INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('621015ec-0a4e-457b-843a-ab65c1b7f7ef','64c6ce3d-82b5-40a5-88d6-bd88b2622d70','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「你認為「有」，就要舉出例子，舉不出例子，就是假說。不要用一個假說，強行說服另外一個人必須認可你的觀點。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 13:49:41.523','2024-12-16 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-16 00:00:00.028','2024-12-16 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('beb4c012-2f38-4667-96f8-3bffbd1884a1','090384b3-c089-4ed0-aecf-abf0ed2c92a8','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「複利公式的核心「高收益率」，在大多數情況下並不存在。你只看到別人贏，卻沒有看到別人輸；你只看到短期贏，卻沒有看到長期輸。在複利效應要求的長期內，高收益率幾乎無法實現。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 13:53:43.334','2024-12-18 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-12-18 00:00:00.009','2024-12-18 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f85e2d4d-1330-47e2-bd8c-48b5437c10d0','d5d53388-d6df-4a15-b554-8af01bf8cb2a','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day29：11月 29日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第七章： 如何与子女及父母对话？（Page151-156）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我喜欢马歇尔&bull;卢森堡说过，当他意识到无法让孩子完全按照他的意思行事时，他与孩子之间的关系就发生了巨大的变化&mdash;&mdash;他只能硬逼着他们听话。然而，他在这么做的时候却发现，孩子的反应总是会让他对自己的举动感到后悔。用「权力控制」的模式与孩子相处，亲子关系就是会朝着这种方向发展。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我反而会想用在成年人身上，多问和了解他的需求来达到共识。双赢思维。</span></p>','2024-11-29 15:57:13.061','2024-11-29 15:57:13.061',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-29 15:57:13.06',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c8c4db0c-8a31-45dd-a436-467b06da801e','d5d53388-d6df-4a15-b554-8af01bf8cb2a','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>试图为孩子打理好一切、避免他们受伤的想法，虽然出于爱，却可能适得其反，反而会削弱他们面对挑战和承担责任的能力。</p>','2024-11-29 15:58:30.522','2024-11-29 15:58:30.522',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-29 15:58:30.521',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('948d79d8-14b1-4993-b5cf-d9cce1048c75','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「權力控制的教育無法讓我得到想要的親子關係，權力共享的教育才能幫助父母與孩子建立想要的親子連結。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-24 22:11:28.64','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('edb0202a-adeb-421b-aa6f-97405f2ebf17','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>从【权力控制教育】到【权力共享教育】，用的方法是通过沟通技巧去找出每个人的权力，让彼此的需要获得满足。</p>
<p>让彼此理解在权力拉扯过程，到底彼此的需求是什么？书上的例子：父母需要安全感、孩子需要自由和掌控权。两者的需求其实并不冲突。只有让彼此看见彼此的需求，如何互相满足彼此的需求，会有更好的结果。信任，是关系的基石。</p>','2024-11-24 23:44:33.396','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6c2dd016-9c2b-418d-a767-ab6f28d357a8','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>非暴力沟通在和孩子，尤其是青春期的孩子对话，是非常有效的沟通方法。</p>','2024-11-29 13:22:42.78','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('493629d2-81d1-4adb-a239-021440a17ce8','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>建立权力共享的教育，让彼此的需要都能得到满足。</p>
<p>&ldquo;你现在愿意花10分钟，和我一起想想我们可以怎么做，才能满足彼此的需要，使这件事皆大欢喜吗？&rdquo;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-28 10:27:47.202','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a5e90d78-4b3f-4240-aaff-06a377719079','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day30</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">11</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-MY">30</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">透过非暴力沟通，建立权力共享的教育（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page156-160</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">突然發覺 只有珍惜你的人才願意溝通。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">不珍惜你的人 想方設法都溝通不來或不願回覆。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">孩子們都是獨立體 想獲得親子連結 那應該與孩子們權力共享。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 02:09:03.426','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b4119cfa-f0e0-4040-8b06-db931fdec347','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>權力控制的教育無法做到想要的親子關係，權力共享的教育才能幫助父母和孩子建立想要的親子關係。</p>','2024-11-29 01:01:55.237','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('86d60585-9eda-4933-b71c-25a3ccce7bb2','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>权力控制无法让我们得到想要的亲子关系，权力共享的教育才能帮助父母与孩子建立想要的亲子连接。</p>','2024-11-29 01:51:02.348','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c09f736-7e76-4381-b41f-1aa7abea1e18','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>不要依赖权力<br>而是说出自己的感受，最主要的目的，父母可能也是不想管只是在自己看不到的地方难免会担心</p>
<p>双方都说出自己的感受，再讨论双方都满意的可行性去解决</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 08:43:40.808','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6466b860-c159-45e9-9e06-354e7e5ae711','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>权利共享的教育</p>
<p>-利用沟通技巧找出每个人的权利</p>
<p>-拟定双方都能接受的解决方案</p>
<p>让彼此的需求都得到满足</p>','2024-11-29 12:15:34.506','2024-11-30 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022','2024-11-30 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('02f75ac0-a347-4a16-8185-9af580046d41','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>身为父母的我们，确实有要对孩子有信心。找出让我们因为感到生气、担忧而不同意孩子的请求背后的真正原因，坦诚与孩子沟通（我们的需要），寻求孩子的理解，情况会改善。有了这招，就可以当和事佬了。</p>','2024-11-30 00:40:11.314','2024-11-30 00:40:11.314',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 00:40:11.312',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e31c15b8-b607-4e5c-a14b-973de4a6601b','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>孩子有自己的需要請求，父母則担憂孩子的安全； 唯有雙方坦誠沟通，让彼此的需要被听见。</p>
<p>權力共享的教育，幫助父母与孩子建立更紧密的親子连結。</p>','2024-11-30 02:15:35.765','2024-11-30 02:15:35.765',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 02:15:35.763',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29d6932b-d3d7-4dfa-a803-adc3d8b4c8ea','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>我覺得關於親子教育很大的部分是在每天身為父母的言行舉止中。</p>
<p>如果父母其中一個人出國每天都會打電話來報備，而且還會分享旅行中有趣的事情，小孩子看在眼裡長大之後也會覺得這樣子做是理所當然的。一切都盡在不言中。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 02:30:31.592','2024-11-30 02:30:31.592',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 02:30:31.59',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25c2b6c1-3226-408f-b261-2722a1fc28ec','73d404e3-c3a6-4105-8463-cfb9bcce8d62','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「有25%的機率獲得成功，已經希望很大了，但是依然有75%的機率會失敗，怎麼辦？那就不接受失敗，再來一次。如果你曾連續創業四次，每次成功的機率是25%的話，那麼四次裡面有一次成功就是比較大機率的事件了。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:01:19.991','2024-12-21 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2024-12-21 00:00:00.026','2024-12-21 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8caf375d-a070-4f8e-b1bd-6bdfe93049f7','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>【权力共享教育】,首先要学会聆听知道对方/孩子(内心)需要的是什么,学习尊敬孩子的獨立/特个性,不是由高而下的不对等@用权力指示/使孩子。</p>','2024-11-30 05:36:18.747','2024-11-30 05:36:18.747',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 05:36:18.746',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('879237b3-0e1a-4d6e-9d48-81490372f2de','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>&nbsp;I message, 把我们的感受/需要清楚表达的同时也去同理孩子们的需要。</p>','2024-11-30 14:33:55.913','2024-11-30 14:33:55.913',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 14:33:55.911',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9baa454e-4c86-44e8-91f9-d7b364084270','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>人性涉及生存和繁衍，无善无恶。母性，炫富，爱美都是人性，都为了获得繁衍的机会。</p>
<p>道德是约束人性达成群体繁衍的繁荣。感恩，宽容是道德。</p>
<p>法律是维护群体存在的道德底线。一旦触犯就受到惩罚。</p>','2024-11-30 03:11:00.863','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('325c118a-2618-45c6-9589-6835e00d2b48','cb6d220d-92fd-4318-a1a2-1f763b160b08','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>简化流程提高效率</p>
<p>对的制度有效控制</p>
<p>有效的系统让运作流畅</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:48:07.576','2024-12-14 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-12-14 00:00:00.011','2024-12-14 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('19c4764a-9544-4c75-b831-e891f5a2c178','b5cfb88c-2f34-4054-839b-69128f550b29','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「是儘早存到足夠的本金。獲得財富自由第一重要的事，是培養賺錢的能力。賺錢要靠本金，而不是靠複利。你都沒有本金，哪來的錢生錢呢？」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 03:59:54.102','2024-12-19 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-12-19 00:00:00.026','2024-12-19 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af0a0dbc-9c16-46ac-b364-0ec490916750','9b34e463-2f33-406d-a7a5-57ac0149c61f','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「什麼是運氣？運氣就是機率，只不過加了一點感情色彩。對我們有利的機率，我們將其稱為「走運」；對我們不利的機率，我們將其稱為「倒楣」。所謂「創業靠運氣」，去掉感情色彩，即創業成功非常重要的因素之一，就是機率。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:00:42.613','2024-12-20 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-20 00:00:00.008','2024-12-20 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1740f6df-1860-4890-b787-c7a5fc6ef4cb','6bf29380-f700-4309-a81d-0a823101d638','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「我們學習機率論，不是為了去算題，而是為了理解這種思考方法，這樣，在做人生選擇的時候，就能選對那條大機率成功的道路。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:01:49.444','2024-12-22 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-22 00:00:00.032','2024-12-22 00:00:00.032',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:02:23.523','2024-12-23 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-12-23 00:00:00.011','2024-12-23 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b73db5f4-2662-48bf-bdd3-ad23fe488249','1df9e5fd-444d-4d7d-ad30-e4294526e0b5','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「公理沒有對錯，不需要被證明，公理是一種選擇，是一種共識，是一種基準原則。<br>制定不同的公理，就會得到完全不同的公理體系，也就會得到完全不同的結果。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:02:55.721','2024-12-24 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-24 00:00:00.025','2024-12-24 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8dba7d1d-fb4b-4481-b173-d54bc487775f','ea8079c9-b0c2-4f7b-9b73-06258e711936','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「還有一種情況：做同一件事情，有的人想往東走，有的人想往西走，有的人想往北走，而你並不知道哪個方向是正確的。這時，你想要的，不是合力的大小，而是方向的相對正確性。那你該怎麼辦呢？<br>你就讓他們都去幹這件事吧。雖然大家的方向不同，彼此會互相牽制，力的大小也會有損耗，但是最終事情的走向，會是那個相對正確的方向。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:03:25.657','2024-12-25 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-12-25 00:00:00.006','2024-12-25 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c16a33ff-7e8a-45c5-b94a-3e14bbe95ffb','b7f220f7-db3d-4b69-8e36-a54da9d035b1','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「所謂「從心所欲不逾矩」，不是說你要約束自己，讓自己想做的事情不越出邊界，而是你會因為擁有符合規律的思維方式，所以做的事情根本就不會越出邊界。<br>這，就是從心所欲的自由。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:04:19.618','2024-12-26 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-12-26 00:00:00.015','2024-12-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e5d9a5c-eb2a-420c-8dd1-e28eae8c1368','7879f9db-a7aa-487a-bdc7-2150dc5886ed','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「理解了關係和關係背後的規律，你不但能在複雜的系統中理解現在，甚至還能在一定程度上預測未來。<br>所有的戰略，都是站在未來看今天。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 04:05:45.843','2024-12-27 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-27 00:00:00.031','2024-12-27 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7c8e4927-a4c5-4e06-b1ca-6bbfadf70d66','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day30：11月 30日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">透过非暴力沟通，建立权力共享的教育（Page156-160）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">透过非暴力沟通，建立权力共享的教育:&rdquo;权力控制的教育&rdquo;、&rdquo;权力共享的教育&rdquo;是利用技巧去找出每个人的权力，並针对双方都能接受的解决方案，让彼此需要都能得到满足。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">多用&rdquo;权力共享的教育&rdquo;，eg<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp; </span>&ldquo;再跟我多说一些吧。&rdquo;&rdquo;来我们一起想想怎么做，才能满足彼此的需要，使这件事可以双赢/皆大欢喜&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">仅在必要时动用强制力，以避免伤害（ protective use of force) </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">想避免伤害，为任何人行使强制力时，记得要保护好自己。</span></p>','2024-11-30 05:42:16.73','2024-11-30 05:42:37.634',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 05:42:37.633',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b97e04a9-f846-4ba3-80ec-4cc41e66dca9','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>高高在上的说话方式无法让彼此的需要被听见。</p>
<p>权利共享的教育，可以彼此有谈判的空间。达成两方的需要。</p>','2024-11-30 06:18:52.154','2024-11-30 06:18:52.154',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 06:18:52.152',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b2d7ab92-9d87-4e97-8d1c-5e480261429e','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>关于这件事情，我想听听你的想法和意见，你愿意花几分钟和我聊聊吗？＂</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>＂或许我们一起想想怎么做，才能满足彼此的需要？＂</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>＂权力共享的教育＂是帮助父母与孩子建立良好关系的不二法门，也是彼此找到双方都能接受的解决方案，让双方的需要得到满足。</p>','2024-11-30 08:21:10.281','2024-11-30 08:21:10.281',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 08:21:10.28',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1d160474-89df-4916-b9cc-09b3ad683e17','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>权力共享者会让人感觉舒适、新切，从而更能达到好沟通，好关系。因此彼此理解对方的需要与感受颇为重要。</p>','2024-11-30 13:44:43.242','2024-11-30 13:44:43.242',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 13:44:43.241',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('36dbf4d5-832f-4fdc-9357-e749d4febfc1','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>权利控制和权利共享真的分别很大。作为父母真的很不容易，需要有一定的智慧，要不然容易造成亲子之间的关系破裂。这一课明白了当父母的不容易，想起以前真的令父母担心，真的很不孝。要把关系建立的很好需要满足双方的需要，达到双赢模式。</p>','2024-11-30 13:47:00.125','2024-11-30 13:47:00.125',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 13:47:00.123',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af82850c-42f1-456d-8291-0c3d7b7728e9','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>权力共享是双方有良好的沟通，让对方了解自己的需求，寻求最佳且双方都可以接受的方案。不把天聊死，不把关系弄僵。</p>','2024-11-30 14:27:13.554','2024-11-30 14:27:13.554',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 14:27:13.553',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac961b52-2aa8-4042-9fd1-a76574b21cac','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>运用非暴力沟通方式向他人表达感激之情时，可以避开批评别人，还可以让对方知道，我们也一样感到幸福快樂。这是最好的礼物。</p>
<p>用感谢取代奖励可以让人感觉快乐幸福，也让我们活在当下，给自己与他人建立更紧密的连结。</p>','2024-11-30 14:49:04.621','2024-11-30 14:49:04.621',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 14:49:04.62',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55289deb-d3b0-498d-be57-83b0cc8129ee','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;权利共享的教育&rdquo;是利用沟通技巧去找出每个人的权利，并针对问题拟定双方的解决方案，让彼此的需要都得到满足。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;再跟我说多一些吧&rdquo;这句话是一个很好用的战术。可以借此争取一些思考眼前情况的时间。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。利用观察（客观陈述状况）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。感受 （说出你的感受）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。需要 （表达你的需求</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4。请求 （提出具体的请求）</span></p>','2024-11-30 14:54:59.109','2024-11-30 14:54:59.109',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 14:54:59.108',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e790cfeb-e0c9-443f-a923-8c38b70c77ff','b7f220f7-db3d-4b69-8e36-a54da9d035b1','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>系统思维</p>
<p>在「千百十个」中的千位也就是时代变化。</p>
<p>很多人遇到问题时，都习惯从「个位」也就是管理上找原因。但是这些方法就像汤勺往下沉的船外舀水，效果不明显。</p>
<p>在「个位」上努力对抗不了「千位」上的变化的，由于为时已晚，就这样错失了最好的转型机遇。</p>
<p>只有理解了关系和关系背后的规律，才能在复杂的系统中理解现在。</p>
<p>戴上系统思维的眼镜才能透过表像看清本质。比如，在外卖平台上卖午餐，在距离大楼3千公尺的深港之内，租个便宜的地方，小前厅大厨房，租金省了80%。</p>
<p>只有戴上系统思维的眼镜，透过表象看本质，看到餐厅、产品、使用者、地段等要素在系统中的交易结构变化，才能够及时认清当下的处境，挽救自己于困境之中。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-30 08:23:35.906','2024-12-26 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-12-26 00:00:00.015','2024-12-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8748f4b5-bc63-437a-9f27-6402e47cea7b','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>透过［非］建立权力共享，不是权力控制的亲子关系。</p>
<p>让孩子知道他的需要有被我们听到，<br>也让他了解我们的需要，找出双方都能接受的新方案。</p>','2024-11-30 15:02:58.735','2024-11-30 15:02:58.735',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 15:02:58.734',NULL,NULL);
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<li>理清彼此真正的感受和真正的需要</li>
<li>放下原本的期望或是策略</li>
<li>满足双方的需求为目标</li>
<li>用开放的态度找寻满足双赢的解决方案</li>
</ol>','2024-11-30 14:55:03.241','2024-11-30 15:14:25.18',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 15:14:25.179',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7628bad4-bd04-4a68-8d27-2570e6d6e3c7','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day30：11月 30日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>透过非暴力沟通，建立权力共享的教育（Page156-160）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>权力共享的教育才能帮助父母与孩子建立想要的亲子连结。</p>','2024-11-30 15:53:55.158','2024-11-30 15:53:55.158',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 15:53:55.157',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22fe36fc-fb28-41e0-9022-50feead5002d','0b5c2422-a4dc-4a8a-a67e-134bddb9f835','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>孩子觉得我不信任他，但其实我只是为了让自己安心，所以希望在外出时能保持联系。通过一起讨论，我们找到一个双方都能接受的新方案，不仅愉快地解决了问题，还让我们的关系更加紧密。只有共同分享信任和责任，才能建立更深的亲子连接。</p>','2024-11-30 16:00:26.317','2024-11-30 16:00:26.317',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-11-30 16:00:26.302',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a30fb396-c41e-48e2-b8d1-543c6aef3182','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>1.强制力是为了避免自己受到伤害，但请不要伤害他人</p>
<p>2. 孩子的自主权是为了让孩子自己的声音和想法被听见</p>','2024-11-30 15:05:37.477','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7b4872c5-d994-44f6-a93b-9eec5e603600','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>一个人的表述可分为四种：事实、观点、立场和信仰 <br><br>事实有真假，事实是最不容易产生争议的客观存在。事实是独立于个人的判断的客观存在。但是，面对较复杂的现实世界，人也可能因为不够了解而判断错误。 <br><br>观点是人对一个事实的看法，观点无对错。观点是因个人的知识结构、所掌握的讯息和思维模式而决定的。每个人可能会觉得自己的观点才是&lsquo;&rsquo;事实&lsquo;&rsquo;。人与人之间的冲突就是从观点的不同而引起。 <br><br>立场是被位置和利益影响的观点。立场是&lsquo;&rsquo;我们不争对错，只争输赢。&lsquo;&rsquo; <br><br>不要和有立场的人争对错。因为在利益面前，彼此之间只看见输赢，或双赢。 <br><br>信仰，是一套完全自洽的逻辑体系。信仰是自己信的是&lsquo;&rsquo;对&lsquo;&rsquo;的。尊重自己，用时也尊敬他人的信仰。我喜欢傅佩荣老师对信仰的诠释。他说信仰是一种关系，是与超越界的关系。傅老师的课：谈宗教与哲学<br><br>https://ocw.aca.ntu.edu.tw/ntu-ocw/index.php/ocw/cou/102S202<br><!--/data/user/0/com.samsung.android.app.notes/files/clipdata/clipdata_bodytext_241201_075158_675.sdocx--></p>','2024-11-30 23:52:29.281','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('65402d35-0326-4664-a6cc-8643fdbc0a94','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>&lsquo;&rsquo;为什么+观点&lsquo;&rsquo;就是一只&lsquo;&rsquo;注射器&lsquo;&rsquo;。注射器&lsquo;&rsquo;背后是一方想要给他方洗脑的观点。这&lsquo;&rsquo;为什么+观点&lsquo;&rsquo;是一个非理性反应。这是思维重大的漏洞，是个思维陷阱。 <br><br>人也会通过问自己&lsquo;&rsquo;为什么+观点&lsquo;&rsquo;而给自己自圓其说。别把单纯的事，让心理剧场把它变成不再单纯。<!--/data/user/0/com.samsung.android.app.notes/files/clipdata/clipdata_bodytext_241201_075307_149.sdocx--></p>','2024-11-30 23:53:18.893','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('987c2079-c050-4ab8-859a-caaeff8c8ceb','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>在解剖问题时，阿德勒的&rdquo;课题分离&ldquo;理论是非常好的方法去梳理课题。什么是自己的课题，什么是他人的课题，要先分清楚。再来看谁的损失最大，就是谁的错。因为损失的是无法逆转。那么，损失到底是谁的课题？是A？B？还是C？在不同的视角下，答案不一样。例如书上提出的三种对错观：</p>
<p>1）法学家的对错观</p>
<p>2）经济学家的对错观</p>
<p>3）商人的对错观</p>
<p>终究，最大损失的人应该防范这场错误，才能真正解决一个课题。</p>','2024-11-17 13:48:27.334','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0f7f2e5-2e35-441e-811a-8b12175593c1','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>-仅在必要时动用强制力，以避免伤害</p>
<p>-尊重孩子的&ldquo;自主权&rdquo;</p>','2024-11-30 14:01:00.799','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('32a9c640-522f-496a-a583-58fa078460a5','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>Day 1 ：12月1 日 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>一个人心中，应该有三种【对错观】（Page 014-018）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>判断损失发生后应该怪谁，追究责任时，就看谁因此损失比较大。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>一件事情出现不好的结果时，责怪、埋怨、后悔都是无用的，因为它们改变不了结果，只能检讨自己的决策。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>如果自己有损失只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改变事情最终的结果---靠自己，自强者万强。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>＂我是一切的根源＂</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-24 06:39:08.981','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dfe3f868-5cfe-48c3-b711-c74af7d667c2','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">强制力避免伤害，在一个很多恶人泛滥的社会，要能做到这点，否则容易被人误会欺负</span></p>','2024-11-29 16:51:10.132','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c66741d4-bb02-47cb-91e8-2b94acc0dc99','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','576d96d0-dcd8-47c0-8ecc-c9881174d6fa','<p>从来未想過以三个不同的角度来思考。</p>
<p>以法, 能久治, 一概既全。</p>
<p>當以损失来考量, 却有和得不赏失感觉。</p>
<p>但以这三个不同的考量来解决团隊中的纠纷, 应该会很好用。</p>','2024-11-27 16:22:31.963','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f34eadd-98b2-451a-bf77-f96dd66467fc','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>非暴力沟通也需要运用强制力去避免伤害。</p>
<p>尊重孩子的自主权对亲子关系非常重要。</p>','2024-11-29 13:37:05.326','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c63249f8-f8ef-43a7-9402-624e37912d4b','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>有必要保護孩子和他人時，關鍵時刻也必須運用強制力避免傷害。</p>
<p>孩子們是獨立的 因此都有自主權 成人也需要尊重孩子們的意見和決定。</p>','2024-11-29 02:17:33.456','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('316948cb-339f-4a6a-963f-8c1c7519af3a','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「判斷損失發生後應該怪誰，就看誰因此損失大。<br>一件事情出現不好的結果時，責怪、埋怨、後悔都是無用的，它們改變不了結果。<br>如果自己有所損失，只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改變事情最終的結果──靠自己，自強者萬強。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 12:51:44.634','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('19106158-eade-4728-b166-0c77f95ffe36','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Day-1</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">1/12/2024</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - page 014-018</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【一个人心中，应该有三种「对錯观」】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">应用「课题分离」概念，解说三种「对錯观」，呼应了任一事件中的双方或涉及方，皆负有各自的部分责任。就个人而言，损失大，烦恼大，将眼光往內看，调整自己的情感与思维，利己利人。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">阿德勒说过：一切的烦恼皆源自于人与人之间的关系。因此，「要解决人际关系的烦恼，就要区分什么是你的课题，什么是我的课题。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">」</span></p>','2024-11-30 04:31:03.404','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6449df19-90dc-412c-ba83-787512aff3a9','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','b1d2b7e9-339b-46d2-9f25-30c45ecce2d1','<p>我喜欢这种思辨的过程。<br><br>第一天的阅读就已经爱上这本书。<br><br>在翻阅这本书时，我的客户刚拒绝了我的作品。<br><br>我认为我没错，毕竟这完全是依据 Propose 的路线前行的。<br><br>我尝试用三种错看待此事。<br><br>商人：是我的错，一定是流程上没有处理好，客户才会拒绝作品。因为这个错，我亏损了时间。<br>发学家：客户的错，明明都已经同意 Proposal 了，怎能最后拒绝？<br>经济学家：能以最低总成本避免犯错的是客户，因为他只要对决策够清晰，事情就会很顺利。但要让客户决策清晰，那就是我的工作。<br><br>所以谁对谁错？<br><br>这一章节，让我对此事有更立体的诠释与分析</p>','2024-11-29 05:26:47.617','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9de2fd6c-c7dd-46eb-824c-ac53fc551757','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>我們有時想要避免受到傷害，為孩子或任何人行使強制時，有時也是勢在必行。我們需要尊重孩子的自主權 ，權力控制的教育無法讓我們想要得到的親子关係。.</p>','2024-11-30 07:38:59.302','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5fcdf7e-bd40-472c-b3ab-ca824388dafc','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>谁损失最大就是谁的错，用这种心态来看待事情，更可以保持头脑清醒。发生了追究于事无补，清楚知道自己行为或反应的成本代价，避免不必要的纷争。</p>','2024-11-30 13:31:11.429','2024-12-01 00:00:00.032',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ffbe774-8e7a-4b6e-bd10-eb140ed6efe7','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>當小孩跟我唱反調的時候，我會讓時間慢下來，讓小孩知道我想要了解他，同時也讓他知道我的需求，一下子緊張的關係就變得輕鬆，因為小孩有台階下來。</p>','2024-12-01 01:04:17.299','2024-12-01 01:04:17.299',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 01:04:17.298',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c82d11e6-c2fe-48e1-a5e2-a3629e8a36dc','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>一辆卡车冲向在行人道走路，这个行人不让，因为走在行人道不是他的权力。</p>
<p>是谁的错？</p>
<ol>
<li>从法学家的角度～司机的错。如果证据据确实，是蓄意谋杀。但，行人因此受伤，死亡能够改变吗？</li>
<li>从经济学家的角度～ 货车主人的错，因为没有定期护理，馑慎选择驾车小心的司机。造成人命伤之，浪费公币进行司法审训。</li>
<li>从商人的角度 ～ 行人，因为损失最大。</li>
</ol>
<p>当解决的问题是我的课题又是我损失最大时，我还须浪费力先争论谁的对错，或是改变自己应对问题？</p>','2024-12-01 03:59:21.881','2024-12-01 08:16:39.181',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 08:16:39.18',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1716260-7f1d-43a9-b7e8-f0d8748cf6bc','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p dir="ltr">Day 1 ：12月1 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p dir="ltr">一个人心中，应该有三种【对错观】（Page 014-018）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>Alfred Adler 談到課題分離理論。</p>
<p>解決人際關係的煩惱，就是區分什麼是你的課題，什麼是我的課題。</p>
<p>不管是法學家的對錯觀、經濟學家的對錯觀或是商人的對錯觀，結論是</p>
<p>《誰的損失大 就是誰的錯》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 01:44:55.197','2024-12-01 01:44:55.197',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 01:44:55.196',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>底层逻辑 + 环境变数 =方法论</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>每个人心里应该都有三种&rdquo;对错观&rdquo;、 以法学家，商人和经济学家为主；&nbsp;</p>
<p>谁的损失大，就是谁的错； 一件事情不知道好坏之前，不要去评价，责怪和 后悔； 都是没用的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 03:46:35.883','2024-12-01 03:46:35.883',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 03:46:35.882',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('933e87b2-e545-4c01-898b-93547122e3fc','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>只是在必要的时候，动用强制力避免伤害。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>有些人未必在我方善良的时候，好好的沟通和相处。欺善怕恶的人的确存无处不在。</p>','2024-12-01 06:14:01.684','2024-12-01 06:14:01.684',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 06:14:01.683',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5c3de44-ec9e-49d3-92f2-4dbcbae5c6a2','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>法律对人克制了对上限的追求，更多地关注下限，避免本应该维护社会秩序的法律，成为社会的灾难。因此，人们才能在保证下限的基础上，努力地追求上限的目标和愿景。</p>','2024-12-01 06:27:15.745','2024-12-01 06:27:15.745',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 06:27:15.744',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a39054cb-8c56-46d1-9b88-71679898e2e5','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha: 认识到如果自己有所损失，只能怪自己。</p>
<p>Impact: 停止埋冤</p>
<p>Growth: 自己找解决方案，只有自己才可以改变事情。</p>','2024-12-01 08:50:55.203','2024-12-01 08:50:55.203',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 08:50:55.202',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8a9f5e5b-0e57-408d-9c66-35981c8ee66d','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>在必要時，行使強制力是出於關爰而非憤怒，更不帶有任何懲罰的意圖。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>尊重孩子的自主權，親子關係会更紧密。</p>','2024-12-01 08:58:04.134','2024-12-01 08:58:04.134',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 08:58:04.133',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3098884b-e285-4f8b-b055-a6661e7e3d81','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>如果自己有损失,只能怪自己.也只有自己才能改变事情的结果.凡事要问自己What is the worst case scenario before doing .</p>','2024-12-01 07:05:07.809','2024-12-01 07:05:07.809',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 07:05:07.808',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac39358a-308f-479a-82f5-5610dcc87da8','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>作为丈夫，我赞同要从&ldquo;自己的损失&rdquo;这个角度来判断谁的错。有些人天天和妻子吵架，到最后成功逼妻子认错，但是却没人做家务了。。。值得吗？</p>
<p>作为公司决策人，也可以说销量不好都是政府的错。政府无能、办事效率低下，难道没有错吗？当然有！但是，因为政府的错配上了自己的生活素质，值得吗？</p>
<p>问一句：值得吗？</p>','2024-12-01 07:23:08.231','2024-12-01 07:23:08.231',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 07:23:08.23',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eddf9a12-697b-42e8-b0d2-623aaa46dbd0','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>底层逻辑，其实是事物根本的规律，也许搞懂了，就知道事情该怎么掌握。<br>谁赔上的损失越大，就是谁的错。我虽然还不能完全同意，但事情发生后退后一步想想自己，绝对是有好处。</p>','2024-12-01 09:55:22.211','2024-12-01 09:55:22.211',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 09:55:22.209',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('26efd17a-7841-433e-902d-cb64f6dd4d76','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们都活在生活中，学会选择，常常就是学会放弃，选择一个，放弃其他，选择有时比努力重要，但放弃有时比选择更重要。我们应勇敢选择，然后享受好处，承担坏处。</p>','2024-12-01 03:56:19.432','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('97aa2de0-0a40-4ea8-a806-ff1c0610ea66','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p><strong>人性 - </strong>个体追求生存&amp;繁衍</p>
<p>道德-约束个地的人性达成群体的繁荣</p>
<p>法律 - 是道德的子集，是维护群体存在的道德底线</p>','2024-12-01 03:49:08.816','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c0e610b-c243-4983-8d6c-6dce4b434c11','5266840e-5b5c-44ae-9f83-dd6a31615e4a','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>思考求证，别完完全全相信看到和听到。</p>
<p>自己需要努力学习寻找逻辑答案。</p>','2024-12-01 06:51:33.698','2024-12-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-12-15 00:00:00.014','2024-12-15 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('795c1d38-22a6-40bc-a976-7edda01ceefd','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','c11fab34-c054-436b-a25e-f5fdf1c3976e','<p>看起来比较是「错」观而没有「对」观。当有事情发生，探讨谁的责任，反思自己，然后改进，当然很好。可是我比较感兴趣什么是对的？难道错的反面就是对吗？</p>
<p>假设上述被车撞的情况，我是第三者，我把那个人推去给车撞，造成社会新闻，从此法律比较严，少了车祸，是否我对了两个个观点，错了一个</p>','2024-12-01 09:49:13.289','2024-12-01 09:58:53.288',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 09:58:53.287',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('df3c82e4-904f-420a-86e2-9235dda3b92e','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>看一件事情对与错，不会只有一个观点，需要从不同角度去看</li>
<li>需要承担的责任，在于个人所面对的课题，并非一件事的发生都只有单方面去承担</li>
<li>自己有所损失，只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改变结果</li>
</ul>','2024-12-01 10:10:59.334','2024-12-01 10:10:59.334',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 10:10:59.333',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('08d93437-0db6-4b60-9de2-964229a5b3b8','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>每一件事情的发生，都会有不同的观点，而我们也应该站在不同的维度，多方面来看待/判断！</p>
<p>对与错，也是因为每个人扮演着不同的角色！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 11:22:06.454','2024-12-01 11:22:53.747',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 11:22:53.746',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1edd670c-2c8f-4cdf-b7b6-8b1559473751','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<p>今天学习到课题分离，要解决人际关系的烦恼，就要区分什么昰我的课题，什么是别人的课题。很多时候我都觉得不是我的错，都是别人的错，让我情绪很负面。</p>
<p>现在有三种对错观，判斷損失發生後應該怪誰，就看誰因此損失大。</p>
<p>一件事情出現不好的結果時，責怪、埋怨、後侮都是無用的，它們改變不了結果。</p>
<p>如果自己有所損失，只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改變事情最終的結果&mdash;靠自己，自強者萬強。</p>','2024-12-01 11:44:34.632','2024-12-01 11:44:42.018',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 11:44:42.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('059cf14a-8e76-4021-ad48-51d75b9b3078','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>事情发生的原因，其实只需要衡量利与弊，且不必费心思去责怪去追究，因为有些时候事情会变得复杂又&ldquo;嘥气&rdquo;。倒不如把这件事回过头从自身出发，去内省问题的何在。让自己更有能力去应对，去跨越和超越自己，而且通过如此也达到一定程度的自我觉知。虽然所有的事故由我出发，也要拿捏好内心深处的状态，不要掉入自我批判或者升起委屈的心态，这样也会莫名变成种损失。</p>','2024-12-01 11:50:57.754','2024-12-01 11:50:57.754',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 11:50:57.753',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d4bc63e2-463c-4c6e-9748-e269a8538512','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>一個人心中，應該有三種「對錯觀」。</p>
<p>1） 法學家的對錯觀</p>
<p>2）經濟學家的對錯觀</p>
<p>3） 商人的對錯觀</p>
<p>舉個例子： <strong>壞人A誘騙好人B進入C沒有銷門的工地，</strong> B失足摔死了。請問，這是誰的錯？</p>
<p>法學家説是 A的错, A誘騙 B犯罪.</p>
<p>經濟學家的看法是C的錯。如果C把門上銷，這樣的事就會減少发生，也就減低社會成～本。</p>
<p>商人可能這樣想： 不管是A的錯还是 C的錯，都死了，无法起死回生，B只能怪自己蠢到被 A誘編。</p>
<p>判斷損失发生后应该怪誰，就看誰因此損失大。</p>
<p>靠自己，自強者萬強。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 11:22:03.471','2024-12-01 11:24:47.542',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 11:24:47.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c187ce1d-cc0d-490e-8478-ad24997bc287','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>当事情发生的时候，我们会沉醉怪别人及不正确的对错观，而忽略了换位思考，自我反醒，加强自己。</p>','2024-12-01 11:58:26.764','2024-12-01 11:58:26.764',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 11:58:26.764',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3f89059-dec4-4553-a066-4fdd02d16ebc','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>在有生命危险的时候，我们必须使用一定的&ldquo;暴力&rdquo;去化解当下的危险，才慢慢沟通。</p>','2024-12-01 12:46:36.603','2024-12-01 12:46:36.603',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 12:46:36.602',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ae205e3-93fd-4014-b78c-9f8d4b296980','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>-一个人心中，应该有三种对错观。</p>
