坎时，我祈求上天的指引，带领引导我走应走的路，虽然也许那不是我所愿的，但我知道那是祂给我最好的安排。</p>
<p>人一生中充满感恩，即使有时候会遇到我们及不喜欢，极不想和她说谢谢的人，也许可以用作者提供的那四句话:</p>
<p>1。谢谢你让我遇到你</p>
<p>2。感谢你为我带来的看见和学习</p>
<p>3。感谢你成为我人生的一面镜子</p>
<p>4。感谢你扮演了自己的角色</p>
<p>感谢是宇宙间的大能量，是人生解脱和突破的钥匙。</p>','2024-09-07 01:24:38.83','2024-09-07 01:25:43.503',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-07 01:25:43.502',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e5c6a57-fecf-4338-a028-a5d43e81f61f','0487c5cb-70ab-48b3-afc2-6f52f044f354','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>学听话：用心听，当别人在说话时，练习不插嘴，不妄断，不心不在焉，把别人说的每一句话，结结实实给听进去。</p>
<p>不听话的人，心中只有我，没有人，一定会活得很累。</p>
<p>听话好处：听到过去听不到的事，听到了感受，听到了人和事背后的因缘，听到了别人和自己的合一，听到了活在当下。</p>
<p>学说话：别人不问，不轻易说；必要说时，只说几句；说的时候，整个人都在，而且把心放在听者身上；说话留大空间，让听者自己去想明白；所说每一句话，都是自己正在做的。</p>
<p>教育之道：爱与榜样而已。</p>
<p>练习：1。练习不说，多听，多看，多做；2。练习少说，能用一句话说完的，3。为人说，说的当下要不断觉察是为我，为事还是为人说。</p>
<p>赞美：能听到你内心微弱而模糊的声音，把它清晰而坚定的说出来，让你知道自己很好，还可以更好。不为满足他和你的自我，而是给你灵魂当下最需要的养分，能触动你生命中幽微，甚至尚未觉察的部分，给你温暖和支持的同时，让你立刻感受到自己仍有不足，仍需精进。</p>','2024-09-15 04:15:28.433','2024-09-15 04:15:28.433',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-15 04:15:28.432',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('332170bc-2256-4dac-aaab-e69f1e231bf7','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>承认自己对成功成瘾，要认真面对之前靠超时工作来逃避的事。</p>
<p>自己最近就意识到一直给妈妈到空谈 说有空带她去旅行什么的 可是却一直&rdquo;找不到时间&rdquo;</p>
<p>直到有天她受不了了 泄愤的说出她对我的失望 才让我害怕 和她的关系会因此而被破坏了</p>
<p>要认错，用行动来证明对妈妈的爱，而不是take it for granted</p>','2024-07-01 15:02:56.067','2024-07-01 15:02:56.067',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:02:56.066',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0cde8b8c-9804-4862-9065-871a4143e509','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>如果长期忽视&ldquo;心爱之人&rdquo;,基本上就会失去他们,如果是这样,就需要重新唤醒休眠的人际关系能力.</p>
<p>对关系来说,行动胜于空谈,不只是说说而已.有一种人是打算要改变人生,结果一打算就打算了.数十年</p>','2024-07-01 15:04:20.656','2024-07-01 15:04:20.656',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:04:20.655',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c5a6d100-bde5-43d2-bcc1-33478ba920ea','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>史蒂芬勇于表达自己的内心想法，去追他的教育梦。 他以身示教，让孩子学生们知道什么是首要成就（品格，正直），什么是次要成就 （人气，头衔，职位，财富等）</p>
<p>期待这本由西恩组织编排的书，大家一起共勉之</p>
<p>謝瑋盈<br>Annie Chai</p>','2024-07-01 15:11:21.983','2024-07-01 15:11:21.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:11:21.982',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f01ec7d2-d08d-4c9e-b52a-d6d154b7cd76','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>一生重复最多次的,不是呼吸,而是念头,这些念头会影响我们的近康,诱发我们的情绪,决定我们的人际关系、事业成败、人生的方向和意义.</p>
<p>所以,人生最重要的事就是要管好自己的&ldquo;念头&rdquo;</p>
<p>无论做什么事,用真心才不会错过.不管怎样,首先竭尽全力、专心致志、全神贯注於当前分内之事,置心一处於初衷</p>','2024-08-26 15:36:39.491','2024-08-26 15:36:39.491',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:36:39.49',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('84f165b2-8c0e-4888-b451-ac81415bbad6','83bfaa3c-fda6-4201-a6c9-f1971200a917','364a752e-ec1b-4e2b-ba8a-fc446c704627','<p>I like to explore the Frequently ask question and also providing options to close the deal.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 15:19:47.219','2024-07-01 15:19:47.219',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:19:47.219',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6a4a79d4-b51e-4352-a92f-871662c60dc7','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','77c4137c-93ad-42c0-8165-382807fec821','<p>置心一处，就能启用；置于何处，且问初衷。</p>','2024-08-26 15:42:10.21','2024-08-26 15:42:10.21',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:42:10.209',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88091964-de6f-4b25-949a-7150b99f4542','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人际关系</span></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">你需要强大的人际连结，助你攀上第二曲线，一路向上。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">不论你多内向，少了健康的亲密关系，不可能快乐到老，</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">如果是已婚者，有爱的伴侣式配偶关系是幸福的关键。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">婚姻与家人不足以取代亲密的友谊，培养友情不能随缘。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">交友是需要练习、时间与投入的技能，</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">即便刻意结交的工作伙伴，同样能带来满足感，工作上的关系，不足以代替真正的友谊。</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">大家为了逃避建立人际关系的三大理由</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。我真的没时间。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。承认自己是工作狂后说：&rdquo;我的关系千疮百孔，不知从何救起。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。我不认为人们会原谅我。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">光说对不起，可能无法立刻或不足以让伤口愈合、但这是好的开始，尤其是许下承诺的时候z</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">对关系来讲，行动胜于空谈，尤其如果你过去讲的几乎全是空话。</span></p>','2024-07-01 15:37:49.323','2024-07-01 15:37:49.323',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:37:49.322',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f67239e-ff22-420d-bc93-1c6ec095eba3','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>人际关系：</p>
