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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('79c5a93f-e7f1-48c0-814f-c8dfdb3a0ab9','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>知道做到。</p>
<p>知道做不到。</p>
<p>不知道做到。</p>
<p>不知道做不到。</p>
<p>如果要把普遍为真的原则成为人生的导向。要注意什么样的东西会让我们迷失了方向，岔离正道，分心和扭曲。</p>
<p>1.周遭的文化或者道德文化的扭曲。</p>
<p>2.任何强大或具有说服力的团体。能编出一个偏离性的方向。</p>
<p>3.强势，自我意识强烈的人或者是一些头头是道的哲学思想也会扭曲我们的观念觉知。</p>
<p>谦卑就会引导我们遵循原则。然后有强烈的责任感。</p>
<p>现在就做just do it。</p>
<p>如果能在家庭、组织或者是公司凝聚在一起。训练成拥有相同的基本价值观。重点是以原则为归依。根植在每个人心中。这样就会有很好的发展。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-13 15:24:48.329','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1f67d0b3-ee44-4f05-b575-9b195128fcec','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>要确保在正确的轨道上，的辨识判断扭曲的3个原因：</p>
<ol>
<li>文化 （就如建筑物）- 周遭的文化</li>
<li>次文化 （就如投影机）- 团体、家庭、团队等</li>
<li>强烈的情绪、强势的人、令人信服的哲学 （就如磁力）</li>
</ol>
<p>回归标准就须保持谦卑。只要有强烈的责任感去遵循原则，任何人都可以坦然面对失败。</p>
<p>若没有借助正确原则的力量，一切将会看混淆不清。</p>','2024-07-13 15:25:07.519','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In a Nutshell (Page 162-167)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯Thoughts after reading：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I love this statement from</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">John Maxwell - The best way to improve the ge is to improve yourself </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">To attract the best to support your vision or mission, you''ll need to be the leader, and you must first begin by creating an excellent working culture and set the right core values surrounding your company''s purpose of existence.</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">After doing so, you would then only recruit the right fit who sincerely believes in your business vision, mission, culture, values, and passion. </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Having a team genuinely synergize and moving forward with a common goal is essential to th success of your business - and that''s what all entrepreneurs seek and genuinel need to succeed in the game of business.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Keep it up ! </span></p>','2024-07-13 15:54:52.333','2024-07-14 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021','2024-07-14 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('76014c72-5742-4c12-9288-edd84f79df77','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">过渡期总有阵痛，閾態因此令人不舒服，但好消息是即便是不受欢迎的转变，事后回想起来，通常会和当下的看法不同。</span></p>','2024-07-14 01:02:29.877','2024-07-14 01:02:29.877',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 01:02:29.876',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人在自己的舒适圈里，觉得安全，就不会想去改变自己，这意味着不再成长，就只一支独秀，不能百花齐放。如果这不是你要的人生，就开始学习改变吧！</p>
<p>放下就如火箭升空，起飞时需要强大的推动力，然后推动力渐渐减轻，到最后到达无重力的太空，就可轻松漫游了。</p>','2024-08-29 02:44:21.897','2024-08-29 02:44:21.897',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 02:44:21.897',NULL,NULL);
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<li>转变让我们看起来伟大，不是目标</li>
<li>艰辛的转变其实能让我们了解人生最重大的意义</li>
<li>即便是不受欢迎的转变，事后回想起来，通常会和当下的看法不同</li>
</ul>','2024-07-14 02:40:03.531','2024-07-14 02:40:03.531',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 02:40:03.53',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('824b68ba-3c91-4bc2-87a9-12b9d55d6f8d','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>3.做有意义和有趣的事.这两个可以用我们自己来定义和选择.</p>
<p>4.知道自己和未来要的生活状态.Do happily on it&nbsp;</p>
<p>知道和做到可以很短或很长距离.it depends on me .动起来, Just do it🎯</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 02:31:25.433','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2443409f-c9b2-4831-8d2c-184e25f3c3b9','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 43 ：7月13日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：在落潮时抛竿（Page 231-234）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>变动是宇宙最主要的特性。<br>让自己平静的前提，是接受人生无常。</p>
<p>冥想无常。<br>理解无常只不过是大自然的状态</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day 44 ：7月14日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：在落潮时抛竿 Con&lsquo;t（Page 235-238）<br>🎯今日读后感悟</p>
<p>几乎每一个转变，即便是最不容易，也带来某些正面的果实，长期我们会拾起这些果实，加以珍惜。</p>
<p>转变让我们了解人生最重大的目的和意义。转换期带来成果。</p>
<p>人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而是在于转变。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 03:21:37.708','2024-07-14 03:24:06.99',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 03:24:06.989',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efe9aad0-cfdf-4ea8-93cd-4fb53dc1add5','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>改变是痛苦的，不改变会更痛苦</p>','2024-07-14 03:27:49.21','2024-07-14 03:27:49.21',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 03:27:49.209',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('804d2e31-df10-4c8a-9fd4-fd67a16ca117','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>&nbsp;人之所以偉大，不是目標偉大，而在於轉變。</p>
<p>轉換時期的痛苦，將創造出生活的意義，人因能安心度過後續的變勯，替老化與各種轉變帶來最大的安慰。</p>','2024-07-14 03:56:06.526','2024-07-14 03:56:06.526',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 03:56:06.526',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('71b96c58-e55f-4f22-9878-580069d12e43','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','77c4137c-93ad-42c0-8165-382807fec821','<p>作者自感生活空虚而勇于改变，非常赞。<br>但对一个求知欲不强的人， 如何走入突破之路，往往只能原地画圈。求知欲望该如何培养？</p>','2024-08-29 04:02:54.035','2024-08-29 04:02:54.035',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 04:02:54.034',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55eb6b5e-cab4-48c1-894e-5fd78cd12e41','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>组织要有一个共同的价值体系，这些价值观是以原则归依，深植每个人心中。</p>','2024-07-14 04:16:25.313','2024-07-14 04:31:42.218',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 04:31:42.217',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa2247ea-5b24-47e5-92a5-f333c63bdea6','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>开始时的转变让人不适应，不舒服，有时也会带来痛苦。然而，过后回想起，会觉得值得及快乐无穷。</p>
<p>人生要战斗，在行动中展现力量。人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在于转变。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 04:36:00.179','2024-07-14 04:36:00.179',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 04:36:00.178',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0a545561-cfa9-4172-a53a-a10dc3a6f1db','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>这四大策略说白了就是：- 简单点 - 对自己好一点 - 少执着 - 想做就做。</p>','2024-07-14 04:02:52.612','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1fbc45dd-3319-464e-9f53-95f7152e6005','5d374a99-83c4-4df9-82fe-fa9a6088aa50','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 25：9月8日《新零售狂潮》第三章：坪效革命：从人的角度理解新零售</p>
<p>流量：一切与消费者的触点（Page137-140）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>以&ldquo;流量思维&rdquo;思考用户在哪里，零售触角就去到那里。</p>','2024-09-08 14:34:51.154','2024-09-08 14:34:51.154',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 14:34:51.154',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('81f9e8a8-dd76-4191-b9b6-2ad1b7b485e2','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>感觉痛苦的转变,不一定是危机👍</p>
<p>爱迪生说&ldquo;人天生要战斗,而不是休息,人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大,不是目标伟大,而在于转变</p>','2024-07-14 05:27:51.021','2024-07-14 05:28:36.207',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 05:28:36.206',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd6ff0dd-60db-46b7-aad0-eebd1ef17e14','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>感觉痛苦的转变,不一定是危机👍</p>
<p>爱迪生说&ldquo;人天生要战斗,而不是休息,人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大,不是目标伟大,而在于转变</p>','2024-07-14 05:27:51.021','2024-07-14 05:29:12.884',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 05:29:12.883',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e29888b4-77a4-46d0-8249-c110c76fd33d','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>不要给我爱,不要给我金钱,不要给我名誉,请给我&ldquo;真理&rdquo;------梭罗</p>','2024-07-14 05:42:20.187','2024-07-14 05:42:20.187',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 05:42:20.186',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3d5eb3e3-1f87-4d8a-bfea-6879e0e51a47','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>匮乏思维的人目光短浅，只注重于眼下的利益，以至于陷入输赢的局面。</p>
<p>富足思维的人拥有远见，打破现有的局限，创造双赢局面。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 04:53:42.46','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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<li>找到你的棉花糖</li>
<li>工作本身就是奖励</li>
<li>尽可能做最有趣的事</li>
<li>转换跑道不必走直线</li>
</ol>','2024-07-14 07:03:27.753','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ee113ba1-4b4f-44af-9e6b-102d10ad6a33','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>给自己一个机会勇敢做自己~&nbsp;</p>
<p>最后一句：既然知道该怎么做，别想了！就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-14 04:06:23.372','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b717f9a0-2cf7-49c2-9209-86d4021f6378','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>好好想一想，你今日真正想要的东西，而不是你过去追求的东西。</p>','2024-07-14 07:08:57.782','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('44f7e6df-0f1f-4969-a426-80ecfaf651fb','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>人生🈶很多阶段.不同阶段的不同的东西.这就是人生体验.每个过程都带来不同的体验.凭着自己的原则和良知来处事.</p>
<p>在人生第3阶段,用淡定,从容,自在的心态来处事.做好自己的大石头🙏</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 04:51:31.488','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('56811de5-2e50-462a-ad7a-585f70f35bd4','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>1) 作者让我&ldquo;看见&rdquo;了多数人在面对衰退或转折时，坦然接受并活出不一样人生与恐惧面对自怨自艾的区别。</p>
<p>对欲望与成就不能贪恋。要为自己的人生找到持久的满足感便是不断活出有意义的人生、创造价值与抱持服务他人的心。</p>
<p>每个际遇都是成长的机会。懂得善用晶体智力的人，会善用自己的价值来贡献社会活出精彩。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2）都很好。谢谢Rina提供这平台，可以预先写报告。</p>','2024-07-14 03:53:52.862','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8efe71c-084b-4185-8b2e-5c7602b6c563','4e2426c5-d15e-4057-9626-f1535ef0f50d','43e1cf80-39a6-4b94-9bd5-5b7fbf1b387f','<p>沒有參與，就不會有投入。記下來，畫上星標符號，圈起來，下划線提醒自己。</p>','2024-09-27 11:10:39.002','2024-10-09 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-10-09 00:00:00.012','2024-10-09 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('caa3e5a7-5932-4e30-96d2-955163a4d800','659e027a-236d-4696-9f86-ca57ebbfd0d7','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>人性, 道德，法律， 驾驶着这社会运作的脉搏。</p>','2024-12-02 11:02:58.238','2024-12-02 11:02:58.238',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-02 11:02:58.237',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11013b30-fe2c-4c1f-a5cb-3e420d67869d','4991cd2c-e98b-4f5a-a740-70b03352d039','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>把注意力放在我们想要的事物上，</p>
<p>而非害怕的事物上。</p>','2024-12-04 14:29:33.1','2024-12-04 14:29:33.1',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-12-04 14:29:33.099',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e779128d-7bd6-4176-ba23-b35d41430431','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 导致判断扭曲的三个原因</p>
<p>1) 文化</p>
<p>2）次文化</p>
<p>3）强烈的情绪、强势的个人或令人信服的哲学思想</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">～ 当这三种力量结合在一起时，就会产生强烈的扭曲，这种扭曲有时候甚至连我们</span>自己都不会发现，一直以为自己还在向着正北方前进</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 若没能以相同的愿景集结所有人，若没有借助正确原则的力量，一切都会混淆不清；当我们以互信、自由与资讯公开的环境凝聚所有人，展现对彼此的尊重，并寻求统合综效，所有人也会将彼此的差异视为优势</p>','2024-07-14 08:46:56.569','2024-07-14 08:46:56.569',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 08:46:56.568',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dee05d26-a17a-460e-a243-359bcda97869','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>在一个工作岗位久了 突然愿意急流勇退 而且下一步要做些也不晓得 有几人敢冒险？</p>
<p>人生下半场 换跑道不一定是因为中年危机 而是重启人生。但自己要摸索想办法。</p>
<p>分享人生中学到的心得 可以创造重大价值。</p>
<p>人生的下一段.........</p>
<p>您会从事哪些活动？</p>
<p>您会改造哪些活动，换个什么方式进行？</p>
<p>您打算放弃哪些活动？</p>
<p>您将学习哪些新活动？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不久的将来 要开始的事.......</p>
<p>接下来一个星期 打算做哪些事 以蜕变新的自己？</p>
<p>接下来一个月 计划做些什么？</p>
<p>接下来六个月 要做些什么？</p>
<p>接下来一年 在自己的努力下 希望最先出现什么成果？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不管多少岁数 重新出发从来不会太晚。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 13:55:37.368','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83ec2e79-179f-4cf9-8803-9638dd1a99dd','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>因為有許多誘惑性的訊息力量在作祟，媒體向我們傳達許多訊息，都在誘使我們忽略良知，放縱自己做我們想做的事，所以有這麼多個人與組織，成了迷途羔羊。</p>
<p>一旦人門依循業界慣例或自我的標準，為自己暗中進行的或貪婪商業操作加以辯解，就會迷失方向。</p>','2024-07-14 09:26:51.07','2024-07-14 09:26:51.07',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 09:26:51.069',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1073202-883f-436a-b7c6-bdaa41c878b3','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>现代诱惑太多，随时被影响而扭曲我们的价值观。再说，很多人都自认自己价值观永远是正确的。作为好领导，永远保持谦卑，谦卑帮助我们走得更远。</p>','2024-07-14 09:51:45.874','2024-07-14 09:51:45.874',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 09:51:45.873',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4a265088-cfc6-4cff-a2db-73d98cdc68e1','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>人天生要战斗,而不是休息,人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大,不是目标伟大,而在于转变.</p>','2024-07-14 09:56:06.949','2024-07-14 09:56:06.949',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 09:56:06.949',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('46e95c3b-55b9-40db-ba4d-d0b03e1f5fb6','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>保持谦卑，并愿意放下身段，与其他人分享权力，那么内部与外部影响力将可以得到很大的提升。</p>
<p>谦卑使我们和自然法则保持和谐的关系，一旦违反，一定会受伤。</p>','2024-07-14 10:38:30.18','2024-07-14 10:38:30.18',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 10:38:30.179',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('69bea0e4-87fc-402c-bd75-20e0517a19d5','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>优秀的领导人懂得保持谦卑，并愿意放下身段，与他人分享权力。我希望能够在未来的团体活动中能够扮演这样的领导人，带领团队一起取得首要成就！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>文化、次文化和哲学思想都会影响我们的判断能力，作为优秀的领导人，就应该把团体拉回正轨，可在办公室或家里问大家：&ldquo;我们的目的或使命是什么？我们达成这个目的的主要策略是什么？&rdquo;，建立良好的文化，集结相同愿景的人，以正确的原则为中心，判断我们面对各种情况应该做的事。</p>','2024-07-14 10:55:04.848','2024-07-14 10:55:04.848',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 10:55:04.847',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa43833b-be52-45b5-a6d5-7cd10698bb90','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>生命沒那么难，难在往往给自己想得太多。</p>','2024-07-14 11:14:12.185','2024-07-14 11:14:12.185',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 11:14:12.185',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e185be5-2bf3-4106-9fb6-e6ec2aa71600','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day22：9月 8日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;12.努力无极限 &ndash; 13. 站在巨人的肩膀上（Page136-140）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">普通努力才会让人累、超级努力就不累了。就如稻盛和夬付出不亚于任何努力。无论是体能或精神专注力，无论在高压或自发状态下人的潜能都超乎自己的日常里。不要小看自己的能力。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">站在巨人的肩膀上的确是可以看到很多的事情，只要肯透&rdquo;我願&rdquo;、放下&rdquo;我執&rdquo;。不断把自己修练好。</span></p>','2024-09-08 14:40:29.933','2024-09-08 14:40:29.933',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 14:40:29.932',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ed3f70e0-33d9-4267-839e-0c62b9d8519d','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>不是说我们要去的方向，北方，就一定能够到达。一路上有很多障碍，其中最大的障碍就是来自文化-我们身所处之地，次文化，我们心所处之人文环境，外加情绪，自我主张等等都会让我们乖离正北方的方向。</p>','2024-07-14 13:36:32.214','2024-07-14 13:36:32.214',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:36:32.213',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('49ce7752-be09-4932-8552-e022c11c7ee0','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">正北的方向永</span><span class="s2">远只有一个，但文化，次文化和强烈的情绪和哲学思想都有可能影响罗盘的指向，让我们迷失了真正的方向。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">保持谦卑能使我们和自然法则保持和谐的关系，防止一意孤行地踏上傲慢与错误的路。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">尝试在日记中写下你生活中扭曲讯息的来源，你的人生使命是什么还有你达到它的策略为何？拟定短期计划，固定地去重覆这件事，能让我们有很好的指引朝着正北方向前行。</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:29:28.614','2024-07-14 13:29:28.614',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:29:28.613',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5edfbac5-cb45-43ed-81ef-f81159854384','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。</p>
<p>把爱用在错误的地方，</p>
<p>踏上欲望跑步机，只会徒劳无功。</p>','2024-07-14 11:31:42.043','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2e96da11-ec90-4e80-9af5-26ca9d5efcae','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>赞👍！ 特别喜欢Schedule Comment 功能！轻松地把重启人生看完！</p>','2024-07-14 11:34:02.796','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7dfe92e-a609-449d-b2f4-0d8e9298585a','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>*培育个人独特的天赋*<br>我现在才知道原来天赋是可以培育的，之前还以为就是以生具来，就有的过人之处。那我就要好好看，细心看，练就后天之赋吧😁<br>书里说到有四个方法：<br>1. 每天写日记培育自觉力，每天深入分析与评价自己当天的经历，然后写下自己的成果。<br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;还要学习，倾听及做出回应，培育良知。要清楚听见良知的声音，，进入反省及沉思的状态。确保把最多精力与精神放在日记本记录最重要的优先目标。<br>2. 努力追求健全的人生：就像运动员不断的学习练习，才能处于最佳状态。只有诚然的奋斗，选择良知与道德的方向前行。<br>3. 悦现承诺，培育独立意志：一点一滴做起，言行一致，建立信任。<br>4. 透过视觉化开发创造性的想象力。想象自己现在的处境是不是根据原则的价值观做出反应。预测未来最好的方法去创造。<br>根据正确的原则宣言，稳健扎根，就能提升自己的生活品质迎接好的结果。</p>','2024-07-14 11:41:56.187','2024-07-14 11:41:56.187',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 11:41:56.186',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6de21361-c46d-4fad-b92d-53635bc0d4cd','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人类思想免不了环境、资讯、经验等影响。而其中不少是好的，但也有不少属于劣质。它们有的对我们有益，有的则危害人类。</p>
<p>因此，人需要多学习、思考，以便将错误降到最低。</p>','2024-07-14 11:43:54.838','2024-07-14 11:43:54.838',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 11:43:54.837',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7a106699-f5df-4b5e-a95b-ba61549fbd75','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>持谦卑之心，与自然法则保持和谐关系，遵守原则，每个人都能坦然面对成功与失败 （包括财富与名誉）。</p>','2024-07-14 12:14:09.018','2024-07-14 12:14:09.018',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 12:14:09.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2bc3e20e-7f48-47f6-826b-4f11b1c4762b','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>投资未来幸福，永远不会太早或太晚。</p>
<p>分享自己在人生中学到的心得，可以创造重大的价值。</p>','2024-07-14 13:11:30.145','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('12ca9731-2ead-457f-9e67-07f0b324abd3','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>每次痛苦的转变都带来某些正面的果实，让我们变得更成熟和稳定。当看透了这点后每次面对改变的心态是复杂的，不仅是抗拒和痛苦、其实也带点兴奋和期待。 what we want is behind of fear.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>思想家爱默生写道：&nbsp;</p>
<p>人天生要战斗，而不是休息。人在行动中展示力量；人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在于转变。</p>','2024-07-14 12:43:16.77','2024-07-14 12:43:54.762',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 12:43:54.761',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0d869a4a-2b3f-4555-8b31-8057d998b3cc','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 14：7月14日《成功哪有那么难》第一部如何获得手要成就</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第四章保持在正确的方向上&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 77 - 84）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">只有公司上上下下了解公司的使命、目标与策略，大家都有同一个想法和共同语言，才能达到公司的使命。而不是放在墙上，老板自己自high..&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">全体员工要常沟通。</span></p>','2024-07-14 12:49:51.512','2024-07-14 12:49:51.512',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 12:49:51.511',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4024924c-4792-4d47-a06e-7615ce402171','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>谦卑使我们与自然法则保持和谐关系，一旦违反，必定受伤。</p>','2024-07-14 12:58:48.556','2024-07-14 12:58:48.556',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 12:58:48.556',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('241cd450-78d7-4970-afeb-2db82e26c106','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day22：9月 8日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生<br>第四章： 更好的自己 &nbsp;12.努力无极限 &ndash; 13. 站在巨人的肩膀上（Page136-140）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p><br><strong>努力无极限</strong><br>人的潜能都超乎自己日常的理解。努力也是无限的。<br>觉得累了，更不应放弃，更应该加把劲。就有可能突破自我，迎来不一样成就。</p>
<p><br><strong>站在巨人的肩膀上</strong></p>
<p>人生必修是学"智慧" 。要花99分努力向高手学。</p>','2024-09-08 15:02:08.162','2024-09-08 15:02:08.162',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 15:02:08.161',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0e9fe86-601b-4608-9688-003faae50522','6763357d-93b0-4762-8330-91fab5a98a48','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>对人就不累。</p>
<p>知道自己没什么会累。其实是心累。自己找的。别把重心放在事上。把重心放在了就不累了。Boleh</p>
<p>工作伙伴不再是同事，而是同仁 同修,更加Boleh.(不累)</p>
<p>忙茫盲芒</p>
<p>如果把时间花在重要的事，而不是不重要但很紧急的事，效果就不一样。</p>
<p>解锁这个忙就是活在当下。心时时活在当下，就能生命前进，增长力量就能带动别人一起前进。</p>','2024-09-24 02:08:41.397','2024-09-24 02:08:55.422',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 02:08:55.421',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('706b76ae-f1da-43dd-a684-e7df9789db32','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>以互信、自由与资讯公开的环境，将家人或团队成员凝聚在一起，所有人就会有相同的基本价值观，而这个价值观是以原则为归依，因此得以深植每个人心中。</p>','2024-07-14 13:16:44.377','2024-07-14 13:16:44.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:16:44.376',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dabac674-67cf-4c56-a5cb-f812e2c07b3f','f001ed60-e5c3-4067-bec9-5fab33f55fa9','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>The best way to improve the team is to improve yourself.</p>
<p>It is indeed we must think to train our staff instead of worried to losing them. We need them to support our mission and vision.</p>','2024-07-14 13:17:38.531','2024-07-14 13:17:38.531',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:17:38.53',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f4c617f5-0f5d-48d2-85c9-22259a237532','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>优秀的领导人懂得保持谦卑，并愿意放下身段</p>','2024-07-14 13:23:28.041','2024-07-14 13:23:28.041',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:23:28.041',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf78debd-6c4c-411b-b95d-07e4f4d488a0','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>改变是为了更好，而不是保持不变</p>
<p><br>爱迪生</p>