<p>-谁的损失大，就是谁的错。</p>
<p>-靠自己，自强者万强。</p>','2024-12-01 12:50:36.886','2024-12-01 12:50:36.886',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 12:50:36.885',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b2a0d29e-d86a-4664-9f45-44c74e54d291','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>三种对错观 ：</p>
<p>法学家的对错观</p>
<p>经济学家的对错观</p>
<p>商人的对错观</p>','2024-12-01 12:53:55.017','2024-12-01 12:53:55.017',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 12:53:55.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77e685e8-98e4-449b-8bd7-2190b666c65f','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>不让孩子总是处处为人着想，帮人的同时不忘自己的安全和需要。关键时刻总有自我保护意识。</p>
<p>双赢永远在人际交往中扮演在非常重要的角色。</p>','2024-12-01 13:04:42.547','2024-12-01 13:04:42.547',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:04:42.546',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43ad6474-4b4f-4906-9824-cf357422f342','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>以势压人，通常是绝对权力下才会花生</p>
<p>更家人说感谢</p>','2024-12-01 10:44:38.201','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9eea355e-b3fc-4be9-a43d-a8025795064d','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>博弈是人生三层智慧中的其中一项。要有与人共赢的好心态，懂的用策略，会以牙还牙，以眼还眼，不做老好人，总让自己吃亏，因而难过。</p>','2024-12-01 12:18:09.64','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b27fb5d5-ed60-4e59-8128-3305c3917540','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 1 ：12月1 日 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑<br>一个人心中，应该有三种【对错观】（Page 014-018）<br>&nbsp;<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>课题分离<br>三种"对错观"<br>⑴ 法学家的对错观<br>⑵ 经济学家的对错观<br>⑶ 商人的对错观</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>谁的损失大，就是谁的错。<br>发生的事,无法改变结果。如果自己有所损失，只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改变事情最终的结果。</p>','2024-12-01 13:20:06.921','2024-12-01 13:20:22.846',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:20:22.845',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('94de106d-89fa-4d7f-a6b1-dda6b06b70db','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>理解你&rdquo;以势压人&rdquo;的权威方式说话时，想想为何自己会感到那么无力。</p>
<p>表达感谢 - 和每个家人都表达一次感谢</p>
<p>与父母对话时如果感到焦虑，记得先同理自己</p>','2024-12-01 13:31:20.586','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7faee8ae-8110-4879-a145-f90998379673','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>当你在与同事对话时感到不愉快，想想你是什么需求没被满足到？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>客观观察 - 到底是什么事和话语引起了批判？</p>
<p>感受 - 回忆这些事时你的感受如何</p>
<p>需要 - 在反思时确认自己的需要，是否🈶被满足</p>
<p>请求 - 你对自己或对方有什么请求？坐下来和对方谈谈，或是找人来帮你练习你需要提升的部分</p>','2024-12-01 13:45:16.558','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a4355c5f-015c-4364-9835-d3abf39092c4','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>评论家：谁证据确凿。谁的错</p>
<p>政策制定者：谁社会总成本底，谁的错</p>
<p>真实人生：谁损失大谁的错</p>','2024-12-01 13:34:10.652','2024-12-01 13:34:10.652',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:34:10.651',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d989d3ed-3097-452b-80ec-e3601b54ec93','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>谁的损失大，就谁的错。</p>
<p>法学（法律）、经济学（制度）、商人学（个人得失）。</p>
<p>立场不一样，损失的看法及角度也不同。</p>','2024-12-01 13:39:25.565','2024-12-01 13:39:25.565',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:39:25.564',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4fe91202-b8f4-4043-bc00-9d058d682f0c','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<p>一个人心中应该有三种对错观@法学家，经济学家&amp;商人。不同的身份与情况会让人站在不同的立场即选择的对错观也会不相同。</p>','2024-12-01 13:40:33.095','2024-12-01 13:40:33.095',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:40:33.094',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('84e9aed0-bdf5-4694-8d27-3449d21d1316','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>当自己有所损失的时候，一定需要自我检讨，是什么原因让自己这样？可以如何改变避免类似的事情再发生？</p>
<p>只有我们自己才可以改变事情最终的结果。</p>','2024-12-01 13:42:00.86','2024-12-01 13:42:00.86',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:42:00.859',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e25b5bc-9cdb-48be-8a8a-a0c76996bfd2','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>为了对方或大家在特殊情况下使用強制力，这是在所难免，否则可能会帶来不幸。</p>
<p>但在大多时候让对方感到被尊重，那更是不可忽略，它会给彼此更易沟通和相处。</p>','2024-12-01 13:42:16.296','2024-12-01 13:42:16.296',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:42:16.295',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e3c34c6-bf9d-4b63-92a6-40a14f5e5bda','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>很多时候我们因为有着一种自我挫败的心态，而不敢向比我们有权威的人提出请求，使得我们的需求无法被满足。</p>
<p>要清楚知道自己想要什么有什么需求，才能向对方提出请求，让自己的需求被满足，这很需要练习和勇气呀！ 共勉之</p>','2024-12-01 13:49:52.716','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e00c3610-882f-4368-803a-0e460be87ac4','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>孩子从父母那里都会渴望得到爱与尊重</p>
<p>当你和父母沟通出现矛盾时，请记得现在心中静默的同理自己</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>用感谢取代奖励可以让人感到幸福，帮我们活在当下，与自己和他人建立更紧密的连接，避免评判的行为和态度。</p>','2024-12-01 13:29:28.055','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67b29e05-3577-42dd-b973-40e569ff006d','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>每当听见父母不尊重你的话，进而感到难过或恼怒时，請在心中靜默同理自己</p>','2024-12-01 13:49:14.738','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e84d5650-640f-4ebe-8d69-f6ae66a5ead6','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">要解決人際關係的煩惱，就要區分什麼是你的課題，什麼是我的課題。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">－個人心中，應該有三種「對錯觀」：1. 法學家的對錯觀：誰的證據確鑿誰的錯（@評論家）；2. 經濟學家的對錯觀：誰社會總成本低誰的錯（@政策制定者）；3. 商人的對錯觀：誰損失大，誰的錯（@真實人生）。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">判斷損失發生後應該怪誰，就看誰因此損失大。如果自己有所損失，只能怪自己，也只有自己才能改變事情最終的結果。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-12-01 13:53:12.701','2024-12-01 13:53:12.701',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 13:53:12.7',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b182e03a-ecba-4a56-9094-9ba40421bed9','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>人生中，博奕是第三层智慧，定力是第二层，选择是第一层。</p>
<p>希望在这个复杂多变的世界里，全身而退</p>
<p>实现共赢，拒绝诱惑。勇于选择不后悔，随心所欲不逾矩。拥有智慧，实现自己的人生目标</p>','2024-12-01 13:46:52.841','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c7b8d886-fe70-41b2-8f4d-338bbe23b356','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>理解什麼是以勢壓人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>表達感謝</p>
<p>與父母對話時，請在你感到焦躁不安時同理自己</p>','2024-12-01 13:51:16.035','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62416020-f87a-4be9-a403-fcc5eaceec55','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>平时与孩子沟通的时候可以多用非暴力沟通，但一些紧要关头还是要先行动，目的是为了避免孩子受伤，或者手为了维持好尊师重道、长幼有序的传统。重点是，让孩子感觉到自己被同理、被聆听。</p>','2024-12-01 14:01:25.493','2024-12-01 14:01:37.095',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:01:37.093',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d305144c-b3a3-4812-85ea-6cf039defd29','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>如有緊急狀况,例如为了防止一方被伤害,可动用强制力方式。但你的意图是出于关爱,而非愤怒或惩罚的意图。</p>
<p>權力控制的教育無法讓我們得到想要的親子关係。</p>','2024-12-01 14:01:52.451','2024-12-01 14:01:52.451',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:01:52.45',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cbf135f0-19af-44c4-8481-119441d60268','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>1.法学家的对错 2.经济学家的对错 3.商人的对错</p>
<p>最好选择商人的对错官，誰的损失大，就是谁的错。反是，靠自己改变，才有可能实现。</p>','2024-12-01 14:09:45.191','2024-12-01 14:09:45.191',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:09:45.191',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d776acb3-900a-4a96-a47d-e4b08f0de356','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','8ba62dba-0026-464f-a0d5-bd8c4d6c0430','<p>一个人应该具备三种&ldquo;对错观&rdquo;：<strong>法学家的对错观、经济学家的对错观和商人的对错观</strong>。</p>
<h3><strong>三种对错观的分析</strong></h3>
<ol>
<li>
<p><strong>法学家的对错观</strong><br>法学家从法律和道义角度判断，明确指出违法行为者的责任。然而，这种判断通常着眼于追责，对防止类似问题的发生作用有限。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>经济学家的对错观</strong><br>经济学家更关注社会整体成本，认为谁能以最低成本避免问题，谁就应该承担责任。这种对错观看似不公平，但从长远和整体利益来看更有效。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>商人的对错观</strong><br>商人强调个体责任，认为无论外界如何，最终应从自身出发，减少损失。因为谁承担了最大的损失，谁就应该为结果负责。</p>
</li>
</ol>
<h3><strong>总结</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li><strong>法学家</strong>看重法律与道德；</li>
<li><strong>经济学家</strong>关注社会总成本；</li>
<li><strong>商人</strong>优先考虑个体损失。</li>
</ul>
<p>当问题发生时，责怪他人无济于事，唯有承担责任并采取行动才能改变结果。<strong>靠自己，才能真正解决问题。</strong></p>','2024-12-01 14:17:55.721','2024-12-01 14:17:55.721',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:17:55.72',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9af55622-df5f-471b-81c4-a3847ce1d789','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day31</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-MY">1</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">仅在必要时动用强制力，以避免伤害（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page160-164</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">在必要的情况，得先启动强制力处理。</span></p>','2024-12-01 14:21:00.211','2024-12-01 14:21:00.211',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:21:00.21',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9cd187d5-c3f2-4cc7-918e-a998bf3e1d59','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">运用强制力避免伤害 Protective use of force</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">运用非暴力沟通不代表不能在受到威胁或危险时也不能运用强制力。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">尊重孩子的自主权</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">权利控制的教育无法让我们得到想要的亲子关系，其中一部分的原因是，它不承认或不尊重维持良好关系的基本条件：尊重他人的主权autonomy。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">恐怖两岁儿 Terrible Twos</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你要这个阶段的孩子要做什么，他们都会说&rdquo;不要！&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们需要让小孩感受到自己的声音有被听见，也明白了怎么做才能同时满足自己和父母的需要之后，他们才会心甘情愿的配合。</span></p>','2024-12-01 14:23:47.177','2024-12-01 14:23:47.177',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:23:47.176',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd1f8775-71b7-4d74-bacb-bf06bb88686f','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day31：12月 1日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">仅在必要时动用强制力，以避免伤害（Page160-164）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每个人都希望自己的声音被听见，被听见后，才懂怎么样满足对方的需要。大人小孩都一样需被尊重。</span></p>','2024-12-01 14:35:05.589','2024-12-01 14:35:05.589',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:35:05.588',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e79966b7-e34b-4147-b69d-5e911bfe4ec2','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>三种对错观</p>
<p>课题分离</p>
<p>法学家的对错观</p>
<p>经济学家的对错观</p>
<p>商人的对错观</p>
<p>靠自己，自强者万强</p>','2024-12-01 14:36:45.186','2024-12-01 14:36:54.822',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:36:54.821',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2d58e94-c50a-4747-aa1e-80afbaad18d5','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p dir="ltr">Day 1 ：12月1 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p dir="ltr">一个人心中，应该有三种【对错观】（Page 014-018）</p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p dir="ltr">以什么角度去评断损失，谁的损失最大，就是谁的错。</p>','2024-12-01 14:38:25.563','2024-12-01 14:38:25.563',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:38:25.562',NULL,NULL);
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<p>～ 三种对错观</p>
<p>1）法学家的对错观：看证据说话</p>
<p>2）经济学家的对错观：谁需要需要付出的社会总成本低就谁的错</p>
<p>3）商人的对错观：谁损失大谁的错</p>
<p>一件事情出现不好的结果时，责怪、埋怨、后悔都是没用的，改变不了结果</p>
<p>谁损失大就是谁的错，只有自己才能改变结果，所靠自己，自强者万强</p>','2024-12-01 14:43:55.06','2024-12-01 14:43:55.06',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:43:55.059',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b3948feb-8d10-479f-b85f-db379f62be79','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>Interesting!</p>
<p>3 种对错观；</p>
<p>法学家 （评论家）,- 以证据为准</p>
<p>经济学家 （政策制定者）- 以社会成本为准</p>
<p>&nbsp;商人 （真实人生）- 以个人损失为准</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 14:44:53.086','2024-12-01 14:44:53.086',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:44:53.084',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('54f5fcdd-f678-4c77-bf1f-4891350d84ce','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>商人的对错观是从个人角度出发的，也是最适合我们个人的。出发点是我们改变不了环境和他人，既然这件事的最终受害者有自己，那么自身就应该努力去避免。抱怨环境解决不了问题，在社会和法律改进之前，要先保住自己，才能有机会看到那一天</p>','2024-12-01 14:45:32.046','2024-12-01 14:45:32.046',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:45:32.044',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('032e6bad-ef66-410f-bab1-94f5bed96008','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>强制力在特殊情况必需使用，其他的时候需要是彼此的尊重</p>','2024-12-01 14:52:02.446','2024-12-01 14:52:02.446',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:52:02.445',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90b359fa-d840-4470-bb54-486211c5086e','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p>三种「对错观」与核心理念</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>1. 对错观的三种角度</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&bull; 法学家的对错观：从法律层面判定，明确责任归属，谁触犯法律谁就错。例如，绑匪的行为违法，自然应受法律制裁。</p>
<p>&bull; 经济学家的对错观：从社会成本角度判定，选择让全社会损失最小的解决方案。例如，要求工地主人锁门以减少类似事件再发生的可能性。</p>
<p>&bull; 商人的对错观：从个体利益最大化出发，关注自己的损失，避免风险。例如，行人面对危险卡车时，不让开是自己的错，因为后果最严重的是自己。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2. 核心理念：课题分离</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&bull; 由阿尔弗雷德&middot;阿德勒提出，区分自己的责任和他人的责任。</p>
<p>&bull; 面对问题时，首要考虑如何避免自身损失，而非一味指责他人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>3. 关键逻辑</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&bull; 谁的损失最大，就是谁的错：损失发生后，埋怨无益，只能通过自身行动改变结果。</p>
<p>&bull; 实用主义的选择：当无法避免损失时，应迅速调整心态，从减少自身损失出发采取行动。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>4. 行动提示</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&bull; 判断责任的依据：损失发生后，重点是评估谁的损失最大，采取对策而非纠结责任归属。</p>
<p>&bull; 自我负责与自我成长：任何情况下，若自身有损失，只能反思自己并努力改变未来的结果。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>核心总结</p>
<p>遇事自省、自强，理性看待责任与对错，采取最有利于自身的行动&mdash;&mdash;靠自己，自强者万强。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 14:46:27.54','2024-12-01 14:46:27.54',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:46:27.538',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5050a811-6419-475f-b45a-ebd7c38f417d','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">课题分离，有解决人际关系的烦恼，就要区分什么是你的课题，什么是我的课题。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">三种【对错观】</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。法学家的对错观</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。经济学家的对错观</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。商人的对错观</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">通常我们在发生意外后，都在争论谁对谁错，往往花了更多时间。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">法学家会根据证据来证明谁对谁错，但这无法避免类似的事件再次发生。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">经济学家会会基于哪一方的成本更低而去决定要让哪一方去承担责任，但普遍上大家都会觉得不公平。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在商人的对错观里，判断谁错是基于谁的损失更大。一件事出现不好的结果时，责怪、埋冤、后悔都是无用的，它们改变不了结果。如果自己有所损失，只能怪自己，也只有自己可以改变事情最终的结果，靠自己，自强者万强。</span></p>','2024-12-01 14:50:19.071','2024-12-01 14:54:44.402',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:54:44.401',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7a6962d-f722-4743-b9cd-be47ed7cb9bd','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>在非常时期才用非常&ldquo;手段&rdquo;。但一味的退让，也会造成反面效果。最好的状态是在保护自己的情况下，也不伤害他人。</p>','2024-12-01 14:56:22.01','2024-12-01 14:56:22.01',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:56:22.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('57b70df8-a049-44a0-b68e-9b9aa2adf749','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>3种对错观</p>
<p>法家的对错-责任</p>
<p>经济家-成本低的错</p>
<p>商人-损失最多人的错</p>','2024-12-01 14:58:50.575','2024-12-01 14:58:50.575',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 14:58:50.574',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1183df34-b30f-4058-8a3f-d0e347972d13','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','2c1ef7cf-3624-43cb-8cf3-d40551cab829','<p>每个人看待事物的观点不同，一件不好的事情发生，不是责怪，后悔，而是先检讨自己需要在哪方面改进。</p>','2024-12-01 15:00:10.506','2024-12-01 15:00:10.506',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:00:10.505',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c62ba54c-76a1-4b58-a5f7-e1c5d36db3a9','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','ef10631b-65db-4272-af44-c5d7da8f94f4','<p>事情发生了，如果自己有损失，只能怪自己，只有自己才能改变最终的结果。要反求诸己，自强不息。</p>','2024-12-01 15:02:09.963','2024-12-01 15:02:09.963',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:02:09.962',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e72005b-dedf-4090-a564-b08d4cc1dd4e','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>人应该要有三种【对错观】- 法学家，经济学家，商人。</p>
<p>责怪与埋怨已于事无补。错该归咎谁，是看谁都损失最大。</p>','2024-12-01 15:06:58.279','2024-12-01 15:06:58.279',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:06:58.278',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('574978e8-7043-4159-94cc-068131363006','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>在运用强制力避免伤害，是必要时动用武力防止自己或他人受伤。是出于关爱而非愤怒，也不带有惩罚意图。</p>
<p>不管多大的孩子，及和我们越亲近的孩子越渴望得到我们的尊重他的自主权。</p>','2024-12-01 15:23:20.448','2024-12-01 15:23:20.448',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:23:20.447',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13fec9cb-5722-4934-900f-7dc245e36e32','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>人性，以生存和繁衍为原点</p>
<p>道德，以维护集体利益，实现个人利益为原点，只有下限要求，没有上限</p>
<p>法律，归属于道德，是道德的底线</p>
<p>比如，在公司里面通过自身努力不断获得报酬，这是为了生存，是人性；而将团队成果独享，这也是人性，但是没道德；亏空公款，也是人性，同时突破了道德底线，触犯法律；毒害同事，这叫没人性，因为他背离了生存的原点</p>','2024-12-01 14:47:03.833','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('74ee38dd-4772-47ec-927e-311be50ce3b1','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<p>一个人心中应该具备三种&ldquo;对错观&rdquo;，那就是<strong>法学家，</strong><strong>经济学家和</strong><strong>商人的对错观</strong>。</p>
<p>（1）法学家 （评论家），以证据为准，</p>
<p>（2）经济学家 （政策制定者）- 以社会成本为准，</p>
<p>&nbsp;（3）商人 （真实人生）- 以个人损失为准</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 15:03:11.341','2024-12-01 15:03:11.341',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:03:11.34',NULL,NULL);
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<p>很喜欢这一章的结论 ==》 总之，谁的损失最大，就是谁的错。</p>','2024-11-28 09:28:40.263','2024-12-01 15:12:38.995',NULL,'f','2024-12-01 00:00:00.031','2024-12-01 15:12:38.994',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ead819e-4fc3-4843-ac92-1c9436815a56','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">父母都是以自己的要求，往往都是强制孩子跟着自己的方式去做事情，反而导致孩子觉得不被尊重，就会有反弹，被认为是背叛的孩子。真正的情况是每个人都希望自己的声音被听见，被听见后，才懂怎么样满足对方的需要。大人小孩都一样需被尊重。</span></p>','2024-12-01 15:17:05.03','2024-12-01 15:17:05.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:17:05.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f65d6f13-e5fb-4a50-b21c-532579ed7de3','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>每个人的心中都应该有三种对错观。</p>
<p>法学</p>
<p>经济</p>
<p>商人</p>
<p>三种不同的判断和分析角度。总而言之，谁的损失最大就是谁错。</p>','2024-12-01 15:22:44.404','2024-12-01 15:22:44.404',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:22:44.403',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4aa531d1-93f0-479c-a060-531937c7ce27','07d8449e-7016-42b7-aaca-f9495fe455e0','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>一个人心中应该有三种对错观， 法学家，经济家和商人的对错观。</p>
<p>谁的损失大就是谁的错。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 15:30:41.984','2024-12-01 15:30:41.984',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:30:41.983',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('49cc6e26-4d5f-45d7-8c17-c041da7be156','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>为什么以势压人的话语在无能为力时脱口而出？</p>
<p>和家人不容易道谢，一切就像理所当然。</p>','2024-12-01 15:57:57.901','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2661bf7b-8f42-411d-ae9c-f56549ed9217','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>非暴力沟通，是双方面的。而不是一方面来忍让的。 有需要强制力来维护自己的时候，就该出声的。不需委屈自己。</p>','2024-12-01 15:38:07.422','2024-12-01 15:40:24.201',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:40:24.2',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3ed7a2df-8358-4bf2-8b56-cccbe8220a95','a814249f-2ad4-4be5-83aa-a7ea6d1134d0','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>通过倾听和尊重，让孩子感到安全和被尊重，从而促进亲子间的理解和信任，这正是非暴力沟通所提倡的核心精神。</p>','2024-12-01 15:51:37.131','2024-12-01 15:51:37.131',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-01 15:51:37.13',NULL,NULL);
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<ol>
<li>
<p><strong>人性</strong><br>人性的核心是生存与繁衍，这是人类的本能，无善恶之分。</p>
<ul>
<li>母性、爱美、炫富等行为都是为了生存或繁衍的需要。</li>
<li>感恩和宽容则属于道德，不是人性的一部分。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>道德</strong><br>道德是群体为了维系协作与繁荣而形成的规范，本质上是对人性的约束。</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>感恩</strong>：预付费式交换，促进合作。</li>
<li><strong>宽容</strong>：允许犯错的协作体系，激发合作勇气。<br>道德常常与人性的自私本能相冲突，因此需要<strong>引导</strong>（文化、价值观）和<strong>约束</strong>（惩罚、法律）。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>法律</strong><br>法律是道德的底线，是一旦触犯必被惩罚的道德规范。</p>
<ul>
<li>例如，杀人触犯法律，因其严重威胁群体的繁荣。</li>
<li>轻微的不道德（如插队）不会违反法律，但影响社会秩序。</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>总结</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>人性</strong>：来自基因的&ldquo;自私&rdquo;本能，追求个体利益。</li>
<li><strong>道德</strong>：为群体繁荣服务的社会契约，反人性但必要。</li>
<li><strong>法律</strong>：是道德的底线，确保群体稳定与个体安全。</li>
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<p>用感谢可以让人感到幸福，还可以帮助我们活在当下，与自己和他人建立紧密的连接。</p>','2024-12-01 15:51:18.503','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>3）法律-维护群体存在的道德底线。法律是道德的子集，是一旦触犯必须受到惩罚的道德。</p>','2024-11-11 07:46:18.48','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-29 12:57:48.251','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>认可有时也会带来伤害。表扬和赞美可以用感谢取代奖励，让人感到幸福。</p>','2024-11-30 02:52:03.2','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">我们想从父母那里得到什么？（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page164-168</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">孩子們最渴望的就是</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">1️⃣父母無條件的愛</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">2️⃣被尊重的自主權</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">缺乏愛與尊重時 孩子們會</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">1️⃣與父母搞叛逆和對抗</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">2️⃣屈服父母的權威但內心總是憤怒且隱藏叛逆</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">成年後再有這種感受時 學習自我同理 與自己對話或與友人聊聊並獲得同理心。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">這樣做的好處或許協助減少過去造成的傷害或恐懼。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">另外一種情況，認可孩子們時 也可能是一種一體兩面的傷害。認可、讚美的背後把孩子的表現給框架了，孩子們或許還可以表現更優秀。因為這是外在的獎勵。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">簡單對孩子們表達 謝謝 是更有力量並滿足孩子們心中對愛的渴望。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">『孩子啊 謝謝您的支持和協助。』</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">『您主動地幫助我完成這事項 讓我很開心。謝謝您。』</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">謝謝是多麼有力量的恩典。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 01:12:37.293','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>道德：指引我们的方针</p>
<p>法律：社会规范的最低线</p>','2024-12-01 11:49:07.092','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>可能父母不懂法怎样表达导致沟通不愉快</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-01 10:43:18.847','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>道德，是为了群体的繁荣。最后促进个体的生存。繁衍。大家共同达成的社会契约。道德。常常是反人性的</p>
<p>法律，是道德的子集。是维护群体存在的道德底线</p>','2024-12-01 13:42:53.776','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>道德&rarr;约束个体的人性达成群体的繁荣</p>
<p>法律&rarr;维护群体存在的道德底线</p>','2024-12-01 15:18:42.63','2024-12-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">人性、道德和法律</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">法律的上限与下限告诉我们：底线（下限）是唯一的标准，上限是理想。理想只能泛化，不能设置具体的量化；量化是下限的范畴。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">道德是用來约束个体为了生存与繁衍而产生的伤害，实現群体的繁荣，惠及你、我、他等个体；法律则是道德中关于社会规范的底线&mdash;&mdash;维护群体存在的道德底线。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「因为道德常常是<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">反人性</strong>的，才需要大量的引导和约束。」&mdash;&mdash;诚如孟子说的：人与兽只是一线之隔（幾希），必要通过教化以展现真正的人性。</span></p>','2024-12-02 01:23:05.913','2024-12-02 01:23:05.913',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 01:23:05.912',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9626b18c-be7c-4f2c-9243-0c94ef22d50a','98b10e67-4030-4de9-ad9d-f2f68d73f62c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「這個世界上，最可怕的是什麼人？<br>是那些把工作當成了玩，永遠不知疲倦、永遠精力充沛的人。<br>那麼，這個世界上，最可悲的又是什麼人？<br>是那些白天在枯燥地工作，晚上在消耗地玩，日夜如此，任由生命在看似平衡的重複迴圈中消逝不見的人。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 04:00:25.055','2024-12-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-12-30 00:00:00.012','2024-12-30 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('256f5c3f-b387-40ff-ae45-33ebc4992ce8','7788709d-521b-4a35-8e0b-46de60c857a2','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>回路：增强回路 &amp; 调节回路</p>
<p>滞后效应</p>','2024-12-13 13:56:55.01','2024-12-13 13:56:55.01',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-13 13:56:55.009',NULL,NULL);
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<p>第一层选择:知道有得选，有勇气放弃</p>
<p>第二层定力:一切围绕长期价值展开</p>
<p>第三层博弈共赢和感激，一报还一报，以牙还牙。</p>','2024-12-02 02:09:35.92','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5ec04457-5236-4168-8e5f-84a495a110ed','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>学习经济学，不只是跟一个学派，就像是要学李白，也要学社甫。</p>
<p>诗仙李白浪漫主义vs杜甫现实主义，不同主义不同的作品。</p>
<p>没有更对的经济学，也没有一个模型能解释所有的经济现象。</p>','2024-12-02 06:32:15.937','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca4df8a3-4e38-426f-866f-69a33a8cf3b3','c1046d31-0c36-40f1-b40d-b3ad9069300a','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>除了练习，也要照顾自己的内心，多同理自己</p>','2024-12-12 15:07:35.764','2024-12-12 15:07:35.764',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-12 15:07:35.763',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c83a4849-dade-4ef9-b6b1-af3d6113144c','037d098e-f473-476e-80f2-b105e9fbcff9','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>变数是会随着时间的变化而变化的要素</li>
<li>存量：是随着一次又一次流量，慢慢累积而成</li>
<li>流量：是驱动存量变化的过程</li>
<li>因果链：是变数增强或减弱的连接关系</li>
</ul>','2024-12-12 15:24:47.929','2024-12-12 15:24:47.929',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-12 15:24:47.928',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca13e740-c750-4890-b9bf-772613e19cb6','c9b08465-55c5-4b4d-9b5d-16689d0b8156','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>表达遗憾和庆祝练习很重要。</p>
<p>前者不让自己被内疚自责的情绪支配。后者则做到鼓舞而不炫耀。</p>','2024-12-12 15:09:47.755','2024-12-13 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-12-13 00:00:00.006','2024-12-13 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1ef7bf7c-bda0-49f4-b199-df1490e8d77a','090384b3-c089-4ed0-aecf-abf0ed2c92a8','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>今天的内容好深奥，完全看不懂😵&zwj;💫</p>','2024-12-18 15:30:30.352','2024-12-18 15:30:30.352',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-18 15:30:30.347',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8021765a-2bc7-418c-86a5-c1bd4774ff9b','b5cfb88c-2f34-4054-839b-69128f550b29','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>前期靠本金，后期靠复利。</p>
<p>本金至富才是王道</p>','2024-12-19 13:17:15.831','2024-12-19 13:19:42.367',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-19 13:19:42.366',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2d3727f-be6e-4633-a8a5-f1fc3764ada3','ee413297-043a-43d1-ac76-acdc524a339d','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「想要擁有獲得能力的能力，你要勤奮。你不僅要勤奮，還要可怕的勤奮。你不僅要可怕的勤奮，還要高效而可怕的勤奮。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 03:03:29.545','2024-12-28 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-12-28 00:00:00.015','2024-12-28 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3709b0fc-98cd-4e06-b290-b79ef929a448','c7808d2e-09e0-424e-87f4-37d55701c25e','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「時間顆粒度為1天的人，喜歡說：「你到北京了啊？那怎麼不順便繞到天津來看我一下啊？」時間顆粒度為半天的人，喜歡說：「你下午在辦公室嗎？我過來找你聊聊天。」時間顆粒度為1小時的人，喜歡說：「路上堵瘋了，我還有一會兒就到，你等我一下啊。」時間顆粒度為半小時的人，喜歡說：「這事微信裡說不清楚，我給你打電話吧。」」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 04:07:34.458','2024-12-31 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-12-31 00:00:00.023','2024-12-31 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('defc5b15-eb2e-46a5-9cba-acc9c16e485e','49d2fda4-f3e7-4301-a45a-b707db640f7d','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「當我們把時間管理作為一項規則來遵守時，毫無樂趣可言，甚至感覺很痛苦，認為是時間在管理我們。但是，在時間管理成為習慣之後，一切就變得自然而然，這時才是我們在管理時間。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 04:13:04.001','2025-01-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2025-01-01 00:00:00.006','2025-01-01 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('84caadfc-bd97-4a1d-83ab-669ad3b5fc96','c9b08465-55c5-4b4d-9b5d-16689d0b8156','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>我正在学习去找出哪些让我要庆祝的事情。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 07:12:12.932','2024-12-13 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-12-13 00:00:00.006','2024-12-13 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('963bea79-bab6-44b5-9fd7-d2d903d56e1d','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<p>人性、道德与法律相互依存、紧密相连。人性体现了个体追求生存与繁衍的本能；道德用于规范人性，促使个体行为服务于群体的和谐与繁荣；而法律则是维护群体秩序的道德底线，确保社会的稳定与延续。</p>','2024-12-02 07:32:29.665','2024-12-02 07:32:29.665',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 07:32:29.664',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f86e2ec-a230-4ce9-b2b5-6e496be0b4f4','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>无论小孩时期或长大后的我们都是一样的。。。莫过于想从父母那边得到是关爱、鼓励、感谢、尊重和认同。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>无时无刻，无处不在的渴望</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>所以身为子女的，身为父母的，我们做到哪里了呢？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>＂己所不欲，勿施于孩子＂</strong></p>','2024-12-02 08:02:49.313','2024-12-02 08:02:49.313',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 08:02:49.312',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30b72020-f92a-46c0-9ca9-358640ba0859','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>也是为人孩子的自己，不难体会正面叛逆或是阳奉阴违的叛逆，都是为了争取自主权。自己先寻求帮助（找知己聊）和自我同理，对父母或孩子怀着好奇的同理，就会拉近亲子关系。</p>
<p>奖励与认可孩子，不比感恩孩子的行为因为满足了父母的需要来得有效。谢谢与感恩是最好的营养。</p>','2024-12-02 08:54:44.885','2024-12-02 08:55:19.371',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 08:55:19.37',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2df3eff0-2bc1-4ea5-90e6-5dc97dbfc2a1','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>残酷且丑陋的事实。从企业和生意的角度看，为了生存而存在的商业个体，其实就是逗留在&ldquo;有没有人性&rdquo;的手段而已；而为了群体利益，共荣共存，大我提升的境界，则是位于更高的一个（道德）境界。这两个不同境界对上了，就可能会产生悲剧。所以选择跑到（市场）很重要。</p>','2024-12-02 09:16:17.379','2024-12-02 09:16:17.379',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 09:16:17.378',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90894b95-5907-40b7-ba31-2f2d1adc0018','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>不如这么说，法律根本就是统治者规范人民、方便统治的其中之一标准。当考虑到法律有可能倒过来约束自己的时候，权贵就开始给法律开漏洞，又或不把条文写死，这样自己到时就可以脱身。</p>
<p>所以一条模糊的法律，就是恶法，因为它的模糊性允许双重执法的可能性。法律如果不能做到完全公正，就起不了约束人心的作用。人民敢怒不敢言，怎么还会尊重法律？怎么还会理会你的道德？</p>
<p>最明显的例子就是我国的反跳槽法。土团党其实根本不想立这法，无奈反跳槽呼声太大，只得配合。所以就立法时候开了一条漏洞。但是大快人心的是，聪明反被聪明误。土团因此大失血。真是活该！</p>','2024-12-02 09:20:15.868','2024-12-02 09:20:15.868',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 09:20:15.867',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f44f264f-3b23-464c-a6b5-4e1211dbec5f','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>人性、道德及法律，这编章似乎是讲一个社会的形成是基于很多的个体聚合在一起相互依存而成的。</p>
<p>但是间中必定会有不好的事情发生，因为单一的个体需要生存，互动的好，就共榮，不好话就会责怪，埋怨，所以，它需要一个法律的约束。</p>','2024-12-02 10:18:55.437','2024-12-02 10:18:55.437',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 10:18:55.436',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fb1c5782-b2f7-48aa-9a99-5c27d7c8027f','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>人性 - 保护自己的利益</p>
<p>道德 - 保护群体共同利益</p>
<p>法律 - 保护群体共同利益的最低线</p>','2024-12-02 15:34:56.473','2024-12-02 15:34:56.473',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:34:56.472',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('410195fb-08fe-4e8b-8aee-d4654729a601','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>这个世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，那就是认清了生活的真相后，还依然熱爱它。</p>