<p>友情是无可替代的。</p>
<p>就算是有友伴式配偶，有关系亲密的家人，合作无间的同事，也无法取代亲密的我友谊。</p>
<p>交友是需要练习，时间与投入的技巧。</p>','2024-07-01 15:43:08.235','2024-07-01 15:43:09.61',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:43:09.609',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0c40e07-596b-4f34-836e-c3932dcaf40a','f6af63a9-26bc-425c-9197-ee8c90438eec','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>勇于听见自己的心声，那是多么容易却又如此困难的事情。多少人的一生过得浑浑噩噩，就因为假装听不到自己内心的声音，结果是过一天算一天，抑郁不得志的走完自己的人生。</p>
<p>每个人都有自己独特的天赋，若能善用天赋为世界做出特殊的贡献，人生就不算白来。</p>
<p>期许着能够透过阅读此书，从柯维的思想结晶里收获活出首要成就的人生。</p>','2024-07-01 15:43:29.354','2024-07-01 15:43:29.354',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:43:29.353',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('524cbd9b-d07f-43b7-9ce4-15b3f189c3c2','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','a1b3cb7c-f3c4-4ffb-82dc-fe72e7a3628c','<p>工作狂的人需要靠超時工作來逃避事實， 沒有工作也不知打發時間。 培養健康人際關係需要靠練習，多與人接觸，維持充實生活。</p>','2024-07-01 15:47:41.05','2024-07-01 15:47:41.05',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:47:41.05',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90ac63ed-0011-4867-a986-dc180e41d1e2','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>记住，成瘾行为的典型征兆，就是非人的东西开始取代人际关系。</p>','2024-07-01 15:50:23.119','2024-07-01 15:50:24.442',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:50:24.442',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('731d604e-5f71-4a4a-a6c2-31d6b73da01f','fa1016ac-b8aa-4920-b18f-53cbfc7a2dc0','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>4.管好【念头】</p>
<p>念头常常被忽略，没有经过刻意反省/觉察的念头，有可能导致我们本末倒置，伤害了别人，耽误了大事。</p>
<p>5. 找回【真心】</p>
<p>不忘初衷，用心于每个当下，做好本分，就会得到充实和有价值的人生。</p>
<p>6. 放下评判心</p>
<p>坦然迎接每个境遇，没有判断，就是活在当下。勇敢面对现实，享受过程。</p>','2024-08-26 15:46:04.712','2024-08-26 15:46:04.712',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-26 15:46:04.711',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7a7112a7-f71e-4ee3-897c-5a944d816136','7f209e9f-7ec7-4b24-9eb0-6e707e24187b','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>该除爱中的障碍。重新分配时间，投入更多精力在重建友谊和家庭生活。下定决心进行改变，重新唤醒休眠已久的人际关系能力。</p>','2024-07-01 15:57:07.587','2024-07-01 15:57:10.153',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 15:57:10.152',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5bf57683-114a-4fd6-89f9-f5c4fca21d35','c2b539bc-eaf6-416d-bb5b-d294c2a5c40b','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>品格决定成败，而这十二个槓桿则是实现成功的重要工具和途径。</p>','2024-07-01 17:15:10.606','2024-07-03 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016','2024-07-03 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8b0f9ed9-1de5-41f8-9c15-e97f24b187b9','c088e5c8-d5cb-472b-900b-b2bc4310d61d','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>今天为自己添加了新知识❤️ 重新排放铁达尼号的躺椅，就是形容人们去做人生没意义的小事，而不去做真正重要的事。 这种人真的处处可见，如果是和这样的人共事，确实需要很足够的耐心。想要跳过首要成就，直接进入次要成就一般都不会长久。想要拥有快乐而且稳定的成就，就应该按部就班的去达到目标。</p>','2024-07-01 11:18:05.546','2024-07-02 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014','2024-07-02 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac1da91b-e514-4d47-a265-52996b9185c7','eacca2d3-609f-4e0d-8fcb-57d9b25c9fe4','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 18 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Onion Marketeology - Chapter 5 &nbsp;ConversionRate</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Highly Visual Menus Or Visual Merchandizing Display (Page 089-094)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Highly visual menus or visual merchandising display - visibility in social media and shop &hellip; let ppl will know u ..</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Recommendation - eg:top 10 music</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Educate on how to buy and what to do - show client the purchase your product / service flow<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp; </span>eg give template to show prospects steps </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Sell on emotion and dreams- focus on emotional benefits especially pain points </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Easy entry product -lower price to get engagement </span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">Corporate visit / site tour<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp; </span>- tour the company or factory facility - to get trust </span></li>
</ol>','2024-07-01 21:04:39.223','2024-07-01 21:04:39.223',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-01 21:04:39.222',NULL,NULL);