<p>人天生要战斗,而不是休息,人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大,不是目标伟大,而在于转变.</p>','2024-07-14 13:26:41.423','2024-07-14 13:26:41.423',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:26:41.423',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d7aed56-62b0-4e5f-880d-9bfbe0666fc1','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>人生应该为求得更美好而不断地求变。只有遇上难关我们才会想改变。每个转变都是契机。</p>','2024-07-14 13:31:45.211','2024-07-14 13:31:45.211',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:31:45.21',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e184823-072b-48b3-87cd-de30c4af37a0','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>确實現今自己還在适應及調整這幾個月来的轉變，盼如書上所言，即便是不受歡迎的轉變, 事后回想起来, 通常會和當下的看法不同. 因為我們一般都有着&ldquo;情感衰退偏差&rdquo;, 會傾向忘掉不開心，只記得住開心的部分. 要知道轉變讓我們看起来偉大，不是目標！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 13:50:27.763','2024-07-14 13:50:27.763',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 13:50:27.762',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('337a373d-d13d-431a-93fd-66d5b2d38602','46d25138-8e19-4278-bc6a-95b10ed0c564','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p>我深刻感受到&ldquo;如同孩子一样&rdquo;的重要性。我们常常被成就、地位和荣誉所束缚，忘记了生活的本质。就像孩子们那样，能够全心投入、享受当下，才能找到真正的快乐。</p>
<p>在陪伴小朋友时，那种无忧无虑的状态，真的很美好。成年人总是忙于工作和责任，常常带着压力回家，反而失去了与家人分享快乐的机会。学会放下成就感，像孩子一样去体验生活，才能让自己更轻松、更快乐。</p>
<p>另外，洞察力也让我意识到，生活中的许多事情其实都很简单。就像孩子们的游戏，表面上看似复杂，实际上不过是追求快乐和友谊。我们也可以用这种简单的心态去看待工作和人际关系，找到更深层次的意义。</p>','2024-09-20 15:24:48.377','2024-09-20 15:24:48.377',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:24:48.376',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('329c09b6-2507-41f1-9021-fcca39c74a05','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">投资未来的幸福，为自己重启人生做好准备。分享智慧是一种</span><span class="s2">empowerment</span><span class="s1">，做现代长者，培育新时代去青出于蓝，非常有意义！</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:59:31.35','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb3a9baa-2e70-4578-b71c-aa13c070da6b','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>人类的极限是可以＂被迫＂出来的，普通的努力很累，废寝忘食的超级努力就不累了。</p>
<p>聪明不等于智慧。人生成就与幸福，几乎与智慧画上等号。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-29 06:16:34.676','2024-09-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,'f','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021','2024-09-08 00:00:00.021',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc43d17b-f07f-4a69-963a-462b0d48a1b5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">你知道自己想要的是什么吗？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">三个重点帮你寻找答案：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">1⃣️</span><span class="s1">把思维改成：工作本身就是奖励</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">2⃣️</span><span class="s1">尽可能做最有趣的事情</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">3⃣️</span><span class="s1">转换跑道不必走直线</span> <span class="s1">（</span><span class="s3">steady state career </span><span class="s1">在第二曲线不太适用了，采用转换行职涯</span><span class="s3">transitory career </span><span class="s1">或</span> <span class="s1">螺旋型职涯</span><span class="s3"> spiral career) - </span><span class="s1">转换领域但还是能利用从之前领域的成功获得的能力</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">度过转换期就如同跳下悬崖峭壁，要踏出那一步很需要勇气，很艰难，实际上也可能会有痛苦，对未知充满恐惧，但是</span><span class="s3">-</span><span class="s1">跳吧！</span> <span class="s1">跳了之后你会感觉到重生的快乐</span></p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 14:00:43.456','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6406eace-726a-4f04-aa32-009a3a8ed45f','5d374a99-83c4-4df9-82fe-fa9a6088aa50','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>新零售，主要要有&ldquo;流量思维&rdquo;，用户在哪里，就往哪去找。要不断的去探索蒐集流量的新触点，并把每一个新触点得来的用户进入销售漏斗成交。</p>','2024-09-08 15:10:14.258','2024-09-08 15:10:14.258',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 15:10:14.257',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77639c47-13c2-4a8e-af52-d156d048fbaf','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>13/7 （ 补）</p>
<p>在人生的落潮时期，我们应学会以活力和信心迎接这个转折点。把它视为令人兴奋的冒险，充满前所未有的机会。不要因为困境而感到迷茫和恐惧，仿佛经历中年危机、所有努力正在消失。相反，这正是重新发现自我、开启新篇章的时刻。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>14/7</p>
<p>冥想的目的是在平静中观察并接受每一秒的变化。例如，在不加评判的状态下，注意自己的思绪和观念的变化。人类天生为了行动而非安逸，在行动中展现出力量。人的伟大不在于目标的宏大，而在于转变的过程。</p>','2024-07-14 13:58:06.693','2024-07-14 14:13:54.848',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 14:13:54.847',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c978bfcb-4713-4a21-ae91-d162b1bee992','78e17a97-8078-4228-a453-9232aabcc994','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学感恩-何为感恩？感恩是有条件的吗？作者道出从前的自己对于要感恩的人是选择性的，是经过自己衡量筛选的，这是大不应该。毕竟没有人有义务要对我们好，给我们帮助，所人任何对我们有恩的人，我们都该感恩。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学信任-疑人不用，用人不疑。在任何的交涉中，我们都应该相信，不止是人、更多的是事请本身。因为，只要我们相信、我们才会付诸努力，去把事情给实现。</span></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">学面对脾气-每个人都有脾气，要怎么拿捏，不是每个人都能处理得好事。作者有深度的分道出要怎么去接受别人的情绪，并且道出自己&ldquo;隐藏的情绪&rdquo;背后的逃避。我们都该勇敢坦荡的面对自己和别人的情绪，才能和解前进</span></li>
</ul>','2024-09-16 07:15:00.861','2024-09-16 07:15:00.861',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 07:15:00.86',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c395975-0941-457f-9158-df7629f98a9c','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">能延</span><span class="s2">迟享乐，做出牺牲，挨得苦的人更容易取得后来的成功。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">你知道自己想要的是什么吗？</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">三个重点帮你寻找答案：</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">把思维改成：工作本身就是奖励</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">尽可能做最有趣的事情</span></p>','2024-07-14 14:00:01.997','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p>Pg 232 - 238</p>
<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>你以为的绝境，藏着丰收的秘密</p>
<p>人天生要战斗，而不是休息。人在行动中展现力量；人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而是在于转变的伟大。</p>','2024-07-14 14:16:31.335','2024-07-14 14:16:39.313',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 14:16:39.312',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fe6d60b9-7f78-4669-97e4-3c465b7b9d13','aafc9fc0-d77b-47f0-81d1-625dc44ea49e','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>Pg 41 - 45</p>
<p>【高效能人士的七习惯】</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>【思维转换的力量】</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>最重要的启示应该是思维转换</p>
<p>即某个人从另一个角度看问题的【顿悟感】</p>
<p>【打破】传统、旧思维、旧模式，才得以成功</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不是所有思维转换都是积极的</p>
<p>从品德到个人魅力</p>
<p>让人偏离了通向成功与幸运的轨道</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>地铁内的爸爸与打闹的孩子的例子</p>
<p>妻子或母亲刚刚离世</p>
<p>瞬间转换的思维方式</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>实质的生活变化还是靠思维的转换</p>
<p>行为和态度是枝叶</p>
<p>思维方式就是根基</p>
<p>抓着根本才能让人生活出现实性的进展</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>【身体力行】</p>
<p>思维方式之所以强大，是因为这构成了我们观察世界的窗口</p>','2024-09-20 15:10:18.062','2024-09-20 15:10:18.062',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:10:18.061',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ba5fa7ca-838d-4a73-a26c-c8f0285b82c9','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>人生会有许多的转折点。不管是否做好准备，她都会发生，有些还是无法预知的转变。就如covid-19。</p>
<p>好多人的生活模式，甚至是企业营运都有所改变。</p>
<p>人之所以伟大，就是为了生存，对不停地奋斗。当发现目前的方法不行的时候，就会做出改变。</p>
<p>可以不改吗？当然可以。但你的人生就会在原地打转。</p>
<p>以不变应万变，但陷入困境的时候，就需要有所改变。</p>','2024-07-14 14:37:55.803','2024-07-14 14:37:56.904',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 14:37:56.903',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1cba1ca7-8ca1-4953-8533-56629c701202','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>人生大部分的转变都是非自愿的，转变时期的痛苦，将创造出生活的意义。</p>','2024-07-14 14:48:12.973','2024-07-14 14:48:12.973',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 14:48:12.972',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('001b2b62-b105-48b0-8b92-73524d726c1c','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>最优秀的领导人懂得保持谦卑，且愿意放下身段，与他人分享权力，他们的内部与外部影响力，也因此获得提升</p>
<p>以互信、自由与资讯公开的环境，将家人或团队成员凝聚在一起，所有人就会有相同的基本价值观，而这个价值观是以原则为归依，因此得以深植每个人心中。</p>','2024-07-14 14:50:14.411','2024-07-14 14:50:14.411',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 14:50:14.41',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d2de313-97b8-4c1d-bf91-c8ca71b977f9','c72a4129-61b0-4a41-9daf-2141a1300999','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>新零售不仅仅是线上或线下的运营，而是通过数据赋能，将用户体验与运营效率提升到新高度。这种结合为零售业注入了新的活力，使其更精准、更高效地满足消费者需求。</p>','2024-08-29 08:14:27.387','2024-08-29 08:14:27.387',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 08:14:27.386',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b0f4f397-ffe8-4c41-8a12-d13019c9c556','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>一切都会过去的。</p>
<p>回首看回人生的每一个坎，都是成就更好自己的因缘。相信一切都是最好的安排。</p>','2024-07-14 15:15:45.961','2024-07-14 15:15:45.961',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 15:15:45.96',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6c39490f-f985-4b30-a3cb-53296a7f0d1b','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>人天生要战斗,而不是休息。人在行动中展现力量。人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在于转变。</p>','2024-07-14 15:19:39.004','2024-07-14 15:19:39.004',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 15:19:39.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e8d3626-cf70-4d7e-bef9-459facfe7816','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>即使是不受欢迎的转变，事后回想起来，通常会和当下的看法不同。</p>
<p>人天生要战斗，而不是休息。人在行动中展现力量，人之所以伟大，不是目标伟大，而在於转变</p>','2024-07-14 15:21:49.79','2024-07-14 15:21:49.79',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 15:21:49.789',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7920488a-e1d7-4361-a644-3b9a1effa2a3','bba6c301-1327-42ac-b23d-73e9ac934a70','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>Difficult transformation allows us to understand life''s purpose.</p>
<p>Thus temporary unhappiness during painful struggles is necessary.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 15:37:36.848','2024-07-14 15:37:36.848',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 15:37:36.848',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1ec24bf0-08f8-40f8-8c61-7cdbc44e43c3','6607caa8-2ac0-4436-b0a1-29756eff638e','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>应该组织必须要有相同的愿景，借助原则的力量，凝聚，尊重所有人，结合所有潜在优势。</p>','2024-07-14 15:39:33.956','2024-07-14 15:39:33.956',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 15:39:33.955',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8972fdf-c6ce-479e-8dcb-4d3abdd70316','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>这里我的理解是生命能廷续就是意义。善根即是勤劳朴实，善解人意，生命得以延续。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>持续性，用心带着爱的能量<br>说你所做的<br>做你所说的</p>','2024-09-08 15:33:01.272','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0d8e8f39-10dd-41da-b190-8bfdae63727c','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>中年危机这名词含负面意义，应该说中年困扰。此事的确会发生，发生时，我们应该做什么？人生前半生所做的事，不能一直做下去。应该想想应该如何改变。</p>
<p>《人生下半场》这本书建议我们转换目标，从上半场的&ldquo;追求个人成就&rdquo;转换成&ldquo;追求有意义的人生&rdquo;。不同目标就做不同的事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 22:14:18.829','2024-07-14 22:14:18.829',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 22:14:18.829',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('539d6b44-ebea-477d-9162-beaf8a1ee4fd','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>你要看到天空的星星或是地上的烂泥，这取决你把视角放在哪里？</p>
<p>就是看到地上的烂泥，也可以有正面的反应。烂泥可以种花草。种满了美丽花草树木的烂泥就变成美丽的风景了！</p>','2024-07-14 22:25:02.579','2024-07-14 22:25:02.579',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 22:25:02.575',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('42147eb7-e31d-45b4-9f58-b7893c87ab0d','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机。每一个心痛，每一个挫折，每一个失败，背后一定会有更大利益的种子。我们感觉到流体智力走下坡因些必须改变。如果我们知道背后还有晶体智力曲线，重新规划人生</p>','2024-07-14 22:51:47.656','2024-07-14 22:51:47.656',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 22:51:47.655',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88a67d94-393f-488f-bc49-9c12aa019ce2','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>*重新设定思维模式*<br>从现在开始，要把更多心思放在领导🤵工作，减少警察叔叔👮🏻的管理工作。应该深思如何可以做到生活中有平衡的人生八大块，即健康，事业，家庭，社会，心灵，财富，学习，休闲会来得更有意义。</p>','2024-07-14 23:18:20.448','2024-07-14 23:18:20.448',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-14 23:18:20.447',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('471e91c6-c249-47bf-870b-d9c937fb71f3','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>一切的一切&nbsp; 究竟是为了什么?</p>
<p>从人一出生、就会老、病与死，因此生死乃是人生大事。</p>
<p>一切的一切 得人身，都是为往生而准备。</p>
<p>人从哪里来，又往哪里去？</p>','2024-07-14 15:08:02.056','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('95a5645d-7834-4ae1-8f85-74c6149d2432','5a680903-37dd-429a-9e8e-17080898ea51','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>在许多年前，我上过《7 Habits》的线下课程，当时才刚踏入社会，对于这本书的内容也没太领悟。 直到近这几年，一直很希望可以重读这本书，但都被自己各种借口打住，还好有Rina的这个读书会，这次没借口不去做了。</p>
<p>在这一篇序中，我发现一个人的能不能成功，并非完全是命好，也要这个人脚踏实地实践。 我很认同文中提到，这本书不是教会我们如何成功，而是塑造我们的性格，改变我们的DNA，比尔盖兹就是活生生的例子。</p>
<p>生活是起起落落，也充满着许多的挑战，而《7 Habits》就能够稳住心中的焦虑，并有确切的方法来面对它、解决它。&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 07:50:53.57','2024-09-16 07:50:53.57',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 07:50:53.569',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('52cdba0e-4c26-4078-86fb-c6d1722d82cb','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>我们的行为取决于个人对世界的看法。这些信念会形成心灵的禁锢。禁锢心灵的根源有四种：</p>
<p>情感牢笼-被别人贴上标签，【他讨厌我；我不信任他；他有偏见；他待人不公平。】他们会依照这个看法对待你。解决方法：付出应付出的，以求放出牢笼。唯有承认自己犯的错，並寻求对方原谅，我们才能走出牢房。</p>
<p>吹毛求疵的毛病-紧盯别人的错误瞧，将自己的错误合理化，然后试图纠正别人的过失。解决方法：纠正别人前先自我反省。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-01 07:42:55.666','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('195c7989-04c0-4fd7-8322-fed769cbd271','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>我们通常会假设，中年的重大转变就是危机。作者也指出中年为止一词是因为一九七十年代后作家希海出版了一本超级畅销书，《迈向成熟》对整个时代的影响。书中最有名的例子就是迪罗伦，通用汽车的前高层。转型，转换跑道都会让人感到害怕不安。但是大多数人都没碰上自己所想象的危机。</p>','2024-07-06 14:14:24.66','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b4af5166-dcc0-4f4f-9dea-a20d4aa64094','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 45 ：7月15日 星期一&nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机（Page 238-242）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机-疫情已经证明了。害怕肯定有，忧郁也是有，但是稳住心态，再出发。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">总而言之，没人注定会在中年时，一时脑袋不清楚，。不过，我们的确知道人在成年生活的中段，自然而然容易经历重大转折。我们感受到流体智力走下坡，因此必须改变。如果我们知道背后还有晶体智力曲线，重新规划人生，此时我们将进入阈态，进入转型期。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-07 13:36:04.589','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('76a71ea0-73d2-45f9-9eda-542d35261495','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>&ldquo;中年危机&rdquo; 对于我来面对这一词来说，这是一个预警，而不是个问题。因为是个可能会发生的事情，也可以预先做规划的。所以调整好面对中年期，有即时转变的心态，再不适应也不会太痛苦。</p>','2024-07-11 00:33:24.244','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('01102101-880e-4865-af26-c39e0c9d3a04','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>没人注定在中年的时候，一时脑袋不清醒，变成另一个迪罗伦。</p>
<p>中年生活自然而然会容易经历重大转折，身体也不好，因此必须改变，中年危机虽有危，也带來了机，生机或机会。</p>
<p>重新调整，重新规画人生，进入转型期，可能会焦虑不安，但不代表心智错乱。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-11 06:25:15.159','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fab663f2-ad43-4c92-b830-c4a7df92c4c4','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 45 ：7月15日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机（Page 238-242）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>试着去感受，让自己静下来、慢下来，坚持这个习惯，从生活的细节里，获得更多的&ldquo;平静的力量&rdquo;。</p>
<p><strong>能足以对抗生活的荒谬与虚无的，唯有将生活本身，变成一场有趣的冒险。</strong></p>','2024-07-12 13:27:10.051','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('87b8b25c-8419-4b91-ad47-58f0a5ef24d0','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>重新设定思维模式<br><br>&rdquo;纠正别人之前，先反思自己&ldquo;<br>我们首先要处理的是自己的缺失~<br><br></p>','2024-07-12 13:57:46.126','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3d1ca1a-831b-46e6-9599-7129f6464ce8','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">影响我们行为的信念系统，主要根源</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1. 情感牢笼 ：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>- 原因 ：当我们令他人失望或冒犯对方时，对方可能会给我们贴上负面的标签，使我们陷入对方的情感牢笼中。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>- 解决方法 ：承认自己的错误，并寻求对方的原谅，才能走出情感牢笼。</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2. 吹毛求疵的毛病 ：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>- 原因 ：我们习惯于挑剔他人的缺点，而忽略自己的重大缺失。这会导致我们无法正确看待问题，甚至将自己的缺点投射到他人身上。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>- 解决方法 ：在纠正他人之前，先自我反省，处理自己的缺失。这样才能看清真相，并帮助他人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">克服这些心灵的牢笼，需要我们认清自己的缺点，承认错误，寻求原谅，并在纠正他人之前，先进行自我反省。这样，我们才能摆脱禁锢，实现真正的进步和成长。</span></p>','2024-07-13 10:56:14.268','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55c7c385-ece9-49c7-b9e2-52e5fcbf9ab5','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">禁锢心灵的根源：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">情感牢笼</span><span class="s2"> - </span><span class="s1">当我们令人失望或和对方起争议时就会被关进对方的情感牢笼，并被贴上标签；想要被释放出来，就得付出代价，承认自己的错误，寻求对方原谅</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">吹毛求疵的毛病</span><span class="s2">- </span><span class="s1">我们习惯用放大镜检视他人的缺点，却忘了先自己反省自己的缺失和缺点。</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:56:01.55','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c131a4e5-6142-405e-9c60-7d083226daa6','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>我思故我在。我们的行为取决于自己对世界的看法。积极，消极，正面，负面</p>
<p>禁锢心灵的根源。</p>
<p>1.情感牢笼，極度生气的时候做出决定就会伤害对方。</p>
<p>解决方案，付出应付的代价，以求被放出牢笼。</p>
<p>承认自己的错误，寻求对方的原谅，真诚道歉。自己要忏悔，及修补破裂的关系。</p>
<p>2.吹毛求疵的毛病。</p>
<p>永远是别人的错，用放大镜看对方的错误。自己是完美的。如果自己有私心，这样也会千百个理由找借口。有时可能出发点是对的，但用错方法。这也要反省。</p>
<p>解决方案，纠正别人之前先自我反省。对自己负起责任，放下受害者心态，学习面对问题，处理他。</p>','2024-07-13 16:00:31.785','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('babf64e2-4384-46ed-b3c0-4a3ffdb2d22e','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>对世界的看法始于我们的眼界。把景象看为烂泥或是星空取决于我们的心态。</p>
<p>人们容易陷入情感牢笼，认为自己的不如意是他人造成的。承认自己的过错，寻求对方谅解，才能走出牢笼。</p>
<p>人们也习惯性地双标。对他人的要求远高于自己，对自己的过错却理所当然。纠正别人之前，先自我反省，才能得到他人的尊重。</p>','2024-07-14 04:31:24.828','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e044885-0fc4-40c5-90e8-bd3638183832','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>读了这一篇，令我联想到马云大哥的一番话 &ldquo;30歲跟別人幹，40歲為自己幹，50歲要給別人幹，要給別人機會、給年輕人機會&rdquo;。他告诉我们，每一个阶段的年龄，都有不一样的任务和学习。</p>
<p>不要&ldquo;我执&rdquo;，无知的认为每个阶段都可以用同样的方法去经营；必须学会&ldquo;接受&rdquo;，才能&ldquo;放下&rdquo;。人生才会美好。享受过程。</p>','2024-07-14 08:49:39.771','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c3d9a926-e645-4b77-af69-61d42eb27171','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>一切的一切 究竟为了什么？</p>
<p>当人们来到流体智力衰退后 焦虑随至而临。</p>
<p>有些人 活得行尸走肉、糜烂不起、消极颓废等。</p>
<p>犹如机械 总有一天被报废。</p>
<p>人来到中年 有所谓的中年危机。</p>
<p>但大部分的人没碰上这危机 而是中年转机。</p>
<p>知道衰退了 作出改变 重新规划人生 调整心态 步入转型期。</p>
<p>懂得急流勇退 是善待自己最大功劳。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 13:35:42.044','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2663ff8e-2c0e-40e8-bb7d-0b8d38436cbf','6a0ca906-6e6a-4e0a-aade-378ddae21faf','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>Gain many knowledge of marketing strategies. I hope to have chance to make use in the future. I appreciate this platform for giving me this opportunity to learn.</p>','2024-07-14 13:22:14.191','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6294e6e2-eb11-4e4b-bf41-9dc94127c28c','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>如果我们知道背后还有晶体智力曲线，重新规划人生，此时我们将进入阈态，进入转型期。即与亲友的关系更好，成为启发他人的模范。</p>','2024-07-14 13:03:59.671','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f605d4d-f515-43a0-b9b6-7be7aa6c01bb','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>在纠正别人之前，先进行自我反省。要改善任何情况，我们首先需要处理自己的不足之处。</p>','2024-07-14 13:28:31.206','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afc44f88-4939-4759-b9ed-b6d7eb0395d0','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;要改變任何情況， 先要處理自己的缺失， 缺失除去后，才能看清楚真實情況。 並幫助他人，這样才能化身為光亮，而非以法官自居。負起責任，放下受害者心態，学习面對問題。</p>','2024-07-14 13:35:21.839','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('585cca9b-7188-437f-a1cb-0b461d9ebeb7','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">步入中年不一定会遇上危机，转折点不一定都会是负面的，只要我们意识到还有第二曲线的存在，我们要做的是如何让自己在完全走下坡前及时跳上第二曲线，急流勇退。</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:58:12.879','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f04c872-a4a6-43d6-906a-2fcdc83edd0a','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>中年不一定是危机，只要清楚自己的目标！</p>','2024-07-14 14:16:03.948','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c14de09e-1306-48b7-a69a-16d6dbb4eec0','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>轉變帶來痛苦可能對改變的未知數而感到不安，並不一定是危機。</p>','2024-07-14 14:11:35.634','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0517a1c5-9eaf-4db4-a963-e4af46098aab','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>中年危机在我的理解和认知当中都是负面的。因为一个公司对长期服务的员工薪金一定很高，但是能力又下降。员工自己也会焦虑。能不能胜任？这个就是流体智力走下坡。</p>
<p>但是如果转成晶体智力曲线重新规划，将进入转型期。积极面对，对自己讲是寻找新冒险，可以带给自己成功又服务他们。</p>
<p>所以转换跑道不一定会和中年危机挂钩。</p>','2024-07-14 14:16:40.555','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7f9e207-ec81-4a5f-a438-920ffbfbbd6f','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>有两个人透过牢房的铁窗向外望：其中一人看到一滩烂泥,另一个却看见满天星斗,这说明了我们的观点会大大影响自己在当下的处境中看见了什么.往下看,我们只看见烂泥,向上望可能会看到日月星辰绽放的光芒</p>','2024-07-14 15:44:05.65','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015','2024-07-15 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e555f6f7-4f1c-410b-bbbf-f7e025ed6b98','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>中年期并非死路一条，是另一个生机，一个转变，一个机会。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 00:43:23.397','2024-07-15 00:43:23.397',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 00:43:23.396',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('693d2305-6341-4351-9429-b1308069af46','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>没有人注定在中年时，一定会碰上中年危机。不过，我们确知道在成年生活的中段，自然而然容易经历重大转折。我们感到流体智力走下坡 ，因此必须改变，重新规划人生，进入转型期。</p>','2024-07-15 01:51:12.056','2024-07-15 01:51:12.056',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 01:51:12.055',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c688234-14ad-44fd-ba45-2af292608ce5','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>正面思维和消极思维让我们从不一样的观点出发。</p>