<p>证明它，也要勇于推翻它。</p>
<p>每个理论的前提，是学习经济学的基本素养。</p>','2024-12-02 06:45:07.562','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('caf14f8d-df9e-4153-9606-710576cf9359','c1046d31-0c36-40f1-b40d-b3ad9069300a','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>人非圣贤 谁能无过，好好面对、承认自己的错误，並愿意在下一次嘗试不同的做法。</p>
<p>表達遗憾可以釋放心中的內疚，也放过自己，不要让自己自责。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 07:09:10.771','2024-12-12 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 08:29:40.359','2025-01-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2025-01-02 00:00:00.019','2025-01-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 09:00:49.28','2025-01-03 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2025-01-03 00:00:00.035','2025-01-03 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 09:11:33.129','2025-01-04 00:00:00.018',NULL,'f','2025-01-04 00:00:00.016','2025-01-04 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b5f5be85-cfbc-485d-be1c-346396971883','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p dir="ltr">Day 2 ：12月2 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p dir="ltr">人性，道德和法律（Page 019-023）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>這裡探討人性、道德與法律。太有趣了。</p>
<p>1️⃣人性 就是為了生存與繁衍。無善無惡。</p>
<p>2️⃣道德 用來規範群體以約束個體為了生存與繁衍而破壞群體和諧。道德不是人性內在要求。道德是反人性的。</p>
<p>感恩的本質是『預付費制的交換』</p>
<p>寬容的本質是『允許犯錯的協作體系』</p>
<p>3️⃣法律 是為社會規範裡的道德畫出一條底線</p>','2024-12-02 10:46:13.902','2024-12-02 10:46:13.902',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 10:46:13.901',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('54e7472d-47a5-44ac-8176-8a5a19c48b01','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>作为孩子的我们都是一样, 都想从父母那边得到是关爱、鼓励、感谢、尊重和认同。</p>','2024-12-02 10:53:45.085','2024-12-02 10:53:59.729',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 10:53:59.728',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('797da761-851c-4b20-baae-940cfc32b040','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<ol>
<li>人性： 个体追求生存和繁衍, 无善无恶, 来自「自私」的基因</li>
<li>道德 : 约束个体的人性, 是為了群體的繁榮，最後促進个体的生存、繁衍，大家共同達成的「社會契約」。道德，常常是反人性的。</li>
<li>法律: 是道德的子集，是維護群體存在的道德底線。－旦触犯必然受到惩罚的道德</li>
</ol>','2024-12-02 11:14:21.366','2024-12-02 11:14:21.366',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 11:14:21.364',NULL,NULL);
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<li>期望得到父母的尊重和自主权，故意搞叛逆，选择与父母不同的方向，以得到自己的权利</li>
<li>无论到了什么年纪，当了父母，还是会期望从父母身上得到尊重和自主权</li>
<li>同理自己了，才会对父母感受和需要产生好奇心</li>
<li>改善沟通的方式：推测父母感受和需要，再提出他们可能有可能接受的请求</li>
</ul>','2024-12-02 11:38:20.319','2024-12-02 11:38:20.319',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 11:38:20.318',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&bull;用感谢取代奖励可以让人感到幸福，帮助我们活在当下，与自己与他人建立更紧密的连结。</p>','2024-12-02 11:55:13.309','2024-12-02 11:55:13.309',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 11:55:13.308',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ecdafe5e-2a3b-4ea9-9fe5-fde7342b7fb8','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>人性，来自自私的基因。</p>
<p>法律维持群体存在的道德底线， 道德是社会契约以实现群体的繁荣，因为道德常常都是反人性。</p>','2024-12-02 12:34:17.198','2024-12-02 12:34:17.198',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 12:34:17.197',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f04008d1-ac2f-40d7-85e6-18c7cad38a59','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>人性涉及生存和繁衍。</p>
<p>道德繁衍群體的繁榮。</p>
<p>法律是道德的子集，是維護群體存在的道德底線。</p>','2024-12-02 12:34:20.306','2024-12-02 12:34:20.306',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 12:34:20.304',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d95921d-ff77-4aa7-a5c4-9d95acd23cb9','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>孩子都想從父母那裡得到無條件的愛及個人自主權的尊重。</p>
<p>用感謝取代獎勵除了讓人感到幸福，还可以幫助我們活在當下，與自己和他人建立更紧密的連接。</p>','2024-12-02 12:53:20.891','2024-12-02 12:53:20.891',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 12:53:20.89',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f57aff29-21fe-440b-9911-2ad2902d6ab7','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>人性是行为的根本驱动力，道德是社会的软约束，法律是秩序的硬底线，三者相互作用构成了是非对错的底层逻辑。</p>','2024-12-02 13:01:34.639','2024-12-02 13:01:34.639',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:01:34.638',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30ce6edd-ba59-4a7d-b4e8-78ffb393b69d','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 2 ：12月2 日 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑<br>人性，道德和法律（Page 019-023）<br>&nbsp;<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>"人性" 是来自自私的基因。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>"道德" 是为了群体的繁荣，大家共同达成的社会契约。道德，常常是反人牲的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>"法律" 是维护群体存在的道德底线。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 13:01:59.687','2024-12-02 13:02:42.796',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:02:42.795',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63eb3d33-6802-4349-b107-bb8fca91ee76','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>定力：长期主义。做一件事要有恒心，要有耐力，不是爽一下就做一下。想清楚才做，开了头就i坚持做好做久。<br>选择：诱惑太多，需要理智选择，知道什么是要的，什么是不需要的。</p>','2024-12-04 14:39:43.429','2024-12-04 14:39:43.429',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:39:43.428',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b48f2608-f457-4797-af7d-f837db54e99a','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&bull;定力是人生智慧-最终的的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。</p>
<p>&bull;应勇敢选择，然后享受好处，承担坏处。</p>
<p>&bull;人生的悲剧，往往来自看着前方，又想着后方，最后无路可走。</p>','2024-12-04 15:17:59.276','2024-12-04 15:17:59.276',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:17:59.275',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('716838d9-7fbc-4357-86c8-5d047adfec80','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>我们得时刻反省自己所说的、所表达的四点：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～事实、观点、立场、信仰</p>','2024-12-07 15:49:22.071','2024-12-07 15:49:22.071',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:49:22.07',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('56acc6d5-e7e1-423a-a66f-a9ecd6b3e8c6','1a55b11d-b61b-458e-9652-a72046c3912a','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>非暴力沟通有助于实践正语，也能提高沟通效率。</p>
<p>急于表达自己的想法和观点未必有效地得到他人认同，以非暴力方式提出请求更为恰当。</p>','2024-12-04 03:47:21.503','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dbdfca7c-0575-4ab5-8fe8-56a75eb1b048','e769758b-4596-4fe1-afb9-38237e50f429','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「只有當你的智慧多到溢出時，才有幽默感。幽默，是溢出的智慧」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:46:16.001','2025-01-13 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2025-01-13 00:00:00.029','2025-01-13 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61afdb01-c057-4797-bf43-08892d080e70','76c0ddb1-c711-4f59-b4c1-5388b2065b98','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>读了这本书，让我重新审视了生活中的决策与问题。书中用简单易懂的语言讲解复杂的逻辑思维，帮助我理解世界运作的底层规则。它启发了我从本质出发思考问题，而不是局限于表面现象。</p>','2024-12-03 02:33:42.12','2025-02-07 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2025-02-07 00:00:00.035','2025-02-07 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7747c18-b3fb-48c4-8f96-3e6905736705','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&middot;人性，来自&ldquo;自私&rdquo;的基因。</p>
<p>&middot;道德，是为了群体的繁荣，最后促进个体的生存、繁衍。道德，常常是反人性的。</p>
<p>&middot;法律，是维护群体存在的道德底线。</p>','2024-12-02 13:27:36.721','2024-12-02 13:27:36.721',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:27:36.72',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3f5183e4-bbf7-4d59-9d34-2e2b0591cd8c','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>赞美和表扬会把人放入一个框架里，这反而限制了他的表现 - 因为赞美是带有批判的举动。</p>
<p>通过非暴力沟通向他人表达谢意或感激之情，才能避开批判别人，让对方知道我们会因为哪些事情感到幸福快乐，让自己和他人建立良好的连接。</p>','2024-12-02 13:39:35.183','2024-12-02 13:39:35.183',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:39:35.182',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35619404-fda2-4670-9f93-72cb4a21b7e6','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>1.與父母建立和維持連結的方法是：表达个人需要,並對他們提出一個具體的請求,。</p>
<p>2.要与父母、长辈联系和美好沟通，先推測出他們的感受和需要，再設法提出他們可能接受的請求。</p>
<p>3.孩子有好的表现，需向他们致谢。</p>','2024-12-02 13:46:29.111','2024-12-02 13:46:29.111',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:46:29.11',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b3c16762-8457-4635-be17-e937dce3f1e8','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">孩子最想从父母那里得到的，或许是他们无条件的爱，其次则是希望他们能承认并尊重个人的自主权。这股渴望即使到了成年，心中还会有这份渴求。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">孩子会利用搞叛逆，唱反调来避开指指点点。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">也有一些是放弃反抗，彻底的屈服于父母的权威，有可能是因为他们身处在不安全的家庭环境例如受到施暴。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每当听见父母不尊重我们的话，进而感到难过或恼怒时，请先在心中静默的同理自己。也可以和朋友聊聊，从那里得到一些同理心。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最后一个与父母建立和维持连结的方法是，表达我们的需要，并对他们提出一个具体的请求。先推测出他们的感受和需要，再设法提出他们有可能接受的请求。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">读到原来赞扬孩子会带来伤害有一点错愕。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">表扬或赞美时，就是在用自己的喜好去告诉对方：我喜欢这样、我喜欢你这样做。这样的举动是在对他们做出评判，只不过这类评判通常会被视为正面的。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">赞美的背后还隐含着另一个未说明的意思：&rdquo;这个人有做得很好的时候，也可能有做不好的时候。&rdquo;赞扬和表扬会把你放入一个框架。它会告诉当事人，你是个怎样的人，从而限制你的表现。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">更好的方式是，多多利用&rdquo;谢谢&rdquo;。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">明确地告诉对方，他所说的话或做的事，满足了你的特定需要。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果孩子主动替你洗碗，请不要只是说：&rdquo;你真乖；洗了这些碗&rdquo;，可以这样说：&rdquo;一回到家看见你已经把厨房里的碗洗好，你的行为帮助和支持了我，谢谢你。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 13:49:46.614','2024-12-02 13:49:46.614',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:49:46.612',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('109ea9ba-3de2-4986-8fcb-03a250a72719','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>来自父母尊重和感谢， 一直是孩子的需要。让孩子感到幸福， 更紧密的连结。</p>','2024-12-02 13:52:18.852','2024-12-02 13:52:26.647',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 13:52:26.646',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4622335b-b438-4c19-84f5-12d23af4e4f5','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','c11fab34-c054-436b-a25e-f5fdf1c3976e','<p>母亲虐待孩子，表面是"无情"，<br>实则可能是她自己也是受害者，<br>内心的伤痛和创伤在不自觉中循环。</p>
<p>就像佛法说的：<br>- 每个众生都带着自己的业力<br>- 每个行为背后都有其因缘<br>- "无明"不是罪恶，而是需要被照亮的黑暗</p>','2024-12-02 14:06:16.393','2024-12-02 14:06:16.393',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:06:16.392',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e505f8f-d4b2-46c9-8816-b5880612f583','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">這一篇讓我們從生物學和心理學去了解人類行為。這兒談到了法律，法律克制了對上限的追求，更多關注下限，這樣人們才能保證下限的基礎上，努力地追求上限的目標。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人性是個體追求生存、繁衍的本能。道德，就是用來約束個體的人性的，在此基礎上，可以實現群體繁榮。法律是道德的子集，是一旦觸犯必然受到懲罰的道德。</span></p>','2024-12-02 14:09:24.351','2024-12-02 14:09:55.295',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:09:55.294',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('93843b7b-97c6-4668-a08c-b8efa844551f','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人性是自私的，因此需要道德规范、教育以及法律的约束。</p>','2024-12-02 14:13:41.186','2024-12-02 14:13:41.186',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:13:41.185',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aac8ea19-5e29-4426-ba52-68306a95e956','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>道德是反人性的。法律是底线。</p>','2024-12-02 14:16:13.005','2024-12-02 14:16:13.005',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:16:13.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0dbc38a5-c131-49dc-93c3-2ce26b3e5603','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>人性：生存和繁衍，是自私的</li>
<li>道德：约束我们，以实现群体繁荣
<ul>
<li>反人性</li>
<li>需要引导和约束（法律制裁）来规范</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>法律：维护群体存在的道德底线</li>
</ul>','2024-12-01 10:10:34.528','2024-12-02 14:29:20.28',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 00:00:00.019','2024-12-02 14:29:20.279',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d55b1d23-be30-46e6-906b-8ea1f7f006f6','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>人性是一种使然，来自自私的基因。</p>
<p>道德是维护群体利益与和谐的标准。</p>
<p>法律是维护群体存在的道德底线。</p>','2024-12-02 14:49:57.244','2024-12-02 14:49:57.244',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:49:57.243',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9fde0640-adf4-4408-84d1-5c0b443d151c','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>万事起头难，虽然会混乱但是会越来越好的</p>','2024-12-02 14:36:15.275','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2d86ba60-9f92-45d5-868e-04bd1851f46a','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg19-23</p>
<p>人性、道德和法律</p>
<p>人性，个体追求生存与繁衍，来自自私的基因。</p>
<p>道德，是为了群体的繁荣，最后促进个体的生存、繁衍、大家共同达成的【社会契约】。道德，常常是反人性的。</p>
<p>法律，是道德的子集，是维护群体存在的道德底线。</p>','2024-12-02 14:46:19.477','2024-12-02 14:46:31.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:46:31.944',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c980f22-2f07-45f9-978a-9399a05cced2','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>人性是自私的。道德就像大家共同达成最后的契约。法律是来维护的群体存在的道德底线。</p>','2024-12-02 14:51:35.018','2024-12-02 14:51:35.018',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 14:51:35.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a62f2182-6f56-4bed-9f29-3ed82471de1b','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha- 大概了解到什么是人性，道德和法律，它们的连贯性。</p>
<p>Impact:让我感到好奇，这3个要素和这本书会有什么关连。将会擦出怎样的火花呢？</p>
<p>Growth: boost my curiosity to continue read on this book. 要坚持读这本书</p>','2024-12-02 15:05:44.091','2024-12-02 15:05:44.091',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:05:44.09',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62ad582c-ce82-491b-b8bc-8510939425e7','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>我的感想：</p>
<p>如果给我来探讨人性，道德及法律的话。我的认知里人类是非常难以理解，难以管理的事情。一切事情发生都应人而引起。</p>
<p>所以前辈们的智慧，就想到了以道德教育后人，何为善与恶，黑与白，如何真正做人。</p>
<p>但是有些人还是有无法跟随真正的人之初与性本善原理，就必须要有法律制衡为制度。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 15:27:27.168','2024-12-02 15:28:01.844',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:28:01.843',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa02c490-cbea-4f9c-abc8-58baf4cba4a7','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>人性-</p>
<p>道德-维护群体和谐</p>
<p>法律-维护最底线的道德</p>','2024-12-02 15:29:05.722','2024-12-02 15:29:05.722',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:29:05.721',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1c57f35-805e-4d3f-b3e2-9094b4ec1bee','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>人性 - 1. 生存 2. 繁衍</p>
<p>道德 - 约定俗成 的 规范，很多时候是违反人性，所以道德需要宣传</p>
<p>法律 - 一条底线，一种强制性的修养。法律克制大家对上限的追求，更多关注下限。保证下限的基础上，努力追求上线目标。</p>','2024-12-02 15:37:03.059','2024-12-02 15:37:03.059',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:37:03.058',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('381a2c58-ad35-4676-acc8-a99d82a7874a','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<div class="flex flex-row justify-between gap-2">&nbsp;</div>
<div class="text-xs sm:text-sm ml-[38px]">
<p>人性，涉及繁殖和生存。<br><br>道德，为了群体的繁荣，最后促进个体的生存繁殖。</p>
<p>法律，是维护群体道德的底线而存在。</p>
</div>','2024-12-02 15:15:33.649','2024-12-02 15:18:00.527',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:18:00.526',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e1a4651-7e3c-480b-b8a5-f3cc37ef1fc9','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day32：12月 2日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们想从父母那里得到什么？（Page164-168）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>用感谢代替奖励除了让人感到幸福，还可以帮助我们活在当下，与自己和他人建立更密切的连结。</p>','2024-12-02 15:27:04.875','2024-12-02 15:27:04.875',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:27:04.874',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6929bbb-529a-4cb2-95fc-1115b3d9bc7c','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>原來人性和道德可以分得這麼清楚。非常有趣</p>','2024-12-02 15:37:47.857','2024-12-02 15:37:47.857',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:37:47.856',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('166bbaea-a422-4139-8392-e1bd7215389a','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 2 ：12月2 日 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>人性，道德和法律（Page 019-023）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>人，本性是自私的，为了生存和繁衍而已。于是，有了&ldquo;道德&rdquo;来约束，规范或维护群体利益，形成社会契约。而法律，则是在社会契约和道德规范里，为人在群体生活中画下最低标准/底线的规则。</p>','2024-12-02 15:37:40.876','2024-12-02 15:38:10.188',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:38:10.187',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a6cebdff-3d71-44d0-a43f-34350ae0f77c','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人性- 个体追求生存和繁衍</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">道德- 约束个体的人性达成群体的繁荣</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">法律- 维护群体存在的道德底线</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人性- 母性、爱美、炫富</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">道德- 感恩、宽容</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">法律- 一旦触犯必然受到惩罚的道德</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人性，来自自私的基因。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">道德，是为了群体的繁荣，最后促进个体的生存、繁衍，大家共同达成的社会契约。道德常常是反人性的。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">法律，是道德的子集，是维护群体存在的道德底线。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-12-02 15:42:02.567','2024-12-02 15:42:02.567',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:42:02.566',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a066a5b-b8e9-4a5c-968b-94d5a0982f5b','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>认可赞美是从一个两极端的地方找一个点来评分。</p>
<p>反而可以用谢谢，感恩来表示良好的感觉</p>','2024-12-02 15:47:44.152','2024-12-02 15:47:44.152',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:47:44.151',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b978701b-c8b9-4251-a2be-3a23e35a1317','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>人性源于自私本能，道德为群体繁荣而生，社会契约维护共同利益。法律是道德的一部分，保障社会基本秩序。</p>','2024-12-02 16:00:27.78','2024-12-02 16:00:27.78',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 16:00:27.779',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1c1dafc7-fbe1-41f3-bc3f-bcfbf9360020','fab185c3-93fc-4c34-9157-b157a21fad1c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「我還是試著勸癡迷於勸酒、癡迷於服從性測試的領導們一句話：真正的領導力，來自內心的追隨，而不是行為的服從。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:29:50.309','2025-02-06 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('50317878-2840-4c8f-9f8b-e0109d72f968','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day32：12月 2日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们想从父母那里得到什么？（Page164-168）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当父母不尊重我的时刻，先在心中靜默的同理自己。自然会同理父母的感受和需要产生好奇心，同理他们。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原来用感谢取代獎励是可以让人感到幸福，还可以帮助我们活在当下，还有能和他人建立更紧密的连结。</span></p>','2024-12-02 15:43:12.36','2024-12-02 15:43:14.466',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:43:14.465',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0fe1ae4a-7b86-48b5-aa09-626590815912','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 2 ：12月2 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人性，道德和法律（Page 019-023）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">人性与道德的对比</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 人性：受到基因驱动，天性偏向自私，追求个体的生存和繁衍。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 道德：是一种「社会契约」，它帮助群体繁荣，间接促进每个人的利益。但由于道德往往要求个体牺牲一些自私的本性，因此它有时是「反人性」的。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">法律的角色</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 法律：是道德的一部分，用来保护群体基本的存在和秩序，确保所有人能在最低限度的道德框架下共存。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">这些观念展示了人类如何平衡个人需求与群体利益，通过道德和法律维护社会的稳定与发展。</span></p>','2024-12-02 15:52:34.668','2024-12-02 15:52:42.195',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:52:42.194',NULL,NULL);
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<p>～ 人性、道德、法律</p>
<p>1）人性：个体追求生存与繁衍</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 会通过比如爱美、炫富等的行为来达成个体的利益</p>
<p>2）道德：约束个体的人性，造就群体的繁荣</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 道德通常是反人性的。如果人性被诬陷放纵，世界没了次序，天下必定大</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 群体的繁荣最后会让个体受益</p>
<p>3）法律：维护群体存在的道德底线</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 道德的子集，是维护群体存在的道德底线</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 有些道德一旦被触犯，就不只是「没道德」那么简单了，而是「触犯法律」</p>','2024-12-02 15:55:16.057','2024-12-02 15:55:16.057',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:55:16.055',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8830e0f4-5a47-4e12-b80b-743ecffb9e59','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','90be9971-4198-4f2d-937d-cd4d2849f20a','<p>真诚的表达感谢，也要说出为何要感谢，真正感谢的什么东西，对方的行为怎么样帮到了你</p>','2024-12-02 15:59:40.399','2024-12-02 15:59:40.399',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:59:40.398',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('231b1fad-e9b3-4a8e-a94a-930f6796ac7d','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>我的感想：</p>
<p>我目前的身份是妈妈的孩子，也是孩子的爸爸。</p>
<p>可能是因为时代的不同与社会的进步改变，所以在不同年代会有不同的感受。</p>
<p>以前我们都非常尊重与孝敬父母或长辈，都会有身份之分。</p>
<p>但是今天管教孩子的方式已经不一样，必须像好朋友那样，还要去理解孩子的感受与尊重孩子的想法，因为今天的孩子接触比我们更多资讯，他们更需要父母更多的爱与关怀，还要给孩子有自主权。要不然是很难与孩子沟通连结的。</p>
<p>既然我们是在现在的世界里，那我们就要学习改变自己，好好的与孩子表达自己真正需求的同时，让他们更加愿意一起经营走向幸福快樂的和谐家庭。这是必需的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 15:48:49.453','2024-12-02 15:48:49.453',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:48:49.452',NULL,NULL);
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<p>通过非暴力沟通表达感激，可以避免情绪波动，让对方感受到他们的善意带来的喜悦。感恩无需期待回报，却能让我们幸福、活在当下，并与他人建立深厚的联结，为生活增添温暖与滋养。</p>','2024-12-02 15:51:58.998','2024-12-02 15:51:58.998',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:51:58.996',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('31cf71f4-3354-4475-a556-56302d9599c2','3aea4a25-c25c-4fdb-9006-fbaea5c7015e','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>孩子需要无条件的爱，和对自主权的尊重。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>当听见不尊重的话，感到难过，请先在心中静的同理自己，透过自我同理，和自己对话数次。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>赞美孩子或他人<br>可以用感激方式来说<br>表示他的行为令自己有什么感受和满足了什么，然后谢谢他</p>','2024-12-02 15:56:52.351','2024-12-02 15:57:39.533',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 15:57:39.532',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 21:54:32.523','2025-01-05 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2025-01-05 00:00:00.035','2025-01-05 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d7f92d60-cc6b-4952-bdc8-24a306bc41fa','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>认定目标，记得有选择的权利，大人更应该做选择</p>','2024-12-04 14:45:43.574','2024-12-04 14:45:43.574',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:45:43.573',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('031bfd18-ab92-4326-87f4-d98e8df9caa8','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>使用非之前，想像有可能最坏的结果，列出哪出还没被满足，比较平静和放松</p>','2024-12-04 15:22:54.343','2024-12-04 15:22:54.343',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:22:54.342',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dd67d4a8-2dfc-492a-a16a-dbb3d69b6258','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>在学习经济学中，要保持开明的态度，了解全然相反的两种观点；</p>
<p>虽然认清生活的真相，了解事情能因不同观点制照不同的状况，也依然要爱它；</p>
<p>也要不断的提醒自己，个人的观点是经的起别人的反驳，因而改善也变成更有深度的新观点。&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:04:52.401','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e8915ade-7dfc-49fb-8815-8006ac086194','012c3f59-1a79-44ad-869a-34ebc7f265b4','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「如果因為重謝而介紹了一個不靠譜的人給我的朋友，這就相當於我用「重謝」的價格，出賣了我的信用。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 21:56:30.84','2025-01-06 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2025-01-06 00:00:00.022','2025-01-06 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ef46cf98-46e3-4a9c-9fbc-ea9bdfad42cc','3208c9c6-0532-4f7e-bb0a-73863f92ef9c','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「用腦學習知識，用手學習技能，用心學習態度。把知識學以致用，把技能練成藝術，那麼你用心相信的東西就一定會實現」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 21:58:14.371','2025-01-07 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2025-01-07 00:00:00.005','2025-01-07 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5c04b39-46a5-4269-8c77-2d54853d5e0d','24851f96-24e8-416a-b6ec-c78cbbfd4643','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「巨人過河，不用看河流的深淺，不用理會石頭的分布，從容瀟灑，踏水而過」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:06:46.397','2025-01-09 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2025-01-09 00:00:00.012','2025-01-09 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6eeceb20-f824-4ac3-862c-e8c6616d51b1','9915de82-26ce-4a11-917e-a614141c695a','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「只有「心態高過雲端，姿態埋入地底」，你才可以擁有最高尚的朋友，而沒有最低微的敵人。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:01:26','2025-01-08 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2025-01-08 00:00:00.019','2025-01-08 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22991cd2-bfd2-4746-9a17-573a4fcd02da','768ca4da-54e2-4644-8d02-844b8b5b0342','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「藝術家，都是駭客。他們給人類找到了自己控制化學物質分泌的方法，使人類不完全受制於DNA。<br>藝術家給人類帶來了自由。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:08:31.31','2025-01-10 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2025-01-10 00:00:00.015','2025-01-10 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:26:10.961','2025-01-11 00:00:00.028',NULL,'f','2025-01-11 00:00:00.027','2025-01-11 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc0fd5b2-af6f-4fa7-bdc5-0afd5e1f2f78','c6c84f04-b233-4154-be94-b6a160274e5d','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「只有真正解決了Why的問題，員工們在遇到困難的時候，內心才會有強大的動力，堅持到底，否則很容易就會放棄。<br>解決Why的問題之後，What和How才真正有意義」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 22:29:40.435','2025-01-12 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2025-01-12 00:00:00.014','2025-01-12 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2dfde328-b441-4731-8ba2-c275ff03875b','76519627-c454-4d6d-9614-92f11187ea2b','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「打比方這個能力，是一種非常高級的能力。因為會打比方，說明你能同時理解兩種事物（複雜、陌生的事物和熟悉的事物）的本質。只有這樣，你打的比方才能讓人拍案叫絕。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 23:12:19.231','2025-01-14 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2025-01-14 00:00:00.008','2025-01-14 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e885178-c281-4748-9d03-520681724c0c','fe32385d-d7b2-48df-9b22-97a7a697762e','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「打比方這個能力，是一種非常高級的能力。因為會打比方，說明你能同時理解兩種事物（複雜、陌生的事物和熟悉的事物）的本質。只有這樣，你打的比方才能讓人拍案叫絕」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 23:17:23.787','2025-01-15 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2025-01-15 00:00:00.016','2025-01-15 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1d91543-5cec-4e7c-9ca2-fa500685077f','78130a1f-d7ef-4adc-ace5-790d8ab7edc2','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「別人的時間的所有權屬於誰？屬於他自己，你並沒有權利佔用。你一旦要佔用別人的時間，就需要經過對方的同意。強行佔用，就屬於越界」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 23:16:43.665','2025-01-16 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2025-01-16 00:00:00.032','2025-01-16 00:00:00.032',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2533baf2-1c4c-4014-9b84-27c9836fc057','3235dbe8-3935-405d-9353-ab5f3f044613','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「但作為一個從事商業的人，你要明白他們就是透過這種本能行為的反應，來滿足自己的炫耀心理。「裝」是一種美的剛需。激發別人把炫耀的本能發揮出來，會使你有機會獲得商業成功。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 23:23:16.013','2025-01-18 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2025-01-18 00:00:00.016','2025-01-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('48c3fb47-b3fc-4b34-a9ce-bce1d860e795','c78e5da5-3ea3-4939-ae78-93755cd1e332','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「我無法說服你，無法改變你，無法教化你，但是，你可以保留你的想法，我也可以保留我的觀點，因為一定有我們彼此都認同的東西。比如尊重生命──尊重生命的珍貴和偉大，不輕易殺人。比如契約精神──彼此承諾過的事情，要盡可能做到，不能撒謊和欺騙。這些普遍的價值觀，超越了族群的衝突，使人們形成更大範圍的信任。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 23:26:17.781','2025-01-19 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2025-01-19 00:00:00.032','2025-01-19 00:00:00.032',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b107fa57-19ec-4d3a-af48-fdde39a7520f','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>人须要靠智慧主宰自己的人生。人与人的差距来至于拥有智慧与否及它的层次。</p>
<p>三个层次的智慧。博弈是第三层次。共赢及感恩。我赢，你也赢;不然就不干了。</p>
<p>感恩上一段的一切。滴水之恩！</p>','2024-12-01 13:17:57.046','2024-12-02 23:56:51.611',NULL,'f','2024-12-02 16:00:00','2024-12-02 23:56:51.61',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f1fc1654-11fc-45ad-82c2-757397caaf4e','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>生活本身就是战场，是战场就少不了人；有人就有竞争；有竞争就有博弈。博弈的智慧，是人生的智慧。怎样博弈？一靠心态，二靠策略。什么是心态？共赢和感激。价值交换只有一个原则-共赢，即合作双方都可以获得价值。另一个是感激，我们要感激在艰难时帮助过我们的人。共赢和感激，用这种心态【以不变应万变】的参与博弈，可能眼前会吃小亏，但长远看会赢得大利。</p>
<p>然而，策略就是要【一报还一报】、【以牙还牙，以眼还眼】重复对方上一次的动作是最好的【生存策略】。</p>
<p>最明智的处世之术就是即对世俗投以白眼，又与世浮沉。</p>','2024-11-11 08:29:46.529','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<p>练习每天和家中成员表达感谢。</p>','2024-11-30 02:57:49.887','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【人生的三层智慧</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">:</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">博弈、定力、选择】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">作者认为人生必备三种智慧：博弈、定力、选择。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">博弈是不折不扣的技术活，所以，要靠策略；但是，心态和感激更加重要。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">双贏的心态［要嘛共贏，要嘛不干。</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］，感激帮助过你的人，我们才能长远地贏得大利。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">作者所谓的策略&mdash;&mdash;「一报还一报」、「以牙还牙，以眼还眼」，似乎是基于</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">重复对方的动作，是最好的「生存策略」</span>&rdquo;<span lang="ZH-CN">的思维模式。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「一报还一报」、「以牙还牙，以眼还眼」，既是对自己的保护，也是追求生存的最好策略。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">有点儿像俗语说的：「有仇不报，非君子」。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">然儿，依佛家因果角度看，业也！</span></p>','2024-12-02 01:24:00.102','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fe9f7f49-7f95-4ffd-bb2a-beb52fdcc700','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>Day33：12月 3日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>对话练习（Page169-170）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>通常處理一些緊急事件或心裡很急時 都會出現以勢壓人的情況。</p>
<p>比如昨天發生的一件事情：</p>
<p>很想對方出席星期三10點重要會議。但對方要求11點，理由是避開塞車。我直接很不客氣回應他，這次召開的股東會議可以把他排除在外，不必出席也沒問題。</p>
<p>我心想給你機會參與新成立的公司，還想大家遷就你，真不自量力。我沒有感覺無能，只是感覺對方看不見我們的誠意而不會珍惜機會，我也不想改變他害怕塞車的理由。看見機會的人 可以提前出發躲過塞車。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-02 10:31:48.91','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('63f464e1-ddbf-4cff-8e3f-e77400a4f3be','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p dir="ltr">Day 3 ：12月3 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p dir="ltr">人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择（Page 024-026）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>1️⃣選擇是第一層智慧</p>
<p>2️⃣定力是第二層智慧</p>
<p>3️⃣博弈是第三層智慧</p>
<p>有人有競爭 就少不了博弈</p>
<p>要博弈 就需靠心態與策略。</p>
<p>什麼心態：</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">1️⃣要嘛共贏 要嘛不幹。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">2️⃣感激創業時的用戶、合作夥伴、打拼的員工</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">什麼策略 ： 一報還一報&nbsp; 以牙還牙</span></p>','2024-12-02 10:48:15.334','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bfe42f95-8366-49dc-abd6-d1b18b21d737','489ee946-ac10-4ae6-95de-24033f11edbb','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「公平──用「同一把」尺丈量萬物；<br>公正──選「哪一把」尺來丈量；<br>公開──把丈量的過程展示給公眾，讓同意公正者監督公平。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:25:55.695','2025-02-06 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7ee899b9-5d43-4707-9923-aafbbb9aa37e','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','b1d2b7e9-339b-46d2-9f25-30c45ecce2d1','<p>身为品牌顾问，<br>博弈的课题很常出现。<br>但和书不同，<br>品牌比较多在说商业关系直接的博弈。<br><br>书里提到心态与策略面的角度在看博弈。<br>这让我想起在某课堂上聊起 &lsquo;做人&rsquo; 这回事。<br><br>老师认为，我们活下来 &lsquo;为人&rsquo; 比 &lsquo;为己&rsquo; 重要。<br>对此我感到矛盾。<br><br>因为我认同这个说法，<br>但从身心灵的立场来聊，<br>我们经常会说到 &ldquo;Self-Awarness&rdquo; 这回事。<br><br>而且从阿德勒的 &lsquo;课题分离&rsquo; 理论来看，<br>我们似乎顾好自己，总体会活得更容易。<br><br>而此书说提的双赢让我想通了些什么。<br>总是只为他人我也会感到疲惫，<br>但凡事以双赢的角度去想，我认为就会有更健康的关系</p>','2024-12-02 12:58:24.202','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e49fde0-beef-4196-b057-090a708c813f','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>博弈是洞察规则的智慧，定力是掌控内心的修炼，选择是决策方向的关键，三者构成人生是非对错的底层逻辑。</p>','2024-12-02 13:03:26.053','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('45d188d9-fd91-4572-a512-c529e6853a74','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>博弈是要靠共赢和感激的心态，和靠以牙还牙，一报还一报的策略。</p>