<p>纠正别人之前，先自我反省。</p>','2024-07-15 02:12:16.678','2024-07-15 02:12:16.678',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 02:12:16.678',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('21fabd4d-aaab-4cfc-a47a-78a1a4dd939f','6a0ca906-6e6a-4e0a-aade-378ddae21faf','5f3adfd3-d0f4-4812-8040-48b8b340a8c2','<p>Will definitely come back to and reread again to seek inspiration and see if its possible to implement more of the strategies</p>','2024-07-15 02:14:51.107','2024-07-15 02:14:51.107',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 02:14:51.107',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f118d844-a471-4db2-b4ba-2e11793f80ab','a23c7b3f-a790-47ec-8808-c53feb120d20','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>努力就对了！不会死的。不努力就会出事情。</p>
<p>向巨人学习，看更宽阔的世界。</p>','2024-09-08 15:41:16.061','2024-09-08 15:41:16.061',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 15:41:16.06',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('99b2b3d7-0e5b-4166-b31c-9b678576f9d4','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>人生免不了出现转折，但不是危机。遇到人生的重大转折， 勇於改变， 重新规划人生，</p>','2024-07-15 13:10:55.797','2024-07-15 13:10:55.797',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:10:55.797',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4528f208-3f97-4a99-8441-c255f16de7fa','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>换跑道不一定会和中年危机挂钩。只有好好铺排，接受年龄增长，后浪推前浪，人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>','2024-07-15 00:21:09.924','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c6006b2e-232e-405f-85c0-ce640ed07ac0','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机。</p>
<p>一些都只是心态上的问题，只要自己和自己好好妥协其实一切都能看开。</p>','2024-07-15 11:02:19.345','2024-07-15 11:02:19.345',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 11:02:19.344',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('821f865d-165c-43a8-a037-49fb8f371b56','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>（四）转换跑道不必走直线----进入中年，我们得好好想一想，我们今日真正想要的东西，而不是我们过去追求的东西。我们要降低对于金钱报酬的期待，而且不要去想在别人眼中，这是否像是降级，或是没能以最明显的方式，运用过去的资历与技能。</p>
<p>在这里提醒自己：度过转型期，就如获新生了！</p>','2024-07-15 09:43:31.688','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f9af70f1-4050-45f2-9343-59af842bee6c','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>「中年危機」也是人生的一个轉折。</p>
<p>將會成為 「迪羅倫」，或是「辛辛納圖斯」，就必須有智慧地重新規劃人生，進入轉型期。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 06:30:32.591','2024-07-15 06:30:32.591',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 06:30:32.59',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b5a910ef-77fb-4877-b92c-284166614de7','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>看东西的角度影响了我们<br>情感牢笼-勇于认错，然后请求原谅？但是现在有多少人会愿意接受？</p>
<p>吹毛求疵的毛病-纠正别人前先自我反省，处理自己的缺失，算是内耗吗？</p>','2024-07-15 06:50:47.884','2024-07-15 06:51:12.896',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 06:51:12.895',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d112d608-2e07-40ab-a723-9734c2afcadd','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>人生免不了出现转折，但不是危机。<br>只要我们把握住，趁机做出改变，重新规划人生，即可进入转型期。</p>','2024-07-15 09:19:46.802','2024-07-15 09:19:46.802',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 09:19:46.801',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3188266b-33aa-4f3a-89a6-8077acf72f4c','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','ebc94826-5eca-4369-a4c8-7941d6ce1957','<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">开窍之路-人生是一个不断突破的过程。在人生不同的阶段，我们都面对不同的挑战与机遇，促使我们有不同的成就及发展。只有不断的追求卓越，我们方可突破人生。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">一枝独秀，不如百花齐放-在漫漫人生路，唯一不变的就是一直在改变。随着时间推移，我们总得在人生路上不断的改变，以迎合当时的状况。只有不断的努力、精益求精，才不枉此生。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">放下的条件-放下与放弃，很多时候真是一线之差。放下，是为圆满一些事情而作出的决定，而放弃，很多时候是半途而废，或是在干不下去的情况下的决定。</span></li>
<li class="li1">&nbsp;</li>
</ul>','2024-08-29 08:47:19.652','2024-08-29 08:47:28.247',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 08:47:28.246',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3d93e9c-651b-43bc-b60e-e0df45f558bf','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>中年危机真的存在吗？那其实只是一项访谈中得出的一种&ldquo;认知&rdquo;，主要想表达的是，人到了中年，总有些改变在发生的，但不一定就是坏事，那只是一种情绪的反应，处理不好就叫&ldquo;焦虑&rdquo;。</p>','2024-07-15 09:44:37.834','2024-07-15 09:44:37.834',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 09:44:37.833',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3781ab48-c75c-49a1-bc6e-efa5b8df7158','29487247-79c2-4782-bedc-761849d1a95d','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>30分钟让用户觉得时间不会太长，也不会太短<br>反而起发想要买的欲望</p>','2024-09-16 08:51:41.517','2024-09-16 08:51:41.517',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 08:51:41.516',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('33ab0ff6-a51e-4f00-914f-2b9b4aac6a82','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>唯有承認自己犯的錯，並尋求對方的原諒，我們才能走出牢竉。</p>
<p>糾正別人之前，先自我反省，要改善任何情況，我們首先要處理的是自己的缺失。</p>','2024-07-15 11:28:09.111','2024-07-15 11:30:16.936',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 11:30:16.935',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('705a6335-bc8a-42ba-a898-2bdb83df7fef','923a66fc-40ff-4d11-8283-4c53bcfe4234','2fcfdadd-560a-4bc9-b7e6-cfab6c3894ac','<p>提升回购率，可以减低获客成本，客户的忠诚度和终身价值对企业来说是非常重要的。现今各个零售企业几乎都用了会员制，让消费者群体持续不断的在花费以换取各种优惠和利益。</p>','2024-09-08 17:42:20.89','2024-09-10 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('57bf17ba-3560-4d14-b01f-1cf4da39826b','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>作者的应用与建议提出：</p>
<p>你是否真心想与他人分享吗？</p>
<p>嗯，我是怕别人笑话，所以就不敢分享。也的确给人笑话讨过。</p>
<p>作者是乎看见了大家的想法。</p>
<p>他又写：</p>
<p>请你下定决心，找机会与他人分享知识，功劳与肯定，並磪实執行。</p>
<p>完成后，写下你的感觉。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 05:49:39.292','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06e08cdc-04c8-4e3e-97d2-af4aed490774','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>有哪些策略可以协助我们活出生命最大的价值？</p>
<p>首先，就是得找到我们第二人生所要追求的棉花糖，只要我们愿意相信，好事的确会发生在愿意等待的人身上，以及愿意工作、牺牲，甚至受苦的人。</p>
<p>其二就是改变对工作的认知，把工作当成工具的认知必须先革除，这样我们才可能乐在工作，而工作本身就是很好的奖励。</p>','2024-07-15 10:14:12.575','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('81b193c6-2d81-460d-b3e3-9529c44b8763','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>享乐与舒服有关；幸福则是活出有意义的生活。唯有两者都具备，享乐与幸福平衡才有乐趣可言。故此，活出生命最大价值的第三策略就是我们必须尽可能做有趣的事情。</p>
<p>而第四种策略则是好好想一想，我们今日真正想要的东西是什么？而不是我们过去追求的东西。所以，不一定要根据直线型职涯的发展，可以是螺旋型的职涯发展也没问题。</p>','2024-07-15 11:09:35.011','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0ac53933-67b3-4a11-864b-5d060114dd5d','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>团体作战比单打独斗好，没有人什么都会，没有人只靠自己的力量就做出有价值的贡献。除非怀有牺牲奉献的心，否则人与人之间的连接就不会存在。我们要以更多爱，善意、礼貌、谦虚、耐心与原谅对待别人，就会促成别人以同样的方式回报我们。对于别人的需求，懂得付出爱、牺牲、服务、关怀、教导与照料，才是成功主管。除非大家愿意一同合作，不为自己的点子居功或愿意牺牲形象，否则将难以迎合市场中不断成长的需求。如果不把饼做大，只是互强饼吃，每个人都会成为输家。</p>','2024-07-15 08:40:06.091','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e008d40f-e300-494d-bf2c-d4592e6b09cd','aafc9fc0-d77b-47f0-81d1-625dc44ea49e','59926472-a7df-4e83-b8b7-27f37f6867d7','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">读后感悟 ：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">許多人都想通過外在快速的轉變去提升自己的個人魅力，是太注重他人對自己的看法。品德是靠內在不斷的提升和修正而達，尊重和遵循自然法則以成長歷程，這些是高度互信的企業文化的基礎。</span></p>','2024-09-20 15:12:49.547','2024-09-20 15:12:49.547',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:12:49.546',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13079add-ec95-459a-8e90-61e2429b2c7f','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 45 ：7月15日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机（Page 238-242）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机，找到人生的目的和意义。让自己活的自在。问心无愧。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 11:43:29.463','2024-07-15 11:43:29.463',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 11:43:29.462',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('129ae15f-7052-46c5-b8f8-01089e1c219b','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>痛苦的转变不一定是危机。每次心痛、挫折和失败背后都有更大利益的机会。当流体智力开始下滑时，我们需要转向晶体智力，重新规划人生。</p>','2024-07-15 12:02:30.241','2024-07-15 12:02:30.241',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:02:30.241',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1c3b78f5-0b74-43ba-ac54-0a086672f540','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>作者一路上经历了许多，可是保持不断自我觉察不足，不停的在突破和开窍。</p>','2024-08-29 10:54:40.679','2024-08-29 10:54:40.679',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 10:54:40.678',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a825eba8-fe73-455b-81b3-491912f6a543','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>感觉痛苦的转变、中年危机，不一定是危机。随着本心，调整心态，面对转变。</p>','2024-07-15 12:37:29.308','2024-07-15 12:37:29.308',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:37:29.307',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('597f4c89-9120-4a6f-b29c-d3866878cdda','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>&ldquo;有两个人透过牢房的铁窗向外望：其中一人看到一滩烂泥，另外一人看见满天星斗。&rdquo;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们的观点会大大影响自己在当下的处境中看见了什么。消极的人总会看到不好的一面，因此心情低落，认为自己永远会被困住，逃不出牢笼；积极的人总会看到好的一面，因此总是保持乐观的心态，认为自己可以选择想办法逃出牢笼，最终可获胜。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>如何逃脱呢？禁锢心灵的根源有4个：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>1.情感牢笼 - 越过某些敏感的界限，伤害、侮辱或冒犯对方，却在当下觉得自己理直气壮，以为对方被如此对待是他应得的。</p>
<ul>
<li>解决方法：付出应付的代价，以求被放出牢笼 - 唯有承认自己犯的错，并寻求对方的原谅，我们才能走出牢笼</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;2. 吹毛求疵的毛病 - 习惯性地在别人身上挑毛病，用放大镜检视别人的缺点，却忽略自己的重大缺失。</p>
<ul>
<li>解决方法：纠正别人之前，先自我反省。要改善任何情况，我们首先要处理的是自己的缺失。</li>
</ul>
<p>期待明天能读到第三和第四个禁锢心灵的根源</p>','2024-07-15 12:19:27.758','2024-07-15 12:21:13.556',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:21:13.555',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fa6e5d64-383e-4152-8f26-776dc0f8a194','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>行为取决于个人对世界的看法，这会形成心灵的牢笼，无法聚焦于原则之上。禁锢心灵的四个根源～1. 情感牢笼 （承认错误，以寻求原谅） 2.吹毛求疵的毛病 （纠正别人之前，先自我反省）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 12:38:11.176','2024-07-15 12:38:11.176',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:38:11.176',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2889ebdb-4e09-438f-8164-fe65b26dda10','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>用物、爱人、敬天。六字诀。东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。东西若只拿来爱，那就是一种痴。</p>
<p>爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的。包括金钱或任何形式的货币，都是属于东西。</p>
<p>用物，包括如何使用金钱获取我们真正想要的生活。</p>','2024-07-15 11:33:08.218','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('da0ce121-1196-42e2-84c6-9876d7009651','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>中年危机并不一定是危机；也有可能是转机。&nbsp;</p>
<p>懂得激流勇退是智者。</p>','2024-07-15 12:56:57.869','2024-07-15 12:57:50.07',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:57:50.069',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a6fa2700-65f6-42c3-a0ef-7db89cbb0b43','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>善根-勤劳扑实,善解人意.人生是一场体验,活在当下.</p>
<p>影响力-讲了之后,对自己做了什么,对别人又做了什么.说了做了,说才有影响力.</p>','2024-09-08 22:24:34.672','2024-09-08 22:24:34.672',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-08 22:24:34.672',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c485f878-9a95-4b99-9d20-e5211cfc43fa','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第九章：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机。研究显示：人生的确会不免出现转折，但不是危机。研究结论指出：多数人没碰上危机。大部分的人即便换工作，转换跑道，并未遭遇重大的负面情绪事件。总而言之，没人注定会在中年时，一时脑袋不清楚，变成迪罗伦。不过，我们的确知道人在成年生活的中段，自然而然容易经历重大转折。当感受到流体智力走下坡，必须改变，重新规划人生，进入转型期。我们可能因此感到害怕不安，但不代表就会心智错乱。反而有可能重新规划职业生涯，与亲友的关系更好，成为启发他人的规范。</p>','2024-07-15 12:59:18.61','2024-07-15 12:59:18.61',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 12:59:18.61',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('55365e58-e457-45fc-9026-04c534c0192c','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>改变换跑道是需要勇气和坚持不懈，敢敢想和敢敢做！</p>','2024-07-15 12:48:48.191','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8865f087-9ed0-4baa-85cc-19df8ec637e5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>好好想一想，你今天真正想要的东西，而不是你过去追求的东西。</p>','2024-07-15 12:51:04.117','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7ae0a7c6-4a78-4c59-bbbc-e5ae702946d5','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>整本书给我最大的收获就是启发我原来人的智力是可以分成&rdquo;流体智力&ldquo;与&rdquo;晶体智力&ldquo;的，这个新的认知协助我更好的回溯过去一路走来的人生，再次确认自己是正走在正确方向上的。</p>
<p>用物、爱人、敬天，六字诀，再次的提醒我一些我可能忽略了的策略，同时也再次强化了我给自己定下的六十岁后的生命规划是自己内心深处真正想活出的样子。</p>
<p>我们一起努力，一起活好我们的第二人生。感恩无限，祝福满满。</p>','2024-07-15 11:55:19.566','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bcf07173-3f72-453a-89a0-dc3ff530f51f','0e067bd3-c77e-4b53-84e3-bcdebca91b40','59926472-a7df-4e83-b8b7-27f37f6867d7','<p>要事第一，作出長遠計划。別讓緊急事件成癮症。想要克服緊急事件成癮症，就要轉換思維模式從緊急到重要。</p>','2024-10-17 14:39:46.157','2024-10-17 14:39:46.157',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-17 14:39:46.157',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a8d80866-283f-4369-aa36-75c81bc82112','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>我们的行为取决于个人对世界的看法。只要心存感激和善意，一切都是好的事物。</p>
<p>什么让我们看见烂泥：</p>
<ol>
<li>情感牢固-作出了伤害他人的事情，应该直接勇于认错，打开心结。</li>
<li>吹毛求疵-纠正别人之前，先自我反省在先。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-15 13:20:38.111','2024-07-15 13:20:38.111',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:20:38.11',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8f65ca64-58f8-4ec8-9c96-6a87937415ff','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>Day 44 ：7月14日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：在落潮时抛竿 Con&lsquo;t（Page 235-238）<br>我们一般会记得成就，而途中不愉快或跌跌撞撞的经历会随着时间流逝。创意和潜能就是在这不舒服的过程中激发出来的。防止负面消极最好的方法就是动起来。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Day 45 ：7月15日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机（Page 238-242）</p>
<p>面对不稳定的中年时期，还是得按耐住，观察并接受生理上的变化，主动采取应变和调整，坚定地朝目标前进，完成使命。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 13:22:29.781','2024-07-15 13:35:40.537',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:35:40.536',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>好好想一想，你今日真正想要的东西，而不是你过去追求的东西。降低对於金钱报酬的期待，而且不要去想在别人眼中这是否像是降级，或是没能以最明显的方式。</p>','2024-07-15 13:41:15.96','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7f810871-a83f-48ba-9f94-76beb7ab3435','45cc1411-a3a1-4d68-b8eb-8d83c3b528b7','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>让我们拥有甜美的成果~<br>1.智慧：内在的安全感稳固，就会有更好的判断力，而不会过度反应及极端<br>2.富足心态：当内心拥有安全感，就不会一直与外界比较，不再担心别人比你成功<br>3.综合综效： 内心拥有安全感，就会安心与人合作，会从双赢思维来出发，会体谅及勇于表达自己想法。<br>4.愿与所有利害关系的人建立互信关系：拥有正直心态，愿意拥抱所有合作的人</p>','2024-07-15 13:45:28.636','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('671ff56b-83a1-4172-9fdd-f7b0f98f5fac','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>付出应付的代价，以求被放出情感牢笼。唯有承认自己的错误，寻求对方原谅，才能走出牢笼。</p>
<p>纠正别人之前，请先自我反省。</p>','2024-07-15 13:41:08.1','2024-07-15 13:41:08.1',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:41:08.099',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('030bff17-2e36-4e08-b7c7-18a9519502bb','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>嚴以律己，宽以待人。</p>','2024-07-15 13:47:27.232','2024-07-15 13:47:27.232',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:47:27.231',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('56fcba80-e639-4029-bba7-87e1f9d011a4','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>中年危机不一定是危机</p>
<p>也许是一种转机</p>','2024-07-15 13:47:41.607','2024-07-15 13:47:41.607',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:47:41.606',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2aaed754-455b-4132-ac78-d212607855f8','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>我们无法真正的两全其美，在我们努力是这一方，也会让另一方失衡。<br>我们要意识到这一点的存在，并且承认它。<br>解决方案：<br>*让自己从事有意义的事务，并且让大家也一起参与<br>*让大家知道我们期望的结果<br>*让家人也参与其中<br>*保留时间给重要的人与理想<br>*将生命中重要的人，他们视为重要的东西，都同等视为重要</p>','2024-07-15 13:27:02.24','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4fdbbb91-c5f4-4bf3-91cc-a28b0f0c9217','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>成功的杠杠1：正直<br>如果年自己的立场都无法站稳，无论你做什么事情，都被视为失败.<br><br>谦卑与勇气是正直最重要的元素.<br><br><br></p>','2024-07-15 13:29:59.706','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('19129819-495a-4d72-a1fa-b53370a584d9','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>与内在的自己对话：<br>勇于面对所有的局面，勇于反省，勇于承认及道歉。这样才有机会修正自己的方向。<br><br>走错方向不可怕，可怕的是走错方向后，不承认，就错失了修正的机会。</p>','2024-07-15 13:36:44.764','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7e22e3b-53d1-4600-93a8-bff8340ddc89','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 49 ：7月19日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>结语：记住六字诀（Page 257-260）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ol>
<li>用物</li>
<li>爱人</li>
<li>敬天&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;</li>
</ol>
<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的；爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的。把爱用在错误的地方，踏上欲望跑步机，设定成超速运转，只会徒劳无功。</p>','2024-07-15 13:47:26.778','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('65a50238-ffe3-4810-a186-3679004d51e7','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>理解这世界要什么，我们的强项在何处，我们能如何利用现有资源和目前的局势相匹配，达成协同效应</p>
<p>在艺术与商业的结合，这就是公众成就达成的要素</p>','2024-07-15 13:39:14.518','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('47d3278b-8547-4161-9a86-8f7de736d49c','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>当你临走时，你想留下什么给后人。这不仅是事业，也是人生的终点。很多时候想着人生或者的意义是什么？是等临终的那一刻走向天国，还是留下一个价值观动力给后人以启发更多人完成个别人生的道路~</p>
<p>我们可以选择一走了之，默默的离开。但我们也能像 Steve Job 一样让后人对于科技的进步 或 像 Charlie Munger 对于价值投资正道的追求。退休 或 重生 就在与我们的人生使命有多大</p>','2024-07-15 13:47:23.698','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fc03f722-11f8-483b-926a-19fed4f5fbe4','503da337-e7ab-4c77-866e-fd79b50d7a48','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>允许多元性，前提为建立在原则上。打破古老的思维，接受多元性。</p>','2024-08-07 13:11:58.374','2024-08-08 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-08-08 00:00:00.006','2024-08-08 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8c613ef9-79a5-455b-8a08-9a1456413507','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>中年危机，其实是个转机。这是给人生一个反思的机会，重新规划人生，让自己进入转型期。我自己也是这么的体会的。现在回头看看，我还真的非常感恩自己的曾经的中年危机。</p>','2024-07-15 13:51:18.968','2024-07-15 13:51:18.968',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 13:51:18.968',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9ef5a1a1-71f2-458e-8222-fb4fb5e5780b','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>匱乏思维的人生剧本讲的是一个人在生活中因为思维方式僵硬，缺乏灵活性和适应性，导致他们无法在家庭、工作和朋友之间找到平衡。他们很难处理好这些角色之间的冲突和需求，因此经常感到困扰，难以应对生活中的各种挑战。</p>','2024-07-15 14:02:32.824','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('612d946b-8423-4a39-807a-ee51fc8e2c64','6763357d-93b0-4762-8330-91fab5a98a48','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>能者多劳，觉得事事都得自己&ldquo;盯著&rdquo;，不然一定会荒腔走板。總觉得自己身边无得力助手可分憂，把自己累到身心俱疲。</p>
<p>真正的累是心累，累的源頭就在自己。</p>
<p>真心助人，用心待人。</p>
<p>只要把重心放在人上就不累了。</p>','2024-09-24 02:39:03.247','2024-09-24 02:39:03.247',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 02:39:03.246',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('08efca55-0806-4aa0-8470-8cb2bbbf07e0','f71bead1-7e54-4779-b2af-a97b5b3816a8','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>都是我的错，这句话对任何人，尤其是做领袖的，因颜面的关系，不容易说出口。</p>
<p>要做大事，心量要大，要能承担，如果能用都是我的错来待人处世，他就是能扛得起大事的人。</p>
<p>一个够棒的组织，永远不必担心任何人离去。一个够棒的人才，永远不愁无处安身。</p>
<p>自己心不真，所以事不实，愿不广，所以行不深。</p>','2024-09-26 02:48:15.858','2024-09-26 02:48:15.858',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-26 02:48:15.857',NULL,NULL);
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<p>贵人-3项条件-</p>
<p>1.有无条件的爱.</p>
<p>2.有无限的耐心</p>
<p>3.能树立榜样.</p>
<p>这几句话很深刻-</p>
<p>上一代在缺乏的环境能培养出更有成就的孩子而这一代在拥有这么丰富的资源,却很难培出杰的孩子们,值的深思和需要改变.</p>','2024-09-08 22:34:55.204','2024-09-10 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008','2024-09-10 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('22aaabf7-1947-4a56-84b9-0ec70d18d031','5a680903-37dd-429a-9e8e-17080898ea51','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>主动积极，一直去尝试去做，<br>以终为始，知道自己要什么就去冲<br>要事第一，知道重点</p>
<p>双赢思维，去利用别人的长处来补助自己</p>
<p>知己知彼</p>
<p>不断更新</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 08:59:19.08','2024-09-16 08:59:19.08',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 08:59:19.079',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e407d2ae-9f57-4cc8-9829-5c95b100297c','f1497574-e296-4316-8620-4c77f1d25124','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 12&nbsp; 9月27日 (星期五）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">😇第三章 087页 - 092页</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">读后感悟 ：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最令能鼓舞的事实，莫过于人类确实能主动努力以提升生命价值。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">凭藉自我意识，我们可以客观地检讨，我们是如何看待自己的，也就是我们的自我思维。自我思维影响我们的行为态度以及如何看待别人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们如果不能够客观地考虑看待自己的方式，也就不能理解他人感知他们自己和世界的方式。因此我们无意间就会把个人意愿强加在别人身上，内心却还觉得已经很客观了，这将极大地限制个人的潜能和与别人交往的能力。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">社会止境</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">社会地图用来解释人性的三种决定论：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">基因决定论认为人的本性是祖先遗传下来的。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">心理决定论强调一个人的本性是由父母的原行决定的。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">环境决定论：主张环境决定人的本性</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">刺激和回应之间选择的自由。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">选择的自由，人类特有的四种天赋</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">；自我意识、想象力、独立意志</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">积极主动的定义</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">积极主动不仅知心事的态度，还意味着人一定要对自己的人生负责。个人行为取决于自身的抉择，而不是外在的环境，能力应该有营造有利的外在环境的积极性和责任感。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">自己主动的人都会深谙其道，不会把自己的行为归咎环境、位置条件或其他人的影响。他们根据价值观，有意识地选择待人接物的方式不会因外界因素或一时情绪而冲动行事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><br></span><span class="s2">🌹</span><span class="s1">让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！</span></p>','2024-09-27 11:13:53.433','2024-09-27 11:13:53.433',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-27 11:13:53.432',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d8b478ad-648b-4881-8d7d-24a397efd531','aafc9fc0-d77b-47f0-81d1-625dc44ea49e','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day 5 &nbsp;9月20日 (星期五）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;<br>😇第一章 046页 - 050页<br>&nbsp;<br>读后感悟 ：</p>
<p><br>人的一生包含了许多成长和进步阶段，必须循序渐进，不容违背、忽略或缩短。就如《揠苗助长》违反事物的自然的发展规律，急于求成，最后事与愿违。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>需要先经历拥有, 然后才会真正懂得分享/付出。教育孩子应该要有充分的耐心让他们体会拥有的感觉，用足够的智慧告诉他们付出的价值，另外还要以身作则。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>解决问题需要实质性的方法，需要过程才能铲除病根。技巧和诀窍只能缓解一时之痛，问题仍然存也可能加剧了问题潛在的隐患。</p>
<p><br>🌹让我们一起在《7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯》里培养杰出的自己！</p>','2024-09-20 15:13:55.658','2024-09-20 15:17:00.305',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:17:00.304',NULL,NULL);
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<p>成功了所以害怕失去<br>心病还需心药医<br>假设没成功<br>假设仍然一无所有<br>从心念上归零.</p>
<p>一无所有, 其实是一种很捧的感觉<br>没有什么可以失去,&nbsp;<br>因此什么都不怕<br>从零点上向前行.<br>每一吋的成果<br>都如此的甜美.....</p>
<p>人生是一所大学<br>成功失败都是一门课<br>重点不在成败本身<br>而是你从其中学到了什么.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>[不是英雄, 就别领导]</p>
<p>领导者需有的4种特质, 自觉,才智, 爱心和英雄豪气.</p>
<p>有的,&nbsp;<br>保持强化这些特质, 连接相同的人<br>发掘和培养.</p>
<p>没有,&nbsp;<br>就跟英雄学习吧！就算不能成为英雄, 也接近有一点都不错 啊 ！</p>','2024-09-28 14:35:38.062','2024-09-28 14:36:23.529',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-28 14:36:23.528',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9e7db21e-56b3-4844-94e5-f2abaeb257f8','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>中年危机促使我们改变，重新规划人生，进入转型期。</p>','2024-07-15 14:08:06.432','2024-07-15 14:08:06.432',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:08:06.431',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e8770a91-ddea-4f7b-9590-180567794281','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 15：7月15日《成功哪有那么难》第一部如何获得手要成就</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第五章重新设定你的思维模式&ndash; 吹毛求疵的毛病（Page85 - 89）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一个无法在某个领域做对的事，同时在另一个领域做错的事。人生是无法分割的整体。-甘地</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们的行为取决于个人对世界的看法。这些信念会形成心灵的牢笼，使人生无法聚焦于原则之上。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">禁锢心灵的根源有四个</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">情感牢笼</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当我们令他人失望或不赞同他人的意见时，往往会被关入对方的情感牢笼，同时被对方贴上标籤。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">解决方法：付出应付出的代价，以求被放出牢笼。唯有承认自己犯的错，并寻求对方的原谅，我们才能走出牢笼。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">根源二吹毛求疵，人们总是看别人的缺点忽略了自己重大缺失。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">解决方案：纠正别人之前，先自我反省。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 14:11:28.644','2024-07-15 14:11:28.644',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:11:28.643',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3b85390b-0449-4256-b795-eec7d9cd28fe','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>我们的行为取决于个人对世界的看法，让我们无法聚焦于原则上。</p>
<p>禁锢心灵4个根源：</p>
<ol>
<li>关进对方的情感牢笼 - 解决方法：付出应付的代价，以求被放出牢笼</li>
<li>对他人吹毛求疵，将自己的错误合理化 - 解决方法： 先自我反省</li>
<li>&nbsp;</li>
</ol>','2024-07-15 14:26:16.392','2024-07-15 14:26:16.392',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:26:16.391',NULL,NULL);
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<p>因此我们只有不断学习、净化以求朝向完美。</p>','2024-07-15 14:28:59.666','2024-07-15 14:28:59.666',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:28:59.665',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e00cee9-34cd-411c-9e35-e90faed59b5e','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>你的视角决定了你对世界的看法。这视角又怎么来的？自己看某个人不顺眼，其实也是反应出自己内在存在的的根源。自己内心的某一个点触动了自己在当下的处境里&ldquo;选择看见&rdquo;了什么。</p>
<p>作者提出三个根源：1）情感牢笼、2）吹毛求疵的毛病， 3）匮乏思维&nbsp; 4）无法在多重角色里取得平衡</p>','2024-07-15 14:28:26.042','2024-07-15 14:30:38.074',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:30:38.073',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 禁锢心灵的根源有四个：</p>
<p>1）情感牢笼：人们往往会随着我们对待他的方式，或心中对他的认定，成为我们预期他会成为的那个人</p>
<p>解決方法：承认自己犯的错，并寻求对方的原谅，我们才能走出牢笼</p>
<p>2） 吹毛求疵的毛病：经常在别人身上挑毛病，却忘了检视自己缺点</p>
<p>解決方法：纠正别人的错误前先自我反省，除去自身的缺失后，才能清楚看见真实情况，并帮助他人成长</p>','2024-07-15 14:31:28.235','2024-07-15 14:31:28.235',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:31:28.234',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-24 04:29:40.208','2024-09-24 04:29:40.208',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 04:29:40.207',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人们往往在乎工作效率，交货速度，犯错率最低。但如果成效结果是糟糕的，效率再高都没用</p>
<p>我在企业里常常为了快，而让公司陷入亏损，员工离职，客户跟不上...&nbsp;</p>
<p>重点不在于我们的效率有多好，而是改把心思多放在客户身上，员工身上，公司内部文化里</p>
<p>很多情感类的项目无法以速度来衡量，例如夫妻的感情需要很长一段时间磨合期，员工需要长时间培训，客户粘性需要好的体验感</p>
<p>往往在情感上，慢就是快，Slow &amp; Steady</p>','2024-07-15 13:53:43.796','2024-07-24 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011','2024-07-24 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
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<p>用线上的数据化和科技与线下结合提升他们的体验感</p>','2024-08-16 13:45:21.749','2024-08-16 13:45:21.749',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-16 13:45:21.748',NULL,NULL);
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<p>期待！</p>','2024-08-16 15:32:56.176','2024-08-16 15:32:56.176',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-16 15:32:56.175',NULL,NULL);
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<p>七个习惯对现在到未来的时间会越来越重要！</p>','2024-08-16 14:40:13.875','2024-08-17 00:00:00.035',NULL,'f','2024-08-17 00:00:00.034','2024-08-17 00:00:00.034',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第五章重新设定你的思维模式&ndash; 吹毛求疵的毛病（Page85 - 89）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">记得上七习惯的课里，带什么色的眼镜，就看对方什么颜色。的确 pls don&rsquo;t judge 。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">自己要跟自己和解，承认自己有错，每件事的发生都是双方的。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）情感牢笼-不要情感绑架对方-要承认自己的犯错。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）吹毛求疵的毛病-把金子放大在自己身上。</span></p>','2024-07-15 14:57:20.573','2024-07-15 14:57:20.573',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 14:57:20.572',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('16861b33-15ee-4544-96d6-ebd7db8af84c','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day12：8月29 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第三章： 从认错开始 &nbsp;1. 开窍之路 &ndash; 3. 放下的条件（Page080-085）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">进步在爬楼梯，开窍像在天花板大洞，是更上层楼，脱胎换骨。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">超越无常的突破是做以前做不到的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要放下别人不舍的，提起别人不敢的。</span></p>','2024-08-29 12:02:29.64','2024-08-29 12:02:29.64',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:02:29.639',NULL,NULL);
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<p>先苦后甜还是先天后苦，都会影响日后的结果</p>
<p>甜头与代价，拿了甜头，背后的代价是什么？</p>
<p>好事的确会发生在愿意付出者身上</p>
<p>2）工作本身就是奖励</p>
<p>不一样的思维有不一样的收获，一个只为了赚钱为重的工作，带来短暂的满足感。</p>','2024-07-15 23:25:34.352','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d7aada8-1bda-41ba-80ad-9e217390bd0f','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>拿着锤子来解决问题的人，永远都只能把问题看成是钉子。吹毛求疵并不能将问题永远解决。同理心反而更人有效地解决问题。</p>','2024-07-15 15:05:07.083','2024-07-15 15:05:07.083',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:05:07.082',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa103099-b36a-41c1-9be9-b9ad9805a5ce','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>危机是我们人生中的测试，状态如何要看自己的执行力。</p>','2024-07-15 15:05:25.617','2024-07-15 15:05:25.617',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:05:25.616',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e6ae9695-b0f8-4698-866c-8482b75af2b5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>3.每次都鼓励年轻人找工作，最重要是自己的兴趣。因为有兴趣你就有熱情。原来做有意义的。工作热情会更高。</p>
<p>乐趣与意义的核心是有趣。如果你真正感兴趣的东西肯定乐趣无穷。</p>
<p>4.转换跑道不必走直线。</p>
<p>当进入第二曲线转换跑道的时候，我们会降低对金钱报酬的期待，也不在意别人的眼光。也可能应用你过去的资历和枝能卸没有人看得到。但是要知道这是最好的决定。</p>
<p>大哥，别想了，跳下去就对了。</p>
<p>你跳下去那一刹那。经历很快就过去的过渡期后，你重生了。因为你过去熟悉的东西，人脉，经历，生活方式，一切都结束了，重新开始，重心开始。</p>
<p>跳吧！</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 23:54:27.656','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f15ebed4-8973-458d-8c2e-10dd5c5a01e3','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>中年危机，是一个提示，提醒自己应该要做出改变了。</p>
<p>有人选择不变，有人变得更好，有人变得更坏。</p>
<p>改变与否，取决于自己的价值观和信念。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 15:29:09.559','2024-07-15 15:29:10.952',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:29:10.951',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('87b132b7-0266-464f-a0de-a84e09d3b7bf','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>人生难免会经历重大转折，流体智力可能会走下坡。因此，必须调整和重新规划。尽管这些转折点可能带来痛苦，但它们未必是危机。相反，这些转折可能是重新规划职业生涯、改善与亲友关系，并成为启发他人的模范的机会。</p>','2024-07-15 15:30:31.542','2024-07-15 15:30:31.542',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:30:31.541',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7d0960aa-cfda-4fad-96b2-90ee04ec8505','656d2425-b53f-43af-9bc8-93317633aa98','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>痛苦有时被面对，反而是让人醒起来的一支钥匙。</p>
<p>痛苦，不一定是反面</p>','2024-07-15 15:55:51.001','2024-07-15 15:55:51.001',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:55:51.001',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b7e7754e-e9a3-45a6-b03e-790a9e240a19','688e67d8-9ab9-40a4-8d2b-04bfff740f1a','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>人们的行为取决于对世界/事物的看法，而这些信念会形成心灵的牢笼。</p>
<p>其根源：</p>
<p>情感牢笼：为自己的行为付出相应的代价，以获得原谅</p>
<p>吹毛求疵的毛病：纠正别人前，先自我反省</p>','2024-07-15 15:58:26.446','2024-07-15 15:58:26.446',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 15:58:26.445',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9649a023-8058-4f63-bf19-ec80ab0f6a5a','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>投资在未来的&ldquo;幸福&rdquo;，我非常喜欢这一句。我们一生追求的是什么？欲望跑步机告诉我们那是永无止境的欲望。到头来拥有了钱，名望，身份，的目的是什么？ 为了过幸福的生活。 哪当初的执着，如果是为了投资幸福，为什么我们不可以现在就开始幸福？ 幸福就是当下，幸福就是心安，惜福，感恩。</p>','2024-07-15 23:11:58.415','2024-07-15 23:11:58.415',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-15 23:11:58.414',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('653d69d6-025f-4d9b-8c94-93544426298f','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>康利50岁时集团名利双收，可是他活得很倦怠与焦虑。他勇敢的转换跑道，他到Airbnb当辅导，他在传承智慧，提供有关人生与领导的建议。他开始发现分享自己在人生中学到的心得，可以创造重大价值。因此老龄学院开始问世。目前有800人参与，他们都希望以丰富的快乐方法，重启人生，透过點子与经验服务他人。</p>','2024-06-20 02:33:24.382','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ec2524ac-48a0-49a5-b08b-bea69aade8ac','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>当我们过于追求某些成就时，必定会导致人生的失衡。若要在长期下达成某个成就，短期的失衡是必然的。</p>
<p>但在失衡当中最启发我的事就是把心爱人重要的事情也看成自己重要的事，包括孩子，妻子，父母，朋友等等...</p>
<p>其实陪伴很多时候不需要准备太多，只需要 "一心一意" 的陪伴，对方就会心满意足</p>','2024-07-04 03:56:47.114','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('223255b7-cd98-4e9f-802d-374d6394b9f7','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 16: 16/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">二）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.90~93</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">形成心灵牢笼的第三个原因是：匮乏思维的人生剧本。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">拥有富足思维与心态的人，自我价值感高，与人交往坦然自在。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">家庭、学校、职场、运动，以及社交生活的竞爭，会強化匮乏心态：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">家庭文化深植我们的潛意识，深深地影响了我们的言行举止。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">偏颇的人际关系观和态度，于不知不觉中，影响了我们的社会关系。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">固执己见的领导观念，让我们看见的永远是自己的不足。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">&middot;<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">缺乏良善的团体信念，导致我们寸步难行。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">心灵牢笼的第四个原因是：无法在多重角色之间取得平衡。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">甘地说的好：</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">一个人无法在某个领域做对的事，同時在另一个领域做錯的事，人生是无法分割的整体。</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&rdquo;</span></p>','2024-07-05 02:01:47.285','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4228fa3a-0288-479c-b121-5a6fa7e23af5','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p>在人生下個階段那一連串的問題裡面，我有想過:</p>
<p>寫小說</p>
<p>烹飪</p>
<p>商業指導。</p>
<p>需要多花點時間深入的去探討。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-08 01:03:56.791','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dbeaf658-b1c8-4da3-baea-d41b572a36d7','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>痛苦只是因为脱离舒适圈的不适应，只是看自己是否愿意为自己勇敢的脱离和转变。</p>','2024-07-12 09:54:36.895','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('078ac7ab-d7c6-4ee9-af14-b47b08b871ff','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>事业目标与人际关系要达到平衡，陪伴孩子成长，陪伴父母。过去的光陰，再也无法挽回</p>','2024-07-14 23:31:20.326','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('24ffade9-02ee-4b6d-81f7-e5283332cbe4','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">另外两个让心灵被禁锢的根源是：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">匮乏的心态</span><span class="s2"> - </span><span class="s1">我们需要努力走出匮乏心态，保持富足心态，打造双赢的局面；把焦点放在</span><span class="s2">&rdquo;</span><span class="s1">什么才是正确的事情</span><span class="s2">&rdquo;</span><span class="s1">，而不是</span><span class="s2">&rdquo;</span><span class="s1">谁的看法才是正确的</span><span class="s2">&rdquo;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">无法在多重角色间取得平衡</span><span class="s2"> - </span><span class="s1">假如我们没能在多个角色之间取得平衡，没有使命感的驱使指引的话，将会是灾难性的</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:56:39.824','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('efd47147-0167-45db-a4c0-d3f5c1049fbd','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">1. 匮乏思维的人生剧本 : </span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@认为资源有限，导致非赢即输的心态。这种心态可能源于父母有条件的爱、与他人的比较、以及在各种生活领域中的竞争。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@匮乏思维会影响个人和人际关系，让人觉得永远不够好。在领导角色中，这种心态会导致不愿分享权力或资源。组织中，匮乏心态会导致不良制度设计，使多数人觉得自己是输家。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">&mdash;&gt; 解决方法：富足心态和双赢思维 : </span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@ 富足心态 :认为资源是充足的，可以为每个人创造更多的机会。这种心态会引发双赢思维，使人们更尊重彼此，并以同理心和温柔相待。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@培养更高层次的使命，把焦点放在&ldquo;什么才是正确的事&rdquo;，而不是&ldquo;谁的看法才是正确的&rdquo;。</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span class="s1">2. 无法在多重角色之间取得平衡 :</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@ 如果我们在生活中无法平衡多个角色，就会面临灾难。生活中的失衡会影响整体幸福和生产力。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>@ 认清生活是一个整体，不能在一个领域做错事，同时期待在另一个领域做好事。需要使命感来抵御各种拉扯力量，保持生活的平衡。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s1">通过培养富足心态和双赢思维，并努力在多重角色之间取得平衡，我们可以打破匮乏思维的束缚，实现更丰富和满足的人生。</span></p>','2024-07-13 11:05:55.024','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9633939b-ebc2-4b4a-bc89-034770314173','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>双赢思维愿意与大家分享，也认为世上的饼夠每个人分，而且也可以随时做出更多饼。</p>
<p>富足心態也是自己一直正在学习的。</p>
<p>做正确的事，而不是谁的看法才是正确的。</p>','2024-07-15 03:53:38.569','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f2a200f8-601d-4db9-985a-50e6ab62aa49','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>
<p>固定心态，学习接纳新事物。把自己人生中所学到的心得与他人分享，辅导他人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 02:39:15.899','2024-07-16 02:39:15.899',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 02:39:15.898',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('83743cda-7d81-4e7e-b477-e440dd728085','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>用物爱人敬天。</p>
<p>爱是动词。必须选择做自己喜欢的事，生活才会有意义、才有每天起床的动力。</p>','2024-07-19 13:14:10.928','2024-07-19 13:14:10.928',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 13:14:10.927',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f90b2202-e592-4218-b647-4ce515585284','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>中年转换跑道不一定就得与危机挂钩，虽然在最初展开新冒险的时候，身边的人都会倾向认为&ldquo;那是危险&rdquo;的。只要我们够坚定，并且秉持着用过往经验服务他人的信念，总有一天我们会满心欢喜的成功过渡到由&ldquo;晶体智力&rdquo;主导的第二人生。我也是在38岁的时候离开自己熟悉的教育领域，实践自主创业的，确实也曾经迷失在身边的人&ldquo;善意的关怀&rdquo;中，最终，活出了今天的样子，我还挺满意的。</p>','2024-07-15 09:57:50.483','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('92e50075-42f7-4e46-8e38-eceaa794878a','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 46 ：7月16日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机 Con&rsquo;t（Page 243-247）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>重启自己的人生，透过点子与经验服务他人可从四个步骤，包括从固定心态走向成长心态、学习接纳新事物、团队合作，已经辅导他人。</p>','2024-07-15 13:28:07.398','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1cb7f389-fef1-434b-bdcf-738081b2225d','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>我相信人生在那个阶段都能重启。只要自己攒够了资本和勇气，就能重新出发。</p>
<p>资本和勇气哪里来？保持学习是让自己从固定型思维走向成长型思维。成长型思维才让人愿意学习和接纳新事物。</p>','2024-07-15 14:03:30.778','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ef0780a0-55a9-447e-b48d-2199c69e7037','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>假如拥有凡事愛比較的习性，我們看見的是自已不足的地方。</p>
<p>拥有富足心態的人，會從另一個观點看世界，他們認為世上的餅干夠每個人分，而且還隨時做出更多的餅干，誏人家分享，這種心態會雙赢思維。</p>
<p>禁錮心灵的根源，是無法在多重角色取得平衡，要把焦點放在什么是正確的事，而不是誰的看法是正確的。</p>','2024-07-15 14:23:33.125','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a2b9b1f-4464-46ca-8666-886e8cd72de2','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;只要勇於改變，透過学习為自己增值。分享自己在人生中学到的，可以創造重大價值，重啟自已的人生，透过学习和經驗，服務他人。</p>
<p>四個學習步驟从固定心態走向成長心''熊， 学习接纳新事物，團隊精神和輔導他人，化身為現代長者</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 14:34:24.266','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d8a67979-47d5-4c38-a3d7-6a2c1085f9f2','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>分享自己在人生中学到的心得,可以创造重大的价值</p>','2024-07-15 14:57:52.374','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('99b8389f-4346-4d0b-a24c-f5888822e03a','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>拥有凡事爱比较的习性,我们看见的永远是自己的不足之处</p>
<p>把焦点放在&ldquo;什么才是正确的事&rdquo;,而不是&ldquo;谁的看法才是正确的&rdquo;</p>','2024-07-15 15:04:34.579','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('dc5a613a-1fda-4ebf-a514-a799f5846592','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 46 ：7月16日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机 Con&rsquo;t（Page 243-247）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>处于阈态偕段，意识到流体智力哀退，晶体智力正在增长。</p>
<p>中年是智慧丰收的偕段。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 15:16:56.66','2024-07-16 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007','2024-07-16 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('38eb3d66-c553-46fc-a3cf-3542d89a1849','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>只有勇敢踏出脚步往新方向，才能有新体验。要改变必须有勇气。</p>
<p>Modern Elder Academy 是新发现，让我去多了解。</p>','2024-07-16 00:04:11.607','2024-07-16 00:04:11.607',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 00:04:11.607',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e3864b1-4b80-4069-a68c-dd8f5146a61b','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>清楚知道自己下一步，有规划的话，换个跑道也无妨。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 00:45:43.958','2024-07-16 00:45:43.958',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 00:45:43.957',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('821516b4-215c-427d-8596-9c8723958959','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。重新出发需要勇气，需要设定目标，更需要好好计划。</p>','2024-07-16 01:36:51.433','2024-07-16 01:36:51.433',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 01:36:51.433',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('90698868-3079-469b-996c-a878072587d7','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>内在的三个自我</p>
<p>1. 公众的自我 ：在公共场合展示的形象和人格。<br>2. 私人的自我：在亲朋好友面前展示的真实自我。<br>3. 私密的自我 ：指内心深处的自我，由基因、生活环境和社会制约决定的个人动机、倾向和习性。</p>
<p>自我了解的重要性</p>
<p>- 影响力的来源 ：高效能人士通过私密自我的力量来影响别人，而不是仅仅依靠公众自我。<br>- 了解自己、控制自己和奉献自己。例如，当听到别人说坏话时，通过自我反省和求证可以避免情绪化反应。</p>
<p>心理防卫机制</p>
<p>- 常见的防卫机制：理智化、合理化、否认和投射。<br>- 实验发现：不同防卫机制的人在处理任务时会遇到不同的障碍。理智化会导致过度分析而无法行动。</p>
<p>内在对话与正直品格</p>
<p>- 内在对话：与内在自我对话，有助于了解自己，听从良知。<br>- 正直品格：有勇气承认错误并作出改变。长期培养正直品格会增强影响力和责任感。</p>','2024-07-16 02:32:54.702','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a899be18-837e-4a77-b3e7-f689e846df33','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','89125d44-7e19-493e-9e2f-7fc4d1415778','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">80</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">開竅是從領悟開始。一個心念的轉變，將自己的一扇門打開，走往一個新的方向。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">最近的一次是讀完馬斯克的自傳之後，決定放下自己的企業。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">82</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">可笑卻如真的狗生故事。</span></p>','2024-08-29 12:13:16','2024-08-29 12:13:19.997',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:13:19.997',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e0a27d9-b227-4bf7-9442-20f0da2599f9','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>若要提高转化率，精准的消费者非常重要</p>
<p>另外也提供一个爆品给消费族群，我们的转化率就会大大提升</p>
<p>社群还有另一个好处，如果找到一个精准的客户，他就会人传人给同类消费者知道</p>
<p>物以类聚，人以群分。这也是一个提升高转化率的方法</p>','2024-08-28 13:58:03.059','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab2291c0-d69c-458c-a483-0a73a2ddbf51','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>知识产品subscription -Rmb 199 x 140k :Rmb28m...太利害了.synergy create win win situation.独食难肥😅.</p>
<p>Always market to people who purchased before. The chances of f repeated sales&nbsp; are higher compare with the new customers.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-08 14:08:10.851','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004','2024-09-09 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5b0c11a1-9a09-413b-85ef-2ce6084285de','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>In the next chapter of life you would.............</p>
<p>In the near future, you''ll start to...............</p>
<p>Very similar to Jordan Peterson''s Future Authoring Program, it''s important to have a direction in life.</p>
<p>As fail to plan is plan to fail.</p>','2024-07-16 04:21:11.201','2024-07-16 04:21:11.201',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 04:21:11.2',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('20b4f767-906d-41ac-8ffe-173c8e0c9565','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>以服务他人为使命</p>
<p>- 服务与贡献：将服务他人作为人生使命的人，才能实现真正的成就。许多人追求轻松的生活，不自问如何为他人做出贡献。思考我想为世界留下什么。</p>