<p>这样的心态我很赞同，但是所谓的策略却不赞同，也许我的世界里都遇见好人的缘故吧！😊</p>','2024-12-02 12:57:35.146','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('05e45739-9872-4867-8d44-a425d8b6075e','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>一个家庭的和谐是需要大家共同努力去做好沟通这一块，多一份同理，就可化解无数的矛盾和分歧。</p>','2024-12-02 13:44:19.112','2024-12-03 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008','2024-12-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c144ded0-21e3-4b4a-8fd9-8d0643b4f803','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','550d0df0-c244-418c-8fd4-915e9faffda1','<p>Day 2:</p>
<p>时时刻刻要记得， 我们是被人性，道德与法律影响我们的思维，也要切记 - We are always motivated by it one way or another.<br><br>Day 3:</p>
<p>最喜欢这一章的结语 - 人生的悲剧，往往来自看着前方，又想着后方，最后无路可走。</p>
<p>我们随时都要记得博弈 - 心态 + 策略</p>
<p>心态 - 双赢 + 感激</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 00:05:03.393','2024-12-03 00:05:03.393',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:05:03.392',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('54b3177d-ada7-4f9d-bdf0-366ca0e34d19','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>人心复杂，办成一件事最难的就是与人打交道。如果能以共赢的心态和智慧，达成共识，这应该是最高效的。</p>','2024-12-03 00:12:43.777','2024-12-03 00:12:43.777',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:12:43.776',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b414f405-f6c2-49bd-b2b5-9f2818bd24ad','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>人生该有的三层智慧（看透事情的本质）：博弈，定力，选者！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>博弈 = 心态 + 策略 （人生的智慧）</p>
<p>心态 =&nbsp;每个人都是独立个体，任何时段的人生，你会遇见形形色色的人，要共存，就得互相有共赢的思维，也时时怀着感激的心，每一遇见的人都是帮助你成长！</p>
<p>策略 = 人性险恶，对付不同的人/事情，善用对策略（以牙还牙/一报还一报）！</p>','2024-12-03 00:16:40.245','2024-12-03 00:16:40.245',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:16:40.244',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5cd1a0d5-9743-41d2-8771-33e1869703c2','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>以势压人的话语,並没有解决根本原因,只是暂时把它"壓下耒"罷了...!! 关系因此完全脱節/没有連接。</p>
<p>要时时常感谢周遭人和家人，不要當他们所做的一切是理所当然。</p>','2024-12-03 00:21:21.878','2024-12-03 00:22:13.919',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:22:13.918',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b0a0f707-aaef-4c8d-a278-4fff60244bf8','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>注意自己的情緒，發現自己「 以勢壓人」的方式與家人說話時，並不能有圓滿的效果，反而破坏關''關係，学习儘可能花些時間獨處，花些時間想想，那些話為什么會在自己無為力時脫口而出？</p>
<p>以真誠感恩的心去和身邊的人對話，會讓大家的關係更貼近。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 00:36:33.325','2024-12-03 00:36:45.947',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:36:45.946',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8983c0c3-cab5-4c5c-95a1-b51d0f14b50a','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>🈶了知识,也要有知慧.(知慧,知慧,知慧.)</p>
<p>博弈靠</p>
<p>1.心态 2.策略.</p>
<p>We are what we think and do.</p>
<p>&nbsp;Action determine result.</p>
<p>Think ,Do, Get.</p>
<p>Think and act win win 🤚</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 00:39:56.494','2024-12-03 00:39:56.494',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:39:56.493',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7fe2218c-5b65-4d16-97e6-be674931246b','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>我常会不自觉地以势压人，回想起来，确实存在着一种想控制他人的想法。</p>','2024-12-03 00:52:04.693','2024-12-03 00:52:04.693',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 00:52:04.692',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c4bbea93-4d2d-4637-b85f-402f06201ab4','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>当初提出让团队参加非暴力沟通的培训，心里是忐忑的。因为自己也还在学，也没做好。改变沟通的方法也会有很多挑战。</p>
<p>后来我理解到这不是短时间可以学会和改变的，而且如果可以为自己的工作环境塑造好的沟通方式，这可以帮助自己更好的学习。</p>','2024-12-03 00:44:22.267','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('076cf0b6-e657-46e1-9f33-91d57308382d','7756481a-f9e3-4a63-a2bb-5723a66005db','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「而不管是價廉還是物美，背後都存在著性價比。<br>所以，如果你做的是功能型產品，高性價比或許可以成為你的競爭優勢。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 01:10:03.882','2025-01-21 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2025-01-21 00:00:00.026','2025-01-21 00:00:00.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('764c7449-035a-46ba-a9cf-c486d28f5617','5880770e-dd61-4e75-978b-9dc7cd25b863','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「當公平變得前所未有地重要時，也並不意味著效率就會被拋棄。開出嚴厲的罰單，並不意味著要拆除高速公路。<br>網路公司們應該做的，是在效率的高速公路上一路狂奔時，多留意那些公平的限速牌」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:26:58.831','2025-02-06 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b9ba238f-b6fd-40fd-9acd-25124572cb13','39cd0553-870d-4183-8d23-056405f46c51','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「比功能更稀缺的，是體驗；比體驗更稀缺的，是個性化。<br>所以，產品的定價，取決於你能提供給消費者什麼價值。價值越稀缺，價格就越高」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 01:58:54.8','2025-01-22 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2025-01-22 00:00:00.005','2025-01-22 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6a180e92-ef85-48c1-98c7-85c215309efd','82fa4561-ada6-4ac2-9ed1-5c382ae276ef','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「你以為你在創業，其實你只是在為社會打工。<br>所以，問問你自己，你今天所賺到的錢，是趨勢紅利，是社會工資，還是創新利潤呢？」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:01:39.96','2025-01-23 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2025-01-23 00:00:00.016','2025-01-23 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01fe2684-0c91-436d-bd19-4817f87bb8cf','df20b7cd-2719-42ef-8eee-a1ef1a38a0ac','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「網飛有一條著名的文化準則，叫作「我們只招成年人」。<br>什麼是「成年人」？小孩子才發脾氣，成年人要做的不是抱怨，而是自己動手解決問題。成年人就是那些清楚地知道自己要什麼，並且願意為之付出努力的人。他們有很強的自驅力，渴望和優秀的人一起做有挑戰的事，並且清楚自己和公司是平等的契約關係。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:04:50.708','2025-01-24 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2025-01-24 00:00:00.024','2025-01-24 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc849266-a58e-42c8-8852-4b17b88a39ae','f17311c2-beb9-4ce3-bac0-165248421275','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「你要相信人性的善，人不是靠激勵做事的，人自身就有成長的動力。一個人覺得安全了，不用為錢發愁了，他反而會去做一些真正有價值的事情」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:07:33.126','2025-01-25 00:00:00.035',NULL,'f','2025-01-25 00:00:00.034','2025-01-25 00:00:00.034',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4390f398-77ba-44af-af46-ffcc02813a57','5a3ba255-e36a-4edb-b842-a8a6d21299ef','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「利益共同體和事業共同體，是短期與長期、風險與收益之間的一個選擇。這個選擇，基於對公司未來以及公司未來與個人收益之間的關係的信仰。</p>
<p><br><br>跳槽、淘汰、忠誠度等問題，幾乎無不出自員工和企業對利益共同體和事業共同體之間的認知分歧，出自一種「錯配」。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:14:40.596','2025-01-26 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2025-01-26 00:00:00.033','2025-01-26 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0926f7ec-9142-4d63-a558-09f31a577acf','a04f1094-e9cd-402e-8a9e-1105b31cc115','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「員工與企業，誰也不需要對誰忠誠。大家真正需要忠誠的，是那個共同的夢想，共同的詩和遠方。<br>你希望你的員工深情凝視你，還是你們共同的遠方？」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:15:48.117','2025-01-27 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2025-01-27 00:00:00.021','2025-01-27 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d3fa0b3f-1cf0-417e-80f9-ed531dcded28','4f86ebd2-a86f-4f21-ac27-b2ec6852b0f6','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「勤勞未必能致富。致富的本質，並不是創造財富，而是分配財富。創造財富靠能力，而分配財富靠稀缺。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:17:15.513','2025-01-28 00:00:00.035',NULL,'f','2025-01-28 00:00:00.034','2025-01-28 00:00:00.034',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6de67f9f-032d-40c4-9c37-403a75a17fc9','04ca9f86-3991-48c0-9c76-a5b32b2de257','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「只有不斷讓自己變得稀缺，你才能擁有財富分配權，獲得更多財富。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:18:21.332','2025-01-29 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2025-01-29 00:00:00.007','2025-01-29 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13b50367-3989-4ec9-abdc-45ec6b9d1518','5233b8d2-506c-4e06-b26d-e914ab577f40','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「你和員工怎麼分錢？員工優先，你拿劣後。員工旱澇保收；你拿剩餘，有可能爆賺，也有可能巨虧。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:20:21.77','2025-01-30 00:00:00.043',NULL,'f','2025-01-30 00:00:00.04','2025-01-30 00:00:00.04',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6cfbe348-d628-4d3d-951a-fd4eaaea7535','f0259ba6-416e-469f-8ed7-9552ff042015','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「你和合作夥伴如何分錢？如果你出錢，對方出力，你們競爭優勢都很大，那麼分四個階段：<br>一是辛苦賺錢階段，人力優先，資本劣後；<br>二是資本收益階段，資本優先，人力劣後；<br>三是均衡階段，人力、資本均衡分配；<br>四是超出預期階段，資本優先，人力劣後。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:21:41.052','2025-01-31 00:00:00.046',NULL,'f','2025-01-31 00:00:00.041','2025-01-31 00:00:00.041',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7df97c5-ebed-4aff-864d-8d342df82ac1','ac63689f-f80d-4bc2-8df0-c204afa485e1','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「信任，是一種能力。被信任，是一種更重要的能力。<br>越是能被信任的人，促成合作的交易成本越低，在商業世界裡，越有成功的可能。」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:22:17.279','2025-02-01 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2025-02-01 00:00:00.02','2025-02-01 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8eee6d7-496d-47e4-9b04-3d4c71b16443','6feca707-b68c-423c-b4fa-0c3547ba73c9','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>「一個人的信用要靠一生來沉澱，但毀掉它往往只需要一分鐘。敗光了，就再也沒有了」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 02:25:14.283','2025-02-06 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018','2025-02-06 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d001d0ee-9288-4512-bf3c-a4d3851dcd72','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>人生，与其追求知识，该拥有的是智识。在人生中，博奕是第三层智慧，定力第二层，选择是第一层智慧。博弈靠的是心态和策略，共赢和感激。曾经问过几位前辈如何在人生路上的贴士，得到到结果都是&ldquo;爱和感恩&rdquo;。最明智的处世之术就是即对世俗投以白眼，又与世浮沉。</p>','2024-12-03 04:38:57.115','2024-12-03 04:38:57.115',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 04:38:57.114',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b92f9c8e-86cb-48d3-8c53-70428ccc9a1f','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&middot;觉察到自己以势压人时，花时间独处</p>
<p>&middot;表达感谢</p>','2024-12-03 14:57:43.533','2024-12-03 14:57:43.533',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:57:43.532',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5c42a021-2489-4c4c-a17f-8b42ec66a24f','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>在人生中，有三層智慧：博弈、定力、選擇</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>想要活得好，需要知識，但更需要智識。</p>
<p>生活本身就是戰場，有競爭，有博弈。博弈要靠心態，要靠策略。「以不變應萬變」達到共嬴。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 07:33:37.193','2024-12-03 07:43:38.495',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 07:43:38.494',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('51008593-a7ed-4e3e-b83c-03d4692c05d9','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>以情势逼人的沟通方式，一般都是因为心急，没有良好地相互同理双方的需要，尤其是觉得势在必行、或无能为力的时候。这种沟通方式，无法达到满意的效果。</p>
<p>感谢，是因为自己的需要被满足了。</p>','2024-12-03 09:25:32.651','2024-12-03 09:26:09.891',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 09:26:09.89',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('97253e10-03aa-4a7c-8d4f-8d1f5b413285','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>有赢就有输，就算是双赢，还是有人要买单，还很可能是在一种&ldquo;无奈&rdquo;、&ldquo;被逼到墙角&rdquo;的情况下付出昂贵的代价。</p>
<p>小弟最近学习的领悟，最好不过的，是发挥自己的专长，帮助有需要的人。只有越来越好的价值和生活，没有所谓的输赢，更不是为了彰显&ldquo;实力&rdquo;，好胜心强。</p>','2024-12-03 09:33:32.543','2024-12-03 09:33:32.543',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 09:33:32.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('387a5003-070b-435e-959c-d6d65b6b3e00','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如何拥有一个自己说了算的人生？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">学习，拥有智慧。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如何获得人生的成功和幸福？依靠智慧，世界过于复杂，有太多不确定性，需要智慧为我们指点迷津。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">博弈是第三层智慧</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">共赢和感激；一报还一报；以牙还牙，以眼还眼。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">定力是第二层智慧</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一切围绕长期价值展开。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">选择是第一层智慧</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">知道有的选，有勇气放弃。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">怎么博弈？一要</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">靠心态，二要靠策略。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">共赢和感激的心态</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">共赢，即合作双方都可以获得价值。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;我一定要赢，你一定要输，为此我愿意费尽心机，不择手段，这是鸡🐔的心态。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;我一定要赢，你如果输了，那对不住，别怪我。我消灭你，与你何干，这是雀🐦的心态。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;我一定要赢，你也一定要赢。如果一方有胜利要建立在另一方的失败山上、那就不做了，这是鹰🦅的心态。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">怎么感激？每到一个新阶段，我们都要感激上一个阶段帮助我们的人，尤其是那些在最艰难的时候还愿意信任我们的人。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为什么说一报还一报、以牙还牙，以眼还眼？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">因为在博弈论电脑类比实验中，重复对方的动作，是最好的生存策略。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">总是当老好人，容易被欺负。一报还一报是对自己的保护。你的善良，应该有点儿锋芒。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 15:06:53.401','2024-12-03 15:06:53.401',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:06:53.4',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a8d2dee-001e-44e2-bd7e-adcd7a126720','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 3 ：12月3 日 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑<br>人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择（Page 024-026）<br>&nbsp;<br>🎯今日读后感悟：<br>&nbsp;<br>人生的三層智慧 :&nbsp;博弈 +&nbsp;定力 +&nbsp;选择</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>博弈 靠心態 和 策略</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>心態<br>- 共赢 - 鸡/雀/鹰的心态; 要嘛共赢，要嘛不幹。<br>- 感激 - 感激上一个階段帮助过我们的人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>策略<br>- 生存策略。不当老好人。"以牙还牙，以眼还眼" 是对自己的保护。</p>','2024-12-03 15:05:24.643','2024-12-03 15:07:05.27',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:07:05.269',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('abe34370-ab5e-410e-be75-28eb8605d199','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>智慧有3层，博弈，定力，选择</p>
<p>不做烂好人，勇敢做对方做的事</p>','2024-12-03 15:08:46.258','2024-12-03 15:08:46.258',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:08:46.256',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e09f0a05-9963-453f-8015-2c1489520835','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>以势压人时，独处反思语气与初衷。</p>
<p>一家人约定，每天表达感谢。</p>
<p>焦虑时，与自己温柔对话。</p>','2024-12-03 15:19:32.934','2024-12-03 15:19:33.993',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:19:33.992',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f984cfd-83a7-4e2d-b463-db36878abe78','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>以勢力壓人更顯示自己的無能為力。</p>
<p>以感恩與同理心跟家人相處，表達謝意。</p>','2024-12-03 06:29:02.272','2024-12-03 15:30:46.868',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:30:46.868',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62192b3b-9bf1-40ea-b3bb-135e0a849f0c','1ff64470-cd92-4054-98a4-46167d8e880b','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>一看书名，心里忍不住想说：我都没暴力啊．．</p>
<p>但我常常却不善表达，有时候有话直说，也得罪不少人。</p>
<p>这本书让我看到自己先和自己和解、好好先关照自己的需要。</p>
<p>从观察中了解事实（fact ）而不带偏见。</p>
<p>再去感受（feel ），表達自己的情绪，而不情绪表达。</p>
<p>也要说出末被满足的需求。</p>
<p>最后提出可行性的请求，而非命令。</p>
<p>多多练习还是关健。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 07:24:42.605','2024-12-14 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-12-14 00:00:00.011','2024-12-14 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f220faef-aace-49ed-bebd-d0695ee8d30f','34217577-c9b9-4584-86df-173364b9bb07','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>利用杠杆获得巨大的成功。</p>
<p>1）团队杠杆-招大批商业毕业年轻人，他们是绝顶聪明的人。他们利用科学的方法论和知识仓给年长者提供战略质询。</p>
<p>2）产品杠杆-比如活字印刷术比手写。从严重依赖人类「边际交付时间」的「服务」，变成依赖技术和工具较少占用人类时间的「产品」。</p>
<p>3）资本杠杆-「知识仓+方法论」</p>
<p>4）影响力杠杆-三种能力获得影响力。演讲能力、写作能力以及建立人脉的能力。</p>
<p>人脉不是能帮到你的人而是那些你能帮到的人。</p>','2024-12-03 07:13:09.38','2024-12-29 00:00:00.03',NULL,'f','2024-12-29 00:00:00.029','2024-12-29 00:00:00.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c5cd0d3a-6f59-4fd7-a653-b281a3023dc6','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>之前说过，要人家和你双赢，你自己得有实力才行。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我的中学华文老师说了一句话，到今天我仍然记忆犹新。她说你们中学生不要忙着谈恋爱，而要趁着年轻时候多看看世界，充实自己，交游广阔。这样时间到了，你才有条件选人，和有条件被人选。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>那时初听颇有些不以为然，但是今天重新想起，只觉得我华文老师的智慧真高。我家乡有好一些人年纪轻轻就结婚，有些甚至连大学都没上就嫁人去也。可能这是他们追逐的目标？但是我总是不免感到惋惜。如果他们去念大学开阔眼界，会不会有更多的幸福？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>因为你总是会吸引到和你同阶层的人。虽说现在自由恋爱，但是门当户对的观念根深蒂固。上了大学，有了更好的经济实力和知识，才有有同阶层的对象看上你。不然，你凭什么要大学博士娶一个小学生？你一介小学生，要大学博士和你双赢？别做梦了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>恋爱如此，事业更是。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 10:26:46.221','2024-12-03 10:27:48.995',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 10:27:48.993',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9abb356e-ce2f-4d13-bd6c-9e1b441c079f','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>虽然以势压人不能圆满的解决问题，但是只要有政治的地方，强势压人得势之后才来跟人家道谢，才能如愿以偿。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>在家呢？肯定不能以势压人，更应该跟家人道谢来解决问题。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>假如道尽肺腑之言的感谢之后，问题还是不能解决呢？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>昨天看到一个视频解说一个青年染上电玩，躲在房间里2年时间不出家门，结果需要解＂毒＂隐的部门，强行破门进去房间把拉去解隐所治疗的过程。。。</p>','2024-12-03 10:36:48.358','2024-12-03 10:38:03.506',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 10:38:03.505',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ba5958ca-1b3d-4c15-8fc5-3205bc4993ab','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','2c1ef7cf-3624-43cb-8cf3-d40551cab829','<p>知识很重要，但智慧更重要。我们需要智慧来引导每一个决定和处理问题。</p>
<p>博弈的智慧: 心态 &amp; 策略</p>
<p>感激每一个阶段帮助过我们的人。</p>','2024-12-03 10:44:03.541','2024-12-03 10:45:21.001',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 10:45:21',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6b66a7ae-980a-408e-975b-8056d6b630cd','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>人生该有的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选者！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>＂人生的悲剧，往往来自看着前方，又想着后方＂，假如选择这样做是想要得到更多，那么＂最后无路可走＂是回报，因为人心不足，蛇吞象！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>无论如何，切记让我们人心不需要那么累的4句话，也是为己的逻辑：（修为的＂为＂）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>给人信心、给人欢喜、给人希望、给人方便</p>
<p>（星云法师的赠言）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 10:57:25.314','2024-12-03 10:57:25.314',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 10:57:25.312',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90af1937-e9d4-45cc-bb4d-bfe1ed7ba3c8','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>人生的三层智慧：</p>
<p>第三层：博弈</p>
<p>第二层：定力</p>
<p>第一层：选择</p>
<p>幸福人生需要依靠智识中的智慧，但是每个人的智慧都有差距。</p>
<p>博弈：商场与职场都是在战场中，有人的地方就有竞争（博弈中）</p>
<p>博弈的智慧靠人生智慧：</p>
<ol>
<li>心态：共赢和感激</li>
<li>策略：一报还一报，保护自己，防备之心</li>
</ol>
<p>好期待这书中的内容。</p>','2024-12-03 12:12:54.196','2024-12-03 12:13:26.79',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:13:26.789',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ebf8fdf6-9948-4dc1-999e-6be8834164a2','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>何为知识，何为智识 ？</p>
<p>如果勝利是建立于別人的失败，不夠智慧，共赢才是上道。</p>
<p>因为是人，有人就有江湖，自然就会有博弈。</p>','2024-12-03 12:14:49.022','2024-12-03 12:16:35.378',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:16:35.377',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人生的三层智慧：博弈、定力、选择</p>
<p>要嘛共赢，要嘛不干</p>','2024-12-03 14:58:25.894','2024-12-03 14:58:36.779',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:58:36.778',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('50ff7ecb-ac86-4c4b-8dfb-c4633dc0b66d','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p dir="ltr">Day 3 ：12月3 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p dir="ltr">人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择（Page 024-026）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p dir="ltr">人生里的智慧：第一层- 选择，第二层- 定理，第三层-博弈。</p>
<p dir="ltr">如何博弈：一靠心态，二靠策略。</p>
<p dir="ltr">心态：共赢和感激</p>
<p dir="ltr">策略：一报还一报，以牙还牙，以眼还眼。</p>','2024-12-03 15:22:30.048','2024-12-03 15:22:30.048',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:22:30.047',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a14e9584-5ab2-4a52-87c4-847c3356e382','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>定力的智慧-是人生的智慧-最终的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。世界的诱惑太多，让我们失去目标，偏离方向。我们要有定力，向往长远的目标发展。让飞轮的转速越来越快，从而不断获得成功。</p>
<p>选择的智慧-在面临困境时，我们可以选择用什么态度面对生活是绝望还是积极。我们每个人都有选择的权利。选择有时比努力重要，放弃有时比选择重要。我们应勇敢选择，然后享受好处，承担坏处。</p>
<p>在复杂的社会里，实现多方共赢；能拒绝诱惑，保持定力；能勇于选择而不后悔，随心所欲而不越矩，能拥有智慧，实现自己的人生目标。</p>','2024-11-12 07:50:20.061','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7faf0381-028d-4b71-8b1f-a2e081df1482','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<p>人與人之間的差距來自哪裡？來自是否擁有智慧，以及擁有什麼層次的智慧。</p>
<p>在人生中，博弈是第三層智慧，定力是第二層智慧，選擇是第一層智慧。</p>
<p>博弈的智慧： 共赢和感激<br>定力的智慧： 长期主义 （－切围绕长期价值展开）<br>选择的智慧： 知道有的选有勇气放弃</p>
<p>如何博弈，如何保持定力，如何做出選擇，都決定著人生的走向&mdash;選擇做某件事情，憑藉長期主義形成自己的定力，和這個世界重複博弈。</p>
<p>希望在這個複雜多變的世界裡，我們都能全身而退，實現多方共贏；能拒絕誘惑，保持定力；能勇於選擇而不後悔，隨心所欲而不逾矩；能擁有智慧，實現自己的人生目標。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 12:21:24.982','2024-12-03 12:21:24.982',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:21:24.976',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3736ef5d-848f-498c-973d-b13469710d84','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>以势压人</p>
<p>感觉最近的客户都是有如此的给我很大的压力，而且语气难堪。而我却无力反驳，处处符合，希望和谐解决。</p>
<p>难道真的是向对方表达感谢吗？有用吗？</p>
<p>我感觉对方用的是暴力沟通，令我非常不舒服。</p>
<p>应该想想自己该如何以非暴力沟通去应对吧！</p>','2024-12-03 12:26:26.437','2024-12-03 12:26:26.437',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:26:26.436',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d80be243-6248-4530-8e0e-f1c2a9b7e6a8','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>练习<br>理解什么是以势压人<br>1。注意TV/RADIO里边以势压人的方式说话<br>2。当自己用权威说话时，尽可能独处，</p>
<p><br>表达感谢<br>一周里和每位家人表达感谢</p>','2024-12-03 12:41:09.891','2024-12-03 12:41:09.891',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:41:09.89',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88339604-0367-4d8b-acc5-f905dde7cd24','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>晚上跟我的好朋友一起吃晚餐，我的女兒一直拍我的肩膀，然後爸爸巴巴巴巴巴巴。</p>
<p>有一瞬間我很想跟他講我再跟我朋友講話暫時不要吵我。</p>
<p>但是下一刻，我覺得我應該先給他一點注意力，然後好好跟他講說給我10分鐘的時間，並且感謝他。</p>','2024-12-03 12:51:07.554','2024-12-03 12:51:07.554',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 12:51:07.553',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b41b565d-1854-44e9-8cbe-577cf05ae6aa','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>整篇文章都在講贏跟輸。這跟我已經力離得越來越遠。</p>
<p>下個階段的我就只是給而已。如果只是贏跟輸，那就太膚淺了。</p>','2024-12-03 13:01:34.134','2024-12-03 13:01:34.134',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:01:34.133',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3b7919aa-9e82-4d71-9078-4aca85a1251f','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>从电视中观察剧情中的对话，并从中理解什么是尊重，这有助于个人修养和非暴力沟通。</p>
<p>此外，也得自我检讨与做同理，方能有更好的进步。</p>','2024-12-03 13:02:36.076','2024-12-03 13:02:36.076',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:02:36.075',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('25bc9c16-53c5-41e9-af1b-83f2ec83bd0c','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>当想要以势压人的时候，尽可能让自己独处。</p>
<p>无时无刻怀有感恩的心，谢谢一切的出现。</p>','2024-12-03 13:22:02.538','2024-12-03 13:22:02.538',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:22:02.537',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('acf55551-416d-45e1-91a1-f003ce2dda36','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha: 学习到什么是&ldquo;鸡&rdquo;的心态，&ldquo;雀&rdquo;的心态 和&ldquo;鹰&rdquo;的心态。</p>
<p>Impact: 领悟到要达到&ldquo;鹰🦅&rdquo;的心态不是一间简单的事情</p>
<p>Growth: 愿意尽力达到双赢的结果</p>','2024-12-03 13:35:07.747','2024-12-03 13:35:07.747',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:35:07.745',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43928798-5f73-4da5-8af4-16af09e305a3','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>这鸡，雀，鹰的讲解真的很棒。保持双赢的心态会让路好走，即走的远。</p>
<p>博弈的智慧是人生的智慧，需要共赢和感激的心态。</p>','2024-12-03 13:38:38.491','2024-12-03 13:38:38.491',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:38:38.49',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6c922965-4d47-42a7-8a16-b7c4293c6dcd','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>当发现自己以势压人时，尽可能花时间跟自己独处，想想为什么会这么说</li>
<li>感谢身边人</li>
</ul>','2024-12-03 13:49:50.232','2024-12-03 13:49:50.232',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:49:50.231',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ea7e0d61-da0e-416a-930c-397066cfded2','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>滴水之恩，应当涌泉相报。</p>','2024-12-03 13:49:52.53','2024-12-03 13:49:52.53',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:49:52.529',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5626a97-c114-4f97-a4f4-d283eeac8b04','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>博奕的智慧：</p>
<p>一靠心态，二靠策。此二者于江湖上免不了的认知和实践。</p>
<p>心态具共赢与感激，才能与人好相处，好人缘，并减少许多不必要的问题。</p>','2024-12-03 13:49:12.737','2024-12-03 13:49:59.942',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:49:59.941',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('355a1289-835c-4001-a54a-12c13ce3cbe2','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<p>人生的三层智慧：博弈、定力、选择</p>
<p>博弈的智慧就是人生的智慧-靠心态和策略</p>','2024-12-03 13:55:15.6','2024-12-03 13:55:15.6',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:55:15.599',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('80fa7c88-3748-4261-a111-bb62100dcc18','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>观看过以势压人的剧情。 一直跟自己说不要向他们学习。尽可能是以非暴力沟通方式。学习和家里每位成员表达感谢每星期一次。</p>','2024-12-03 13:55:02.808','2024-12-03 13:59:24.761',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 13:59:24.76',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c6ce8b7-38c4-4983-995a-7bea98f37591','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>认知到博弈的智慧，是人生的第三层是智慧， 涵盖了心态和策略。心态的智慧则是共赢和感激。以不变应万变。策略则是一报还一报，对自己的保护。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 15:20:29.428','2024-12-03 15:21:06.918',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:21:06.917',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61c026d2-9444-426d-b16c-42a533cb9291','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>自已以势气压人的时候就是自己无法正常沟通但是又很想得到某些事情的时候</p>','2024-12-03 15:45:49.597','2024-12-03 15:45:49.597',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:45:49.596',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ed34781-4744-4345-bc8f-ae2500ff84e1','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>人生中的三层智慧： 第三层： 博弈 | 第二层： 定力 | 第三层 ： 选择</p>
<p>博弈要抱着两个心态 ：1. 共赢， 2. 感激</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 15:52:35.022','2024-12-03 15:52:35.022',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:52:35.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27d2efbd-aab7-4715-ac5b-1408ccb9492c','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>每天的静坐可以让自己更能观心，和观察到自己的习气。</p>','2024-12-03 15:54:21.803','2024-12-03 15:54:21.803',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:54:21.802',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('466d20f4-c349-4230-a85f-3a450705256f','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','90be9971-4198-4f2d-937d-cd4d2849f20a','<p>才发现自己没什么同理自己，去感受的时候，才发现很多感受都不知道，更不知道如何表达自己的感受</p>','2024-12-03 15:57:42.454','2024-12-03 15:57:42.454',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:57:42.453',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d09ebad2-d646-44ac-9170-967abae323f3','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 3 ：12月3 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择（Page 024-026）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">1. 博弈的核心心态：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 共赢：合作双方都能获得价值，优于「零和博弈」。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 感激：感恩帮助过你的人，尤其在困难时期支持过你的人。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> 2. 心态类型：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 鸡的心态：非赢即输，不择手段。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 雀的心态：只顾自身胜利，无视他人损失。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 鹰的心态：双方共赢，否则不合作。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> 3. 策略：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 以牙还牙：重复对方的行为，作为自我保护。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 善良要有锋芒：保护自己的利益，避免被欺负。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> 4. 行动准则：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 感激早期支持者，提供最用心的服务和支持。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 注重「雪中送炭」，比「锦上添花」更可贵。</span></p>
<p class="p4">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">结论：以共赢与感激的心态进行博弈，结合「以牙还牙」的策略，才能在复杂的环境中长远获胜。</span></p>','2024-12-03 14:03:40.056','2024-12-03 14:03:40.056',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:03:40.055',NULL,NULL);
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<li>想拥有自己的人生，需要拥有智慧</li>
<li>智慧有3层：博弈、定力、选择</li>
<li>博弈：心态 &amp; 策略
<ul>
<li>心态：双方都获得价值，达成共赢和感激那些在艰难时帮助过自己的人</li>
<li>策略：不能当烂好人，需要有智慧</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-03 14:08:21.128','2024-12-03 14:08:21.128',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:08:21.127',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人生三智慧：博弈、定力、选择</p>
<p>博弈智慧的基础是共赢和感恩。</p>','2024-12-03 14:14:26.186','2024-12-03 14:14:26.186',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:14:26.183',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aac1af14-c2c6-4756-af23-2b1d8597257c','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">在這個時代，想要活得很好，需要知識，但更需要生存的智慧。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">在人生中，博弈是第三層智慧，定力是第二層，選擇是第一層。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">博弈要靠心態和策略。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">心態就是共贏和感激</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">策略就是「一報還一報」、「以牙還牙，以眼還眼」，你的善良應該有點兒鋒芒。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-12-03 14:21:57.167','2024-12-03 14:21:58.267',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:21:58.266',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d74f3738-ba17-4440-94fc-b8b4e4fbeac8','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day33：12月 3日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">对话练习（Page169-170）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人往往忽略自己的感受。当自己感到焦虑时，可以先同理好自己。静心，反思。</span></p>
<p class="p1">时时刻刻提醒要感恩身边的人。</p>','2024-12-03 14:24:55.075','2024-12-03 14:24:55.075',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:24:55.074',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c195c520-d4b8-43cd-95c3-fa4dbc3d68bb','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>竞争的社会，总是需要与任何人博弈。博弈要记住&ldquo;共赢&rdquo;和&ldquo;感激&rdquo;。<br>做个有智慧的善良人。</p>','2024-12-03 14:36:09.36','2024-12-03 14:36:09.36',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:36:09.359',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e472cd41-a9ef-4237-a811-546206102a13','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>人们往往对外人客气，对家人发脾气。对我而言，能成为家人是缘分，学习怀着感恩的心、选择有礼貌的对话方式。作者说得最多的是同理自己，先正视自己的感受。</p>','2024-12-03 14:42:01.222','2024-12-03 14:42:01.222',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:42:01.221',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('59f41ecc-7ca9-4512-85a8-ce0d9f25af73','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>人生的三层智慧：博弈、定力、选择</p>