<p>全球化与自我调整</p>
<p>- 全球化影响：全球经济经历巨大变化，竞争加剧<br>- 重新设计自我 ：面对新的环境，不要责怪他人，而是重新思考目标和设计自我。</p>
<p>3个方向</p>
<p>1 找到正确的人生方向 2 愿意承担风险 3<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">终身学习</span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>成为人生艺术家</p>
<p>三个问题：世界需要什么？我擅长什么？如何利用资源满足需求？</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">现代领导力- </span>情绪智商与理性，新一代工作者需要具备理性和情绪智力</p>','2024-07-16 05:08:13.103','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3bd66f7a-f43b-4c2f-8ea0-20fa87225171','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>投資未来辛福, 永遠不會太早或太遲，要重新出發我就要認真思考人生下一個階段的問題...</p>
<ul>
<li>打算繼續从事那些活動？</li>
<li>改造那些活動，换個方式進行？</li>
<li>打算放放棄那些活動？</li>
<li>将學習那些活動？</li>
</ul>
<p>而再在不久将来，要開始的事....</p>
<ul>
<li>接下来一星期，我打算做那些事，以蜕变成新的我？</li>
<li>接下来一個月，我計劃要做甚么麼？</li>
<li>接下来六個月，我要做什甚麼？</li>
<li>接下来一年，在你的努力下，希望最先出現甚麼成果？</li>
</ul>','2024-07-16 13:17:02.369','2024-07-16 13:17:02.369',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:17:02.368',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ddff726e-93e9-4118-a416-f4158de608af','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>','2024-07-16 07:07:58.305','2024-07-16 07:07:58.305',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 07:07:58.304',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eeb51620-9f30-4716-8f72-ac2ce12bfd32','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>人生有什么意义，要自省和探究内心。探究你的心，胜过探究一切，因为一生的果效是由心发出。</p>
<p>我想留下什么给后世？</p>','2024-07-23 14:36:49.181','2024-07-23 14:36:51.209',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-23 14:36:51.208',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ea81379d-eb17-4197-9f2a-52d3ff1f0200','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人年轻时，有年青的意义; 老了有老的价值。只是需要学习与接受事实并开创美好的人生。</p>','2024-07-16 13:40:14.496','2024-07-16 13:40:14.496',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:40:14.495',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('77caf402-16f5-418c-aa39-e67ee7bab3c4','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>换跑道也不是说完全乖离目前的事业，而是从自己的优势上观察有什么潜力尚可发挥。<br>当我们积累足够的知识和人脉之后，换跑道也许是个不错的选择。</p>','2024-07-16 13:49:40.138','2024-07-16 13:49:40.138',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:49:40.137',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6060272-4026-4522-92f8-a9720b3ab937','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>Just as the famous Marshmellow Test conclude, good things come to the people who are willing to wait, to work, to sacrifice and willingness to suffer</p>','2024-07-16 04:26:10.222','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7c1942b-2d1d-4c2d-9a59-b2efa2d93c0f','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>There''s an experiment where 1 group of people would try to find happiness in work while another meaning, the former proves to be less enthusiastic about work and has a higher tendency to switch jobs.</p>','2024-07-16 04:33:23.909','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p>六字真言</p>
<p>用物 ，理应享用，合<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">理的享用是可以的。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">爰人，去爱做自己愿意做的事。别把爱用在错误的地方。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">敬天，做人要有原则。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">知道，了解。开始做出改变。规划改变策略，</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">兄弟姐妹们，别想太多了，跳下去就对了。</span></p>','2024-07-16 13:15:25.694','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>東西是拿来用的，不是拿来爱的.</p>
<p>爱是留给人的，不要只會留给东西而已.</p>
<p>享有當下所擁有！<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">你所该爱的人！人生下半場后该活出自己，奉獻分享以及服务大衆！</span></p>','2024-07-19 13:24:10.89','2024-07-19 13:24:10.89',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 13:24:10.889',NULL,NULL);
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<p>集结众人的长处，透过组织让缺点变得微不足道。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-25 23:59:50.855','2024-07-25 23:59:50.855',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-25 23:59:50.854',NULL,NULL);
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<p>走过必留下痕迹。</p>','2024-08-01 07:23:02.738','2024-08-06 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011','2024-08-06 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('56f5014d-6c12-4ca3-a47b-951ef2483a26','3bafad78-87f9-450b-afc0-e220abf44043','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>只有持续下去的学习，才会有创新和进步。原地踏步最后只会被淘汰。确保学习与成长的动机，是基于服务大众的渴望。</p>','2024-08-09 14:05:49.128','2024-08-09 14:05:49.128',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-09 14:05:49.127',NULL,NULL);
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<p>尊重生命，尊重自己，</p>
<p>做一个品格健康、心灵高尚、阳光美丽、人格健全、正常的、开心快乐的人。</p>','2024-08-29 12:20:35.939','2024-08-29 12:20:35.939',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:20:35.938',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0704292b-50c0-4bf2-a5ef-6501178aa668','2371bbf5-605e-4385-8822-344f5012ded2','fb3be631-8f71-4db1-adec-776df52da27c','<p>我们不应该怕麻烦，麻烦是磨练自己， 不要一直认为自己这样那样或最历害的。</p>','2024-08-07 13:25:57.983','2024-08-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e8b5877-9ed6-4d93-874a-6a8dc27ee32e','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>何谓紧急但不重要的事？？？</p>','2024-07-26 15:10:40.981','2024-07-26 15:10:40.981',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-26 15:10:40.98',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b63d0e7f-98be-4a3f-ac7a-bded09820be6','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>
<p>以丰富的快乐方法，重启自己的人生：从固定心态走向成长心态、学习接纳新事物、团队合作，以及辅导他人。</p>','2024-07-16 05:57:46.133','2024-07-16 05:57:46.133',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 05:57:46.132',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ab7d3a4c-0ae4-4326-b482-a0d06ad8ac0f','7c1698a2-259f-4269-b384-2d6b8308f955','fb3be631-8f71-4db1-adec-776df52da27c','<p>直認为自己最厉害的人其实是一种病、我们一定要了解自己，面对和接收和放下才可领悟人生的价值。</p>','2024-08-07 13:26:20.9','2024-08-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004','2024-08-31 00:00:00.004',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5786ee46-5bf8-4a5e-8ea6-1991f3956167','4de45b0d-c587-46fa-b5e6-5a927464637d','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>安全感是由内建立的</p>','2024-08-05 15:59:52.293','2024-08-05 16:04:54.052',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-05 16:04:54.051',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a5f78950-1065-4e4e-9939-4dbd96326585','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>富足的心态，想象东西都是够每个人分的所以不用担心，被比较<br>多个角色无法平衡，想要怎样的结果就要在那方努力</p>','2024-07-16 06:19:57.758','2024-07-16 06:19:57.758',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 06:19:57.757',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('df7f9899-cbb4-49be-9a92-0a1fa3ad4705','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>
<p>每个人在不一样的年龄想要的东西都不一样，学到的东西也不一样。</p>
<p>只要想做就勇敢的去做，别让自己过了那个阶段才后悔。</p>','2024-07-16 08:09:22.417','2024-07-16 08:09:22.417',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 08:09:22.416',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('92972f60-4b51-44f7-b4e6-a591a853b02c','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>续昨天。。。</p>
<p>禁锢心灵的四个根源 -</p>
<p>&nbsp;3. 匮乏思维的人生剧本</p>
<p>生活，家庭，职场的比较和竞争，输赢思维，这会会强化匮乏心态，而遭受痛苦。</p>
<p>解决方法 培育双赢思维的富足剧本。</p>
<p>4.无法在多重角色之前取得平衡</p>
<p>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态；让大家一起参与；让大家知道最终的使命/目的； 组成互补团队；保留一点时间给自己最重视的人/理想。</p>','2024-07-16 13:12:25.523','2024-07-16 13:12:25.523',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:12:25.522',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c65e6b0e-4887-4a4c-b5da-50d399b182dd','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>不需要怕自己会输给任何人。永远都保持&ldquo;富足心态&rdquo;。追求富足心态，培育更高层次的使命，不需要看谁说的是正确的，而是应该掌握，什么才是正确的。</p>','2024-07-16 13:35:49.925','2024-07-16 13:35:49.925',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:35:49.924',NULL,NULL);
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<p>学习让生命充满生机，不会觉得自己老。</p>','2024-07-16 13:55:21.298','2024-07-16 13:55:21.298',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:55:21.297',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('982b675c-af48-4feb-b452-d648be4fc2b2','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>如何让自己成为正直的人？</p>
<p>做个谦卑的人，说到做到，言行一致。</p>
<p>做个有勇气的人，根据自己的核心信念行事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 06:02:51.41','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('76dc3254-3689-4746-a5fa-683278f1b7a7','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>六字诀：用物。爱人。敬天。<br>爱是幸福的震央。</p>','2024-07-16 06:03:13.77','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1525ea9-f5c3-47a4-bdb5-0e1fb11bbf4a','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>当自己越了解自己，心胸越敞开，就越能影响其他人。先真正了解自己吧！</p>','2024-07-19 13:39:24.444','2024-07-19 13:39:24.444',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 13:39:24.443',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5513e0d1-d6d9-4bff-a0bd-7772089b8cfb','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>1. 承认衰退，摆脱执着，尝试新事物、培养亲友关系、强化性灵，进入人生的第二曲线。<br><br>2. 挺好的，简单查看每天的阅读任务，完成后还可下载自己过去写的心得，回顾阅读书籍的收获。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 06:07:04.085','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7e233a59-2354-4b4c-ba1b-7222b611747d','31899d7c-fe59-4d4b-8991-e8ba8b2ebc08','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>非常同意</p>
<p>与他人分享和教学相长能帮助别人成长，同时间也帮助自己更强大。</p>','2024-08-08 00:57:47.335','2024-08-13 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-08-13 00:00:00.022','2024-08-13 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eccec850-99be-4dae-a0ad-03d90749dc3d','539a650f-757a-4a80-87f8-d4bab0361c8e','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>1.教别人时会学到更多</p>
<p>2.当你对你所教的东西有信心，就比较有可能实践你所学的内容</p>
<p>3.当你传授你所学的东西，会强化师生连接</p>
<p>4.当你把正在学的东西交给别人，对你的改变与成长之路会走得更顺。</p>','2024-08-08 01:24:26.277','2024-08-14 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-08-14 00:00:00.006','2024-08-14 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8fd7eeaa-48b8-49a4-b41d-de786f756182','a87c8bb7-c028-4e6b-8beb-711c1784956c','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>智慧的四大要旨</p>
<p>1)持续正向的改变始于内在，始于自己</p>
<p>2)智慧的基础是品格和能力。品格包括正直、成熟、富足心态。</p>
<p>3)当品格与能力交会，才能展现智慧</p>
<p>4)智慧超越知识与资讯</p>','2024-08-16 14:46:01.11','2024-08-16 14:46:01.11',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-16 14:46:01.109',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cae77975-b16b-4dbd-b711-57ed427fc7db','ee18122c-3f4e-4cc3-b51e-090065933b43','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>改变始终于个人，改变都应该由内而外，以身作则，由自己开始。</p>','2024-08-16 13:54:32.231','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019',NULL,'f','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019','2024-08-18 00:00:00.019',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('007a69d1-0e8c-43f8-a980-255b15377447','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 46 ：7月16日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机 Con&rsquo;t（Page 243-247）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>学习作者的祖父运用晶体智力，为新职涯带来很大的报酬。</p>
<p>投资未来幸福，永远不会太早或太晚</p>
<p>如果要重启人生，得自己摸索想办法，没有谁会帮谁走过閾態。</p>
<p>固定心态走向成长心态、学习接纳新事物、团队合作，以及辅导他人、化身为现代长者。</p>
<p>提醒自己人生从新出发，永远不会迟。</p>
<p>认真思考以下作者提问的问题。。</p>
<p>你打算继续从事那些活动？</p>
<p>你将改造那些活动，换个方式进行？</p>
<p>你打算放弃那些活动？</p>
<p>你将学习那些活动？</p>
<p>在不久将来，要开始的事。。</p>
<p>接下来一星期，你打算做那些事，以蜕变成新的你？</p>
<p>接下来一个月，你计划要做什么？</p>
<p>接下来六个月，你要做什么？</p>
<p>接下来一年，在你的努力下，希望最先出现什么成果？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 11:12:32.99','2024-07-16 11:12:32.99',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 11:12:32.989',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">匱乏思维的人生剧本&ndash; 无法在多重角色之间取得平衡（Page 90 - 93）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">要选择当下什么才是正确的事，而不是谁的看法才是正确。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">匮乏思维的人生剧本-对个人与组织都不健康。只有认为世界上的饼夠每个人分，而且随时可以做出更多的饼，让大家分享这种心态才是双赢思维的富足剧本。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Work life balance&hellip; 的确无法在多重角色之间取得平衡。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作18小时，肯定会忽略家人。所以使命很重要。</span></p>','2024-07-16 11:48:25.217','2024-07-16 11:48:25.217',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 11:48:25.216',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a2f3f77c-55fa-4f90-ad49-a747340d30c4','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。可以重新规划自己的人生之路，尝试新事物。</p>','2024-07-16 12:04:31.79','2024-07-16 12:04:31.79',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 12:04:31.789',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff7a0036-5ea0-46dd-bf59-140880df73ba','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>继续昨天的禁锢心灵的4个根源：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>3. 匮乏思维的人生剧本（如果你赢了，我就输了的心态，家庭、学校、职场、运动以及社交生活的竞争会强化匮乏心态，让我们在个人方面、人际关系方面、扮演领导人的角色和组织方面遭受痛苦）</p>
<ul>
<li>解决方法：双赢思维，追求富足心态（培育更高层次的使命，同时把焦点放在&ldquo;什么才是正确的事&rdquo;，而不是&ldquo;谁才是正确的&rdquo;）</li>
</ul>
<p>4. 无法在多重角色之间取得平衡</p>
<p>（&ldquo;一个人无法在某个领域做对的事，同时在一个领域做错的事。人生是无法分割的整体。&rdquo;）</p>','2024-07-16 12:06:32.922','2024-07-16 12:06:51.352',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 12:06:51.351',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('778b7362-dc7b-4609-bd3e-8e571799e7ee','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day12：8月29 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第三章： 从认错开始 &nbsp;1. 开窍之路 &ndash; 3. 放下的条件（Page080-085）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人生学习，不管你是什么年龄层，作者有3大突破，1）要学习觉察到自己的不足，或者面临挑战时或舒适圈而产生空虚感时，2）在突破的路径，由外往内，然后由内往外，最后内外相生相成。3）从慢到难以觉察、到逐渐加速，到至于飞升。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不改变，意味着不再生长，离人生花园百花齐放的境界，也就是越来越远。如果自己的周围都有一道一道的高牆、又有护城河，让所有人都适应自己，自己不再适应别人。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不学习改变，真的会被社会淘汰。</span></p>','2024-08-29 12:34:28.839','2024-08-29 12:34:28.839',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:34:28.838',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('def8c9eb-89ac-4bf0-b274-3535f61f0d0c','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">换跑道不一定会和中年危机挂钩。如果换了跑道过后，可以分享自己在人生中学到的心得，更可以创造重大的价值。</span></p>','2024-07-16 12:35:39.345','2024-07-16 12:35:39.345',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 12:35:39.344',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b06de69-c39f-4ca2-88aa-402680467471','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>Chip Conley 发现分享自己在人生中学到的心得，可以创造重要的价值。因此他创办了现代老龄学院 (Modern Elder Academy, MEA) , 让无数与他同龄的人以丰富的快来方法，重启自己的人生，透过点子和经验服务他人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>他注重： 人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>','2024-07-16 12:54:22.713','2024-07-16 12:57:56.111',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 12:57:56.11',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('16f29bef-7e3e-4a06-994f-4564800bbd81','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>喪失正直的人只懂"似是"，在一个似是而非的世界裡生活与工作，担心别人怎么看待自己，而不想探讨自己是个什么样的人，就像演员戴着面具以隐藏自己的秘密行动或维持某个形象</p>','2024-07-16 12:17:28.353','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5d41ffcc-2bea-4e7c-80bd-bb46f3a0bbdb','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>内在的三个自我</p>
<p>1-外在的形象与人格</p>
<p>2-私底下与家人好友相处时所展现的真实自己</p>
<p>3-这个内在自我会檢视我们的人生劇本，也就是深植於我们的遗传基因，生活环境与社会制约的个人动机，倾向与习性</p>','2024-07-16 12:23:50.215','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bbb26acc-18f5-40e8-8116-f28ef4a9cf3f','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>有許多原因会引发匱乏思维，当父母给孩子的是有条件的爱，可能导致我们利用良好的行为，来赢得父母的爱，但这会让我们欠缺自我價值感。爱跟他人互相比较，可能导致我们发展出凡事爱比较的习惯。</p>
<p>拥有赢输心态的人，会把一个双赢制度变成赢输制度。唯有抱持富足心态与双赢行事风格的人，才能打破匱乏与赢输思维的循環。</p>','2024-07-16 13:12:22.912','2024-07-16 13:12:22.912',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 13:12:22.912',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1faccd96-5b2c-4098-a29a-d262451d90a8','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>清楚自己的人生目标与使命很重要，发现自己的天赋和计划好自己想过的人生更重要。</p>
<p>头脑清晰方向确定，比较容易选择放下什么、继续提升什么。</p>','2024-07-16 14:03:10.489','2024-07-16 14:03:10.489',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:03:10.489',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d002c44d-edbf-4992-95bd-e10acf14e0da','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>匮乏思维的人生剧本我们就会产生出非赢即输，凡是爱比较。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>它的坏处如下，</p>
<p>1.个人方面。就会影响我们看见的一切。</p>
<p>2.人际关系，包括我们的婚姻，所以这个东西就是说顾客，供应商和互动的人.在紧要关头采取输赢思维。</p>
<p>3.领导人往往会拒绝与他人分享权利，也看见自己的不足。</p>
<p>我们能够大方与人分享:獲利或盈餘？肯定和赏识？知识？</p>
<p>4.在组织方面，设计架构与制度的时候就没那么健全。引起大家的猜疑和信任。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>解决方案</p>
<p>就是要有双赢思维的富足剧本。</p>
<p>不是谁的看法才是正确的。而是把焦点放在什么才是正确的事。</p>','2024-07-16 14:14:57.035','2024-07-16 14:14:57.035',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:14:57.035',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d9e1104f-e398-4592-ad1c-6b04ed11544b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>3）乐趣和意义的核心是有趣。</p>
<p>4） 转换跑道不必走直线。进入第二曲线比较适用的模式是螺旋型。这好像是需要进入一种浑沌的状态，再往上冲。这是包括一个过渡时期。弄清楚了，就恍然大悟。</p>','2024-07-16 13:56:23.364','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p>物质世界带来的享受并没有错，但是人的一辈子不是来累积物质，还要拥有利他的能力，爱人的能力。最后，在人生后半场还要能明白这辈子还有另一个需要修的关系，自己和宇宙的关系。</p>','2024-07-16 14:07:30.346','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e1546f88-f137-4a71-9102-fdd7b990f1d0','c72a4129-61b0-4a41-9daf-2141a1300999','3c44f813-90cf-4c87-ab87-553efe18c88a','<p>Online-高效 Vs Offline 体验性</p>
<p>明白货场人的低层罗辑.</p>
<p>现在是用big data 整合线上与线下.</p>','2024-08-29 12:34:32.812','2024-08-29 12:34:32.812',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:34:32.811',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e720cb45-5723-4bf5-975a-d4b12d57a6b1','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> 在网路时代，一群有共同兴趣、认知、价值观的用户更容易组团，形成群蜂效应，在一起互动、交流、协作、感染的过程中，对产品品牌本身产生反噗的价值关系。在一个巨大的社区里，销售与本社群共性精准匹配的产品，其转换率会前所未有地高。 </span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">客单价：更透析数据，更洞察用户</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">了解客户的需求进而推荐他们更多可能会喜欢的产品。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">但单一品牌可能因局限于现有产品或服务无法推荐更多，所以和有关联的品牌合作未尝不是一个好主意。</span></p>','2024-09-09 00:47:45.947','2024-09-09 00:47:45.947',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 00:47:45.946',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8639872-4115-4063-8f47-97bee07a88ee','78e17a97-8078-4228-a453-9232aabcc994','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day30：9月16 日 《活学》Part 2 最高效能的人生</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章： 还在学活好 &nbsp;7. 学感恩 &ndash; 9. 学面对脾气（Page182-187）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">学感恩</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一个在感恩的广度和深度上都不足的人就不知如何施恩。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">用自己的一把尺，衡量何人、何事应知恩图报，不过是另一种头脑的计算游戏。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不感恩就不珍惜；不珍惜，就无所得。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">感恩的最高境界是：生而为人，就为一切感谢。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">学信任</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">信任是一种不能分割的生命品质。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一个人不可能不相信自己而相信别人，更不可能不信任别人而得到别人的信任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">信任最终的源头，来自对命运的臣服。拥有完整的信任，就是回到了生命的源头，能够听到内心深处的呼唤，得以处身乱局险境、或面临诱惑仍有定力。信任像聚宝盆，你想要多少就放进多少，它永远加倍奉还。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">成功要回到自己身上找。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">學面对脾气</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">能够感同身受之后，我也可以自在的陪伴别人宣泄愤怒，让他们更快平静下来。</span></p>','2024-09-16 09:12:53.31','2024-09-16 09:12:53.31',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 09:12:53.309',NULL,NULL);
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<p>生活中要保持内心的平静和热情，才能真正享受每一天。比如，工作中遇到挑战时，如果能用积极的心态去面对，就能找到解决问题的乐趣，而不是感到压力。</p>
<p>另外，放下对他人的过高期待，尊重彼此的选择，才能让关系更加和谐。生活中，爱和善良是最美的力量，让我们在这个复杂的世界中找到简单的快乐。</p>','2024-09-20 15:27:24.982','2024-09-20 15:27:24.982',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:27:24.981',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06924cf3-fc0d-4804-b17c-2726d187828e','5dee7524-1060-479d-8140-dbc92b730c83','22eebfc2-f1bd-4144-ac9b-9b146d80a3ee','<p>Day 37：9月20日《新零售狂潮》第四章：短路经济：环节愈短，效率愈高</p>
<p>短路经济（Page193-196）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>短路经济：把低效率的环节减去或缩短，降低定倍率，让最终零售价格或服务更加有竞争力。</p>','2024-09-20 15:31:50.42','2024-09-20 15:31:50.42',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:31:50.419',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4d01e92e-3881-4e9c-9fca-6b714dc6dad3','d7ea920d-8ed2-49d2-b4eb-fba3a2609e71','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>聚沙成塔的规模效应&rdquo;让我反思如何在我的业务中通过积累小规模的努力和资源，达到更大的影响力，不仅通过增加生产数量降低成本，还通过逐步扩大客户群体、提升品牌知名度，获得市场话语权和竞争优势。尽管在扩展规模的过程中面临保持服务质量等挑战，但通过持续优化和创新，小的努力将逐步转化为强大的推动力，最终实现长期的市场竞争力和业务增长。</p>','2024-09-24 05:09:30.645','2024-09-24 05:09:30.645',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 05:09:30.644',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c1425e26-06a0-43f8-9319-58014c0c9674','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 16<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>16<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第一部如何获得手要成就</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">匱乏思维的人生剧本</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">无法在多重角色之间取得平衡（</span>Page 90 - 93<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">匮乏心态或思维导致非赢即输，无法达到双赢局面。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">许多匮乏思维的因素，比如有条件的爱，爱比较的习性。生活环境的竞争，会强化匮乏心态，让我们在下列四方面遭受痛苦：在个人方面，这观点会影响我们所看见的一切。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">在人际关系上，匮乏思维会渗入我们的婚姻，也促使我们对人采取赢输思维。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">领导者往往会拒绝与他人分享权力。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">在组织方面，一旦有匮乏思维或心态会透过赢输制度显现出来而导致缺乏信任度。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">解决方案：培养双赢思维的富足剧本。拥有富足心态的人会从另外一个观点看世界。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">什么才是正确的事而不是谁的看法才是正确的。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">禁锢心灵的第四个根源是无法在多重角色之间取得平衡。假如我们不依循平衡的原则而活，将会面临大灾难。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">甘地：一个人无法在某一个领域做对的事，同时在另一个领域做错的事。人生是无法分割的整体。</p>','2024-07-16 14:02:51.301','2024-07-16 14:02:51.301',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:02:51.3',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8388697f-9771-4656-aefb-faf99533cbd7','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 禁锢心灵的根源有四个</p>
<p>3) 匮乏思维的人生剧本：赢输思维，认为如果别人拿走了一块饼，自己就会少得到一块。缺乏自我价值感，爱和别人互相比较，不爱与他人分享</p>
<p>解決方法：追求富足心态，以双赢思维看待事情，培养更高层次的使命</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 把焦点放在「什么才是正确的事情」，而不是「谁的看法才是正确的」</p>','2024-07-16 14:04:14.783','2024-07-16 14:04:48.495',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:04:48.494',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5422aa16-c35c-4b6b-aaf1-e460c8e5da99','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','f06cf8cd-e25f-4542-a8ff-f8571e91be74','<p>活到老，学到老。人不到死亡，就必须学习</p>','2024-07-16 14:07:06.852','2024-07-16 14:07:06.852',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:07:06.851',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c7ee69cb-b04e-4c2c-90d7-8ead83cfb780','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>投资未来幸福，重新出发，永远不会太晚。</p>','2024-07-16 14:11:35.826','2024-07-16 14:11:35.826',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:11:35.825',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f568a54c-7431-4a7f-93d3-816373603d43','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>we are all buffeted by different forces that tend to knock us off balance, especially if we have no sense of purpose. &nbsp;People with a great shared purpose will subordinate their egos. &nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 14:14:55.233','2024-07-16 14:14:55.233',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:14:55.232',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7e7525a-a40a-4966-9176-b08332278434','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>1. 开窍之路&nbsp;</p>
<p>人在面临困境，主动想要改善，不断寻求突破，坚持不懈，一定会盼到开窍之路。开窍就是想到以前想不到、看到以前看不到、能（愿意）做以前不能做的境界。直接提升了。</p>
<p>2. 一枝独秀 不如百花齐放</p>
<p>我们为了当今社会的&ldquo;成功&rdquo;，努力为自己打造他人眼里的标准生活，往往埋没了自己的天赋，不能把人生最大价值化，到头来会感到无比空虚、万分疲惫，却没法得到喜悦与幸福感。</p>
<p>3. 【放下】的条件</p>
<p>曾今拿起的，不断优化，栽培接班人，传承后继有人，做到&ldquo;大而闲，富而乐&rdquo;，皆大欢喜。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-29 12:35:06.363','2024-08-29 12:35:20.822',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:35:20.821',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2bfe36b1-df1b-488d-8cb6-d5f24ea1216a','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','138265fe-95ad-4ebc-b601-e7cbf4fd9f27','<p>重新规划人生，重新启动自己的人生，透过点子与经验服务他人。他们经历4个学习步骤，固定心态走向成长心态，学习接纳新事物，团队合作，辅导他人，化身为现代长者。</p>','2024-07-16 14:18:52.648','2024-07-16 14:18:52.648',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:18:52.647',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afbb920d-8479-4cf6-ab3e-82c699d84775','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>活到老, 学到老, 人生重新出发，永远不嫌迟。</p>','2024-07-16 14:33:02.804','2024-07-16 14:33:02.804',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:33:02.804',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('619d7a22-3370-46d1-8dab-ab0d460113f2','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>1）情感牢笼。不断去寻找他人的认同、期待。以为那是自己的保护网。其实，那才是牢笼。</p>
<p>2）吹毛求疵。挑毛病。其实，这是内心的折射。</p>
<p>3）匮乏思维是一种分别心在操作。我的、你的，你多我少、竞争、输赢、..... 背后的思维框架都是&ldquo;你好、我不够好&rdquo;。这也是一种无止境的索求和执着。</p>
<p>4）无法在多重角色中取得平衡。结果，生活就会陷入混乱中。自己就被困住了。</p>','2024-07-16 14:12:19.861','2024-07-16 14:22:33.656',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:22:33.655',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c6546c61-d816-48dd-84fc-58ead44b0b47','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>活到老，学到老</p>
<p>从新出发，永远不迟</p>','2024-07-16 14:36:08.066','2024-07-16 14:36:08.066',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:36:08.065',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('62e0412f-9474-4b58-8da8-f90f5e63f0a5','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>在人生下一个阶段。。。</p>
<p>今天内心被一件事破了心房。。。如果人生还有下一个阶段，那是幸运的。但往往不是每个人有这个机会，所以想到就要去做。。。这次我真的要启动黄金60秒的急救。。。 拖了两年，做了两场。。。接下来要积极。。。</p>','2024-07-16 14:53:35.702','2024-07-16 14:53:35.702',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:53:35.701',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('118d9b1b-b62a-4e75-b40b-54af5f522835','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>未来的事情最好就是现在能够开始，</p>
<p>但是如果迟了也不迟。</p>
<p>没有所谓的来不及，只怕自己不开始。</p>','2024-07-16 14:59:21.998','2024-07-16 14:59:21.998',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 14:59:21.998',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('341fa380-8102-45d7-826d-200322c333eb','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>富足心态需要培育和反省来获得。</p>','2024-07-16 15:02:42.564','2024-07-16 15:02:42.564',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:02:42.564',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8c2cce65-4876-4998-aa5e-2736df4b05a4','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>人生沒有意義，只有生死，只有綿延，能傳下去，本身就是意義。能經歷數百年天災人禍傳承下來的生命，都是合了天道，都是有德性，最基本的八個家「 勤勞樸實，順天應人（ 善解人意）］ 就自是所謂的善根。</p>
<p>不管我們講了那句話，而是講話的前后，對自己做了些什么，對別人做了些什么？只有當這些持續性出于灵魂深處，帶着愛的能量「 做」 與「 說」 完全符合時，那样「 說」 才具有真實的影响力。</p>','2024-09-09 01:36:54.298','2024-09-09 01:36:54.298',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 01:36:54.297',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('df04b7f4-e74b-4d59-8b40-f390ee1340eb','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>禁锢心灵的根源：</p>
<p>3. 匮乏思维的人生剧本只有非赢即输的人生。父母给孩子有条件的爱，职场制度设计不良引起不良的竞争，可以导致起疑和不信任比、欠缺自我价值感，成为讨好性人。 解决：双赢思维</p>
<p>4. 无法在多重角色取得平衡、正如甘地说的： 一个人无法在某个领域做对的事，同时在另一个领域做错的事。</p>
<p>唯有使命感可以让我们在各种生活拉扯中找到平衡。</p>','2024-07-16 15:12:34.808','2024-07-16 15:12:34.808',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:12:34.807',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c7ce92e1-b1d6-44c1-bf10-dcfdec73181f','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>*12成功槓桿*<br>1. 正直<br>如果无法站稳自己的立场，无论做什么事，都会失败。（Gordon A. Eadie）<br>真直：谦卑（之母）与勇气（之父）<br>比如公司的价值观，不要当作画挂在墙上，而是让所有公司阶层都身体力行的展现出来，融入日常运营中。<br>自己也要常常反省是否有行正直的路。</p>','2024-07-16 15:15:13.006','2024-07-16 15:15:13.006',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:15:13.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('892c0fa6-ffcc-4755-875c-0de36b65e7d8','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>少比较，富足思维。</p>
<p>保持平衡，避免顧此失彼。</p>','2024-07-16 15:18:57.769','2024-07-16 15:18:57.769',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:18:57.769',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6c6c909b-478e-4219-9a5c-eb81605ea79a','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第九章：感觉痛苦的转变，不一定是危机。换跑道不一定会和中年危机挂钩，所以投资未来幸福，永远不会太早或太晚。有时候大家意识到自己的流体智力衰退了，却几乎没意识到晶体智力正在增长。现代老龄学院学员的共同点是希望以丰富的快乐方法，重启自己的人生，透过点子与经验服务他人。他们历经四个学习步骤，包括从固定心态走向成长心态，学习接纳新事物，团队合作，以及辅导他人。每一位学员在结业时，必须回答几个问题，康利称之为：你人生的下一章。康利告诉学员的第一件事，就是重启人生，永远不嫌迟！</p>','2024-07-16 15:24:05.561','2024-07-16 15:24:05.561',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:24:05.56',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('913dc300-ba1d-4002-9ebc-74c4a669565e','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<div>思考人生的下一个阶段：</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>&bull; 继续哪些活动？ 保持那些对你有意义和充满热情的活动。</div>
<div>&bull; 改造哪些活动？ 找到新的方式改进或提升现有活动的效果和乐趣。</div>
<div>&bull; 放弃哪些活动？ 摆脱那些不再适合或不再带来满足感的活动。</div>
<div>&bull; 学习哪些新活动？ 探索新的兴趣和技能，丰富你的生活。</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>重新规划人生，永远不嫌迟，新的开始总是充满希望。</div>','2024-07-16 15:38:25.153','2024-07-16 15:38:27.226',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:38:27.225',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f0350f3-4b9e-4d41-842f-562b8ea05652','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>年龄并不会限制自己的发展，无论什么年龄还是可以带来贡献，只是不同的方式呈现。</p>','2024-07-16 15:51:06.799','2024-07-16 15:51:06.799',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:51:06.798',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2796ce75-8821-49d7-b2b8-0e0ff3713895','c69796c5-bbd3-4b07-a2c7-31f804ce9ae9','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>当你对生活感到厌倦，觉得想要做些改变。</p>
<p>但面对未知又感到不安而踟蹰不前。</p>
<p>只能自我鼓励，调整自己的心态，接受目前就是最坏的情况，不会有比目前更糟的情况了。</p>
<p>万事起头难，但想要改变，永远都不嫌迟。</p>','2024-07-16 15:52:22.019','2024-07-16 15:52:23.458',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:52:23.458',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('89a21f0f-0be7-4903-8c67-9e2314fe3f66','8587b6ed-a5f7-4918-8bc0-6c47a2dbcaf7','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>人们的行为取决于对世界/事物的看法，而这些信念会形成心灵的牢笼。</p>
<p>其根源：</p>
<p>匮乏思维的人生剧本：缺乏自我价值感，爱比较，不爱分享。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 15:55:48.076','2024-07-16 15:55:48.076',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 15:55:48.075',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('307abf19-41cf-4b6d-a2c0-c61fefda3eb9','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>人生不同阶段有不同棉花糖的需求，我现在要什么？</p>
<p>工作本身的体验应该让我们得到很大的满足感，如果我们这样想，就不会对工作带来的结果有太大的要求。</p>','2024-07-16 22:07:38.803','2024-07-16 22:07:38.803',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 22:07:38.803',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('832e0322-31b7-4832-9d50-e1616ecf1c49','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>看到星星还是烂泥，在很大程度上是取决我们的注意力和态度。我们也可以对烂泥有好感，想想烂泥能提供营养，可以种植美丽的莲花。</p>
<p>不把工作和私人生活分割，就不产生在工作时忽略家人的问题。</p>','2024-07-16 22:15:50.609','2024-07-16 22:15:50.609',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-16 22:15:50.608',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0f30bc5e-aa9d-495b-8913-f3c480a073ee','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>察觉自己的不足，跳出自己的舒适圈，将突破成为日常，就是最高效的人生。</p>
<p>引用 Bee Ling 同学的 comment XD:</p>
<p>&ldquo;要放下别人不舍的，提起别人不敢的。&rdquo;</p>
<p>让人放下的状况：</p>
<ol>
<li>发现自己已经活在舒适圈里，不再成长</li>
<li>我的贡献已有人可以取代，不再非我不可</li>
</ol>','2024-08-29 12:56:35.266','2024-08-29 12:58:19.454',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:58:19.453',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5e9693aa-b593-49a2-b4fe-02c0e30be16d','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','0ba622c5-da0b-42e9-8968-0d6797029f3c','<p>四大策略活出生命最大价值：<br>1. 找到你的棉花糖<br>2. 工作本身就是奖励<br>3. 尽可能做最有趣的事<br>4. 转换跑道不必走直线</p>','2024-07-16 05:59:47.415','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('897e5461-a933-4197-8500-c228b8c77ee2','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;坦然接受一段時間的失衡狀態，但从長遠的观點看待現況，在一生中會經历不同的階段。但我們希望生活能獲取長期的平衡。</p>
<p>从事你認為最有意義的工作時，誏別人參與其中，不要讓團队的其他成員，根据一個不請不楚的願景，做出決定或採取行動。</p>
<p>讓所有人知道期望獲得的成果是什么？</p>
<p>組成互補團隊，領导和管理是互補自己不及。</p>
<p>&nbsp;保留一點時間，給我們最重視的人和理想。</p>
<p>對於生命中重要的人，要看得同等重要。</p>','2024-07-16 07:47:31.536','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9c6e53b1-0822-4b48-b1af-e0128130cff7','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>组成互補团队。把更多心思放在领导工作，並减少管理工作</p>','2024-07-16 12:11:43.693','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa6573d5-588b-4a57-b01d-7cdcfa68eca1','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>人能活下来，传下去，都在遗传基因中，都是勤劳朴实，顺天应人。但在未来世界中，如要生存下去，就得勤劳朴实，善解人意。</p>
<p>要影响别人，先要了解你讲那句话是出于灵魂深处，带着爱的能量的做与说吻合，那样的说才具影响力，否则是徒然的。</p>','2024-09-09 01:59:01.714','2024-09-09 01:59:01.714',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 01:59:01.713',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f9f26b68-69c6-4cd1-9272-68a9b67b4325','859e8091-3cfe-42ea-990a-47de4b14c2f9','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>对紧急的事情说不；对要事说ok!<br>人际关系是生活产物，把人放在事前。</p>','2024-10-18 12:00:36.222','2024-10-18 12:00:36.222',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-18 12:00:36.222',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb1dd52b-649a-4d8a-ac30-dc59090b09ac','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">重启人生</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">_</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">盧水清</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> - </span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">序号</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">DAY </span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">47</span></strong><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> &ndash; </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">17/7</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">/2024 (</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">三）</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">- </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">［</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">p.</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">247-250</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">］</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">实现转換轨道的具体的起步方法：</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">找到你的棉花糖</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">研究发现，能够延迟享乐的孩子，长大后更成功。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">工作本身就是奖励</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond;">把职涯当作目的、获取报酬的手段，即便真的得到报酬，你也不会满足。然而，有了正确目标后，藉由服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下來的职涯本身成為奖励。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">尽可能做最有趣的事</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&ldquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">这份工作是否让我深感兴趣？</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&rdquo;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">是很有用的测试法。你可以藉此找到新活动是否是你的新棉花糖。</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-add-space: auto; text-indent: -.25in; line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; margin: 0in 0in .0001pt .25in;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">转換跑道不必走直线</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">在人生的早期，你可能拥有超级直线的穏定型职涯（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">steady-state career</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">），或者转換型职涯（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">transitory career</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）。然而，要进入第二曲线，比较适用的模式很可能是螺旋型职涯（</span><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">spiral career</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">）。</span></p>','2024-06-27 15:37:57.575','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p>第二，从事你认为有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中。让家人和朋友一起参与，或帮忙，亲友们就不会感到被冷落了，也能让他们感受我们的愿景与使命。</p>
<p>第三，让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么。让所有人看见自己是为了一个极具挑战性且有意义的专案、目标或使命而努力，可将他们的疑虑一扫而空。</p>
<p>第四，组成互补团队。找个与自己不同的人，能强化我们长处、弥补我们短处的人。</p>
<p>第五，保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。以自己最重视的价值观，进行长远计划，为此保留特定时间。</p>
<p>第六，对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。在家时，努力把时间交给家人，陪伴他们做他们想做的事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-03 05:43:16.23','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('04664d47-6cdd-49e9-9753-682adcc4417d','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 17: 17/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">三）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.94~99</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">让自己脫离心灵牢笼的解决方法有：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待情況。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">从事你认为最有意义的工作时，让別人也參与其中。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">组成团队。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。</span></p>','2024-07-06 01:11:22.11','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8e60486d-fcba-4706-a194-232d822a6d4b','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 47 ：7月17日 星期三 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值（Page 247-250）</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">四大策略让你活出生命</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）清楚自己的WHY - 棉花糖的故事</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2)工作本身就是奖励</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">工作是修练自己的道场。修练自己的心性。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有了正确目标后，借由服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3） 尽可能做最有趣的事</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">「享乐」与舒服有关；「幸福」则是活出有意。老实讲，我们两者都需要。没有幸福的享乐，将成为空虚的愉悦；没有享乐的幸福则枯燥乏味。我认为我们在追求职业棉花糖时，理应平衡乐趣与意义。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">做有意义的事情，幸福感就来了</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-07-10 14:44:26.999','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1.找到自己所爱的人事物. Know what I want.&nbsp;</p>
<p>延迟享受的人更健康,更快乐,更富足.</p>
<p>2.活在当下.一边做,一边乐.要自足.修六度,布施,持戒,忍,精进,禅,般若🙏</p>','2024-07-14 02:26:13.013','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fd2d888a-d74c-47b8-a3e1-f117d2536ba9','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>扮演的角色太多，但该如何取得平衡？</p>
<ol>
<li>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态</li>
<li>让身边的人一同参与有意义的工作或活动</li>
<li>让他人清楚所期望获得的成果</li>
<li>组成互补团队</li>
<li>保留时间给最重视的人或理想</li>
<li>将生命中重要人重视的事物看得同等重要</li>
</ol>','2024-07-14 07:20:10.116','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('39405118-c9f7-42c0-ba91-11ecd2767e6c','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>这里我看到两个点。</p>
<p>第一，等待。好事会发生在等待人的身上。等待 = 耐心 = 恒心 = 坚持 = 成功。</p>
<p>第二，服务他人。籍由服务他人让自己成功，利他才能利己。</p>','2024-07-16 12:51:39.134','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5afa8af5-2915-4ff6-aa78-a6d8a3f15338','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>有些人工作一辈子都会很快乐，那是因为首先你必须知道自己要什么。不是棉花糖会吸引你，而是你知道你真正要的是什么，而不会被棉花糖所吸引。<br>找出人生的目的，很多时候就是以服务他人为目标。</p>','2024-07-16 14:26:40.045','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1cbe003b-8236-4bba-885a-b078820e2c21','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>正直的首要关乎是【如是 what is】，主要特质为谦卑与勇气。</p>
<p>谦卑使我们不狂妄自大，所作所为不会违背原则；勇气使我们面对与了解自己的本质洞悉真理、并坚持正确的行为。</p>','2024-07-14 07:44:40.483','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60436c33-61c3-4816-9a1f-235dbaea767d','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">解决失衡的方法：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">1⃣️</span><span class="s1">坦然接受短期的失衡状态，从长</span><span class="s3">远观点看待现况</span> <span class="s1">（短期的失衡或者对专注度的需求是必然的，无需心生罪恶感或纠结于一时的失衡）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">2⃣️</span><span class="s1">从事你认为最有意义的工作，并让你在意的人也参与其中</span> <span class="s1">（和亲友们分享你的愿景，感受你的使命）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">3⃣️</span><span class="s1">让所有人知道我们期望的获得的成果是什么</span> <span class="s1">（不要让团队依据一个不清不楚的愿景，做出决定或采取行动；</span> <span class="s1">反之，让团队清楚了解自己是为了极具挑战性但非常有意义的事而努力，那么大家就可以放下自我意识，一条心一起努力）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">4⃣️</span> <span class="s1">组成互补团队</span> <span class="s1">（不要只是注重领导而忽略了管理，当然反过来也不行）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">5⃣️</span><span class="s1">保留一点时间给我们最重要的人与理想</span> <span class="s1">（当预留了时间给亲人后，要确保兑现承诺，人在之余心也要在）</span></p>','2024-07-14 13:57:15.469','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('51f5a506-0a16-42f5-ab3d-c47e099565af','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>活出生命最大价值：</p>
<ol>
<li>找到自己的棉花糖 ：投入新的付出时 g自己要的是什么？</li>
<li>工作本身就是奖励 ：职涯只是目的、获取报酬的手段，正确工作目标是藉由服务他人让自己成功。</li>
<li>尽可能做最有趣的事 ：享乐与舒服有关，幸福与活出有意义的生活有关。两者都需要。没幸福的享乐是空虚的愉悦。没享乐的幸福则枯燥乏味。乐趣与意义皆应具足。</li>
<li>转换跑道不必走直线 ： 可以是直线型、稳定型、转换型、螺旋型 但真正需要的是想一想 当下想要的是什么？</li>
</ol>','2024-07-14 14:27:34.8','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('710d5190-b1e3-4f65-9976-1434306a5a84','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>四大策略让你活出生命最大价值：</p>
<p>（一）找出你的棉花糖----在开始投入新的这一刻，我们要知道自己要的是什么！</p>
<p>（二）工作本身就是奖励----把工作当成赢得金钱、权力或名声的工具将导致不快乐。籍由服务他人让自己成功。才能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</p>
<p>（三）尽可能做最有趣的事----我们在追求职业棉花糖时，理应平衡乐趣与意义。你真心感兴趣的东西乐趣无穷；此外，既然那样东西能让你保持兴趣，一定也带有意义。</p>','2024-07-15 09:34:47.018','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9b32dbae-d9d1-44b3-9b8c-22a9a0df8f8a','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>不仅人在，心也在。</p>
<p>只要打开你的耳朵和你的心，闭上嘴巴，陪伴孩子，他们自然会向你敞开心胸。</p>','2024-07-15 11:32:38.84','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5fd08c4-b926-4f08-b861-55f0db538faf','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>解决方法：</p>
<ol>
<li>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况；</li>
<li>从事我们认为最有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中；</li>
<li>让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果时什么；</li>
<li>组成互补团队；</li>
<li>保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想；</li>
<li>对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-15 12:16:13.586','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f61657de-223a-4fe6-9854-5dd5043aae14','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','0a08fea5-5f22-4ee8-a6b0-7c46e27899cf','<p>Day 47 ：7月17日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值（Page 247-250）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>当职涯只是达到目的、获取报酬的手段，即便真的是报酬，也不会满足，因为目光已经放在下一个战力品。人生就是要活出生命的价值观念</p>','2024-07-15 13:35:06.394','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('31ab36f6-b25f-430c-b967-af46e516458b','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>在生活和工作中找到長期平衡 :</p>
<p>1. 接受短期失衡，追求長期平衡</p>
<p>2. 讓他人參與重要工作</p>
<p>3. 清楚傳達目標</p>
<p>4. 組建互補的團隊</p>
<p>5. 保留時間給重視的人和理想</p>
<p>6. 重視重要人的興趣</p>
<p>幫助我們在生活和工作中更好地平衡各方面的需求，並建立更和諧的關係。</p>','2024-07-16 02:19:03.216','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e505e631-acb7-4c34-99d2-53c5cea6bcc8','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>&nbsp;好事確是會發生在願意等 的人身上，以及為之牺性，甚至受苦的人。</p>
<p>&nbsp;贏得金錢权力和名聲，不會是快樂的根源，因為現實是非常殘酷的。當然重新啓步，也不可能天天是.開心滿意的，有時也是會有低谷，人生就是這样。 有了正確目標后， 藉着服務他人， 成功就能讓接下來的職涯本身成為獎勵。</p>','2024-07-16 04:28:31.036','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e550d871-1149-4e3a-926d-34be10edf36b','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>1）延迟满足感。愿意等待、愿意工作、牺牲和受苦。</p>