<p>&middot;心态是共赢和感激</p>
<p>&middot;策略是一报还一报</p>
<p>&middot;善良应该有点儿锋芒</p>
<p>&middot;</p>','2024-12-03 14:53:08.61','2024-12-03 14:53:08.61',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 14:53:08.609',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9511dac6-d232-46f5-98bd-85d572e523df','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>当自己以权压人的时候，花时间独处</p>','2024-12-03 15:02:55.478','2024-12-03 15:02:55.478',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:02:55.477',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3201a6ac-5cf5-4de9-9363-3da4d6c953c7','e2e0a187-5751-4ebe-84a8-a1cd697760e3','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day33</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-MY">3</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">对话练习（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page169-170</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">注意自己平日里有没有&ldquo;以势压人&rdquo;，并与家人表达感谢之情。</span></p>','2024-12-03 15:17:02.273','2024-12-03 15:17:02.273',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:17:02.271',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3cd784d5-fa7b-4f37-b971-2eea955c4737','f1103464-11d4-4ec5-acb2-01d9a39c93b9','c11fab34-c054-436b-a25e-f5fdf1c3976e','<p>你想做老鹰也要看别人是不是鸡，双赢可以是我的目标，可是不是我能控制的。推而论之，世上我能控制的事太少了，不能时时理性行事；运气机遇不能控制， 而人生的成败，运气不可或缺。不是每个人都能在极端情况能保持选择，我觉得不该责怪失败的人都是自己造成的，环境很重要</p>','2024-12-03 15:31:09.469','2024-12-03 15:31:09.469',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 15:31:09.467',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad7d68f4-06af-4642-92e3-c37d06bf6416','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>专注和明确的目标很重要，诱惑总会不断的出现，要有定力勇往目标。</p>
<p>选择意味着得到和失去，选好了就不要左顾右盼。</p>
<p>最好的选择往往需要先经历痛苦，长期坚持才能有回报。这也是很难做选择的原因。</p>','2024-12-03 14:04:58.039','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p>选择 = 心中的确有很多选择的困难症，工作/生活，但是庆幸自己找到清晰的目标！</p>','2024-12-03 14:31:22.447','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7bcc377e-bde6-42ac-ad20-fd62eb378acd','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','8ba62dba-0026-464f-a0d5-bd8c4d6c0430','<p><strong>2. 定力的智慧</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>核心理念</strong>：长期主义。
<ul>
<li>拒绝短期诱惑，专注于长远目标。</li>
<li>例证：亚马逊&ldquo;飞轮效应&rdquo;，通过坚持长期价值的创造，持续推动增长。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li><strong>关键能力</strong>：抵制诱惑、明确目标、不偏离方向。
<ul>
<li>不为短期利益妥协，坚持做符合长期规划的事。</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-03 21:05:18.73','2024-12-03 21:05:18.73',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 21:05:18.728',NULL,NULL);
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<p>学会懂事后，我们开始为自己不停地做选择题。选择的智慧非常重要帮助选对适合决定。</p>
<p>我们现有的事业、家庭、朋友圈等是选择智慧的成果。</p>','2024-11-18 19:34:30.135','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6bc84725-94b1-4fd4-8fbf-8d040a06a7c0','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。</p>
<p>没试过，怎么知道不可以呢？</p>
<p>作者的大胆尝试成功化解了现实世界的危机。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-11-25 02:16:31.796','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ea589929-bfc4-4d4b-9954-96b7e1ea0aaf','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>把注意力放在想要的事情上</p>','2024-12-04 14:46:48.917','2024-12-04 14:46:48.917',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:46:48.916',NULL,NULL);
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<p>选择：追求生活意义</p>','2024-12-04 15:41:08.844','2024-12-04 15:41:08.844',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:41:08.842',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3745fcf6-7f71-42c5-bb37-693de1949bc2','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>非暴力沟通成功化解了现实世界中的危机！</p>','2024-12-04 15:46:47.895','2024-12-04 15:46:48.983',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:46:48.982',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb04deb6-cdfa-4c3e-b598-776a24775e64','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>我们习惯性的去观察和事后去了解和同理彼此，加上反思后再去沟通，有自觉性的去为满足彼此的需要而沟通。。。。我们慢慢就会习惯性的非暴力沟通了。</p>','2024-12-05 13:36:18.663','2024-12-05 13:36:18.663',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 13:36:18.662',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc43759f-59b7-458d-9be3-80ab75a05b8b','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha- 认识到什么是非公理体系- 有很多不同的想法和观点</p>
<p>Impact- 不盲从的跟随</p>
<p>growth- 学习多方面聆听，收集资讯，内化成为自己的自己的学问</p>','2024-12-05 14:21:34.574','2024-12-05 14:21:34.574',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:21:34.573',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01a09124-7e35-4549-ba51-ec302e2dfaed','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>是非对错源于公理体系的价值起点，通过逻辑推演得出结论，需在动态实践中保持公理的包容性与逻辑的严谨性。</p>','2024-12-05 13:28:06.256','2024-12-05 14:25:41.071',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:25:41.07',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf41bec1-f43c-43a1-839f-c0c5ee942f3f','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>4 Dec -勇敢选择，享受好处，承担坏处。</p>
<p>5Dec- 到底谁才是对？我们需要兼听。尊重别人的观点跟我们不一样，agree to disagree.&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 14:44:37.564','2024-12-05 14:44:37.564',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:44:37.564',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90cce4bc-4334-49a4-803c-963a79392566','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','8ba62dba-0026-464f-a0d5-bd8c4d6c0430','<p>以下是对这四个层次的总结：</p>
<h3><strong>1. 事实（Fact）</strong></h3>
<p><strong>特点</strong>：事实是客观存在，与人的判断无关。<br><strong>例子</strong>：今天是30摄氏度。<br><strong>分析</strong>：事实是人类认知的起点，通常争议最少，但我们的认知可能因信息不足或观察视角的不同而不全面或存在偏差。<br><strong>关键点</strong>：全面认识事实需要多角度的观察和求证。</p>
<hr>
<h3><strong>2. 观点（Opinion）</strong></h3>
<p><strong>特点</strong>：观点是个人对事实的看法，受个人的知识结构、经验、情感等影响。<br><strong>例子</strong>：30摄氏度很热。<br><strong>分析</strong>：观点因人而异，反映了个体的主观态度。不同观点的争论往往源于信息差异和思维模式的差异。<br><strong>关键点</strong>：理解他人观点需要共情和信息共享，而不是简单对抗。</p>
<hr>
<h3><strong>3. 立场（Stand）</strong></h3>
<p><strong>特点</strong>：立场是受位置和利益影响的观点。<br><strong>例子</strong>：物业公司员工冒着汗说&ldquo;我不热&rdquo;，因为承认热可能带来额外工作。<br><strong>分析</strong>：立场往往以利益为导向，无法单纯从逻辑上说服他人。立场上的争论，本质上是利益的博弈。<br><strong>关键点</strong>：与有立场的人讨论时，关注利益的协调比追求对错更有效。</p>
<hr>
<h3><strong>4. 信仰（Belief）</strong></h3>
<p><strong>特点</strong>：信仰是一套逻辑自洽但不可证明的体系。<br><strong>例子</strong>：基督教、佛教或科学主义。<br><strong>分析</strong>：信仰超越了事实与观点，具有强烈的主观性和内在自洽性，但不同信仰之间往往互相矛盾。<br><strong>关键点</strong>：尊重他人信仰，避免试图从外部逻辑推翻它。</p>
<hr>
<h3><strong>应用提示</strong></h3>
<ol>
<li>
<p><strong>判断他人的表达</strong>：在沟通中，先判断对方是在陈述事实、表达观点、维护立场，还是坚守信仰。不同层次需要不同的沟通策略。</p>
<ul>
<li>对事实，要求证。</li>
<li>对观点，求理解。</li>
<li>对立场，求利益共赢。</li>
<li>对信仰，求尊重。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>反思自己的表达</strong>：清晰区分自己表述的性质，避免混淆。例如：</p>
<ul>
<li>说&ldquo;今天30度很热&rdquo;，明确是自己的观点，而非事实。</li>
<li>当表达立场时，不妨说明自己的利益考量，减少冲突。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>跨层次沟通的挑战</strong>：用事实反驳观点，或用观点挑战信仰，通常无效。认识到这一点，可以更理性地与他人互动。</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>这四种表述背后反映了人类认知与沟通的复杂性，理解这些层次，不仅有助于更有效的交流，也能帮助我们更清晰地认识自己和他人。</p>','2024-12-03 21:20:13.821','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a1757666-5c9b-499c-83d1-59e36b7c6ff5','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>這幾天跟女兒出國是在同一個房間。身為有潔癖的，我對他的生活方式非常不適應。不知道是應該我跟他配合還是他跟我配合。要怎麼用非暴力溝通來應付這件事情呢？感覺這幾天心情起伏不定，一直想要去避免未來的混亂。</p>','2024-12-03 23:38:29.84','2024-12-03 23:38:29.84',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-03 23:38:29.839',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('656858c5-fc1e-4499-b58e-0d5005dc5c95','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>我们花在职场上的时间比日常生活更多，所需要进行的沟通也更为多。</p>
<p>在职场上应用非暴力沟通容易达到共赢，也不容易伤感情。</p>','2024-12-03 23:53:20.572','2024-12-04 02:19:17.998',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 02:19:17.997',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8066b09b-c570-4ed3-b34c-767ae961c662','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','8ba62dba-0026-464f-a0d5-bd8c4d6c0430','<p><strong>如何防止&ldquo;注射式洗脑&rdquo;</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>
<p><strong>识别隐含观点</strong><br>遇到&ldquo;为什么+观点&rdquo;类型的问题时，首先暂停，仔细辨别其中的隐含假设。比如&ldquo;为什么踏踏实实做生意就那么辛苦&rdquo;，并不是要找答案，而是要先质疑：<strong>&ldquo;踏踏实实做生意真的辛苦吗？&rdquo;</strong></p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>还原问题本质</strong><br>不要急于回答&ldquo;为什么&rdquo;，先跳出问题框架，从更广的视角审视。例如，当被问到&ldquo;为什么消费者不买我的产品&rdquo;，反问自己：&ldquo;我的产品真的满足市场需求吗？&rdquo;</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>保持批判性思维</strong><br>对任何结论保持怀疑，不轻易接受未经验证的&ldquo;事实&rdquo;。例如，听到&ldquo;胖的人比较懒&rdquo;，首先要问：&ldquo;这种结论的依据是什么？是偏见还是真实的数据？&rdquo;</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>学习识别逻辑漏洞</strong><br>许多&ldquo;注射式&rdquo;问题利用人们对权威、逻辑或情感的盲从。通过学习逻辑思维和心理学原理，可以更好地识别和拒绝这些&ldquo;注射器&rdquo;。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>用事实对抗谣言</strong><br>对于带有偏见或谣言色彩的问题，利用权威数据或事实进行驳斥，而不是继续围绕假设讨论。例如，听到&ldquo;为什么韭菜能治癌症&rdquo;时，可以回应：&ldquo;有科学研究证明韭菜治癌症吗？如果没有，这就是谣言。&rdquo;</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>避免自我&ldquo;注射&rdquo;</strong><br>不要让自己陷入&ldquo;为什么我这么努力却仍然失败&rdquo;的思维陷阱，而是重新定义问题：&ldquo;我有哪些地方可以改进？&rdquo;</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>转化问题结构</strong><br>将&ldquo;为什么&rdquo;换成&ldquo;怎么样&rdquo;，从寻找原因变为寻找解决方案。例如，不问&ldquo;为什么市场上优秀员工那么少&rdquo;，而是问&ldquo;怎么样才能吸引更多优秀员工？&rdquo;</p>
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</ol>
<h3>总结</h3>
<p>&ldquo;为什么+观点&rdquo;是一种隐藏的心理操控手段，会无形中植入偏见或不实假设。通过保持理性、质疑思维、追求事实，我们可以防止被&ldquo;注射式洗脑&rdquo;，保持头脑清醒，做出更明智的判断。</p>','2024-12-03 21:23:30.636','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
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<p>过去，我会用&ldquo;打岔&rdquo;的方法逃离自己的感受。结果，那些不被满足的需求依然在，情绪也没法获得疏解。人与人之间的连结也无法顺利建立。</p>
<p><strong><em>&ldquo;把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。&rdquo;&nbsp;</em></strong></p>','2024-12-02 14:21:32.871','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3e31ea9-612d-4a7c-8ce5-3ae71ef07a4b','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>将非暴力沟通运用在法庭上化解了现实世界中的危机。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 01:06:05.302','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【定力的智慧】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">定力让我们不迷惑于纷花乱欲迷人眼的现象而见着其背后的本质或规则。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">长远目标有助于我们生涯的发展&mdash;&mdash;所谓的长期主义。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">问题人生，抉择人生，人生就是一连串的问答题，需要我们做出一连串的选择。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">然而，选择需要勇气。所谓的勇气，就是敢于放棄其他，择选一个。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">择你所爱，爱你所择。</span></p>','2024-12-03 00:40:49.258','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p>勇敢选择，享受好处，承担坏处。拥有智慧，实现自己的人生目标。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 01:00:47.409','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7d8a7d67-b686-4320-993e-c6c619471963','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','2c1ef7cf-3624-43cb-8cf3-d40551cab829','<p><strong>定力的智慧:</strong></p>
<p>在生活中有时会有很多诱惑，经常会跟丢"土拨鼠"，忘记自己的目标。这个让我想到保持身材是长远的目标，但往往有好多食物的诱惑，会忘了要注意体重管理。</p>
<p><strong>选择的智慧:</strong></p>
<p>我们每一天都在做很多的选择，但也要学习放弃。放弃不意味着失去一切，也许会有更好的结果给自己。<strong>上帝为我们关了一扇门，就会为我们开另外一道门。</strong></p>','2024-12-03 11:01:16.181','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5eb26419-2287-4402-af14-3ee49b1b44a1','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','c11fab34-c054-436b-a25e-f5fdf1c3976e','<p>我觉得孔子说三十而立大概就是说这个定力吧到三十岁：<br>&nbsp; * 经历足够的成功与失败<br>&nbsp; * 建立了自己的判断标准<br>&nbsp; * 能够控制冲动<br>&nbsp; * 开始注重长远发展</p>
<p>但是用Bezos的商业成功来说明定力的智慧，会不会太被资本主义的社会洗脑了？毕竟长期到地是多长，人生前五十年靠定力赚取很多钱，往后后悔是长期主义吗？以人的一生来定义长期，不是要追求更精神上的价值吗？</p>','2024-12-03 15:44:19.141','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c97eaeb6-caed-43c6-9058-8f5044c3bfde','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 4 ：12月4 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底層邏輯》Part 1：是非對錯的底層邏輯</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">定力的智慧（Page 027-032）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日讀後感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1.选择与放弃的重要性：学会选择也就是学会放弃，因为每次选择一件事都意味着需要放弃其他可能性。这是一种智慧，也是人生必须面对的取舍。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 2. 选择与努力的比较：选择有时比努力更重要，但放弃有时甚至比选择更为关键，因为放弃不必要的选项可以让我们专注于真正重要的目标。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 3. 勇敢与承担：我们应该勇敢地做出选择，同时接受选择所带来的好处与坏处，为自己的决定负责。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 4. 人生悲剧的根源：悲剧往往源于犹豫不决，一边看着未来的可能性，一边回顾过去的遗憾，最终导致无法前进。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 5工作中的目标：在一份工作中，我们应该思考自己最想学习和收获的是什么，因为这些才是真正值得追求的目标，而不是仅仅为了短期的物质回报。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 6专注于长远目标：有些钱会成为诱惑，让我们偏离自己长期的发展目标。因此，我们需要保持清醒，拒绝因短期利益而放弃长远目标。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">总结：重点是明确目标、专注长远，不因短期利益迷失方向，并在工作或创业中找到自己的核心价值和方向。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-03 14:03:30.121','2024-12-04 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027','2024-12-04 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('30a0a587-f856-4f6c-9a81-0008cc5f18d7','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<p>&bull; 保持定力，专注于实现更长远的目标。</p>
<p>&bull; 勇于抉择且无怨无悔，随心所欲但始终不逾矩。</p>','2024-12-04 00:55:49.414','2024-12-04 00:55:49.414',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 00:55:49.413',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e35a69f3-07ce-4563-aa22-fbc4d3d6ec8e','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">为什么呢？以下列子:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">"請【不要】想"紅色",那你腦海中出现什么呢？" 所以,請多把注意力放在你想【要】的事物上。</span></p>','2024-12-04 01:45:47.586','2024-12-04 01:46:15.904',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 01:46:15.903',NULL,NULL);
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<p>長遠的目標要有定力。</p>
<p>定力，是人生智慧，是長期主義的勝利。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>選擇的智慧</p>
<p>學會選擇，常常就是學會放棄： 選擇一個，放棄其他。 選擇有時比努力重要，但放棄有時比選擇更重要。我们應勇敢選擇，然後享受好處，承擔壞處。</p>','2024-12-04 07:12:30.178','2024-12-04 07:12:30.178',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 07:12:30.177',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a771101-3e97-4099-b2da-42d2dc2d3450','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">专注在我们想要的事物上，</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">而非害怕的事物上，这样才会扭转乾坤，事半功倍。</span></p>','2024-12-04 07:26:12.167','2024-12-04 07:26:12.167',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 07:26:12.166',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dfe0c580-6973-42ab-b4ef-efb9ae3f348f','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p><strong>选择不对，努力白费</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>定力是人生智慧，智慧让我们做对选择，胜利在握！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 07:30:51.461','2024-12-04 07:30:51.461',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 07:30:51.46',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6f9f3e5b-46ba-4238-9c31-b14d8929c0bf','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。</p>
<p>在職場中使用非暴力沟通，一定要先練習，以免事與愿违。</p>','2024-12-04 08:46:58.171','2024-12-04 08:46:58.171',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 08:46:58.17',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9326ee1f-6644-4c73-a88c-09d0ef0673b7','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>"人生的悲剧来自于看著前方，又想著后方&rdquo;深刻的道尽选择的矛盾心里。</p>
<p>选择的智慧与定力是相补相成的。清楚的知道自己要什么，曹什么目标迈进。运用定力，免于受短暂的好处而选择错误。</p>
<p>选择永远在自己～听天由命也是一种选择。</p>','2024-12-04 09:31:41.445','2024-12-04 09:31:41.445',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 09:31:41.444',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('407b02ec-d7cf-4084-97a3-8ae70ce4f92e','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>利用非暴力沟通，也需要勇气和毅力。不管你会有多少犹豫和怀疑，还是要把注意力放在有助情况的事情上，相信非暴力沟通可以带来好处，按计划和原则办事。</p>','2024-12-04 10:22:28.953','2024-12-04 10:26:59.095',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 10:26:59.094',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('24a64de0-847f-4b52-a1b0-5a7ea424440d','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>相信了，就必须坚持不懈，不言放弃；更是要有智慧地做出每一步的选择。选择好并专注于想要达到的目标，只做该做的，放弃不重要的、没关系的，就会越来越专、精。</p>','2024-12-04 10:35:57.696','2024-12-04 10:37:12.345',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 10:37:12.344',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0c0bb83f-2fa8-4001-8074-3ec2d66f97d2','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 4 ：12月4 日 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑<br>定力的智慧（Page 027-032）<br>&nbsp;</p>
<p>人生的三層智慧<br>1) 博弈<br>2) 定力<br>3) 选择</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>博弈 - 靠心態 (共赢 ,感激) + 靠策略 (生存策略)。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>定力 - 长期主义 - 拒绝诱惑，保持定力</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>选择 - 勇于选择而不后悔。享受好处，承擔坏处。</p>','2024-12-04 12:46:33.17','2024-12-04 12:46:42.673',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 12:46:42.672',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f0bc24f6-5d36-442e-a4ec-2bf2923b6f39','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>当初大家一起毕业，都处于一样的起跑点，然后各奔前程，然而为何30年之后，大家的成就都不一样 ？</p>
<p>这30年之间，各自的际遇都不一样，差異基于自己本身的态度，这可以连接这书讲的三种智慧：</p>
<p>博弈的智慧 ：是否有双赢心态</p>
<p>定力的智慧 ：有否以终为始 ？此想法应该有vision，mission and core value 为基础。</p>
<p>选择的智慧 ：有勇气去选择，有勇气去承担，不好前面怕鬼，后面怕小偷。</p>','2024-12-04 13:01:28.779','2024-12-04 13:01:28.779',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:01:28.778',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ac65dab3-3ace-4985-9d28-fb0b5263902d','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<p>定力的智慧</p>
<p>选择的智慧</p>','2024-12-04 15:01:45.121','2024-12-04 15:01:45.121',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:01:45.12',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('100f7978-d77a-4ff4-b24f-b6ba35b3aed5','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&bull;把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。</p>','2024-12-04 15:07:59.358','2024-12-04 15:07:59.358',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:07:59.357',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c31e36e3-cbd1-40d9-8bc8-0ea30091858d','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>真正的英雄主义是认清了真相后还依然爱它。</p>
<p>如果找不到最聪明的人反驳这个观点，就不配拥有这个观点。这样才能提醒自己，每个理论都有前提。</p>','2024-12-04 06:52:20.825','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e8ec9ab-97b7-4620-bf47-39c3aa99934d','c7808d2e-09e0-424e-87f4-37d55701c25e','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>每个人时间的颗粒度都不同，有一天、有1小时、15分钟、3分钟。如果你理解了「时间颗粒度」的概念，就会明白，恪守时间就是理解並尊重别人时间颗粒度。</p>
<p>当你越来越成功，你的时间越来越值钱，你的时间颗粒度就会越来越细。</p>
<p>工具可以使用日历或outlook。</p>','2024-12-04 06:47:40.932','2024-12-31 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-12-31 00:00:00.023','2024-12-31 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22dde089-2211-4a86-b6c2-e1da3194b56d','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>"人生的悲剧来自于看著前方，又想著后方&rdquo;</p>
<p>这就是为什么选择很困难。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>因为当你做选择的时候，往往就是在一开始--当你拥有最少资料的时候，也是最有可能做出错误选择。我们做选择时，都已经是综合了所有我们知道的资讯，尽我们最大的能力，做出我们认为最有智慧的决定。但是人算不如天算，事情发展才不会一帆风顺，所以我们才会回头看，觉得当初如果我走另外一条路会不会更好？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>但是做这种思考是没有意义的，因为时光不能倒流，你改变不了过去，只会徒然增加烦恼。而且，虽然现在发展不如意，焉知以后也是如此？人还没有到盖棺定论，还真的不知道鹿死谁手。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>所以，要过一个无悔的人生，就一定要做一个有原则的人，或者说，做决定时一定要基于一些永恒的原则而不是利益。这样，即使发展不顺利，或者老天爷没眼，我们仍然可以昂首前进，因为甭管别人怎么看，我们的决定有永恒价值。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>选择不对，努力白费 --&nbsp;</strong>不，即使我们兜兜转转了一大圈还只是回到原点，但是我们的努力不会白费。因为我们是基于对的原则做出选择，而不是基于事后孔明的一些见解。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>或者说，只要我们的选择是建立在正确的原则上，那我们的选择就永远不可能错。</p>','2024-12-04 10:31:04.648','2024-12-04 10:38:36.286',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 10:38:36.284',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8b792a4-39ea-4755-ab9b-687b5842c900','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<p>世界上有太多的诱惑，太多东西在抢我们的注意力，让我们失去目标，偏离方向。</p>
<p>定力，是人生的智慧&mdash;最終的勝利，常常是時間的勝利，是长期主义的胜利．</p>
<p>人生是由一连串选择题串起来的．</p>
<p>學會選擇，常常就是學會放棄：選擇一個，放棄其他。</p>
<p>選擇有時比努力重要，但放棄有時比選擇更重要。我們應勇敢選擇，然後享受好處，承擔壞處</p>
<p>人生的悲劇，往往來自看著前方，又想著後方，最後無路可走。</p>','2024-12-04 11:00:00.653','2024-12-04 11:00:00.653',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:00:00.651',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a61785dc-8904-4488-aa90-708863f0288d','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我們往往很容易被利益迷糊和誘惑而忽略了自己長期的目標。要達成自己長期的目標我們需要擁有定力，知道什麼是對的事（能達成目標）而放棄短期的誘惑。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每個人都有選擇的權利，選擇也就意味著我們必須放下其他不必要的東西。選擇比努力更重要，而懂得放棄比選擇更重要。</span></p>','2024-12-04 11:16:03.095','2024-12-04 11:16:04.35',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:16:04.349',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('189c48b9-5099-47ac-8a6c-adfbe9b5d570','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是定力？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">首先需要坚定的知道自己最终想要得到什么，当机会或诱惑来到面前时，需要衡量这些是否和原先想要的匹配。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在生活中，最容易让我们迷失的，往往是金钱。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">定力，是人生的智慧- 最终的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">选择的智慧</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生的轨迹、往往就是由那几次关键的选择决定的。遗憾的是，大多数人不知道自己有得选，也没有勇气选择。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">学会选择，常常就是学会放弃：选择一个，放弃其他。选择有时候比努力重要，但放弃有时比选择更重要。我们应该勇敢选择，然后享受好吃呀，承担坏处。</span></p>','2024-12-04 11:25:11.176','2024-12-04 11:25:11.176',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:25:11.174',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d2210b94-821d-47cc-9af3-1973d80f4f6b','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要以为非暴力沟通只能在生活里的家人和朋友们，在职场上一样行得通。踏出第一步，敢敢的用。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;把注意力放在你想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 11:34:45.114','2024-12-04 11:34:45.114',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:34:45.113',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e6726e56-9a67-4721-a328-1b0c2cb19db5','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>深耕自己所长,做强,做精.自律,持戒.</p>
<p>人生最大的是可以选择.选择自己所爱-承担结果,享受结果.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 11:53:06.027','2024-12-04 11:53:06.027',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:53:06.026',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('51b7248a-7c0f-4b57-a5d6-fba8adbe6a4f','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>定力，是人生的智慧，它不是一时一刻，而是长远的长期主义。最终的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，长期主义的胜利。选择，就是自己由里长出来智慧，学会选择，常常就是放弃选择。选择一个，放弃其他。选择比努力重要，但放弃有时比选择更重要。我们应勇敢选择，让自己带着勇气去享受选择里的好处，承担选择里卡的坏处。人生的悲剧，往往来自看着前方，又想着后方，然后逼迫到无路可走。最后该能拥有智慧，让自己实现梦想。</p>','2024-12-04 11:54:44.815','2024-12-04 11:54:44.815',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 11:54:44.813',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb68eb3d-3a7d-4206-ba38-be2804fa3e9c','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>Day 4 ：12月4 日 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>定力的智慧（Page 027-032）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>It''s all about long term.&nbsp;</p>
<p>只有定力 讓自己選擇了更長遠目標。</p>
<p>這就是長期主義。</p>
<p>人們最大的權力就是學會自己做選擇。</p>
<p>你有勇氣做選擇嗎？</p>
<p>不然就上演人生悲劇：看著前方，想著後方，最後無路可走。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 12:25:17.622','2024-12-04 12:25:17.622',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 12:25:17.621',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c85eb718-8564-48ff-91c5-076d3d0fd959','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day34</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-MY">4</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第八章 ： 如何在职场中使用非暴力沟通？（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page171-175</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">太棒了 非暴力溝通也可以運用在職場上。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">重點是把注意力放在自己想要的事物、需要、結果上，而非害怕或不想要的事物上。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">最壞的結果是什麼？既然如此<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">還有什麼好害怕或恐懼的？</span></p>','2024-12-04 12:08:16.108','2024-12-04 12:10:19.883',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 12:10:19.877',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4e64b9d0-3244-41e6-9107-86e6215f2255','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','b1d2b7e9-339b-46d2-9f25-30c45ecce2d1','<p>囚徒困境这个故事，曾经听过。<br><br>这里就不多说了。<br><br>但凡事都有前提，这件事让我有感想，<br><br>究竟是价格决定成本？<br><br>还是成本决定价格？<br><br>这个件事经常发生于我拟定服务费用的时候。<br><br>我经常在想，是在客户认定的价格当中去协调自的服务模式比较正确？<br><br>还是利用自己服务所用的时间成本来断定应该如何收费。<br><br>看了这一章后，我发现，就应该让这两者之间去互相博弈，<br><br>而当它慢慢来到共识，价格就会落在最对的地方～</p>','2024-12-04 13:36:17.262','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d689e6e1-baf2-4591-a20d-485d259e74fe','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 27 -32</p>
<p>定力的智慧</p>
<p>定力是人生的智慧，最终会胜利的是常常在时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。</p>
<p>选择的智慧</p>
<p>人生的轨迹，是由多次的关键的选择决定的。</p>
<p>选择=放弃。</p>
<p>选择比努力更重要，但放弃比选择更重要。</p>
<p>人生的悲剧，往往来自看著前方，又想着后方，最后无路可走。</p>','2024-12-04 13:39:40.651','2024-12-04 13:39:52.152',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:39:52.15',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a2896e56-cc07-4cd4-a0e8-9401da3d4fe0','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day34：12月 4日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章 ： 如何在职场中使用非暴力沟通？（Page171-175）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">1. </span><span class="s2">如何在职场中使用非暴力沟通？</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 核心理念是将注意力放在自己想要的事情上，而非害怕的事情上。通过关注积极的目标，而不是消极的担忧，能更有效地解决问题。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> 2. </span><span class="s2">在法庭上应用非暴力沟通的案例：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 一位化学家因回答证词方式引发矛盾，律师希望通过更具合作性的方式沟通来达成目标。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 律师从中意识到，不是所有人都能立即配合期望的沟通模式，非暴力沟通需要结合对方的背景、状态和情绪进行调整。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">2 </span><span class="s2">非暴力沟通的实践：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 通过开放的对话模式，理解对方的真正需求，而不是单方面强调自己的诉求。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 使用清晰、诚恳的语言表达自己的想法，同时尊重对方的感受和立场。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">&nbsp;3 </span><span class="s2">反思与改善：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 在互动中如果发现对方无法立刻调整沟通方式，可以重新审视自己的策略，以更柔性的方式引导对方。</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1"> &bull; 非暴力沟通强调的是互相尊重和合作，最终达到共识和目标。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">总结：非暴力沟通的核心在于关注积极目标，结合实际情况调整沟通方式，最终通过尊重与合作实现有效交流。这一方法在职场、法庭等场合都能发挥作用。</span></p>','2024-12-04 13:49:20.428','2024-12-04 13:49:20.428',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:49:20.427',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e8146f4a-0de6-49ce-a9f9-db367412d0e5','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>不忘初心，方得始终。可见，定力的重要。</p>
<p>选择的确非常需要智慧，否则自己易迷失于花花世界，浑浑噩噩的渡日。不过，智慧需要培育，它非与生俱来。</p>','2024-12-04 13:50:41.881','2024-12-04 13:50:41.881',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:50:41.88',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a35c981-2775-4172-9651-73e64393d865','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha- 选择的重要性因为人生是由一连串选择串起来的</p>
<p>Impact- 人活着每天都有选择的机会</p>
<p>Growth- 谨慎做选择，embrace the consequence of the choice.&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 13:55:47.24','2024-12-04 13:55:47.24',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 13:55:47.239',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bbbc2a39-5ce1-44d4-8c39-abf651687a89','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>把注意力放在想要的事物上，不是在害怕的事物上，这样是积极面对事情</li>
<li>一味想控制对方是无效的沟通方式，而是先向对方清楚表达自己请求，并理解对方的立场</li>
</ul>','2024-12-04 14:09:35.876','2024-12-04 14:09:35.876',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:09:35.875',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('733ddd60-48f9-455b-b872-04192822f94d','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>在法庭上应用非暴力沟通是可以改变原本非常僵硬的局面。但是前题是在应用前必须找个能信赖的人多做排练，练习。</p>','2024-12-04 14:10:44.147','2024-12-04 14:10:44.147',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:10:44.146',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4593763b-42ca-4802-a3c0-1e18faf2c042','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>生活中充满了选择，缺乏的永远都是勇气，勇于探索和去做选择，因为有舍才有得。</p>
<p>做了选择就要坚持不懈的努力，才会看到成果。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 14:28:26.59','2024-12-04 14:28:26.59',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:28:26.589',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38fab500-ccb5-4f4f-9ca7-8dde07ff3bbe','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>生活中因诱惑多，容易忘了自己本来的目标</li>
<li>定力：坚守最初的目标，评估眼前的利益是否与自己的目标吻合</li>
<li>人生轨迹是由每一个选择串联起来的</li>
<li>需要学会接受自己的选择，好好享受好处，并承担坏处</li>
</ul>','2024-12-04 14:34:04.751','2024-12-04 14:34:04.751',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:34:04.75',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('849f2f6a-3d8a-48b4-b810-4d068779854c','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>为什么非暴力沟通不能在法庭上运用？&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 14:45:28.424','2024-12-04 14:45:28.424',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:45:28.424',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e04ccd5-6ff6-45a6-abcb-bfba25b50591','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>练习的第一部，提出请求。</p>
<ul>
<li>当需要没有被满足时，感觉身体的变化</li>
<li>充分了解自己到底要什么</li>
<li>牢记自己想要的东西</li>
<li>进行角色扮演</li>
<li>给予自己同理心</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 14:03:47.015','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3761cc5-2be0-4b70-8ce8-d58a7ca0ec1a','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>定力的智慧</p>
<p>这编文章，以我所解，人活着都常常必须做选择，甚至有时会有客户介绍非常高回报的生意给我们，这个诱惑会令我们迷茫花乱，起贪念，而会让我们放弃我们原本长远目标，这就是在考验我们的定力了。</p>
<p>也看到职场上太多的诱惑，往往现实中的打工族都会选择高薪酬劳而跳职，到底是为了金钱吗？还是应该选择更多的学习，与个人成长呢？</p>
<p>这里定力就是考验人生智慧的选择了。书中说，最终的胜利常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。</p>
<p>再来，应该选择创业的惊险刺激，还是该选择上班，稳稳定定的拿一份薪水，享受好福利，但是时间被约束,以及明天在重复，再重复的地点做着固定的事情。</p>
<p>每当做选择的时候，也就是做了放弃其他的事情。</p>
<p>选择比努力更加重要，既然都做了选择，就应该好好的享受，去承担。</p>
<p>千万不要看着前方，又想着后方，最后一定是无路可走的悲剧。</p>
<p>希望在这复杂多变的世界里，我们能夠全身而退，实现多方共赢，能拒绝诱惑，保持定力，能勇于选择不后悔，随心所欲而不逾矩，能拥有智慧，实现自己的人生目标。</p>','2024-12-04 14:47:45.2','2024-12-04 14:47:45.2',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:47:45.198',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10cca1d1-6405-43c1-afe6-ddabd103b48d','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>"非暴力沟通"与7习惯有许多相似之处，不只可以用在个人、夫妻、孩子、家庭，也可以用在职场和事业上。利用&ldquo;非暴力沟通&rdquo;可以带来和谐、可以促进良好的关系。</p>','2024-12-04 14:50:52.869','2024-12-04 14:50:52.869',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:50:52.868',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29e696af-5e01-4dbc-b53a-a7b742a6e168','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>人生的三层智慧：博弈，定力，选择</p>
<p>能在自己的工作中找到其意义是幸福的，要有定力，不要被金钱所诱惑，要看长远的受益</p>
<p>要知道我们是有选择权的，选择放弃也是需要勇气的，放弃了就不要一直往回看，别让这些限制着你的发展</p>','2024-12-04 15:10:36.675','2024-12-04 15:10:38.486',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:10:38.485',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5f76a03-57ba-4242-b27c-bfd0da94d0b0','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>在职场使用非暴力是需要练习的， 并且把注意力放在想要的事物上，而非害怕的事物上。</p>','2024-12-04 15:10:53.359','2024-12-04 15:10:53.359',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:10:53.358',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('926fcdd9-eebb-4972-bca3-dc7b50a3cf0b','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>职场上运用非暴力沟通，需要事先做好充分练习角色扮演和无声的同理自己和对方，practise makes perfect.</p>','2024-12-04 15:01:24.33','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('135ae611-4c1c-4251-9cd1-a79f0f33a40c','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>大部分科学领域，都没有公理体系的</p>','2024-12-04 15:15:28.4','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d9fea3e4-a43e-4079-9156-2946915c7732','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','550d0df0-c244-418c-8fd4-915e9faffda1','<p>我们一定要关注我们的目标，并清楚地理解有一些机会是来诱惑我们离开我们的目标。</p>
<p>很喜欢这一段 &ldquo;学会选择，常常就是学会放弃。选择一个, 放弃其他，因为选择有时比努力更重要，但是放弃有时候比选择更重要。我们应该勇敢选择，然后享受好处，承担坏处".</p>','2024-12-04 15:31:36.447','2024-12-04 15:31:36.447',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:31:36.446',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f486725-e5c0-4fa8-8221-b9fe01a420b0','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day34：12月 4日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>第八章 ： 如何在职场中使用非暴力沟通？（Page171-175）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>想不到，非暴力沟通也可在职场上的冲突交谈中发挥作用。关注自己要达到的目的（需要）,然后发出请求与对方知道，并寻求对方的意愿（对方的需要），再进行沟通。</p>','2024-12-04 15:35:20.031','2024-12-04 15:36:31.542',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:36:31.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('060d71e9-3ada-4f34-9a4c-0a71e8b524bf','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>为了长期目标，需要有定力。定力是要有智慧，不受诱惑。职场上，自我增值，学习和学到什么才是最重要。</p>
<p>每个人都有选择的权力。若在自己的选择找到意义，那么会乐意的燃烧自己来奉献。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>在绝望中选择生活态度的自由，是人的最后自由。</p>','2024-12-04 15:42:11.218','2024-12-04 15:43:41.369',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:43:41.367',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d79f0724-ea2e-458b-818c-3f086f5714d5','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>非暴力沟通的使用广阔，有时也需要一些创意。</p>','2024-12-04 15:45:01.78','2024-12-04 15:45:01.78',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:45:01.779',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c8af0d0a-2a66-4973-81ab-85ea336eaa52','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 4 ：12月4 日 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>定力的智慧（Page 027-032）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>定力：当很多东西/事情抢夺我们的注意力，要记得自己的初衷/目标是什么。it''s all about the long term。</p>
<p>选择：勇于选择，敢于放弃。</p>','2024-12-04 15:48:25.635','2024-12-04 15:48:25.635',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:48:25.634',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6483c571-a9de-42da-a8bc-530e7590bafb','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>勇敢做选择，享受好处，承担坏处。</p>
<p>做选择有时比做努力更重要。</p>
<p>选择 = 放弃另一边</p>','2024-12-04 15:49:44.048','2024-12-04 15:49:55.528',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:49:55.527',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('02f262ea-de41-4dde-a81b-d7ca8731bfe9','3052b4db-cf9f-4785-b741-0a3de3cab21a','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>昨天的：</p>
<p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>博弈的智慧</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;- 是人生的智慧<br>&nbsp;- 怎么博弈？一靠心态，二靠策略</p>
<p>1）心态：共赢与感激，用这样的心态「以不变应万变」地参与博弈，可能眼前会吃小亏，但长远看会赢得大利</p>
<p>2）策略：「一报还一报」，「以牙还牙，以眼还眼」重复对方的动作是最好的「生存策略」</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>今天的：</p>
<p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>定力的智慧</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;- 35岁前，别在意金钱，这些都是让我们放弃长远目标的诱惑。反之，我们更应该专注在最想学到什么？收获什么？</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 定力，可以转换成&mdash;&mdash;长期主义，最终的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>选择的智慧</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;- 学会选择，常常就是学会放弃，选择一个、放弃其他</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 选择有时比努力更重要，但放弃有时比选择更重要</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 勇敢选择，享受好处，承担坏处</p>
<p>&nbsp;- <span style="color: rgb(224, 62, 45);">人生的悲剧往往来自看着前方，又想着后方，最后无路可走</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span style="color: #e03e2d;"><span style="caret-color: rgb(224, 62, 45);">「选择」做某件事物，凭借「长期主义」形成自己的「定力」，和这个世界重复「博弈」</span></span></span></h3>','2024-12-04 15:54:17.654','2024-12-04 15:54:17.654',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 15:54:17.652',NULL,NULL);
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<p dir="ltr">公理体系 VS 逻辑推演（Page 033-037）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>公理體系的大師們 從來不吵。</p>
<p>他們只鬥。鬥看誰得以證明自己的論點站得住腳。</p>
<p>邏輯推演體系的大師呢？</p>
<p>他們就時常愛吵架，吵看誰的新觀點和模式最厲害、最對。</p>
<p>吵的底層邏輯是什麼呢？</p>
<p>就如大馬政棍 整天拿宗教、種族、華教、中文字等無聊課題來吵、來杯葛，內心都按了什麼心眼？底層邏輯有是什麼？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 22:39:07.328','2024-12-04 22:39:07.328',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 22:39:07.32',NULL,NULL);
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<p>从不同角度看问题就有不同结论，没有绝对的对错。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day 2: 人性、道德和法律，情理法。了解这三层关系能够让我们对行为有更深的理解。</p>
<p>Day 3: 成就靠能力，能力需要知识，只有学习才有知识。所以学习是基础。</p>
<p>懂得感恩的人生才是幸福的人生。</p>
<p>Day 4 清楚知道自己要什么就有定力，定力带来长远利益。</p>
<p>不停检讨，不断确定自己的定位和作出选择，我们就不会走错路。</p>
<p>Day 5: 在高中和大学期间，经济学是我喜欢的科目，所以考到好成绩。经济谈的是理论，不同理论带来不同结果。要应对经济起伏，危机，经济学者提出不同理论，这才是精彩之处。</p>','2024-12-04 23:16:35.063','2024-12-04 23:34:29.288',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 23:34:29.287',NULL,NULL);
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<p>就如Charlie Munger 说的，如果我不能不能比全世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有它。</p>','2024-12-04 23:56:48.689','2024-12-04 23:56:48.689',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 23:56:48.688',NULL,NULL);
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<p>─</p>','2024-11-27 21:22:34.878','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<p>练习、练习、练习： 1）客观观察， 2）留意自己的感受（懂得自己的感受，才能理解他人。就如懂得自己的冰山，才能理解他人的冰山。）， 3）感受背后的需要是什么？ 我的&ldquo;鸭鸭指数？&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 4）如何提出请求</p>','2024-12-02 14:43:27.211','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【公理体系</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">vs<span lang="ZH-CN">逻辑推演】</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">你学的是哪门经済学？</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;&mdash;<span lang="ZH-CN">这个问题跟博学或专精有关，即作者言：学李白，也要学灶甫。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">道不变，淺显却难以言明；所谓道可道，非常道也。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB;">原因在于人有其认知上的局限。所以，兼听则明，既要专精，亦要博学，如此才勉强靠近道之真义。</span></p>','2024-12-03 01:18:36.177','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<ul>
<li>
<p><strong>数学的世界：公理体系</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>数学是以公理为基础的学科，大师们通过逻辑推演从不争吵，因为所有问题可以通过证明解决。</li>
<li>&ldquo;武行&rdquo;文化，强调&ldquo;打架&rdquo;（用证明说话）而非&ldquo;吵架&rdquo;。</li>
<li>其核心在于智商的较量，而非口才的较量，符合&ldquo;武无第二&rdquo;的原则。</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>人文学科及经济学：逻辑推演</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>由于缺乏公理体系，仅靠逻辑演绎难以得出普适的结论。</li>
<li>经济学中每个观点都有支持和反对的例子，导致争论不断，&ldquo;文无第一&rdquo;。</li>
<li>菲兹杰拉德的一句话体现了对多样性的包容：&ldquo;你们都对&rdquo;。</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-03 21:07:01.268','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<p>在反思的过程中进行客观观察、感受、需要、请求的自我对话。</p>','2024-12-04 02:18:59.47','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<p>可以和值得信赖的人帮助你练习。不过要先约法三章</p>
<p>自我同理和静默同理他人。</p>
<p>自我同理时，会与自己的需要搭线。静默同理他人时，猜测他人的需要。</p>
<p>在反思中用客观观察，感受，需要和请求来反思那件事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 05:59:16.67','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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<p>二，给每个模型找个反例，了。</p>
<p>三是记住每个理论都有前提。</p>
<p>同时持有相反的观念，还能正常行事，才是第一流的智慧。</p>','2024-12-04 06:47:57.356','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83d9e167-c38f-49b4-b7d7-8853b11894ba','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day35</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月&nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-MY">5</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">若想在职场中运用，一定要先练习（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page175-178</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">欲在職場上運用非暴力溝通，需要多練習。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">1️⃣找個信賴的夥伴，約法三章並進行有效練習。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">2️⃣心中無聲地演練非暴力溝通技巧。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-04 12:15:45.218','2024-12-05 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013','2024-12-05 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e15558a8-4887-470b-8fd5-05b6ada48aef','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>不是每个论点是绝对的用公里体系或是逻辑推演，最重要的是可以被解释和合理！</p>','2024-12-05 00:49:20.658','2024-12-05 00:49:20.658',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 00:49:20.657',NULL,NULL);
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<p>在反思的過程中，先客观观察，去感受當時的狀況，確認自己真正的需要，然后再清楚知道是不是需要別人滿足自己的需求 ，是足否需要請求對方一起好好談談？</p>','2024-12-05 01:28:31.289','2024-12-05 01:28:31.289',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 01:28:31.287',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('96b8bf9a-d897-4d35-82fc-d46484a942ce','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>每一套理论都有合理的观点，都存在着有意义的核心。没有最对与错的，只有最合适的，别被某些理论或派系框架着，都接纳，无边界学习。即要学李白，也要学杜甫。</p>','2024-12-05 01:39:17.762','2024-12-05 01:39:17.762',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 01:39:17.761',NULL,NULL);
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<p>自我反思、客觀觀察、感受、需要、請求</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>練習自我同理時，也練習靜默同理他人。</p>','2024-12-05 02:33:36.74','2024-12-05 02:33:36.74',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 02:33:36.739',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc5e4237-7e20-40b4-9b08-b49b38bd455d','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>每个人都可能有局部或多处盲点。所以才会说：智者千虑必有一失；愚者千虑或有一得。</p>
<p>因此，客观与理性的多方面学习以及保留开放心态，才是最明智的上上策。虽无法做到绝对的正确，但却能把错误降到最底，同时还有不断提升思想空间。</p>','2024-12-05 13:46:18.958','2024-12-05 13:46:18.958',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 13:46:18.957',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa7c8fd1-c158-4cb5-9265-b549f7198484','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">數學：</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">公理體系</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">只有能證明和不能證明的。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">人文科學，經濟學</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">只靠邏輯演繹</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">不斷的提出新觀點和模型。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">同時持有全然相反的两种觀念，還能正常行事，是第一流智慧的表現。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">文無第一，武無第二。</span></p>','2024-12-05 03:28:26.592','2024-12-05 03:28:26.592',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 03:28:26.591',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f3b5e3f-9612-4e8b-88a0-50c224961418','49d2fda4-f3e7-4301-a45a-b707db640f7d','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>时间管理三层次</p>
<p>以年天时管理时间。</p>
<p>在一年里，有目标的时间管理可省出好几个月。</p>
<p>在一天里，8小时工作、8小时睡觉差异在第三个8小时。如果用来学习进步速度惊人，或把时间花在拓展交际、锻炼身体、参加公益上，你的人脉增长将是惊人。</p>
<p>在一小时里，在每一个小时里做到100%专注。把事情分为「轻重缓急」，然后按照规律去依次处理。</p>
<p>史蒂芬.柯维说：「想法产生行动，行动养成习惯，习惯变成性格，性格决定命运」。</p>
<p>最重要是享受其中，高兴就好。</p>','2024-12-05 07:22:18.022','2025-01-01 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2025-01-01 00:00:00.006','2025-01-01 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7cc5464b-870f-49c3-a5b5-2cfc6f7d0a35','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>職場中使用非暴力溝通的準備方法，先自我同理和靜默同理他人。<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">在心中無聲地演練這些技巧，直到你覺得建立起足夠的自信在職場上对那個人說出這些話。</span></p>','2024-12-05 07:32:54.07','2024-12-05 07:32:54.07',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 07:32:54.069',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1acd4349-6065-4c80-adcb-666142244f30','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>公理体系及逻辑体系是我们再研究某些知识时需要去探索的，不要只跟着一个体系学习，每个知识体系都有不同观点，每个角度都会不一样，就所谓的百花齐放，各自精彩。<br>我们更要明白，这世界上，并不是只有一个知识体系，知识会随着时间与环境的改变而不一样，要多个角度去探讨。</p>','2024-12-05 07:48:46.169','2024-12-05 07:48:46.169',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 07:48:46.168',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('009624f9-71ed-43de-905c-bc1b299d3b15','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>公理体系: 只有能证明的和不能证明的，比如数学</p>
<p>没有公理体系靠逻辑推演:比如经济学，因为没有公理体系，只靠逻辑演绎，想要得出不容置疑的结论是不可能的</p>
<p>如何学经济学:</p>
<p>①兼听:学李白，也要学杜甫。世界上不只一套经济学。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>②给每个模型找反例:在经济学世界，没有一个观点具有普适的解释力。所有的观点，理论上都可以被驳倒</p>
<p>③每个理论都有前提，查理&middot;芒格说：&ldquo;如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点。&rdquo;提醒自己有前提</p>','2024-12-05 08:14:09.862','2024-12-05 08:14:09.862',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 08:14:09.86',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('92ff2e6e-1e2b-4521-bc1f-a29a916973e2','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','576d96d0-dcd8-47c0-8ecc-c9881174d6fa','<p>人生不是数学题!</p>
<p>数学题只有一个答案, 而人生所遇到的问题,&nbsp; 答案会随着地点，时间, 人物的不同而改变</p>','2024-12-05 08:52:56.474','2024-12-05 08:52:56.474',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 08:52:56.474',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('151e6734-ea24-49ae-9817-1297b4a40508','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>公理体系只有能证明及不能证明不需要争吵。</p>
<p>大部分的领域不是在公理体系历，须要靠逻辑演着，不可能得到一个不容置疑的结论。学习这些领域须要（1）吸取不同门派的知识；（2）对每一个模型举一个反例。</p>','2024-12-05 08:57:38.576','2024-12-05 08:57:38.576',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 08:57:38.575',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f13fe4ac-c94b-4b7b-ad6c-03f0babd5d62','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>有智慧的人是同时拥有两种不同的思维但却不被其偏差冲突影响。</p>
<p>李白爱好自由，享乐主义，以短期收益驱动。</p>
<p>杜甫体恤民间疾苦，在制度中寻求稳定，以长期规划为导向。</p>','2024-12-05 14:19:07.552','2024-12-05 14:19:07.552',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:19:07.551',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9bb91b69-d8b8-4959-8344-c2d9fbffc33f','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>使用非暴力沟通技巧前，需要先演练一遍，并找个对象练习</li>
<li>与人沟通发生不愉快时，可以在当下或事后反思来自我同理和理解他人需要</li>
<li>反思事情都方式：
<ul>
<li>客观观察自己心中有哪些话让自己不好受，产生批评</li>
<li>回顾自己当下的感受</li>
<li>确认自己当下有哪些需要没有被满足</li>
<li>有哪些请求，包括自己或对方</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-05 14:43:21.103','2024-12-05 14:43:21.103',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:43:21.102',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1d6a5ef0-a48d-4ea0-a906-c6c2a132dcb1','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>到底什么是数学</p>
<p>什么是经济学？</p>
<p>为什么这两个体系观点不同。一个是就事论事，凡事都要有数据证明，才算是对的。要不然就免谈。</p>
<p>只靠逻辑，只有有支持者认同就可以成立了。这一类人也不能说他错</p>
<p>世界上没有人是完全没有错误的，再来，就算是常常出错的人也总会有对的一次。</p>
<p>哈哈，今天我也乱了。对对错错。</p>','2024-12-05 14:46:09.475','2024-12-05 14:46:09.475',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:46:09.473',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9ac8cbe2-a979-4ed7-a63b-e8828112a1a9','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>理论就是理论。就像道路，一个地点可以有很的不同路线</p>','2024-12-05 14:47:47.491','2024-12-05 14:47:47.491',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:47:47.49',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd0b369b-a8b0-4d3d-87fe-65f3f43184c8','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>小孩才谈对错，大人谈利益。</p>
<p>时刻提醒自己，我说的话是事实？观点？立塲？还是信仰。</p>
<p>别攻击他人的信仰，那是自讨苦吃。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 06:25:02.391','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('48a1b924-42ef-4561-aa04-6af94c008e98','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>这世界很多问题的源来，都是因为起冲突的双方搞不清楚自己在处理的是公理体系，还是非公理体系。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>明明是该就事论事，要论对错、分个是非曲直的时候，偏偏要扯进一大堆的情绪，和不相干的事情。这样就模糊了问题的焦点，以致问题无法好好讨论。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>但是到了谈及非公理体系时候，争执的双方就非要辩个对错。结果双方就像两个盲人一样凭着自己摸到的象，发挥想象力争辩一番，结果不欢而散。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>是在谈论公理体系，还是非公理体系，有的时候还真的看环境。在这里只能够说在家里，大部分时间都是在谈论&ldquo;非公理体系&rdquo;。没有绝对对错，最重要是要家庭和谐美满。家和万事兴！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>但是在公司，同一样事情就是&ldquo;公理体系&rdquo;。每一分支出都必须好好的论证，不然赔钱就麻烦了。</p>','2024-12-05 09:49:18.863','2024-12-05 09:50:15.705',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 09:50:15.704',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b4ba829-1e3a-4874-8f13-87e8cbbac57e','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>人生不是白就黑这样简单.有其它颜色.一种米养百种人.懂自己也可以接受不同的声音.</p>','2024-12-05 10:11:19.04','2024-12-05 10:11:19.04',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 10:11:19.039',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('91b34911-c10f-4a11-b511-2ec57945156f','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<p>事实是客观存在的，观点是对事实的主观判断，立场是带有利益倾向的观点，而信仰是建立在自洽逻辑体系上的深层信念。</p>','2024-12-05 10:39:59.762','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e00e100-99d3-4b7c-8f16-9edc2c610040','d4271f8f-ce4a-4046-8506-39182f9292f9','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>评鉴所讲求的实事求是可以更为人性化、更舒服地被受评者接受。</p>
<p>以非暴力的方式聊八卦，既不会陷入评论他人的漩涡，也能因为同理他人。</p>','2024-12-05 11:42:05.536','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6fe7eee4-25e5-4d6c-93a2-259e648d7205','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>这张没什么头绪，像是在为后面铺垫什么...</p>
<p>众多理论里，认为根据不同理论分析情况，再根据自己想要做什么和有什么动机，举一反三。</p>','2024-12-05 12:47:51.114','2024-12-05 12:47:51.114',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:47:51.113',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c3b7ad19-853e-4eb9-99fb-e6bee89fc856','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<p>公理体系 （Axiomatic System)<br>在有公理體系的世界裡，只有能證明的和不能證明的。比如数学<br>不是公理体系的学科，比如经济学，只靠逻辑演绎，想得出不容置疑的结论是不可能的</p>
<p>如何学好经济学：</p>
<p>一是學李白，也要學杜甫；<br>二是給每個模型找個反例；<br>三是記住每個理論都有前提只有這樣，你學的才不是「黑板上的經濟學」，才是既能抽象於真實世界，也能還原於真實世界的「有用的經濟學」。</p>
<p>經濟學家的工作，比數學家的複雜太多。只有這樣學習經濟學，你才不辜負他們卓越的努力。</p>','2024-12-05 12:12:16.748','2024-12-05 12:12:16.748',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:12:16.747',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efd139c1-5180-406c-8e8a-42f7887704dc','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果想要在职场上使用非暴力沟通，一般都会感到恐惧或紧张。作者建议在使用前先想象：&rdquo;在这个情境下使用非暴力沟通，有可能导致哪些最坏的结果或者会有哪些需要无法得到满足。光是列出这些需要的过程，就可以帮助你把注意力聚焦在当下，而你往往也会因此变得比较平静和放松。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">想要提高非暴力沟通的技巧及降低在职场中运用非暴力沟通的忧虑，练习这个环节是绝对不能省的。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。找一个值得信赖的朋友来做练习。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。在心中无声地演练这些技巧，直到你觉得建立起足够的自信，有效的说出这些话。</span></p>','2024-12-05 12:14:58.005','2024-12-05 12:14:58.005',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:14:58.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('54e9b1c2-efcc-40d7-a712-46a69b695121','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>练习非暴力沟通，可以默默地在心里先学习同理自己和他人。</p>
<p>客观观察、自己什么感觉、需要有没有被满足、请求他人给自己练习和意义。</p>
<p>以上可以帮助自己练习和学习同理和非暴力沟通。</p>','2024-12-05 12:34:20.757','2024-12-05 12:34:20.757',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:34:20.756',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4d924752-bc57-4170-ba79-20912c63abfe','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>公理体系 ： 例如数学，只有对或者错，straight forward，没有grey area，just prove it。</p>
<p>逻辑推演 ： 答案不只一种讲法，例如经济学，－种讲法：价值是客户讲的，另一个讲法则是供需规定，所以需要踪合各个角度观点论述，才得以得到结论。</p>','2024-12-05 12:42:42.526','2024-12-05 12:42:42.526',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:42:42.525',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5c584166-d806-47c0-af17-e458973c96d6','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>先自我同理和靜默同理他人</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><em><strong>观察、感受、需要、请求</strong></em></p>','2024-12-05 12:56:02.813','2024-12-05 12:56:02.813',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 12:56:02.812',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c73817ff-9f33-4418-9787-ff3692cb7108','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>好坏习惯都是培养出来的。而有人一起练习与多自省(客观观察已发生之事；看清当时的自己感受与省思时的感觉；自我与对方需要可有得到满足，存必要的话双方再好好沟通。)是养成非暴力沟通的好方法。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>自省：客观观察已发生之事；看清当时的自己感受与省思时的感觉；自我与对方需要可有得到满足，存必要的话双方再好好沟通。</p>','2024-12-05 13:01:52.631','2024-12-05 13:01:52.631',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 13:01:52.63',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('36e05187-239a-490a-a5f7-91a920d5ea4c','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>没有绝对的＂对错＂，只是观点角度和认知不同而已。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>得利的哪方未必是做对了选择。</strong></p>
<p><strong>失利的哪方未必是做错了事情。</strong></p>','2024-12-05 13:04:11.82','2024-12-05 13:04:11.82',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 13:04:11.819',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90a1fefe-3623-4245-9909-c5aca21dade1','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>&ldquo;别吵了，你们都对，你们都对。&rdquo;<br>这个世界上，理论并不是唯一，理论也有很多面向，我们需要兼听。换言之，心胸得够大。<br><br></p>','2024-12-05 14:25:44.718','2024-12-05 14:25:44.718',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:25:44.717',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e002a7cd-a489-405a-b4c6-c790ca834402','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>对，应该每天练习，每次与人沟通后，好好分析，刚才是不是有向对方说出了自己真正的需要，有没有同理对方的感受，自己的请求对方是不是明白。</p>','2024-12-05 14:51:15.013','2024-12-05 14:51:15.013',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:51:15.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6bfdef1-07a6-4b35-a497-71f1e03cd560','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>經濟學家通過觀察和研究發表他們的一套理論，但每一個理論都有優缺。</p>
<p>我們混口飯吃也不需要太過偏向其中一個理論，因為在變化中沒有單一理論可以站的住腳。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>都相信，都不相信就行。</p>','2024-12-05 14:53:39.735','2024-12-05 14:53:39.735',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:53:39.734',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('832d3f0b-1fc0-4ff2-b468-9e5879bfbe43','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>所谓对与错，是自己的观点</li>
<li>任何的观点都有可能是，也可能不是如此</li>
<li>同一件事，存在着多方面的观点，要与不同的专家的讨教</li>
</ul>','2024-12-05 14:58:55.248','2024-12-05 14:58:55.248',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 14:58:55.248',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7c4a8c83-c5fb-4979-a427-5583de742331','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 5 ：12月5 日 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</p>
<p>公理体系 VS 逻辑推演（Page 033-037）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>在文科里， 没有既定公式。因此需要兼听，学习A，也学习B。</p>','2024-12-05 15:24:07.079','2024-12-05 15:24:07.079',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:24:07.078',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6541da48-41cb-4896-96f1-98613519c09b','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>学李白也学杜甫。</p>
<p>注：第一流的智慧： ：&ldquo;同时持有全然相反的两个观念，还能正常行事&rdquo;。</p>','2024-12-05 15:24:52.279','2024-12-05 15:25:06.689',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:25:06.686',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f60ee90-e4ab-4069-b19d-e4dce5cf7898','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 5 ：12月5 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">公理体系 VS 逻辑推演（Page 033-037）</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">马歇尔认为，价值并非由劳动创造，而是由用户需求决定。不论钻石是捡来的还是人工制造，其价值取决于需求，而非来源。此外，需求本身是会随情境改变的。例如，当你饥饿时，第一个馒头的价值远高于第二个，而第二个馒头的价值又高于第三个。</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">马歇尔更重要的贡献是提出了供需理论，认为供需关系决定价格。然而，寇斯对此提出质疑：当我们说供需决定价格时，其实隐含了一个假设&mdash;&mdash;「其他条件保持不变」。但在现实中，所有条件都不变，这可能实现吗？</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 15:25:58.371','2024-12-05 15:25:58.371',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:25:58.37',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6eefd162-2faf-46bb-abcc-914cfda42909','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day35：12月 5日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>若想在职场中运用，一定要先练习（Page175-178）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>在职场运用非暴力沟通：</p>
<ol>
<li>练习：找朋友或亲人共修</li>
<li>在心中练习</li>
</ol>','2024-12-05 15:31:31.744','2024-12-05 15:31:31.744',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:31:31.743',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd2eed27-91cd-418b-a93b-5c39f1e6136c','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>公里体系的世界很直接，只有能证明和不能证明的，人文学科只靠逻辑演绎，要学习，得学李白，也要学杜甫。</p>
<p>我觉得很乱很吵。。。对错都没标准的。</p>','2024-12-05 15:33:17.202','2024-12-05 15:33:17.202',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:33:17.201',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3089a0ed-8c48-4774-bf43-a62d287fe0f1','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day35：12月 5日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">若想在职场中运用，一定要先练习（Page175-178）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">&nbsp;<br>1. </span><span class="s2">觉察自己的感受</span><span class="s1">：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; 在与他人互动中，觉察自己是否产生批评或不满的情绪。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; 回忆具体的对话情境，分析自己为什么会产生这样的感受。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> 2. </span><span class="s2">确认自己的需求</span><span class="s1">：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; 在反思过程中，明确自己的需求是什么，是哪些需求未被满足导致了负面情绪。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> 3. </span><span class="s2">请求他人的配合</span><span class="s1">：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; 明确自己或对方需要什么改变，通过清晰的请求来满足双方的需求，而不是陷入责备或冲突。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">例子：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; </span><span class="s2">感受的反思</span><span class="s1">：当某人对你说了一些话，让你心中感到不舒服时，你可以回想当时的情境，是什么导致你对他产生批评或负面评价。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; </span><span class="s2">需求的确认</span><span class="s1">：确认当时你有哪些需求未被满足，比如希望对方更多地理解你的观点或给予支持。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"> &bull; </span><span class="s2">提出具体请求</span><span class="s1">：如果需要对方改变，可以坐下来与对方沟通，提出具体的请求，如&ldquo;我希望下次在讨论中，我们可以多花一些时间听取彼此的想法。&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">在非暴力沟通中，避免情绪化地回应，而是通过反思、确认需求并提出请求的方式，促进更有建设性的对话。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 15:37:39.279','2024-12-05 15:37:39.279',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:37:39.277',NULL,NULL);
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<p>都对，都适合。</p>
<p>往好的方法学</p>','2024-12-05 15:54:57.443','2024-12-05 15:54:57.443',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:54:57.442',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eff21f82-9b2f-4265-8bee-3c645279fc3d','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在有公理体系的世界里，只有能证明的和不能证明的。大师与大师的差异，是智商的差异，不是口才的差异。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在经济学里，没有公理体系，仅仅靠智商是没用的，它需要不断提出新的观点和模型，在举出支援例子后，还要面对有人举出反对的例子，都说对方是特例。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">中国人用&rdquo;文人相轻&rdquo;来形容这种研究方法。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">文无第一，武无第二。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">文无第一，同时持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的表现。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为什么只能学一种呢？有没有一个可能，学李白，也要学杜甫？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 15:55:47.476','2024-12-05 15:55:47.476',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:55:47.475',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e31febf0-d0d6-46aa-bdbc-c66c4d7b4447','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>反思的范例</p>
<p>1.客观观察</p>
<p>2.感受</p>
<p>3需要</p>
<p>4.请求</p>','2024-12-05 15:33:12.519','2024-12-05 15:57:04.515',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:57:04.514',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2b146534-2cd4-4b7e-a204-8630f521399d','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有些知識領域不能只了解一個理論基礎而是要多了解同領域不同的觀點，然後再統合綜效。就好比如作者提出的經濟學例子。</span></p>','2024-12-05 15:43:43.503','2024-12-05 15:43:43.503',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:43:43.502',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83079244-22f4-430d-97a0-a1d74a3e27ba','478df995-7646-4e07-879e-aa185c34f785','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>找一个值得信赖的人，一起练习非暴力沟通的技巧，重点在于自我同理和同理他人。</p>
<p>当办公室谈话不愉快时，可以在当下同理自己或对方的感受，或利用空闲时间反思当天发生的事情。反思时关注四点：观察事实、识别感受、探究需求、明确请求。</p>
<p>通过反复练习和反思，逐步掌握非暴力沟通，让职场沟通更和谐有效。</p>','2024-12-05 15:58:10.399','2024-12-05 15:58:11.991',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:58:11.99',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1。需找个信任的人帮忙</p>
<p>2。＜说事实＞<br>＜说感受＞<br>＜说需要＞<br>＜说请求＞</p>','2024-12-05 15:58:45.284','2024-12-05 15:58:45.284',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:58:45.283',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a65a2c39-9f05-4cbf-b7ac-21d08a714ede','f02fb2e3-3aeb-4418-9a0b-65ae51fbde87','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 5 ：12月5 日 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;《底层逻辑》Part 1：是非对错的底层逻辑<br>公理体系 VS 逻辑推演（Page 033-037）<br>&nbsp;<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>同時持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，才是第一流智慧的表现。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>世界上並不是只有一套经济学。举出反例是重要的</p>
<p>.</p>','2024-12-05 15:57:31.801','2024-12-05 15:59:36.759',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 15:59:36.758',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e55a9490-1548-4974-833b-4b151cc363d7','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>任何观点皆可被反驳，如果你想反驳的话。从不同角度看问题，用不同态度对待问题，都会有不同的结论。</p>','2024-12-05 21:56:36.634','2024-12-05 21:56:36.634',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-05 21:56:36.633',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6a400b2b-3d81-4417-b3ae-660d676216ec','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>开会时，除了明确提出自己的请求，也要点出请求对象的。</p>
<p>在会议中我们也可以打断争论，表达需要。同时，记下自己和他人的需要也帮助真理思路。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 17:32:17.261','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('94d2f795-abb1-4600-a239-d4f033ced877','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">7/12/2024 - 事实，观点，立场和信仰<br>我们要时刻反省自己：我说的话，我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 20:16:17.248','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a201b37c-b3fe-4987-b1d0-5e814d73821b','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>提出请求技巧：</p>
<ol>
<li>找出没被满足的需要</li>
<li>厘清到底想要什么</li>
<li>牢记并拟定请求</li>
<li>模拟请求情景</li>
<li>给予同理心，练习回应</li>
</ol>','2024-12-04 02:36:42.258','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【给每个模型找个反例】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">除非是公理体系的学科，否则，所有关乎逻辑推理的理论或学说，必要以三个要素加以考虑：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">一是<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">兼听</strong>（学李白，也要学杜甫）；二是找个<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">反例</strong>；三是记住它的<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">前提</strong>。</span></p>','2024-12-03 01:19:11.384','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('64d6e94f-59b7-4aa8-9802-36e1100512a8','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','8ba62dba-0026-464f-a0d5-bd8c4d6c0430','<p>以下是几个经济学模型的反例示例：</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p><strong>完全竞争模型</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：现实中很少存在完全竞争市场，因为市场往往会出现垄断、寡头或其他形式的市场不完全。例如，像微软在操作系统市场的主导地位，或者谷歌在搜索引擎市场的份额，这些都说明企业在现实中有能力通过定价和策略影响市场。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>理性人假设</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：行为经济学中的&ldquo;禀赋效应&rdquo;表明，人们往往对拥有的物品赋予更高价值，表现出非理性行为。例如，一个人可能不会愿意以市场价格卖掉自己的杯子，因为他们赋予了杯子额外的情感价值。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>供需理论中的价格调整机制</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：在一些情况下，价格调整不能解决供需失衡，例如最低工资导致的失业问题或租金管制引发的住房短缺。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>比较优势理论</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：贸易的实际情况可能因为政治、地缘冲突或全球供应链中断而偏离比较优势理论。例如，COVID-19 疫情期间，很多国家转向国内生产医疗物资，而不是依赖国际贸易。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>边际效用递减规律</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：奢侈品市场中，一些商品（如限量版手表或艺术品）的边际效用可能不会递减，反而会因为稀缺性和炫耀价值而增加。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>购买力平价理论（PPP）</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：货币市场中的短期波动，如投机性资本流动和政府干预，常常使汇率偏离理论预测。例如，美元与欧元的汇率长期偏离基于PPP的预期。</p>