<p>2） 快乐不是终极目标。快乐是发生在工作的过程中。工作本身就是一种奖励。</p>
<p>没有一份工作是不需要经历过痛苦、吃苦。继续做下去，背后一定是有满足自己的原因。这份满足感是不断地在过程中获得。</p>','2024-07-16 13:50:01.076','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ff63cd80-2ea4-4016-965a-7423e0648b3f','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。找到你的棉花糖</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">心里学家 Walter Mischel 在1972年找来一群儿童，用一袋棉花糖做心里测验。他告诉孩子这颗棉花糖送给他们，他会离开房间15分钟，他不在时，小朋友可以选择马上吃，或选择暂时不吃的在他回来后就会得到另外一颗棉花糖。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">研究发现大部分的孩子都迫不及待立刻吃下棉花糖。他接着追踪哪些孩子，最后发现能够延迟享乐的孩子，长大后更成功、更健康、更快乐、收入更高。研究结果不仅仅受到意志力影响，还涉及家庭背景与社经情形等其他因素，但好事的却会发生在愿意等待的人身上，以及愿意工作、牺牲、甚至受苦的人。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">但重点不在测试结果，而在重新出发的这一刻，究竟下一个吸引你的棉花糖是什么？</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如果想不出答案、下面3个重点会协助你找出来。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。工作本身就是奖励</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">在工作职涯中，我们犯的最大错误就是把工作当成达成目的的手段。当流体曲线开始走小坡时，就应该开始做改变。因为把工作当成工具将导致不快乐。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">当职涯只是达到目的、获取报酬的手段，即便真的得到报酬，也不满足，因为你的目光已经放在下一个战利品。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">有了正确的目标后，借由服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</span></p>','2024-07-16 05:16:31.357','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('29458bd4-0977-42f9-9baf-d6b492e66dd7','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>我们是不可能在多重角色之间取得平衡。甘地曾说过一句话。我们不能在某个领域做对的事，同时在另一个领域做错的事，因为人是无法分割的个体。<br>解决方案:～<br>第一从长远的观点看待现在的状况。现在失衡一点点是没关系的。<br>第二，从事有意义的工作，也让别人参与。这样亲朋戚友或参与的人就能受到启发与鼓舞。<br>第三，让所有人都知道我们期望获得的成果。如果领导您出一个不清不楚的愿景，这个组织肯定非常散乱。<br>第四组成互补团队。把更多心思放在领导上，减少管理工作。我们要学会强化我们的长处，弥补我们的短处。这只有在团队里面大家互相互补才做得到。<br>第五，保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。规划和家人相聚的时间。保留特定时间规划和创作。<br>第六，对生命中重要的人。对他们所重视的事物看得同等重要。参与他们的活动。要给他们感觉人在心也在。不要心不在焉或者是亳不在乎。以前孩子一起住的时候，最快乐的时间就是一起一家人去看戏。大家的喜好是一样的。</p>','2024-07-16 14:15:34.395','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,'f','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033','2024-07-17 00:00:00.033',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2537b7b0-afb7-4e31-9d3a-b27a92872a98','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<ol class="ol1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">重新出发的那一刻，知道自己所要的是什么吗？可以有耐力的等待吗？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">不要利用工作来达到目的，而是藉由服务他人让自己成功。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">找到目标而工作，还是找到热爱的工作而幸福？要拥有幸福的享乐，还是享乐的幸福？</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">转换跑道不必走直线。想一想今日真正想要的东西，而不是过去追求的东西。</span></li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 00:05:33.367','2024-07-17 00:05:33.367',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 00:05:33.367',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aff12e83-793c-4404-a313-24f6410151fe','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 47 ：7月17日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值（Page 247-250）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>1.找到你的棉花糖，你知道你自己要的是什么吗？<br>2.工作本身就是奖励&nbsp;</p>
<p>有正确目标，服务他人<br>3.尽可能做最有趣/热爱（有意义）的事</p>','2024-07-17 00:50:12.656','2024-07-17 00:50:12.656',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 00:50:12.655',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5fe192c3-c190-46d0-9b70-959f4567a2c3','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','9070d9da-6428-4328-8983-4c4a65d0a468','<p>找到人生目标后，通过帮助他人解决问题或实现成功，让职业生涯本身成为一种奖励，从而超越纯粹赚钱养家的目的。</p>','2024-07-17 00:58:45.195','2024-07-17 00:58:45.195',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 00:58:45.194',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('39b926fa-5fb0-4619-8c25-713b0a56c661','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<ol>
<li>知道自己想追求下一个目标是什么</li>
<li>把工作当成工具是无法让自己快乐，即便名利双收，而是从服务他人成功中感受到快乐</li>
<li>一份有趣的工作是能在当中找到意义</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 01:02:50.699','2024-07-17 01:02:50.699',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 01:02:50.698',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('af2d78d7-22e1-4f8d-852d-266fbb041115','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>找到属于自己的棉花糖。自己热爱的，感觉乐趣的工作，可能会放弃目前已经极成功的事业，因为下一个棉花糖也许才是你所要的。</p>','2024-07-17 01:04:17.603','2024-07-17 01:04:17.603',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 01:04:17.602',NULL,NULL);
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<p>人生有潮涨潮落，让职涯本身成为奖励，有了目标后，藉由服务他人让自己成功。</p>','2024-07-17 03:01:38.054','2024-07-17 03:01:38.054',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 03:01:38.053',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">JUST DO IT.</span></p>','2024-07-17 00:06:10.888','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('417a1a4b-61d7-4dae-87fd-d43da023d858','c72a4129-61b0-4a41-9daf-2141a1300999','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 14：8月28日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">线下：无法取代的体验性（Page079-083）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">网络上长资讯流的高效维度、更快，更便宜。线下商场资讯留的体验维度更复杂、更多感、更立体。这就是体验性。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 15：8月29日《新零售狂潮》第二章：数据赋能&ndash; 线上，线下都不能代表新零售</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">新零售：用数据为体验性插上效率的翅膀（Page083-089）</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">如何结合线上资讯流的高效性和线下资讯流的体验性？改善教育的结构迈入新零售。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">小米有丰富的产品，最棒线上线下都同样价格。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">从Amazon books 线下书店将成为Amazon .com的实体延伸,集合线上线下书籍销售的优势。就是用网络的效率回到线下。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-08-29 12:57:58.704','2024-08-29 12:57:58.704',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 12:57:58.703',NULL,NULL);
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<p>没有享乐的幸福则枯燥乏味。</p>
<p>追求职业棉花糖，应平衡乐趣与意义。</p>','2024-07-17 03:07:06.589','2024-07-18 02:24:19.203',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 02:24:19.202',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('10161e4a-5e48-4308-8158-95d46e10be4f','d7ea920d-8ed2-49d2-b4eb-fba3a2609e71','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">MINISO 通过直管模式，迅速聚集了一千多家小b，然后利用一千多家的小b议价能力，找到制造商M，进行大规模采购，而且是一次性付款，但要求在同样品质下把价钱降低一半。</span></p>','2024-09-24 05:49:47.859','2024-09-24 05:49:47.859',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 05:49:47.859',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('be350349-7b14-406d-81a7-8657ea32b02e','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>工作本身就是獎勵，非常认同</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 03:27:26.251','2024-07-17 03:27:26.251',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 03:27:26.25',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d2f907c0-f22a-4533-8e43-ea77e7ae5998','0b245c09-dc25-4adf-acdc-37c11b906084','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>明白7 个习惯<br>积极性动- 基于价值观，不因东西受限<br><br>以始为终 -&nbsp;确定目标了才去做<br><br>要事第一 - 最重要的事情放第一放在第一，不要像是在铁达尼沉没是去排沙滩椅<br><br>双赢思维 - 不是你，我而是我们 大家都有利<br><br>知己知彼 -了解别人再去让别人了解你的需求<br>综合综效创造第三个方式，既非我的方式也不是他的方式，而是创造第三种更好的办法。<br><br>不断更新 各方面提升自己，不只是心还有身体，思维</p>','2024-09-24 07:32:13.799','2024-09-24 07:32:13.799',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 07:32:13.799',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('49c3b83d-7a9d-467c-9c77-c65d264e289e','f71bead1-7e54-4779-b2af-a97b5b3816a8','d6196801-88ad-4794-856b-fa61ef4faf4d','<p>别人听不懂<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">是自己没说清楚,</span></p>
<p>话说不清楚,<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">一定是自己体悟不深,</span></p>
<p>体悟不深<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">一定是自己没做到,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">做到但别人看不见</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">一定做的深度不够</span></p>
<p>做到够深，别人不受影响<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">一定是对人的关心不够。</span></p>
<p>心真则事实,<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">願广则行深。</span></p>','2024-09-26 04:43:38.462','2024-09-26 04:44:15.067',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-26 04:44:15.066',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f8c488ad-4c99-4632-9f6d-bb0d53450396','c2b5e481-1db8-4c63-9ff9-83eea911ff2c','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>&nbsp;人生没有意義，只有生死，只有绵延。</p>
<p>能活下来，能傳下去，本身就是意義。</p>
<p>大自然用洪水猛兽考驗人，人用齊心協力通過考驗，歷經千萬年，仍能活下來，傳下去，都在遺傳基因中，具足勤勞樸實，順天應人的「善根」。</p>
<p>帶著「愛」的能量做，與「說」完全吻合時，那樣的「說」才具備真實的影響力。</p>','2024-09-09 02:09:10.091','2024-09-09 07:49:25.485',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 07:49:25.484',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11bbe782-f395-46d7-879a-60472097f2b8','dfda4c62-e9f0-4d90-8c15-9d0d03a92154','dee0ab39-9eab-4b3d-bad7-a9f0422f8fb5','<p>在人生学习修心及提炼自身修为的时候，同时也可以透过向身边的人学习，达成共修的机会。我们也应该尽量培养自己的才能，才能在适当的时候派上用场。</p>','2024-09-16 09:16:26.528','2024-09-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c0218116-ea5a-4e7c-9f10-9ab591d768d7','5dee7524-1060-479d-8140-dbc92b730c83','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p><strong>短路经济</strong></p>
<p>商业的规律：</p>
<p>要么用&ldquo;创新&rdquo;的方法，做出别人做不出的商品，获得<strong>定价权</strong>。</p>
<p>要么用&ldquo;效率&rdquo;的方法，做到别人做不到的价格，降低<strong>定倍率。</strong></p>
<p>彼得.杜拉克说，当今企业之间的竞争，不是产品之间的竞争，而是商业模式之间的竞争。</p>
<p>商业模式=利益相关者的交易结构</p>
<p>传统的交易结构：D-M-S-B-b-C</p>
<p>创新的交易结构可以是：</p>
<p>～ 好市多：M-B</p>
<p>～ 名创优品：M-b</p>
<p>～ 天猫小店：S-b</p>
<p>～ 咸鱼和瓜子二手货：C-C</p>
<p>～ 红領西服：C-M</p>
<p>*在商品供应链里，S, B &amp; b是可以拿掉的。</p>','2024-09-20 15:30:10.17','2024-09-20 15:30:11.287',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:30:11.286',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">😇第三章 098页 - 102页</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">读后感悟 </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">积极主动的人是以实际行动来表现爱。爱的感觉是爱的行动所带来的成果。爱的行动是聆听对方讲心里话，欣赏，肯定对方。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">▶️关注圈-超出个人能力范围的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">▶️影响圈-专心做自己能力能做的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们面对的问题可以分为三类：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">可直接控制，可间接控制的，和无法控制的。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">无论面对那一个问题，解决的第一步掌握在自己手里。我们可以改变习惯、手段和看法，都属于影响圈范围。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">静心很重要。学臣服。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&rdquo;上帝啊，请赐我平静的心去接受我无法改变的，请赐我勇敢的心去改变我能够改变的，请赐我智慧的心去辨别它们。&rdquo;🙏🏻</span></p>','2024-09-25 14:26:43.119','2024-09-29 00:00:00.018',NULL,'f','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('eb2bc3db-3564-419a-8a50-74619c2d3213','7d894723-2a00-4e8b-9c9b-51a607721efd','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 45：9月28日《新零售狂潮》第四章：短路经济：环节愈短，效率愈高</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">05 天猫小店： S2b赋能传统杂货店（Page227-229）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">S2b-S供应链平台，提升供应端效率。b是网红/杂货店发挥最能觸达客户的能力。小b自己要用自己的纲路工具影响一批人。网红要了解客户需求，然后推动品牌在線化，实现后台的平台化。</span></p>','2024-09-27 11:44:57.32','2024-09-28 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016','2024-09-28 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('12f11ed6-076c-4131-9b05-e695b624ed53','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW">解决方法有<br></span>1.<span lang="ZH-TW">坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待情況。接受自己的不足消沉一段时间再出来冲过<br></span>2. <span lang="ZH-TW">从事你认为最有意义的工作时，让別人也參与其中。就是做一个东西再来更家人分享让他们一起分享</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing">3. <span lang="ZH-TW">让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么。就是做一个东西再来更家人分享让他们一起分享有参与感</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing">4一起组<span lang="ZH-TW">队这样每个角落都被安排到</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW">5保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。，有自己的me time 时间</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing">6.<span lang="ZH-TW">就是做自己该做的东西还是要预留一些时间给家人，朋友和自己一样重要</span></p>','2024-07-17 03:35:03.074','2024-07-17 03:52:41.933',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 03:52:41.932',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aed9d4bf-7a51-4e9f-8258-d3c6b5353905','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>凡事都要平衡。但我们总是把过多的时间放在想追求的事业上。家人似乎永远是排在最后。<br>我想有一天我也是会后悔的。趁着一切还来得及，重新分配。</p>','2024-07-17 06:35:39.657','2024-07-17 06:35:39.657',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 06:35:39.656',NULL,NULL);
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<p>一对一的对等关系，高尚的性格</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-10-20 10:16:57.952','2024-10-20 10:16:57.952',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-20 10:16:57.951',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1.找到你的棉花糖</p>
<p>2.工作本身就是奖励</p>
<p>3.尽可能做最有趣的事</p>
<p>4.转换跑道不必走直线</p>','2024-07-17 09:27:13.768','2024-07-17 09:27:13.768',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 09:27:13.767',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 03:45:16.978','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
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<p>少了勇气，也不勇敢，要如何修正自己的方向呢？</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 03:49:49.313','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 03:50:36.041','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>爱人</p>
<p>敬天</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>活出自己的下半场 🙏😊</p>','2024-07-19 13:41:17.096','2024-07-19 13:41:18.512',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 13:41:18.511',NULL,NULL);
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<p>2）谢谢RINA,谢谢大家</p>','2024-07-17 03:55:30.583','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ef3f0327-aab9-4ed4-a177-2431b6c5b627','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>圣经：你要探究你的心，胜过探究一切，因为一生的果由心发出。</p>','2024-07-17 07:03:20.483','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-24 07:36:18.021','2024-09-25 00:00:00.004',NULL,'f','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003','2024-09-25 00:00:00.003',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('09d03d5e-3250-40ba-aeac-addf3105dbca','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 47 ：7月17日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值（Page 247-250）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>1。找到自己的棉花糖，知道自己要什么？</p>
<p>2。工作本身就是奖励</p>
<p>在职涯中，我们犯最大错误，就是只把工作当成达成目的的手段。当流体智力曲线开始走下坡，你察觉到是时候该做改变。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 10:54:09.698','2024-07-17 10:54:09.698',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 10:54:09.697',NULL,NULL);
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<p>新一代的消费者的购物方式偏向我立刻想，立刻要拥有，立刻可以分享给朋友圈。所以<span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">资讯流是必须的</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">体、验店是必须的、</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">客户反馈是重要的、</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">收集数据是必须的。只要能满足他们的欲望，无论是埋错了单、多付了钱、买了不该买的，自我感觉还是优越的。</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">线上加线下的攻略，如虎赐翼！</span></p>','2024-08-29 06:06:18.037','2024-08-29 13:56:37.495',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 13:56:37.494',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">解决方法第一</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">应用与建议（</span>Page 94 - 99<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第一，坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第二，从事你认为最有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第三，让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">不要让团队的其他成员根据一个不清不楚的愿景，做出决定或采取行动。当人们拥有共同的使命，就会愿意放下自我意识。于是所有人一条心，凝聚在一个想法与一个声音之下，因为他们想完成共同的使命。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第四，组成互补团队。把更多心思放在领导工作，并减少管理工作。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第五保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">第六，对于生命中最重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">一心不二用，人在心也在</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">觉察是什么原因导致自己被关入牢笼？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">要不时觉察自己是否有富足的思维？</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 11:23:19.2','2024-07-17 11:23:19.2',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 11:23:19.199',NULL,NULL);
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<p>自己了解，也让对方感到，心中的位置。</p>','2024-07-17 11:35:07.29','2024-07-17 11:35:07.29',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 11:35:07.289',NULL,NULL);
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<p>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态；让大家一起参与；让大家知道最终的使命/目的； 组成互补团队；保留一点时间给自己最重视的人/理想。</p>','2024-07-17 12:14:25.263','2024-07-17 12:14:25.263',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 12:14:25.262',NULL,NULL);
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<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Pg 244 - 246</p>
<p>投资未来幸福，永远不会太早或太晚</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>希望以丰富的快乐方法，重启自己的人生，透过点子与经验服务他人。四个学习步骤：从固定心态走向成长心态、学习接纳新事物、团队合作，以及辅导他人，化身为【现代长者】。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>在人生的下一阶段</p>
<p>继续什么?</p>
<p>改造什么?</p>
<p>放弃什么?</p>
<p>学习哪些新的?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>不久将来，要开始什么?</p>
<p>一星期</p>
<p>一个月</p>
<p>六个月</p>
<p>一年</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Pg 247 - 252</p>
<p>【四大策略让你活出生命最大价值】</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>棉花糖</p>
<p>找到自己要的是什么?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>工作本身就是奖励</p>
<p>正确的目标，既有服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>尽可能做有趣的事</p>
<p>【享乐】与【幸福】</p>
<p>享乐与舒服有关</p>
<p>幸福则是活出有意义的生活</p>
<p>平衡乐趣与意义</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>核心是有趣</p>
<p>趣味属于正面的原始情绪</p>
<p>深感兴趣--必定带有意义</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>转换跑道不必走直线</p>','2024-07-17 12:31:32.235','2024-07-17 12:31:40.308',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 12:31:40.307',NULL,NULL);
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<p>解决方法：</p>
<ol>
<li>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况</li>
<li>从事你认为最有意义的工作，让别人也参与其中</li>
<li>让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么</li>
<li>组成互补团队</li>
<li>保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想</li>
<li>对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 12:40:51.224','2024-07-17 12:40:51.224',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 12:40:51.223',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1) 坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况。</p>
<p>2) 从事你认为最有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中。</p>
<p>3) 让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么。</p>
<p>4)组成互补团队。</p>
<p>5)保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。</p>
<p>6)对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。</p>','2024-07-17 12:57:57.688','2024-07-17 12:57:57.688',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 12:57:57.687',NULL,NULL);
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<p>私底下和家人好友相處，所展現的真實自已以及深藏內心的私密自我。唯有先了解自己，才能對別人發輝影響力。</p>
<p>承認自己的錯誤，向他人道軟是一件不容易的事，我們要做出改變，是需要勇氣的， 而勇氣是正直''功能之，唯有這個勇氣才能修正自已的方向。</p>','2024-07-17 11:23:58.325','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('afdb1e0d-3668-4159-844c-bee1a492a21a','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>面对多重角色失衡的解决方案：</p>
<p>1) 坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况。【理清方向、目标】</p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">2）从事你认为最有意义的工作，让别人也参与其中 【接纳他人】</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">3）让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果是什么【沟通和互相理解】</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">4）</span><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">组成互补团队 【双赢思维】</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">5）保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想 【聚焦到重要的人与事，不忘初衷】</span></p>
<ol>
<li>对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 12:59:02.444','2024-07-17 12:59:02.444',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 12:59:02.443',NULL,NULL);
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<ol>
<li>接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看代现况。</li>
<li>从事你认为有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中</li>
<li>让所有人知道我们期望获得的结果是什么。</li>
<li>组成互补团队。</li>
<li>保留一点时间给我们最重视的人和理想。</li>
<li>对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视多少事物看得同等重要。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 13:01:58.874','2024-07-17 13:01:58.874',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:01:58.873',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('643f9079-5d7e-46c7-aae1-29e51902be75','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>接受自己一段时间的失衡状态，然后慢慢调整回到平衡的状态。</p>
<p>专注在自己的事情，但不忽略身边重要的人，学习平衡分配。</p>
<p>学习分享</p>
<p>团队上，心思放在领导，减少管理。</p>
<p>对于重要的人，学习尊重他们喜欢的事物。</p>','2024-07-17 13:02:49.489','2024-07-17 13:02:49.489',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:02:49.488',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bf97a0f4-2378-4700-9239-3b3ec8f7a266','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>了解自己想要的是什么？有了正确目标，藉由服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</p>','2024-07-17 13:08:45.795','2024-07-17 13:08:45.795',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:08:45.794',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f02a95e9-b7d5-4038-8faf-b39748015423','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>幸福快乐决定于思想态度，其余的是助因。但如弄错其先后，不幸可能会接踵而来。</p>','2024-07-17 13:38:44.954','2024-07-17 13:38:44.954',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:38:44.953',NULL,NULL);
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<p>延迟享受、愿意付出/牺牲/受苦的人</p>
<p>好事最终一定会来&nbsp;</p>
<p>【终于轮到我了】 是会发生的 &hellip;&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（2） 工作本身是奖励&nbsp;</p>
<p>感恩工作、活在当下、享受工作&nbsp;</p>
<p>那工作本身就是奖励&nbsp;</p>
<p>并不需要达到目标后得到奖励才快乐； 工作的当下，就是快乐。&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 13:12:56.15','2024-07-17 13:13:46.475',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:13:46.474',NULL,NULL);