</li>
<li>
<p><strong>经济增长和环保之间的&ldquo;库兹涅茨曲线&rdquo;假设</strong><br><strong>反例</strong>：一些高速增长的发展中国家，如印度和中国，面临着增长导致环境退化加剧的现象，而并未如曲线预测的那样在高收入阶段出现污染减少的转折点。</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>这些反例表明，经济学模型并非错，而是有适用范围和前提条件。通过理解这些反例，可以帮助我们更全面地认识模型的局限性和适用情境，从而在复杂现实中做出更好的决策。</p>','2024-12-03 21:11:45.821','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13457af6-b841-4fb2-9257-9bdf9c135b73','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>给每个模型找个反例。<br>在经济学世界，没有一个观点具有普遍的解释，所有的观点，理论上是可以被反驳的，甚至举出反例。<br>&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;<br>每一个理论都有前提，而每个观点都值得我们去明白。<br>&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;&mdash;<br>这世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，那就是认清了生活真相后还依然热爱它。<br>罗曼。罗兰</p>','2024-12-05 07:56:00.555','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e5c09e39-1dcb-46f1-90f5-78edc855c060','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','fb681b37-b86f-49b7-8f27-422ffefb81b6','<ul>
<li>
<p>真正理解一个经济学观点，不是看你是否认同支持它的例子，而是看你是否能找到适用它的条件，以及可能推翻它的例子。</p>
</li>
<li>每个理论都有它的前提。任何理论或方法的成立都依赖于特定的前提条件，而这些前提一旦改变，理论的有效性可能就会发生变化。
<p>&nbsp;</p>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-05 10:33:02.911','2024-12-06 00:00:00.026',NULL,'f','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025','2024-12-06 00:00:00.025',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9fa87c4f-b03e-4def-b151-ed3d391c0961','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>在还没提出我们的需求之前已因为有着一种自我挫败的心态，而不敢向比我们有权威的人提出请求。</p>
<p>勇敢提出自己的需求, &ldquo;迈出第一步&rdquo;非常的重要！</p>','2024-12-06 00:17:21.714','2024-12-06 00:17:21.714',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 00:17:21.713',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2686161a-7766-420e-8416-ee37e824e54e','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>如何学经济学:</p>
<p>①兼听:学李白，也要学杜甫。世界上不只一套经济学。</p>
<p>②给每个模型找反例: 所有的观点，理论上都可以被驳倒。</p>
<p>③每个理论都有前提，查理&middot;芒格说：&ldquo;如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点。&rdquo;时刻提醒自己每个理论都有前提</p>','2024-12-06 03:26:13.902','2024-12-06 03:26:13.902',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 03:26:13.9',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1e3a54d6-be6f-4f25-9f5a-c9cf6165af01','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;勇於踏出一直讓自己在職場上，感到不安而沒安全感的一道路障，首先要找出自己沒得到滿足的需要，然后給自己同理，再擬定清求。</p>','2024-12-06 00:48:40.048','2024-12-06 00:49:00.075',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 00:49:00.073',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa8889c5-b23c-47b2-8b0e-5e41b6bb13cf','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>要把經濟學學好，應該去研究特斯拉跟比特幣。</p>
<p>未來的親戚會被今天的創新產業而改變。</p>
<p>所以去學以前的經濟學家所提出的哲學和理論是不實際的。</p>
<p>作者本身不是數學家，也不是物理學家，更不是經濟學家。所以當他在評論哪一種領域比較複雜或簡單的時候應該會先用底層邏輯。</p>','2024-12-06 00:56:28.231','2024-12-06 00:56:28.231',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 00:56:28.23',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b11f4fbd-4e08-465e-b836-09e700979eed','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">Day36</span><span lang="ZH-CN">：</span><span lang="EN-MY">12</span><span lang="ZH-CN">月</span><span lang="EN-MY">6&nbsp;</span><span lang="ZH-CN">日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">迈出你的第一步（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page179-182</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">學習了新技巧 就多方面在不同場合運用吧！</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">這需要勇氣犯錯。需要enjoy犯錯過程。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">另外 當下需要學習提出請求。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">很多人在職場上感覺不安 是因為無法為自己想要的東西提出請求。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">主要原因是深怕得罪有權有勢的上級而無力改變狀況。這是自我挫敗舉動。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">可以嘗試以下步驟進行演練：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">1️⃣找出沒有得到滿足的需要，並去感覺身體產生某種生理變化，以確定自己的真正需要</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">2️⃣充分了解需要 並釐清到底要些什麼</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">3️⃣牢記想要的東西 並擬定請求</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">4️⃣進行角色扮演 模擬提出請求情境。邀請朋友扮演角色 請朋友對自己說出不想聽到的回應</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">5️⃣給予自己同理心 並練習回應方式</span></p>','2024-12-06 01:02:39.256','2024-12-06 01:02:39.256',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 01:02:39.254',NULL,NULL);
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<p dir="ltr">给每个模型找个反列（Page 037-043）</p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>經濟學裡 沒有一個觀點具備普遍的解釋力。所有觀點理論上都可以被反駁 或舉出反例。</p>
<p>要驗證自己是否理解一個經濟學觀點 要看自己是否能證明它的例子 更要看自己是否理解並推翻它的例子。</p>
<p>每個理論都有前提。</p>
<p>Coase Theorem : 交易費用為零或足夠低的情況下 不管資源的主人是誰，資源都會流到價值最高的用途上去。</p>
<p>前提就是 ：交易成本足夠低或為零時。</p>','2024-12-06 01:20:19.417','2024-12-06 01:20:19.417',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 01:20:19.415',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【如何贏得一场辩论】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">辩论必知：<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">辩论的目的</strong>是是说服对方，而是说服观众、影响观众的态度；<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">辩论的关键点</strong>是偷換概念或重新定义概念、纠正对方的概念；<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">辩论的核心竞爭力</strong>是</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「基于逻辑的急智」&mdash;&mdash;只关心对方的论证。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">这是</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">Why</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">What</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">How</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">「黃金三问」在辩论上的运用。</span></p>','2024-12-06 00:31:46.797','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1）要学习多方位思考</p>
<p>2）不可以满足于现有的理论，我们一定要寻找思路一个反例挑战现有的理论。</p>
<p>3）每一个理论、案例都有一个前提。少了前提，这些教学就不能成立了。</p>','2024-12-06 04:04:18.836','2024-12-06 04:04:18.836',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 04:04:18.835',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60bda522-8154-4c70-9dc9-1f7d2940104e','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>无法为所要的东西提出请求。原因是认为某个人握有威权，自己无能为力。</p>
<p>可以在提出请求前，进行几个步骤。</p>
<p>1.找到没有得到满足的需要</p>
<p>2.充分了解你的需要</p>
<p>3.牢记你所需要的东西</p>
<p>4.进行角色扮演</p>
<p>5.给与自己同理心</p>','2024-12-06 04:16:13.841','2024-12-06 04:20:02.897',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 04:20:02.896',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ea928a48-fd9b-4d7c-93c6-c706d0e53856','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>勇敢迈开步伐尝试非暴力沟通，不要怕被当成异类。</p>
<p>提出请求，不要自我挫败。</p>','2024-12-06 07:13:28.413','2024-12-06 07:13:28.413',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 07:13:28.412',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0091bdca-d850-4d01-a757-8adfdd24966a','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>要活用得到的资料和自己脑袋的分析</p>
<ol>
<li>要学李白，也要学杜甫</li>
<li>给每一个模型找反例</li>
<li>记住每一个理论都有前提，不是适合全家大小使用的</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 07:16:11.478','2024-12-06 07:16:11.478',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 07:16:11.477',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d841592-570a-4034-b4ca-10de6d5ed636','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>如果是自己的观点也保不住的话，甚至不能自圆其说出一个道理来的话，那就是该观点自己也不能成立了。</p>','2024-12-06 07:44:51.84','2024-12-06 07:44:51.84',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 07:44:51.839',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1aa7526f-8e2b-4cf4-9fa7-802f85b1d35a','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>所有的观点理论上都能被反驳。因为，没有一个观点能够解释所有的状况。提出观点，自行找反例，让自己更全面的理解这个观点。<br>&ldquo;为及利他&rdquo; 是美好世界的画面。但，人性让这个理念的实践不那么容易~ 囚徒困境。<br>每个理论都有前提。<br><br></p>','2024-12-06 07:59:25.734','2024-12-06 07:59:25.734',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 07:59:25.733',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('080d30ad-9f1e-45ea-811b-1afed9194e1c','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6/12/2024 - 给每个模型找个反列：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">记住每个理论都有前提。不仅要看你是否认同能证明它的例子，更要看你是否能理解能推翻它的例子。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s3">&rdquo;</span><span class="s2">同时持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的标志。</span><span class="s3">&ldquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s3">&rdquo;</span><span class="s2">这个世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，那就是认清了生活的真相后还依然热爱它。</span><span class="s3">&ldquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s3">&rdquo;</span><span class="s2">如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点。</span><span class="s3">&ldquo;</span></p>','2024-12-06 08:36:41.246','2024-12-06 08:36:41.246',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 08:36:41.245',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&middot; 设法化解使用非暴力沟通带来的混乱</p>
<p>提出要求</p>
<p>&middot; 演练如何提出要求</p>
<p>&middot; 帮助同事提出明确、可行的要求</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 09:19:28.3','2024-12-06 09:19:28.3',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 09:19:28.3',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9ccebd9e-9853-41e9-9986-c89aa13e5b90','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>为什么是黄金三问（why what how）是最有力量，最可能触及灵魂，也是最危险的问题。</p>
<p>为什么这三个字可以抢行把你的注意力吸引到这个观点上找原因。</p>
<p>为什么+观点就是一支注射器。是人的思维模式中的重大漏洞，常常被狡猾人利用。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 04:04:28.446','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f6e9432a-af83-4286-92ee-d3bae3fe54fa','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>如何防止【注射式洗脑】?</p>
<p>为什么+观点=注射器</p>
<p>避免被别人注射，也避免被自己注射</p>','2024-12-06 04:54:13.143','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6f4c8c78-2a5d-4b71-a428-9204cfbf7c4a','927b318d-2c23-4ab6-8b11-291634420dac','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>辯论的目的不是说服对方，而是观众。</p>
<p>辯论的关键纠正对方的概念。</p>
<p>辩论的核心竞争力是基于逻辑的急智</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 03:59:03.095','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efb3bdcf-950a-418c-b82e-0fe1ee91b889','5b96a98f-af1c-4f27-9752-740a595de64f','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>正态分布（服务，边际交付时间多过零），比如线下课和绘画。</p>
<p>幂律分布（产品，边际交付时间等于零），比如音频课和唱片。</p>','2024-12-06 03:43:20.33','2025-01-02 00:00:00.02',NULL,'f','2025-01-02 00:00:00.019','2025-01-02 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61bb0a8e-fa56-471e-a56e-8460a24b89ee','53cf2376-8362-46ba-a43e-e50aed6bc31a','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>如果你要做到指数级增长，你要把边际交付时间都为零。比如线上读书会。做明确的选择，把边际交付时间不为零的服务的部分切除，才能让指数增长。</p>
<p>边际交付为零叫产品，边际交付不为零叫服务。</p>
<p>产品比如《5分钟商学院》，只花几小时录制课程，却能让3000人、10万人来听，还是100万，都不会因为人数增加而花更多时间，边际交付时间为零。</p>','2024-12-06 08:06:45.117','2025-01-03 00:00:00.036',NULL,'f','2025-01-03 00:00:00.035','2025-01-03 00:00:00.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7a11286-42f9-49bd-8b73-eeca29c2859d','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>在使用非暴力沟通技巧初期，或多或少会给人感觉陌生，自己应用起来也会不顺，但必须坚持下去</li>
<li>当向权威的人提出请求感到不安/害怕时，要知道那是自己打从心底认为自己无能为力改变一切，所以，可用这4个步骤演练：
<ul>
<li>找出自己满意得到满足的需要</li>
<li>理清自己到底想要什么</li>
<li>拟定自己想要什么</li>
<li>跟朋友演练，说出自己不想听到的回应</li>
<li>同理自己，并练习回应方式</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-06 10:39:48.986','2024-12-06 10:39:48.986',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 10:39:48.985',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('46478d6b-2649-47e5-aa8e-4d3a8f3d33f7','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>找反例容易吗？越是数学化的模型，就越难找到反例。因为数学毕竟是严谨学科，从前提到结论需要经过进行合乎逻辑的推理。但是很多和我们日常生活息息相关的学科，比如说经济学，就很容易找到反例。答案也很简单，因为太过数学化的经济学模型无法有效的描绘世界。而可以描绘世界的模型，往往都是文字，自然也不严谨了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>要又严谨又吻合真实世界的模型，不知道有没有。即使有，你能用它吗？你确定你电脑的计算能力够吗？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>所以科学家做的工作，很多都是在现有的理论上再提出假设，以便尽可能地简化模型之余，也还可以描绘世界。但是这两者在本质上是相悖的。这也是为什么反例会不断出现，因为现实是复杂的！</p>','2024-12-06 11:05:45.976','2024-12-06 11:05:45.976',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 11:05:45.975',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f737f1c5-6cf0-4d76-ab65-cc18c47f12db','0a48d81e-332f-4c47-a34d-61d818b6b9de','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>练习如何落实在电子邮件和电话上。做客观的观察、感受、需要和请求。回信也以这四个框架理出明确的内容。</p>
<p>如无意听到八卦，默默同理嚼食根的人。</p>','2024-12-06 11:53:09.246','2024-12-10 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c0a0f42c-c64e-4786-8124-4db9267f17f6','e163ca95-8b0c-4f97-a34a-05ebd4c9e75a','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>有连接的说话方式可以帮助化解冲突。</p>
<p>说出的话是要表达你内心的真感受，而不是要感到内疚或惩罚自己。</p>','2024-12-06 11:56:18.784','2024-12-11 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d1aa5dab-e969-4bd9-ad26-e01436b090ed','64c6ce3d-82b5-40a5-88d6-bd88b2622d70','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>证有不证无-无法证明未必是没有</p>
<p>以偏不概全-某一些个案未能代表什么</p>
<p>证有考举例-要有举列子才更好说服力</p>
<p>概全推理-别把自己的结论当成是真理</p>','2024-12-06 09:42:35.134','2024-12-16 00:00:00.029',NULL,'f','2024-12-16 00:00:00.028','2024-12-16 00:00:00.028',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('16e8e853-6c7a-4f91-b7b6-6651834b3154','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>明确提出自己的需要、或是问对方真正的需要，不但能省下时间，更可以拉近关系、提升相互的合作和信任。前提必须是，拥有要改过自新，使用非暴力沟通的思维。</p>','2024-12-06 12:13:50.989','2024-12-06 12:13:52.704',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 12:13:52.703',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c4720a9-dd98-4093-be7f-0ef708b07157','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>世事无绝对。知道了事实，继续追求自己的完美。找到自己想要帮组和奉献的对象，凭良心，就没有遗憾。真的错了，也可以坦然面对，重新来过。</p>','2024-12-06 12:21:09.908','2024-12-06 12:21:09.908',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 12:21:09.907',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5406d43c-d053-4559-aa35-5c2b970eb95e','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>先想当下自己的需求，和自己搭上线。给予自己和别人同理心。&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 13:06:29.206','2024-12-06 13:06:29.206',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:06:29.205',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('874d222d-c025-4c5f-84b8-3babb656c871','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<ol>
<li>同时持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的标志。</li>
<li>认清生活的真相后还依然热爱它。</li>
<li>如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点。</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 13:20:26.075','2024-12-06 13:20:26.075',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:20:26.074',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9a777e6c-8f94-4eca-9a2e-28089ea0c480','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>只要有人的地方，就可能有江湖，有事非，有分歧，而非暴力沟通洽是营造和谐，创造友爱社会的要素。因此学以自用，是当然之事，否则成了纸上谈兵。</p>','2024-12-06 13:22:38.25','2024-12-06 13:22:38.25',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:22:38.249',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0611e2f7-b8ac-4619-9607-b151ffe03e87','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>如何学好经济学：</p>
<ol>
<li>学李白，也要学杜甫</li>
<li>给每个模型找个反例</li>
<li>每个理论都有前提</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 13:40:12.872','2024-12-06 13:40:12.872',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:40:12.871',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3b9ecfd-5741-4f01-8d7a-e87410f82e63','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>开会或讨论时，需明确提出自己的请求， 还要明确点出请求的对象。</p>
<p>记下自己及他人的需要， 帮助整理思路。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 15:14:33.38','2024-12-07 15:14:56.791',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:14:56.79',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('593ca98e-8b72-46e2-a6ab-6619e708aa51','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>时刻提醒自己：别让为什么+观点 注射自己，也别注射他人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-05 06:43:05.172','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('46152e5f-86d2-4b06-a977-d5774379b902','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>為甚麼+觀點是一支危險的注射器。</p>
<p>這句型的非理性反應是人類思維模式中的BUG。</p>
<p>狡猾的人常用BUG 來套人。</p>
<p>愚蠢的人用來阿Q自己。</p>
<p>觀點的反面提供了人們否認事實的真相。</p>','2024-12-06 11:20:56.412','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e979977-a2f9-4dea-9e1e-8535017a9328','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>&rdquo;为什么&rdquo; + absolute 观点 = 思考方向堵死了。</p>
<p>这可以是自已堵自己，或是自己被别人堵，也有可能自己堵别人。</p>','2024-12-08 12:56:57.936','2024-12-08 12:56:57.936',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-08 12:56:57.935',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3ff0936-a722-4c29-8e0b-45555d4987b1','090384b3-c089-4ed0-aecf-abf0ed2c92a8','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>复利是长远投资目标才会发现效果。</p>
<p>更重要是：</p>
<p>稳定性的回报率 x 坚持长时间</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-08 01:21:54.819','2024-12-18 00:00:00.01',NULL,'f','2024-12-18 00:00:00.009','2024-12-18 00:00:00.009',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('748c428a-0e2f-4fbe-b59e-fecd03001f13','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>心里最初的需要，才是真的需要，假如是经过深思远虑的需要，那么很可能就变质。</p>
<p>那么深思远虑是为了利己还是利他呢？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>能明确提出自己的需要是非常难得的，即可省下时间，更同理对方可以拉近关系，同时可以提升相互的合作和信任。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><em><strong>渴望他人的需求，化被动为主动，做到心中有数</strong></em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 13:40:37.317','2024-12-06 13:40:45.88',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:40:45.879',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('135aa81a-cc57-4bf3-8754-79d7ae29f0db','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所谓有用就有用，如果没有迈出第一步的话，永远都都不会知道非暴力沟通可以带来的好处。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">提出请求</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">很多时候我们在职场上感到不安，是因为无法为想要的东西提出要求。其中；打从心底认为某个人握有威权，自己根本无力改变什么。这是一种自我挫败self defeating的举动，觉得自己的需要没有得到满足，却又无法提出可以满足需要的请求。</span></p>','2024-12-06 13:41:08.951','2024-12-06 13:41:08.951',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:41:08.95',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bbfa2a35-3796-42ef-ba09-44e77f1674e9','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<ol>
<li>可以很客观的同时拥有两种全然相反的不同观念，还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的标志。</li>
<li>真正的英雄主义就是认清的生活的真相而仍然热爱生活和生命。</li>
<li>如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点。这样才能时刻提醒自己，每个理论都有前提。</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 13:44:24.051','2024-12-06 13:44:24.051',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:44:24.049',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('67bddf19-467c-406c-81a0-cdb91a2b4009','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>所有对的、好的理论、思想，都可能有不足处。因此在看待事物时，得将其利敝一并找出。</p>
<p>此外，保持开放心态、求真精神，亦是不可或缺的观念、态度与心里。</p>','2024-12-06 13:48:34.316','2024-12-06 13:48:34.316',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:48:34.315',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a3516fcb-f2ea-477b-9595-e483dcc7e210','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>＂同时持有全然相反的两种观念，<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的标志! ＂</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>＂这个世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">就是认清了生活的真相后, 还依然热爱它! ＂</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">"假如我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点!"&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-12-06 13:50:28.228','2024-12-06 13:50:53.243',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 13:50:53.242',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b22f0e76-755c-4160-8e1a-75266bd0658a','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>迈出第一步</p>
<p>我本身面对的事实案例：</p>
<p>对方是客户的高级经理，有权有理霸道，言语不饶人，处处针对。</p>
<p>我本身说什么都被切断，排斥，没有机会解释。</p>
<p>当时我还不会如何应用非暴力沟通方式，弄成关系很僵。</p>
<p>这次有缘了解这本书，应该好好学习，常常练习。</p>
<p>希望以后有帮助。顺顺利利。与对方有连结。贵人相助。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 14:07:53.762','2024-12-06 14:07:53.762',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:07:53.761',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ee4523bd-5816-4a39-b654-372b5a863727','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>厘清自己的需要，进行练习，之后勇于提出要求。要迈出第一步往往是最难的，因为充满着未知数也担心被拒绝。</p>','2024-12-06 14:13:21.732','2024-12-06 14:13:21.732',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:13:21.731',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35da3d86-bda3-44ae-ba05-53377e3d72a9','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>勇敢的迈出第一步，不需要去考虑太多，只有开始了，才会越变越好，越是能驾驭非暴力沟通的技巧。</p>','2024-12-06 14:17:54.825','2024-12-06 14:17:54.825',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:17:54.824',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8a6787c7-7478-4b7e-bbb4-1ec1180f7796','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','2c1ef7cf-3624-43cb-8cf3-d40551cab829','<p>突然觉得经济学好难😢😢</p>
<p>这个世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，那就是认清了生活的真相后还依然热爱它。</p>','2024-12-06 14:20:31.575','2024-12-06 14:20:31.575',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:20:31.574',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('972b5dfd-b921-4036-8208-dffc78ffc275','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>提出请求前先做演练 ：</p>
<p>1. 识别需求：感受身体变化，找到未满足的需求。</p>
<p>2. 明确目标：清楚自己真正想要什么。</p>
<p>3. 制定请求：根据目标拟定具体请求。</p>
<p>4. 模拟场景：角色扮演练习应对不同回应。</p>
<p>5. 自我共情：接纳自己，平复情绪。</p>','2024-12-06 14:21:12.269','2024-12-06 14:21:12.269',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:21:12.268',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('490b5ebf-1233-46e0-a523-f72603425acc','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','a79358bf-a0d8-49f2-be81-0ba66e697353','<p>认清生活的真相，并依然热爱生活才是真正的英雄主义。</p>
<p>每个观点理论都有前提。</p>','2024-12-06 14:21:53.414','2024-12-06 14:21:53.414',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:21:53.413',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13ff1f50-3833-4b74-b570-65aee75f2854','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>今天读了这遍，觉悟到：原来是价格决定成本，而不是成本决定了价格。</p>
<p>是因为效率，科技化，机械化，政策策略，创新工艺改变了成本。</p>
<p>接下来，我应该好好考虑深思如何应对市场价格，扭转乾坤。</p>','2024-12-06 14:27:14.23','2024-12-06 14:27:14.23',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:27:14.228',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1c3a39c-b527-4007-b5c4-da8290c0fb20','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','a000f9e2-7648-49c9-8713-f245191f61d3','<p>学好经济学需要</p>
<p>学李白也学杜甫，每个模型找个反例 和记住每个理论都有前提。</p>','2024-12-06 14:36:41.372','2024-12-06 14:36:41.372',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:36:41.371',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6b7ea792-543a-4381-abac-8df7cf67ea8e','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>经济学的理论，在每个观点，都需要有个前提，在没有前题下被反驳，那是没有意义的。</p>','2024-12-06 14:38:03.057','2024-12-06 14:38:03.057',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:38:03.056',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b57801dc-6a2d-4f4f-a595-4dd9f0487dab','1a55b11d-b61b-458e-9652-a72046c3912a','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>不绕圈子的高效沟通法</p>
<p>用最少的文字表达出重要的信息。先确认对方是否愿意听我的观点，用诚恳，请求的方式询问他们的意愿。</p>','2024-12-06 14:03:41.086','2024-12-08 00:00:00.025',NULL,'f','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024','2024-12-08 00:00:00.024',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ead73c1b-f1c2-4a1f-84b8-4fbf1a0ffc00','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','576d96d0-dcd8-47c0-8ecc-c9881174d6fa','<p>无时无刻对之前的想法提出挑战!</p>
<p>這会不会陷入鑽牛角尖呢？</p>
<p>如果只是来回提出想法与挑战, 而不实行, 那只会陷入空谈？ 为何不进行规模试验？</p>
<p>有点难搞!</p>','2024-12-06 14:50:56.221','2024-12-06 14:51:07.655',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:51:07.654',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6973b3b9-2d8c-46de-ad13-51d4cefc9093','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>勇敢邁出你的第一步，用非暴力沟通的方式与衆人物沟通。萬事起頭難，開始時會帶來很多混亂，就把这些混亂当做學習的機會。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不敢向有威權的人提出請求，這是一種「自我挫敗」的舉動，覺得自己的需要沒有得到滿足，卻又无法提出可以滿足需要的請求。</p>','2024-12-06 14:56:19.828','2024-12-06 14:56:55.746',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:56:55.745',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('382071c2-8e4f-4c0f-9105-70913e99d919','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<p>1）要学李白，也要学杜甫；</p>
<p>2）给每个模型找个反例；</p>
<p>3）每个理论都有前提。</p>','2024-12-06 14:59:05.415','2024-12-06 14:59:05.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 14:59:05.414',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2bd953e6-5f85-43ba-bd1d-e4d8ec5b4d14','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>每个理论都有前提</p>
<p>给每个模型找反例，要有足够的爱与义无反顾</p>
<p>当你能同时持有两种相反观念，还能正常行事，是第一流智慧的标志</p>','2024-12-06 15:08:23.045','2024-12-06 15:09:01.757',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:09:01.756',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('26ef5d86-a8ba-4739-a0cd-99cffecb4f88','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>要学李白，也要学杜甫</p>
<p>给每个模型找个反例</p>
<p>每个理论都有前提</p>
<p>「真正的英雄主义，是认清了生活真相后依然热爱它</p>','2024-12-06 15:11:07.202','2024-12-06 15:11:07.202',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:11:07.201',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d730e5f7-2b64-4bf8-9c41-17d74d880d6b','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>学好经济学</p>
<p>1。所有模式都学</p>
<p>2。给每个模式找反例</p>
<p>3。每个理论都有前提</p>','2024-12-06 15:11:43.56','2024-12-06 15:11:43.56',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:11:43.559',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c856ac5f-1bca-40bf-b982-44325fb98fc8','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>4/12</p>
<p>世界充满诱惑，容易让人偏离目标。在工作中，清楚自己最想得到和学到的是什么，这才是你的真正目标。</p>
<p>有些利益只是诱惑，可能让你放弃长远的追求。智慧在于坚持长期主义，最终的胜利往往属于那些懂得等待的人。</p>
<p>选择意味着取舍，学会选择就要学会放弃。有时，放弃比选择更重要。勇敢地做出选择，接受利弊，才能真正成长。</p>
<p>5/12</p>
<p>公理体系&rdquo;和&ldquo;逻辑推演&rdquo;的关系，就像学习经济学需要多角度分析，学李白也要学杜甫一样，只有兼收并蓄、深入理解基础和方法，才能真正掌握事物的全貌。同时强调全面学习和多角度理解的重要性。</p>
<p>6/12</p>
<p>理解理论的前提是掌握其适用性与局限性的关键，也是正确运用和批判性思考经济学理论的基本素养。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 15:11:58.002','2024-12-06 15:11:58.002',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:11:58',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b309d27c-5efe-4c06-af8a-537739598a57','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>提出请求<br>1. 找出未满足的需求，感觉生理变化，才搭上线</p>
<p>2.充分了解你的需要</p>
<p>3.牢记想要的东西</p>
<p>4. 角色扮演，说出不想听到的回应</p>
<p>5.给自己同理心，练习回应方式</p>','2024-12-06 15:18:06.118','2024-12-06 15:18:06.118',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:18:06.117',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c926eacf-f19e-41da-b478-c3da67a4df7d','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>&nbsp;每个理论都有前提，</p>
<p>给每个理论找反列，才能记得有前提</p>','2024-12-06 15:21:48.817','2024-12-06 15:21:48.817',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:21:48.816',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('03b60657-ef12-420c-92b8-bec7ba16ddca','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>提出请求前先做演练 ：</p>
<p>1. 识别需求</p>
<p>2. 明确目标</p>
<p>3. 制定请求</p>
<p>4. 模拟场景</p>
<p>5. 自我共情</p>','2024-12-06 15:26:18.474','2024-12-06 15:26:18.474',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:26:18.473',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e5f5cbc4-035a-47cc-a6a9-08cd650f74f2','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<ol>
<li>拥有相反的观念还能正常行事 - 智慧</li>
<li>认清了生活真相后还依然爱它 - 勇气</li>
<li>能反驳自己观点才配拥有观点 - 自省</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 15:37:20.721','2024-12-06 15:37:20.721',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:37:20.72',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b708261e-14cd-4460-8a5d-f6060ac580ac','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','ef10631b-65db-4272-af44-c5d7da8f94f4','<p>有用的经济学</p>
<p>（二）给每个模型找个反例</p>
<p>（三）记住每个理论都有前提</p>','2024-12-06 15:41:34.032','2024-12-06 15:41:34.032',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:41:34.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('70e6be9f-e11c-422e-bc19-3cfe236f5226','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>是非对错的底层逻辑因规则、结果、动机、共识及文化而异，但需结合多维度评估、情境化分析和普适价值，才能避免片面与偏差。</p>','2024-12-06 15:37:43.427','2024-12-06 15:37:44.788',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:37:44.787',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f624bdb5-fb97-42c0-ba53-e3f7634ddb94','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>喜欢这个例子：</p>
<p>打断争论，表达需要：</p>
<p>1) 先自我同理。我的感受是什么？我有哪些未被满足的需求？</p>
<p>2） 我能做些什么，才能满足和帮助在场的其他人？</p>
<p>3）提出自己的感受、描述观察、确认对方的感受和对方当下没被满足的需要， 帮助整理思路（您是否愿意告诉我们，在大家的回应当中，有哪些人回答了您的问题？）。</p>
<p>4）对方把讨论带回到主题，脱离混乱无章的讨论会</p>','2024-12-03 02:26:40.137','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('42dbe942-9503-4440-8ce2-83ad361139ab','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 37 - 43</p>
<p>同时持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，是第一流的智慧的标志。</p>
<p>英雄主义 ，认清了生活的真相，依然热爱它，才有勇气给每个模式的找反例，继续用这个模式。</p>
<p>反驳观点的才有资格拥有观点，每个理论都有前提。</p>','2024-12-06 15:57:44.135','2024-12-06 15:58:22.811',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:58:22.81',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('86ca4858-6cc6-464d-a468-749fba72c43b','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','576d96d0-dcd8-47c0-8ecc-c9881174d6fa','<p>以科学搞清楚事实,&nbsp;</p>
<p>以感受为观点護行,</p>
<p>以價值观挺立场,</p>
<p>信仰就不说了!</p>','2024-12-06 15:07:06.027','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p>观点-什么角度看东西</p>
<p>立场-利益</p>
<p>信仰-我相信什么，</p>','2024-12-07 15:15:42.246','2024-12-07 15:15:42.246',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:15:42.245',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('72f8beab-f62d-455c-92cd-f4ebe6b0f864','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day36：12月6 日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">迈出你的第一步（Page179-182）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读後感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1. 理解自己的需要</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 感受身体的反应，确保真正连结到自己的需求。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 厘清在特定情况下想要达成的目标或需求。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 2. 练习提出请求</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 进行角色扮演，模拟不理想回应的情境，并练习如何给自己同理心以及合适的回应方式。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 3. 观察并协助他人</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 当同事未明确表达需求时，可以运用技巧帮助他们提出清楚、具体、可行的请求。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 例如，礼貌打断并引导他们具体说明需要的协助。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 4. 专注于目标</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 时刻记住自己的需求，并根据需求拟定明确的请求。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">记得要明确说出「到底想要什么」。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在这种情况下，你或许可以打断他们的对话并表示：「不好意思，杰瑞米，如果你能告诉我，在刚刚的讨论中你希望我做些什么，会帮我一个大忙。你愿意帮我这个忙，方便我把它们整理到笔记上吗？」这种应对方式的另一个好处是，它也会产生抛转引玉的效。</span></p>','2024-12-06 15:34:45.635','2024-12-06 15:34:45.635',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:34:45.634',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('41f8423e-de68-4b3a-b8b5-6dcac7a9131a','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 价格决定成本</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>总结一下</p>
<p>（1）</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 学李白，也要学杜甫</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 给每个模型找反例</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 每个理论都有前提</p>
<p>（2）</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 同时持有全然相反的两种观念，还能正常行事，是第一口智慧的标志</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 在这个世界上，只有一种真正的英雄主义，那就是认清了世界的真相后依然热爱它</p>
<p>&nbsp;- 如果我不能比这个世界上最聪明的人更能反驳这个观点，我就不配拥有这个观点</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>读完这些part好像有点blur了&hellip;作者应该是要提醒我们要以多个角度看事情，不要陷入「二分法」的漩涡吗？</p>','2024-12-06 15:50:58.924','2024-12-06 15:55:03.995',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:55:03.994',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('084d561a-77fe-48c9-883c-ff5e39dbe64f','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','bdee759b-405c-461f-97a1-a39e711c7e8e','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">所有的經濟學理論都需要建立在一個前提之下。所以不一樣的前提，就會產生不一樣的結果。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">費茲傑羅：「同時持有全然相反的兩種觀念，還能正常行事，是第一流的標誌。」</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">羅曼. 羅蘭：「這個世界上，只有一種真正的英雄主義，那就是認清了生活的真相後還依然愛它。」</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">蒙格：「如果我不能比這個世界上最聰明的人更能反駁這個觀點，我就不配擁有這個觀點。」</span></li>
</ul>','2024-12-06 15:58:43.329','2024-12-06 15:58:43.329',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:58:43.328',NULL,NULL);
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<li>一个人的表达可以分为4种：事实、观点、立场和信仰</li>
<li>事实：不易产生争议，客观存在</li>
<li>观点：因不同的思维模式，对同一个事实，每个人有着不同看法</li>
<li>立场：不同的身份地位和利益，立场也会不一样，所以，争论的不是对错，而是谈利益</li>
<li>信仰：信仰之间是互相矛盾的，但都是对的，不要攻击他人的信仰</li>
</ul>','2024-12-06 15:48:58.68','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95da886e-44a1-48e9-bc78-b94d96ae3337','c11702ed-8cbf-45f7-b1ef-05fb9c4a3c68','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>在經濟學不是基於公理體系的学科，<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">沒有一個模型能解釋所有的經濟現象。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">三句名人名言：</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">同時持有全然相反的两種觀念，還能正常行事，是第一流智慧的標誌。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">這世界上只有一種英雄主義，那就是認清了生活的真相後還依然热爰它。這樣你才有勇氣會給每個模型找個反例，然後繼續用這模型。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">如果我不能比這個世界上最聰明的人更能反駁這個觀点，我就不配擁有達個觀点。這樣，你才能時刻提醒自己，每個理論都有前提。</span></p>','2024-12-06 15:36:26.56','2024-12-06 15:38:13.173',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:38:13.172',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('940d9b44-99b1-4d8f-b794-0bb7672789ad','a7861fc7-0838-4e36-913f-2c85da67e95e','90be9971-4198-4f2d-937d-cd4d2849f20a','<p>反复练习，不断关注需求</p>','2024-12-06 15:41:28.092','2024-12-06 15:41:28.092',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:41:28.091',NULL,NULL);
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<li>
<div class="flex flex-row gap-4">
<div class="flex flex-col w-full mb-2">
<div class="text-xs sm:text-sm ml-[38px]">
<p>每个观点都有一个前提，要是可以的话，最好是可以被反驳</p>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</li>
</ul>','2024-12-06 15:46:58.105','2024-12-06 15:46:58.105',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:46:58.104',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 学李白，也要学杜甫： 同时接受不同视角，平衡抽象与现实的应用。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 给每个模型找反例：在批判性思考中检验模型的适用性和局限性。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 记住每个理论都有前提： 理解理论的背景和条件，避免绝对化。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 2. 学习经济学的智慧与态度：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 费兹杰罗： 拥有同时接受矛盾观念的智慧。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 罗曼&middot;罗兰： 认清真相后依然保持热情与勇气。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 查理&middot;蒙格： 深入反驳才能真正理解和拥有观点。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 3. 核心目标：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 学习既能抽象于真实，又能还原于真实的经济学，尊重经济学家的复杂思考和努力，应用于实践。</span></p>','2024-12-06 15:51:36.972','2024-12-06 15:51:36.972',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:51:36.971',NULL,NULL);
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<p dir="ltr">给每个模型找个反列（Page 037-043）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p dir="ltr">🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p dir="ltr">从经济学的角度来看，你理解一个经济学论调的程度，以你能找到反驳那个论调的例子来看。</p>','2024-12-06 15:53:59.83','2024-12-06 15:53:59.83',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:53:59.829',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">迈出你的第一步（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page179-182</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">凡事，改变，都得跨出那重要的第一步。</p>','2024-12-06 15:57:24.55','2024-12-06 15:57:24.55',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 15:57:24.549',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('969c9d41-ab59-46fe-9b8f-127dafc9d369','927b318d-2c23-4ab6-8b11-291634420dac','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>如何赢得一场辩论?</p>
<ol>
<li>辩论的目的：不是说服对方，不是改变观众的观点，而是改变观众的态度</li>
<li>辩论的关键：纠正对方的概念，不断的重新定义对方的概念</li>
<li>辩论的核心竞争力：基于逻辑的急智</li>
</ol>','2024-12-06 16:42:11.301','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6233d02d-67cf-4112-9352-62bcd8aaf1e0','6252cb84-9120-4516-b6b5-a03f625e10e6','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>遇到问题时: 不要总是用过去的经验做判断，空杯心态下去：⤵️</p>
<ol>
<li>大胆假设</li>
<li>去验证，小心求证</li>
<li>得出结论</li>
<li>做出调整</li>
</ol>
<p>就事论事，不要被利益、立场左右，对事不对人</p>','2024-12-06 16:52:19.367','2024-12-10 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e5adad40-9e98-43ff-aab9-c692fe72f256','0eabcae0-052c-4eb7-8f9f-dae46fa0e8b5','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>不用外力去督促他人做出改变，给他们规定一个高的标准；而是加入竞争淘汰机制，激发自己内驱的最大潜力。</p>','2024-12-06 17:15:12.414','2024-12-11 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cc731e8a-b070-4d5b-b166-813ae7c03c65','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>反省自己所做,所讲是事实,观点,立场还是信仰？</p>
<p>小孩子才谈对错,成年人只谈利益.不要同不同位置的人争论,大家的资讯,观点,立场,信仰都不同.鸡同鸭讲</p>','2024-12-06 21:15:00.676','2024-12-06 21:15:00.676',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 21:15:00.675',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35cf7747-a5c9-48b4-8fdf-3d929b48081d','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>刚读到&ldquo;事实有真假&rdquo;这句话时，我停顿了一下，事实就是事实，怎么会有真假？</p>
<p>但是接下来阅读作者的解释，我才&ldquo;哦...&rdquo;</p>
<p>我最早认定的事实随着资讯的增加而改变。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>所以，事实真相的有真假！</p>','2024-12-06 22:25:30.093','2024-12-06 22:25:30.093',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-06 22:25:30.092',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a02371d-bb0b-4376-8e14-1a59df4222e9','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>争论之所以浪费时间因为大家都把心思花在情绪表达而不是需求表达。</p>
<p>当处在高亢的情绪，就无法冷静观察自己的行为进行反思和觉察需要。</p>','2024-12-04 02:44:35.011','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">【事实、观点、立场和信仰】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">事实是独立于人的判断的客观存在。但是，我们口中的事实却不一定是事实的真实反映（如书中关于圆柱或熱的举例），至多是比较接近事实的真貌。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">观点是你对一个事实的看法。你的知识或思维框架决定了你的观点。所以，我们口中的事实，终究是我们的观点而己。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">立场是被位置和利益影响的观点，如辩论中的正方与反方。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">信仰是一套完全自洽（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">self-consistent</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）的逻辑体系。所谓的「逻辑自洽」，说的是无法证明它的对或錯。所以，你有的是选择。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">很好的提示：我说的话、我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">?<span lang="ZH-CN">&mdash;&mdash;反省也！</span></span></p>','2024-12-06 00:30:45.068','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b37e12ce-a602-4443-a4b4-b4c8ebf4b76a','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','f96bb3ac-81d2-449d-bcab-c984308b1d78','<p><strong>思考问题的底层逻辑<br><br>1. 事实 = </strong>独立于个人的判断，最不容易产生争议的客观存在。由于解不够全面，导致事实有真假。<strong><br>2. 观点 = </strong>观点无对错，是你对事实的看法。你的知识结构、掌握的信息，以及思维模式决定<br>了你的观点。<strong><br>3. 立场 = </strong>立场就是被位置和利益影响的观点。成人争的不是对错，只争输赢。<strong><br>4. 信仰 = </strong>信仰是比立场更为坚定的自洽逻辑体系。不要攻击别人的信仰。因为，第<br>一，你不可能获胜；第二，你会失去这个朋友。<br><br>与人洽谈时，当一个人持有的不是观点而是立场时，无须争辩，对方只在乎输赢。<br><br>反过来，我们也要时刻反省自己：我说的话是客观的事实，我个人的观点，还是我站死了我的立场和信仰来发言？而同样的，当我们身处在办公室开会检讨或讨论未来方向时，更应该关注：事实和有建设性观点，为了促成更好的结果来洽谈，而非站在各自部门的利益输赢来洽谈，因为公司是一个整体。</p>','2024-12-06 01:21:42.468','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('84b4d4f3-b905-4f09-82ba-40470b9b796c','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>事实是独立于人的判断的客观存在。天气热到摄氏30度是事实。热，是你的观点。观点是对事实的看法。</p>
<p>立场是被位置和利益影响的观点。</p>
<p>信仰是完全自洽的逻辑体系。每个人都有自己的信仰，不要攻击别人的信仰。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 03:42:05.987','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8760d35-2853-49c4-b047-e70d2b2418bb','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','6949d955-832d-47f1-870b-95a01be61ff8','<p>🔆 思考问题的底层逻辑</p>
<p>1️⃣ 事实：个人的客观判断，基于对事情了解不够全面 （例：今天很热）热是客观判断，30度是事实</p>
<p>2️⃣ 观点：对事物的看法，思维模式决定观点</p>
<p>3️⃣ 立场：被位置和利益影响的观点</p>
<p>4️⃣ 信仰：没有立场，都觉得自己是对的，不要攻击别人的信仰</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>时刻反省自己：我说的话，我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰？</p>','2024-12-06 04:06:46.813','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c2346d24-f019-46c9-b038-0abbfd43fbbe','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>猜測對方想要什麼也是一種很好協助對方理解對方提出請求回應的方式。團體會議或討論中，除了明確提出自己的請求外 還需要明確點出請求對方的對象是誰。</p>
<p>當團體會議偏離了主題 並發生爭論 你一言我一語 爭休沒完沒了。此時可以採取非暴力溝通 打斷爭論 引導大家回歸正題。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 09:35:40.893','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e556664e-9142-46f6-874e-062b20ab5438','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>時刻反省自己：我說的話或表述，究竟是事實、觀點、立場還是信仰呢？</p>
<p>1️⃣事實是客觀的存在 很難被推翻</p>
<p>2️⃣對事實的看法</p>
<p>3️⃣被位置與利益影響的觀點</p>
<p>4️⃣內部邏輯自洽 都是對的 別無選擇</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-06 10:23:53.334','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f5062800-2f74-46e4-a1cf-61ea8ce4e3d9','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>猜测对方想要什么，促使对方告诉你，帮助你的同事提出要求。</p>
<p>打断争论，表达需要。跳脱眼前的情况做出评估，与自己的需要搭上线，才能提出已拟定的要求。</p>','2024-12-06 13:01:50.466','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afdf9b92-0b6c-4aad-bba1-cf7c8880f89e','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ul>
<li>在提出请求时，除了明确提出自己请求，也要明确自己在跟谁说话和提出请求</li>
<li>只表达了情绪，对方是无法了解你的需要</li>
</ul>','2024-12-06 15:22:59.363','2024-12-07 00:00:00.034',NULL,'f','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033','2024-12-07 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7b42a60-60a7-4b13-b761-e1c42e84a1ea','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>一个人的表述可以分成四种：事实，观点，立场，信仰。<br>1。事实 - 客观存在。如有争议是因为我们的认知不够全面。<br>2。 观点 - 是看法。受自身的知识，认知，思维模式所左右。<br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 网络将不同观点的群体聚在一起。世界变得&ldquo;日闹&rdquo;了。<br>3. 立场 - 受利益左右的观点。与持有不同立场的争辩是徒然的。<br>4. 信仰 - 自治的逻辑。无法证明对错。只有选择信与不信。不要攻击他人的信仰。<br>时自省我的表述是哪一种。<br>纯属个人观点，不管是哪一种表述是没有对错之分。</p>','2024-12-07 01:22:41.956','2024-12-07 01:22:41.956',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 01:22:41.955',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f27aedbb-2860-4893-b769-7b5e55f3433b','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>先自我同理与自己的需要搭上線，然后再靜默地同理他人。</p>
<p>書面練習能让你比較容易釐清自己的當下的狀態，幫助你跳脫舊思維，让你的思緒不被不悅和痛苦綁架。</p>
<p>書寫的練習會改變我們的本質，進而從一種截然不同的角度去看待所有的事情，如此一來，説出的話也會更符合 &ldquo;正語" 的精神。</p>','2024-12-07 01:19:04.816','2024-12-07 01:32:36.234',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 01:32:36.232',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5863e128-7f43-44c1-81b1-dba9c5127d86','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>大段争论清楚表达需要还有要和大家讨论的事宜。</p>
<p>需要踏出第一步</p>','2024-12-07 07:19:36.837','2024-12-07 07:19:36.837',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 07:19:36.836',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e695717-1bf8-4578-9424-9b3b814a55cf','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','abafda80-d191-4990-802d-f631604815a6','<p>时时反省自己，我说的话，我的表述是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰。</p>','2024-12-07 15:29:54.834','2024-12-07 15:29:54.834',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:29:54.833',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('586570d5-2470-44c1-bd5c-564faac265d9','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','b1d2b7e9-339b-46d2-9f25-30c45ecce2d1','<p>这篇内容我算理解。</p>
<p>但把信仰和立场两者放在一起研究，这是第一次。</p>
<p>信仰比立场更厉害。这点我非常认同。</p>
<p>我甚至听过某人说，最厉害的营销就是宗教、是信仰。因为它几乎可以让你放下立场做事。</p>
<p>战争上，多少人放下了立场上战？生活上，又有多少人毫无思考的生活。</p>
<p>这是从&ldquo;哪个更厉害&rdquo;的角度想。</p>
<p>但如果谈到哪个重要一点？我认为立场更重要。立场让你知道自己要的是什么？要去哪里？有了立场，才不会被信仰控制。</p>
<p>如果有孩子，我会他多和自己沟通强化自己的立场。</p>','2024-12-07 01:37:15.466','2024-12-07 01:37:30.593',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 01:37:30.59',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a42c7636-3a04-402e-a962-f0317a2d54d2','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>猜测对方想要什么</p>
<p>&middot; 明确提出自己的请求</p>
<p>&middot; 明确点出请求的对象</p>
<p>打断争论，表达需要</p>
<p>&middot; 先自我同理，跳出原有的评价标准</p>
<p>&middot; 用开放的心胸审视眼前情况</p>
<p>&middot; 与自己的需要搭上线</p>
<p>记下自己与他人的需要，帮助整理思路</p>
<p>&middot; 把注意力放在自己与他人的内心，找出彼此的需要</p>','2024-12-07 03:11:05.923','2024-12-07 03:11:05.923',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 03:11:05.922',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c60ef33f-8f4b-4385-8caf-1fe8ccb008b5','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>事實 - 現在是三十攝氏度，沒有對錯，這是真實情況。</p>
<p>觀點 - 我覺得很熱，個人的感覺。</p>
<p>立場 - 多從利益和位置出發</p>
<p>信仰 - 不可被挑戰的</p>','2024-12-07 01:45:50.526','2024-12-07 01:46:41.133',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 01:46:41.132',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7940f42f-0dde-477d-a78f-24be9d56ec75','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','c11fab34-c054-436b-a25e-f5fdf1c3976e','<p>1. 事实认知的局限：来自我们感知工具（包括感官和仪器）的有限性。就像书中提到的圆柱体例子，从不同角度看到的"事实"都不完整。</p>
<p>2. 观点差异的局限：源于每个人的知识结构、经验、思维方式的不同。就像书中说的"你觉得30度热，是因为你冷"，观点往往反映的是"人我"的差异。</p>
<p>3. 立场冲突的局限：根植于现实中的位置和利益关系。正如书中说"除非你能和问你的人有相同的位置和利益，否则你们是不可能达成共识的"。</p>
<p>4. 信仰分歧的局限：这是最根本的，源于人类存在本身的局限性。每个人都不自觉地把自己的信仰视为"真理"，却忘了这也是一种人性的局限</p>
<p>理解这些局限性的存在，可能正是超越局限的第一步。这也呼应了"地图不是疆域"和"真理的反面也可能是真理"的观点。</p>
<p>这是不是也说明了，真正的智慧不在于消除这些局限，而在于认识到它们的存在，并在此基础上努力达成理解和对话？​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​</p>','2024-12-07 02:48:46.882','2024-12-07 02:48:46.882',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 02:48:46.881',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff116592-a1ab-49a9-a126-ad18e05d4f03','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>&middot; 事实有真假，观点无对错</p>
<p>&middot; 我说的话、我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰？</p>','2024-12-07 03:24:20.542','2024-12-07 03:24:20.542',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 03:24:20.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd04cb0b-b17b-4f62-aa95-3eb86cec0dfa','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day37：12月 7日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</p>
<p>猜测对方想要什么（Page183-188）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>当你在开会或与团队讨论时，除了明确提出自己的要求，也要明确点出请求的对象是谁。情绪化的对话只会招来反效果，也达不到沟通的目的。</p>
<p>为了打破争论，首先&ldquo;自我同理&rdquo;,有无满足自身的需要。随即，表达自己的感受。接着，确认当下的发言目的有无达到。</p>','2024-12-07 03:51:59.671','2024-12-07 03:51:59.671',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 03:51:59.67',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5503a3ca-5371-4113-b9b6-2f296b5c2e38','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>客观的判断眼前的情况，了解自己的内心感受，同理别人，提出具体的请求。</p>','2024-12-07 12:58:52.643','2024-12-07 12:58:52.643',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 12:58:52.642',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a9e00e81-a722-4034-84d3-4cba7ab81f54','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>事实、观点、立场、信仰，时刻反省自己所说的所表述的。</p>','2024-12-07 15:39:02.527','2024-12-07 15:39:02.527',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:39:02.526',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6bcf394-b8fd-4f93-a774-c6b7e9407c0f','4ada9766-bfed-44de-81fe-34da82349db3','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>【为什么+观点】是狡猾的人用来迷惑别人和愚蠢的人用来麻痹自己的注射器。</p>','2024-12-08 11:31:38.224','2024-12-08 11:31:49.953',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-08 11:31:49.952',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('138cb5c3-30a1-413c-9cb8-348a0fedefa0','1a55b11d-b61b-458e-9652-a72046c3912a','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>用很精简的话语传达信息和请求。一切都需要按照次序。</p>','2024-12-08 12:44:09.46','2024-12-08 12:44:09.46',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-08 12:44:09.459',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2d596e5b-fd2d-4c03-81b9-df9f8a4d0ba3','0eabcae0-052c-4eb7-8f9f-dae46fa0e8b5','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>我們看事情以表象來判斷，往往忽略了背後的系統。鏈接關係決定一個系統的優劣，看不透這關係，就很難有效的解決問題。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-08 12:52:46.594','2024-12-11 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('857e1b88-04ab-4de0-b459-d959ffcccefe','0eabcae0-052c-4eb7-8f9f-dae46fa0e8b5','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>洞察力 = 看透事物本质的能力</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>洞察力是看到系统的要素和连接关系，而不是表象的刺激和行动。</p>','2024-12-11 14:16:01.242','2024-12-11 14:16:01.242',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-11 14:16:01.241',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4947b7da-9bd6-40d3-889b-7804c6630e9c','d4271f8f-ce4a-4046-8506-39182f9292f9','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>当注意到自己在说别人的闲话时，可以先利用自我同理来检视动机，然后再根据梳理出的结果，找处防堵聊八卦的对策。</p>','2024-12-09 10:46:14.886','2024-12-09 10:46:17.216',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-09 10:46:17.215',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a1bd38d-906c-4379-9bf8-996a3e271d1c','0eabcae0-052c-4eb7-8f9f-dae46fa0e8b5','85df4a9d-433c-4009-bf28-8921ba3c5b68','<p>分析问题5步</p>
<p>1．找到核心存量</p>
<p>2. 找到关键因果链</p>
<p>3. 找到增强迴路</p>
<p>4. 找到调节迴路</p>
<p>5. 考虑滞后效应</p>','2024-12-08 14:43:06.392','2024-12-11 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c2ce4cf-346e-4b40-ab1a-363e7eead57d','927b318d-2c23-4ab6-8b11-291634420dac','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>辩论的目的</p>
<p>&middot; 说服观众</p>
<p>&middot; 人们只会在安全、舒适、信任的氛围下，自己取走喜欢的观点</p>
<p>辩论的关键</p>
<p>&middot; 偷换概念/重新定义概念/纠正对方的概念</p>
<p>辩论的核心竞争力</p>
<p>&middot; 瞬间反应的智慧，&ldquo;基于逻辑的急智&rdquo;</p>','2024-12-07 03:59:59.112','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ed0692f8-05aa-4da3-a61c-310e047c522c','927b318d-2c23-4ab6-8b11-291634420dac','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>辩论的目的是说服观众，不是说服对方。对方可以认输，但不可说服。b</p>
<p>辩论的目的不是改变观众的观点，而是改变观众的态度，要让观众愿意取走你的观点。</p>
<p>辩论的关键是纠正对方的概念。透过不断地重新定义一个概念的方式表达自己，影响观众。</p>
<p>辩论的核心竞争力是于逻辑的急智。</p>','2024-12-07 08:50:39.553','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8eb270d0-258f-44a5-8ca8-41dde31c54b0','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 7 ：12月7 日 《底层逻辑》Part 2：思考问题的底层逻辑</p>
<p>事实，观点，立场和信仰（Page 046-049）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>事实：今天天气30度。</p>
<p>观点：今天很热。</p>
<p>立场：作为大厦管理员：今天天气还好（大厅无需开冷气）。作为大厦住户：今天天气很热（大厅需要开冷气）。</p>','2024-12-07 04:37:51.295','2024-12-07 04:37:51.295',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 04:37:51.294',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('43de4885-9b18-4ce1-a376-e8b011476bc0','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>在一个会议中，往往会有人为了自我证明或炫耀，多说了一些离题的话；也有些人为了逃避责任，而转开话题...能够当下同理需要，除了有效，更是对所有开会人的一种尊重和自我的涵养。</p>','2024-12-07 04:53:53.987','2024-12-07 04:54:05.159',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 04:54:05.158',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95ffbd75-384c-46a0-a502-7f0ccb245933','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>事实凭证据和逻辑；观点供参考和相互理解；立场是弄清楚利益和对象；信仰不要问为什么信就是不信就不是。</p>','2024-12-07 04:59:08.502','2024-12-07 04:59:19.575',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 04:59:19.574',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1d818ecf-8db6-456e-aeac-af9aa3300e5e','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>在与人交談或开会时，需明确提出自己的请求，也要点出请求的对象。</p>
<p>在会议中我们也可以打断@反轉可能的争论，表达需要,也同时记下自己和他人的需要来理清思路。</p>','2024-12-07 05:19:26.77','2024-12-07 05:19:26.77',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 05:19:26.769',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8cc11174-e995-45f9-82cb-7a4584341ea5','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>观点 ：和自己有关系，自己的看法</p>
<p>立场：被位置和利益影响的观点</p>
<p>信仰：逻辑自洽，就是对的</p>','2024-12-07 07:21:49.444','2024-12-07 07:21:49.444',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 07:21:49.443',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f90e42f-ad63-46cd-a959-f629b6898f6a','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','550d0df0-c244-418c-8fd4-915e9faffda1','<p>人们每说的话，都有4个层次 - 事实，观点，立场，信仰。</p>
<p>很多时候，除了事实以外，很多话都是建立在个人的利益为基础，而不是对错黑白。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 08:16:01.109','2024-12-07 08:16:01.109',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 08:16:01.107',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1c64141d-e5b6-4417-8d53-6dabf0816fac','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','f19a0a29-719b-4ff0-9462-5c18dd598629','<p>这世界上，最厉害的信仰就是马列主义、共产主义。明明只是信仰，可是却给自己披上了科学外衣，然后把世界搞得乌烟瘴气。</p>','2024-12-07 09:26:13.193','2024-12-07 09:26:13.193',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 09:26:13.191',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad5a4a16-73ef-4669-bb5a-3d41174b4ed3','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','3a0fa86c-5a82-45ea-aace-7b8e7654c3c4','<p>一个人的表述大概可分为四种：</p>
<p>事实、观点、立场和信仰。</p>
<p>当一个人持有的不是观点而是立场时，我们应该对他说&ldquo;这对你有益&rdquo;。</p>
<p>反过来，我们也要时刻反省自己，我说的话，我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场还是信仰。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 09:31:49.898','2024-12-07 09:31:49.898',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 09:31:49.897',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e3439ee-8ef3-4ac7-8877-12e4bb9c43b0','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>当遇到意见不和时，首先得做的事是：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>1，看清对方、同理自他的需要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2，中断争论和表达双方的需要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>3，记下个人需要并整理双方的思路。</p>','2024-12-07 15:46:23.505','2024-12-07 15:46:23.505',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:46:23.504',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d1142e5-b874-47bf-ab2f-9df668ebc827','d4271f8f-ce4a-4046-8506-39182f9292f9','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>评鉴变得更人性化，不再只是披评。绩效评鉴大多数都属于主观的评判。会给被评者复杂的感受。</p>
<p>所以如果可以以较客观的观察，然后向对方提出有助于改善的请求。</p>','2024-12-07 08:58:36.494','2024-12-09 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021','2024-12-09 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c72213e2-f0ae-4b84-a775-827c3513000d','0a48d81e-332f-4c47-a34d-61d818b6b9de','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>落实电子邮件和电话沟通</p>
<p>选出两三封电邮，找出其中客观，感受，需要和请求，以更口语的文字重写，但又清晰的架构。</p>
<p>回想在职场中聊八卦的经验。提醒自己下次在心中静默同理那个嚼舌根的人。</p>','2024-12-07 09:08:09.935','2024-12-10 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5db0f13f-6457-45fc-9905-a65eba5b438f','e163ca95-8b0c-4f97-a34a-05ebd4c9e75a','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>仇恨永远无法驱走仇恨，只有爱才能驱走仇恨。</p>
<p>用慈悲的话语与对方建立连接，语言就能化干戈为一帛</p>','2024-12-07 09:15:42.126','2024-12-11 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004','2024-12-11 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2a671076-1974-4a5d-b6e2-eb55a5e3ede5','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是事实？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">事实，是独立于人的判断的客观存在。现实世界有时复杂到你无法判断事实。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">今天很热不是事实。今天摄氏30度才是事实，热、是你的观点。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是观点？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">观点是你对一个事实的看法。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">为什么在网络上时常有人吵得不可开交？因为所有人都觉得自己代表的是事实。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是立场？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">立场就是被位置和利益影响的观点。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们不争对错，只争输赢。所以不要和有立场的人争论对错。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">什么是信仰？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">信仰是一套完全自洽self consistent 的逻辑体系。信仰比立场更厉害，因为大家都觉得自己没有立场，都觉得自己信的是对的东西。信仰都是对的，因为你无法证明它是错的，这就是逻辑自洽。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要攻击别人的信仰。因为，第一，你不可能获胜；第二，你会失去这个朋友，</span></p>','2024-12-07 10:51:27.591','2024-12-07 10:51:27.591',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 10:51:27.59',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3fc69553-330c-4bab-af18-3ff32ca85a86','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>掌握的资讯和思维模式决定了观点；</p>
<p>立场是被位置和利益影响的观点；</p>
<p>而信仰是完全自洽的逻辑体系， 都是对的！无法被挑战。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 11:00:28.419','2024-12-07 11:00:28.419',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 11:00:28.418',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3834ab91-1109-41bd-8216-6b2a08046950','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>以前会希望别人最好听自己的，现在若跟他人持相反立场时间，反而愿意花时间去理解他的观点。人的观点不容易改变，立场也是。所以，聆听和理解有必要。</p>','2024-12-07 11:25:03.877','2024-12-07 11:25:03.877',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 11:25:03.876',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('85d7a523-2efc-4baf-9e63-8cc55d5a374b','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','2c1ef7cf-3624-43cb-8cf3-d40551cab829','<p>一个人的表述可以分成4种:</p>
<p>1) 事实 &ndash; 独立于人的判断的客观存在</p>
<p>2) 观点 &ndash; 对事实的看法</p>
<p>3) 立场 &ndash; 被位置和利益影响的观点</p>
<p>4) 信仰 &ndash; 内部完全自洽的逻辑体系</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>"时刻反省自己说的话是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰?"</p>','2024-12-07 11:55:18.507','2024-12-07 11:55:18.507',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 11:55:18.506',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e653ceca-21e2-4b23-9aa2-45df32c6734d','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>当我们与人产生异议时，要学会停下来思考就尽是因为个人观点，信仰坚持而导致不一样的立场，而忽略了事实的真相，导致无谓的争吵。</p>','2024-12-07 12:37:04.295','2024-12-07 12:37:04.295',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 12:37:04.294',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b695f497-4858-45e5-9d33-4350ecc293e0','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 7 ：12月7 日&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《底层逻辑》Part 2：思考问题的底层逻辑</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">事实，观点，立场和信仰（Page 046-049）</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">事实、观点、立场和信仰</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 1. 事实</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 是「客观且可验证的资料」。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 例如：「今天下雨了」，是一个事实。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 2. 观点</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 是个人的主观看法，基于事实作出判断。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 例如：「今天的雨很大，不适合出门」。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 3. 立场</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 是对事物的态度或选择，基于观点而形成的行动取向。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 例如：「因为下雨，我选择在家工作」。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 4. 信仰</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 是深层次的价值观或原则，对个人行为产生影响。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 例如：「我相信保护环境很重要，所以尽量减少开车」。</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 层层递进关系：事实 &rarr; 观点 &rarr; 立场 &rarr; 信仰，这四者密切相关，逐步影响个人的选择和行为。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> &bull; 信仰的重要性：一个人的信仰决定其行动的自洽性（self-consistency），例如「为什么我们坚持某种行为」，背后是由信仰驱动的。</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 13:20:36.702','2024-12-07 13:20:36.702',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:20:36.701',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('18d13481-e6df-406f-9517-b5ef06097079','6252cb84-9120-4516-b6b5-a03f625e10e6','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>普通人只看到事务的现象，优秀的人透过现象看到事物的本质。</p>
<p>凭经验，有时真得不靠谱。</p>
<p>遇到问题时可用假设-验证-结论-调整的方法。要注意的是要以事论事，不要被立场左右。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 13:19:28.335','2024-12-10 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018','2024-12-10 00:00:00.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('53129d0f-b0f9-40bf-b4c5-51e45fe1b43b','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>思考问题的底层逻辑以事实为基础，观点为对事实的分析工具，立场为态度选择，信仰为核心价值体系，需保持逻辑清晰、开放包容，在动态实践中不断检验与优化。</p>','2024-12-07 13:07:26.29','2024-12-07 13:07:26.29',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:07:26.289',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca9aa4fb-cfb6-4b74-8d2c-7c1ae61fd4fc','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>事实-独立于人的判断</p>
<p>观点-对事实的看法</p>
<p>信仰-内部完全自洽的逻辑体系</p>
<p>立场-被位置和利益影响的观点</p>
<p>时刻反省自己，我说的话，我的表述，是事实，是观点，是立场，还是信仰？</p>','2024-12-07 13:12:13.169','2024-12-07 13:12:13.169',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:12:13.168',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9bbcac3e-8b92-4c1a-b112-631eb4033856','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;如果是在開會或團体討論，要明確提出自己的請求，也要明確點出請求的對象。</p>
<p>打斷爭論，表達請求，然后找出並能寫下自己的感受和需求，書寫練习會改变我們的本質，進而从一種截然不同的角度去看待所有的事情。</p>','2024-12-07 13:26:48.715','2024-12-07 13:26:48.715',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:26:48.714',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('515cfb6d-bc82-4544-9671-04a12c2a395b','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>看清他的需要，同理</p>
<p>建设性态度</p>
<p>保持有善，专业</p>','2024-12-07 15:05:12.238','2024-12-07 15:05:12.238',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 15:05:12.236',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9e06de86-53f6-412d-a805-d4ddb5f5fee1','c1046d31-0c36-40f1-b40d-b3ad9069300a','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>非暴力沟通最重要的功能是帮助我们表达遗憾。如后悔说错了话，要向对方表达内心的真实感受，而不是要感到内疚或处罚自己。</p>
<p>当做出的决定有好的成果时，也该庆祝一下，让大家与你同乐。</p>
<p>为了要创造一个理想的生活环境，留给后代更美好的未来，我们必须双管齐下，要对身边的申出援手，也要努力去改变带给他痛苦的源头。</p>','2024-12-07 13:04:45.482','2024-12-12 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ec4e705d-5dd4-47e0-94c6-4f2db99dc9a5','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','3d9c1be4-dac8-482e-8867-e3ba75f3a884','<p>讲的很好，FOSB，记下了，方便自己了解是在那𠆤階段。</p>
<p>F：Fact，事实，有证据／数句作参考。</p>
<p>O：Opinion ： 观点，这很subjective，很个人想法。</p>
<p>S ： stand ： 立场，是可以随环境而改变的。</p>
<p>B ： belief ： 信仰， 己经认定了，遇到这情况，只有配合，不需要爭辩。</p>','2024-12-07 13:30:54.301','2024-12-07 13:30:54.301',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:30:54.3',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e2565bc-0be6-41ea-9ace-b02fb6b55ad7','037d098e-f473-476e-80f2-b105e9fbcff9','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>变数就是系统中变化的要素。</p>
<p>流量，改变存量。存量，改变世界。</p>
<p>因果链是变数之间增强或者减弱的连接关系。</p>
<p>增强的因果链就是【你强，我就强】。</p>
<p>减弱的因果链就是你强，我就弱。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 13:44:02.353','2024-12-12 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023','2024-12-12 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('991b0e64-4b65-4557-aa40-cc2652f8daf5','967d6daf-b7f2-4ca5-82ab-2b164e545d4e','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day37：12月 7日 《非暴力沟通的对话练习》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">猜测对方想要什么（Page183-188）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">高效的非暴力沟通在于：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 明确需求，简化语言，避免情绪化。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 理解并尊重对方的感受，采取建设性态度。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2"> &bull; 在书面或口头沟通中，保持专业和友善，以促进合作和共识。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-12-07 13:34:42.769','2024-12-07 13:34:42.769',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 13:34:42.768',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e99e448f-2cc7-4f47-aac8-36b15c8c19f1','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','4f2eb2b3-94b5-4ee7-8132-6fb6407ff96e','<p>Aha- 认识到什么是事实，观点，立场和信仰</p>
<p>Impact: 想了解平时我的表述是哪一个？</p>
<p>Growth: 多留意我的表述是哪一个</p>','2024-12-07 14:17:48.079','2024-12-07 14:17:48.079',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 14:17:48.078',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0904c6c7-b184-4689-a919-387730331e23','1b78922a-c39b-4f37-8988-abf7c5eb81d2','7ae3c10f-1299-472c-a9d4-b368d392f445','<p>－个人表达可分为四种：<br>1）事实 （Fact) -独立于人的判断的客观存在<br>2)观点 （Opinion) - 你对一个事实的看法<br>3) 立场 （Stand) - 被位置和利益影响的观点<br>4) 信仰 （Belief)- 内部完全自洽 （self-consistent) 的逻辑体系</p>
<p>我們也要時刻反省自己：我說的話、我的表述，是事實，是觀點，是立場，還是信仰？</p>','2024-12-07 14:20:30.67','2024-12-07 14:20:30.67',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-07 14:20:30.669',NULL,NULL);