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<p>1. 找到自己的棉花糖, 追求自己想要的生活.<br>2. 工作本身就是奖励. 有了人生目标，服务他人实现成功，让职业生涯本身成为一种奖励。</p>','2024-07-17 13:18:18.382','2024-07-17 13:18:18.382',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:18:18.381',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8324d788-f8f0-473c-9026-b8ccf7f87de9','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">活出生命最大價值的</span>四大策略</p>
<ul>
<li>找到自己的棉花糖</li>
<li><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">工作本身就是奖励</span>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">服務他人讓自己成功</span></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>盡可能做有趣的事
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;">平衡樂趣与意義</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">轉换跑道不必走直線</span><br>
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: var(--font-ubuntu);">好好的想一想，我今日真真要的，不一定是我過去追求的東西.</span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>','2024-07-17 13:22:34.033','2024-07-17 13:22:34.033',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:22:34.032',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">解决方法第一&ndash; 应用与建议（Page 94 - 99）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">问题在你前面时，你看到什么？是烂泥，还是星星？</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长远的观点看待现况。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）从事自己认为最有意义的工作，让別人也参与其中。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）让所有人知道我们期望獲得的成果是什么。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4）组织互补团队</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">5）保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">6）对于生命中最重要的人，将他们重视的事物 看得同等的重要。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">身为领导，放在领导工作，並減少管理工作，不断的分享知识，有富足的思维。</span></p>','2024-07-17 13:24:06.033','2024-07-17 13:24:06.033',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:24:06.032',NULL,NULL);
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<li>找到自己的抗衡力量</li>
<li>&nbsp;Love My Job， 工作就是奖励</li>
<li>多做有趣的事情，可以让你开怀大笑的新鲜事</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 13:51:31.408','2024-07-17 13:51:31.408',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 13:51:31.407',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f1a8ddd-2382-4ed5-85c8-61bf6430ebe0','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>美好的事物是值得付出与牺牲</p>','2024-07-17 14:54:16.453','2024-07-17 14:54:16.453',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:54:16.452',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('346eb81d-fc35-4947-b51f-b13c6b5291ea','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>别想了 跳下去 就对了</p>
<p>作者从悬崖跳下离水面有500层楼高 他的感觉如获重生。</p>
<p>死亡与重生之间的存在状态 总是让人思考：我是谁？</p>
<p>站在悬崖边 忘了下方 不确定下面等着的东西 将带来快乐还是痛苦，或许结果会是苦乐参半。</p>
<p>想多了。</p>
<p>管他的 跳下去 就对了</p>','2024-07-14 14:36:10.461','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('610450e7-f8d3-4ad9-a0ad-bafb5f9c9796','1c7008c3-d2c3-45c1-875e-f1c51bfb9597','99bce229-4c0f-4a73-9a7a-d68b7644dbdc','<p>考虑所有人。</p>
<p>将心比心。</p>','2024-08-06 13:21:42.488','2024-08-06 13:21:42.488',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-06 13:21:42.487',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('40bada23-3ce8-4f58-b43d-ac9305f69d41','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第九章：四大策略让自己活出生命最大的价值。为了帮助大家有具体的起步方法，作者整理归纳了过去所见过最精彩的研究与最成功的策略如下：</p>
<p>1.找到你的棉花糖。在自己开始投入新的付出时，知道自己要的是什么吗？</p>
<p>2.工作本身就是奖励。在职涯中，最大的错误是只把工作当成达到目的的手段。以为达到目的就会快乐，其实是误会一场。然而有了正确目标后，借由服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 14:00:03.516','2024-07-17 14:00:03.516',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:00:03.515',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4f5ba5b0-9ce0-4163-8996-40831ea7aed2','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','e82c399f-31e2-4808-afd9-9cfa1e2fe798','<p>&lsquo;&rsquo;开窍&lsquo;&rsquo;比起&lsquo;&rsquo;进步&lsquo;&rsquo;，才能超越无常。确实是人人都忙着解决问题，达成目标，进步了，但是进步赶不上无常。开窍是懂了以前不懂的，活出以前活不出的样子，突破了。最高效能的人生，是把突破变成日常。</p>
<p>不改变意味不再成长，人生花园不只限于一枝独秀，要百花齐放。</p>
<p>人正真能放下的事，是曾经全然经历，吃过苦，碰过难，甚至走投无路，却仍然一次次的坚持，绝不放弃，最后终于苦尽甘来，享受成果，备受肯定的事。这样的事，你能潇洒的退场，才叫作放下。</p>','2024-08-29 14:04:55.508','2024-08-29 14:04:55.508',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:04:55.508',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d0097b5b-bb9e-4579-ba26-713ae48926dc','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>1。找到自己的棉花糖，知道自己要什么？</p>
<p>2。工作本身就是奖励</p>','2024-07-17 14:11:30.773','2024-07-17 14:11:30.773',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:11:30.772',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7bf5279e-4d9a-4be9-8ea2-5cabe0a0b7b3','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>时代的进步，会淘汰很多不想进步的人。若我们能跳脱舒适圈，一定会面临波动，但这波动让我们学会成长</p>
<p>企业开创就是一直在撞板，但是痛了之后，就会通</p>','2024-08-29 14:00:10.63','2024-08-29 14:12:43.412',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:12:43.411',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('61af0d2a-0426-4e83-ada5-24ad0f97fa51','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>生命是有意义的，但我们得找出幸福，开心的源头！</p>
<p>我们的思维及其重要，它决定了我们的观点！</p>','2024-07-17 14:17:58.046','2024-07-17 14:17:58.046',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:17:58.045',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9d6d017c-ea8b-43c9-9e31-840163cf25b1','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>接受短期的失衡状态，但要从长远的角度看待现况；其次，邀请他人参与有意义的工作，并确保团队清楚期望的成果是什么，以形成共同的使命；再者，组成互补的团队，领导者应专注于领导工作；此外，要保留时间给最重视的人和理想，重视他们的重要事物；最后，要专注当前，觉察自己是否被困于某些限制，保持富足的思维。</p>','2024-07-17 13:54:15.107','2024-07-17 14:25:17.891',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:25:17.89',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f63b74a8-26a5-4ff8-bc5c-993792aea315','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>好事的确会发生在愿意等待的人身上，以及愿意工作、牺牲，甚至是受苦的人。</p>','2024-07-17 14:41:50.723','2024-07-17 14:41:50.723',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:41:50.722',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('88447fef-1814-4c99-9bdb-6d23d9bed46a','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','8c41d3c3-8cab-4621-868b-700631a7ecc1','<p>～ 禁锢心灵的根源有四个：</p>
<p>4） 无法在多重角色之间取得平衡：一个人无法在某个领域做对的事，同时在另一个领域做错的事，人生是无法分割的整体</p>
<p>解决方法：</p>
<p>1）坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态</p>
<p>以长远的观点看待短期的失衡</p>
<p>2）从事你认为有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中</p>
<p>让亲友分享我们的愿景，感受我们的使命，带着他们参与或请他们以其他方式帮忙</p>
<p>3）让所有人知道我们期待获得的成果是什么</p>
<p>让人们拥有共同的使命，就会愿意放下自我意识，凝聚在一个想法与一个声音之下</p>
<p>4) 组成互补团队</p>
<p>5）保留一点时间给我们重视的人与理想</p>
<p>6）对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看的同等重要</p>','2024-07-17 14:43:20.695','2024-07-17 14:43:20.695',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:43:20.694',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0e2fef43-845b-4b82-ae92-e2c5a136c426','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','5e3f10f7-6730-45c8-bdb1-ff31e3f024ba','<p>找到自己真正想要生活的方式非常重要，再来了解一下生命的价值和自己的目标。</p>','2024-07-17 14:43:54.38','2024-07-17 14:43:54.38',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:43:54.379',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('581dfc86-06e5-4ee2-9208-3f20704cd89c','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人生要关注的有好多方面，如忽略其中的一项或几项，它可能给我们带来难以估计的伤害。</p>','2024-07-17 14:45:00.231','2024-07-17 14:45:00.231',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:45:00.23',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ca63314a-0f0c-43eb-af39-fa3bbbcf370a','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>欣然接受一时的失衡，让人参与自己觉得最有意义的工作，分享所期望的成果，组织互助互补的团队，保留珍贵的时光给自己最在乎的事与人，重视自己在乎的人所重视的东西。</p>','2024-07-17 14:45:22.687','2024-07-17 14:45:22.687',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:45:22.686',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c5a8ed01-6e19-40e4-89d9-664d5eff01e9','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>对于生命中重要的人,将他们重视的事物,看得同等重要</p>
<p>例如让家人擬定计划,参与他们的话动,一起做他们想做的事</p>','2024-07-17 14:54:44.612','2024-07-17 14:54:44.612',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:54:44.611',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('71a8668b-0350-4a0f-b6a2-62b7e4e48afc','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>在多重角色种取得平衡：</p>
<ol>
<li>坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，从长远的观点看代现况。</li>
<li>从事有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中</li>
<li>让所有人知道我们期望获得的结果是什么，当有共同使命，就会放下自我意识。</li>
<li>组成互补团队，我们需要和我们不同的人，强化我们的长处，弥补短处。</li>
<li>保留一点时间给我们最重视的人和理想。</li>
<li>对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视多少事物看得同等重要。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 15:01:03.579','2024-07-17 15:01:03.579',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:01:03.578',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f3ed5b65-d163-4c03-985b-7f7f23355c98','6539c10e-6566-4f77-8d8e-0b76b3f85425','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>人生就像一个罗盘，不是时钟。很多人往往注重时间，因为时间代表了过去，我们一直往回看时间过了多久，我们是否有完成任务，几点有会议等等...</p>
<p>到罗盘却告诉了我们未来的方向。如果当下有紧急的事要处理，会分散了我们的心思去做好大决策。透过罗盘，我们可以知道哪些紧急的事其实没那么重要，又或者优先处理重要不紧急的事。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 14:41:31.722','2024-07-25 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012','2024-07-25 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a5411455-cc62-40bd-9322-9a325c4671ef','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>我们在寻找的世界其实近在眼前，关键的问题在于：我们看见的是什么-烂泥还是星星？</p>
<p>解决方法,</p>
<p>1）坦然接受一段时间的失衡状态，但从长年的观点看待现况。</p>
<p>2）从事你认为最有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中。</p>
<p>3）让所有人知道我们期望或的成果是什么？</p>
<p>4）诸城户补团队，把更多的心思放在领导工作，并减少管理工作。</p>
<p>5）保留一点时间给我们最重视的人与理想</p>
<p>6）对于生命中重要的人，将他们重视的事物，看得同等重要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 14:58:55.627','2024-07-17 14:59:02.699',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 14:59:02.698',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('57f55e0a-2335-4b69-b659-236a2728beb9','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','f9075aa7-9a39-4124-900a-29ef14ff4bb5','<p>有了正确目标,藉由服务他人让自己成功,就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励.</p>
<p>工作本身就是奖励👍</p>','2024-07-17 15:00:17.559','2024-07-17 15:00:17.559',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:00:17.558',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8b81cb14-9d07-4744-9b36-4eb9a33bd648','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>有一份自己能发挥自己的专长，也能助人的工作是幸福的；一边工作同时不忽略身边的人事物更是感恩。。。不知不觉，安逸得走入第二曲线。</p>','2024-07-17 15:12:29.147','2024-07-17 15:12:29.147',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:12:29.147',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3e572a4f-a37a-4484-9c8f-c78f9034030e','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>我们都要三个自我：<br>1. 公众的自我<br>（外在的形象与人格）<br>2. 私人的自我<br>（与家人或是好朋友时展现的真实自己）<br>3. 内心的自我<br>（这是私密深植遗传基因）<br>这第三个自我，是最重要的。</p>','2024-07-17 15:26:35.682','2024-07-17 15:26:35.682',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:26:35.681',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('776345f5-e35e-4662-9045-f69be73e4e82','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','478843b9-e4b4-4090-81ad-cee1b2c570e6','<p>从事有意义的工作时，让别人也参与其中</p>','2024-07-17 15:28:11.326','2024-07-17 15:28:19.473',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:28:19.473',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3f931755-cbe5-430d-81d0-fc9961deb8a1','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>其实工作本身就是最好的奖励。在职涯中，把工作当成达到目的的手段是错误的意识，否则达到目的也不会持续快乐，百忙一场。当有了正确目标后，先从帮助别人成功，自己也会成功，这样的奖励，得到的快乐才是无限的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 15:28:42.384','2024-07-17 15:28:42.384',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:28:42.383',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4bcb198e-0b83-4a0a-886b-343eeb5fcfdf','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>好事确实会发生在愿意等待的人身上。</p>
<p>要找到属于自己的棉花糖。</p>','2024-07-17 15:30:36.103','2024-07-17 15:30:38.116',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:30:38.115',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5f2bedc5-bda8-4096-b87c-ca812d46ddbc','cb147af4-f324-47d5-9009-92fe627d5701','17135195-d32a-47cb-8da2-1ef2be7642e5','<p>在多重角色直接取得平衡的方法</p>
<ol>
<li>接受一段时间的失衡状态，一长远的观点看待现状</li>
<li>从事自己认为最有意义的工作时，也让别人参与其中</li>
<li>让所有人知道我们期望获得的成果</li>
<li>组成互补团队</li>
<li>保留一些时间给重视的人与理想</li>
<li>对于重要的人，将他们重视的事物看得同等重要</li>
</ol>','2024-07-17 15:49:12.144','2024-07-17 15:49:12.144',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 15:49:12.143',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('534ae9ec-a7c0-4ddf-a8b8-e0dbed14bd06','e62671a9-603c-4091-9839-17fb79649b35','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>重新起步，天天开心，心满意足。尽管有时仍会遇到低谷，但这就是人生。然而，有了正确的目标后，通过服务他人，成功就能成为自己的奖励。正确的目标和服务他人的行动，让接下来的职业生涯充满意义和成就感。</p>','2024-07-17 16:00:23.634','2024-07-17 16:00:23.634',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 16:00:23.633',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9976a278-4258-47c6-bea2-b65d6bc8678f','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>鼓励大家学习7习惯和教导大家这学问的最大好处是不断提醒自己是否也做到这些原则。</p>
<p>品德是基础，谦卑加上勇气就是正直。</p>','2024-07-17 22:13:12.302','2024-07-17 22:13:12.302',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 22:13:12.301',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d89fa817-ebd3-4363-93d1-83de0de2a8d3','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>改变需要勇气，突破就要改变。</p>','2024-07-17 22:17:38.018','2024-07-17 22:17:40.89',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-17 22:17:40.889',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e9987fa4-3add-4d69-a616-f04a82c4ca13','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','be5b7e97-d65c-43f6-ba7f-0ffd13533f1a','<p>一个开窈的人，能想到以前想不到的，看到以前看不到的，活出以前活不出的样子，才是真正的突破。</p>','2024-08-29 14:07:30.421','2024-08-29 14:07:30.421',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:07:30.42',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('97d30c76-dffa-41c9-bbf0-754b569e9aab','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 48 ：7月18日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值 Con&rsquo;t（Page 251-254）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p><br>4. 转换跑道不必走直线<br>好好想一想，你今日真正想要的东西，不一定是过去你追求的东西。</p>
<p>找到你的棉花糖，确定你热爱与有意义的就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-17 15:06:05.509','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c841f095-a31c-4cc0-9a93-36059f736259','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>万物/万事皆与爱链接</p>
<p>去爱，做你愿意做的，是获得美好人生的秘诀</p>','2024-07-17 23:17:56.774','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6b6c9ce4-666a-4517-aa3b-159946b7c736','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>Day 49 ：7月19日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>结语：记住六字诀（Page 257-260）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>用物-善用，不是爱<br>爱人-凡是人，皆需爱<br>敬天-对天地，需有敬畏之心</p>','2024-07-17 23:18:51.882','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('60851abb-f4fd-4c70-98df-28bbd050510b','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>1）这本书的内容与我现在的生活很贴切，我可以重新思考，铺排和发展我的人生第二曲线。我会重读这本书，行得通的就继续，行不通的就转换。</p>
<p>2）我对新的平台很满意，可以提早安排自己阅读时间，同时要翻看前几天的书友读后感悟也很方便，赞👍。</p>','2024-07-17 23:28:09.471','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6320098c-7e19-45e9-acb0-6284de84d0fa','f775b1cf-f18f-416c-8c73-22bac8ef7695','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>网络支付，尤其是行动支付，给我们的社会带来空前的便捷，而PayPal 的出现到后来的支付宝，解决了买家担心的一切忧虑。</p>','2024-08-29 14:09:47.014','2024-08-30 00:00:00.014',NULL,'f','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013','2024-08-30 00:00:00.013',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f7f9ce49-655e-442f-97a7-33eb57a561e8','156317db-98c7-426b-a8f4-7eccd022bbc8','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>创新与现代化工具在商业中的价值。结合自身的工作，我需要更多地去探索如何通过精简环节和引入现代化手段，进一步优化我的业务流程。</p>','2024-09-28 13:21:21.575','2024-09-29 00:00:00.018',NULL,'f','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017','2024-09-29 00:00:00.017',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7ea503ef-603c-4172-978b-aba2bb04922b','dfda4c62-e9f0-4d90-8c15-9d0d03a92154','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>心中容得多少人做家人，你在世上的家就有多大。</p>
<p>人先决心修身，才能吸引同道。</p>','2024-09-09 06:13:47.46','2024-09-18 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015','2024-09-18 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('746a3469-bca5-4d15-ae20-b92fb80f896f','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','0af74ffc-a374-4aed-beee-4da082faa955','<p>生活和工作中通过正直品德来实现主要成就</p>
<p>1. 正直与主要成就：让人过上真正的生活，而不是虚妄的生活。</p>
<p>2. 伦理与法律的区别：正直不是简单的法律遵守。真正的正直来自内心，而不是外界的标准。</p>
<p>3. 正直的特征 ：正直包括两大特质：谦卑和勇气。不以个人意志为中心。</p>
<p>不被社会价值观和个人倾向所左右。</p>
<p>4. 谦卑与勇气的作用：谦卑使人认识到现实世界的本质。勇气抵御外界的压力和诱惑。</p>
<p>5. 日常实践正直 ： 在日常生活和工作中，通过言行一致和遵循核心信念来体现正直。真正的正直是内心的安全感和信念，而不是外界的认可。</p>
<p>6. 内在对话与自我反省 ： 通过内在对话和自我反省来增强正直品德</p>
<p>这段文字强调了正直的价值，并提供了实践正直的方法，旨在帮助人们在追求成就的同时保持内心的平衡与诚信。</p>','2024-07-16 02:25:51.634','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('3c7374f6-4b0a-4e8f-9674-8b66a60b41c5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>再看到两个点。</p>
<p>第三，享乐和幸福。工作是为了什么？享乐和幸福。追求成功是为了什么？享乐和幸福。 哪为什么现在不就马上珍惜享乐和幸福？取决于我们的选择。&nbsp;</p>
<p>第四，职业生涯。真正想要的东西，不是过去追求的东西。</p>
<p>度过转型期，如获新生。跳下去不懂是痛苦还是快乐。可是，如果必须跳下去才能从生。哪不必再想了。</p>','2024-07-16 13:11:30.811','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('945d261e-172c-42a9-a2c7-90807c0d241b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','810477ff-79c3-424f-8ea1-4dcb74aef362','<p>先做有趣的事（工作）,再从中找到它的意义比较能达到对它的热情。</p>
<p>在进入第二曲线，好好想想，自己真正想要的东西，而不是过去追求的东西。</p>
<p>任何转型，都有它的过渡期，只要一心想着过渡期后的&ldquo;自由&rdquo;/重生，就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-16 23:29:03.607','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e5481115-79f7-41a6-a390-5e704e498c18','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>正直，两个重要的特质就是谦卑与勇气。</p>
<p>谦卑就是要了解这个现实世界的心。一切均由自然法则与原则主宰。很多东西不是我们可以主宰的。</p>
<p>勇气就是做讲到做到根据自己的核心信念行事，倾听自己内心的声音，不被外界所影响。了解自己的本质。洞悉人生真理。</p>
<p>分辨什么是如是或者是似是。</p>
<p>如是就是如此照见。追求真实，不追求似是而非。</p>
<p>似是，就像带着面具隐藏自己的演员不是做自己。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-16 23:49:26.329','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e26212a4-9413-4206-8dd5-fe0fc9e4d690','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>好好的想一想，今日你真正''想要的東西，而不是你追求的東西。</p>
<p>付出一生的努力和時間，去追求的往往都不是， 自己的''心靈所追求的。</p>','2024-07-17 06:21:34.121','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('12f85c9f-c729-4f2c-9ecc-79f59f0e8448','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>只有怀抱着謙虛和勇氣，自然會成為一個正直的人，真正意味著人生已整合在原則之下。</p>
<p>安全感來自內心，而非外界，从所有人際關係中，展開最高的誠實和可信度。培養出愈來愈穩固的內在安全感和正直品格，自然而然就會基於良知，而非因處境或外力所定学會謙卑。.</p>','2024-07-17 11:14:34.739','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0777a723-eef4-4a5a-866d-2813f8d76733','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>你愈了解自己的本质，就愈能洞悉适用于所有人的真理。</p>','2024-07-17 12:23:38.539','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('683031eb-81c8-4125-b204-5c0d4af6dd8b','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>正直的品格是需要经历生活淬炼，拥有谦卑和勇气这两个人格特质，才能活成一个正直的人。一个人需要有足够的内在安全感，才能有足够的勇气面对各种挑战，才能变得谦卑的去面对生命。</p>
<p>安全感不是来自外在，而是来自内在，那是一种对自然界的一份敬畏之下的谦卑。那是一份你愿意相信自然原则会主宰一切，而源生出来的安全感。</p>','2024-07-17 13:54:46.021','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('11cec601-fd1b-40e8-acad-3f68a80c02f5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','446acaf6-9b4a-451d-8e08-ca51f1003c48','<p>第九章：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值。</p>
<p>3.尽可能做最有趣的事。在追求职业棉花糖时，理应平衡乐趣与意义。乐趣与意义的核心是有趣，趣味属于正面的原始情绪，真心感兴趣的东西乐趣无穷；能让自己保持兴趣的东西，一定也带有意义。因此这份工作是否让我深感兴趣，是很有用的测试法。</p>
<p>4.转换跑道不必走直线。职涯模式有四种：直线型，稳定型，转换型，及螺旋型。当要进入第二曲线，比较适用的模式很可能是螺旋型。好好想一想，你今日真正想要的东西，而不是你过去追求的东西。此外，降低对于金钱报酬的期待。</p>
<p>经历很快就过去的过渡期后，自己就重生了。</p>','2024-07-17 14:17:42.84','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,'f','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027','2024-07-18 00:00:00.027',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9147c00f-9ada-47fd-9426-777fb5112458','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>放弃过往辛辛苦苦建立的一切是极度痛苦和难的一件事，但获得从生的的感觉能让一个人彻底的踏入心态上的另一个境界也能更清楚的知道自己想要的是什么。</p>','2024-07-18 10:00:50.041','2024-07-18 10:00:50.041',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 10:00:50.04',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b6b1c4a6-0770-4e65-af4d-837258fce13b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 48 ：7月18日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值 Con&rsquo;t（Page 251-254）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>转跑道不必走直线</p>
<p>职业模式有四大类别；</p>
<p>直线型职涯</p>
<p>稳定型职涯</p>
<p>转换型职涯</p>
<p>螺旋型职涯</p>
<p>度过转型期，如获新生</p>','2024-07-18 14:42:17.176','2024-07-18 14:42:17.176',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:42:17.176',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1bb896c1-a656-4ee0-8c83-f6ace6d2ec66','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','025766ef-b121-4d39-a149-574dc9b57a6b','<p>（4）转换跑道不必走直线&nbsp;</p>
<p>在人生早期可能拥有了超级直线的职涯，但要进入第二曲线。比较适用的模式很可能是逻旋型 spiral career (比较类似于一系列的迷你职涯，多年在一种专业里发展，接着换领域，但转换不光是为了寻求新鲜感，而是衔接在先前迷你职涯中获得的能力。&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>过度转型期，要的就是勇敢跳出去一步，才能获新生。&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-18 12:48:07.77','2024-07-18 12:49:02.123',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 12:49:02.122',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e84dfb5e-5e21-49dc-9793-324aa1042862','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','4d60a8e6-8829-45d3-add6-e61449282094','<p>别想了，就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-18 14:56:59.202','2024-07-18 14:56:59.202',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:56:59.201',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b190d291-ab5a-471c-9278-80706e744483','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>无常，计划赶不上变化，要学习开窍之路。</p>
<p>一枝独秀，自我的我变大了。就会放起一座墙，挖一条护城河，把自己封锁住。解放自己，学习成长就能百花齐放了。</p>
<p>放下不是放弃，提起不是冲动。</p>
<p>曾经经历吃过苦，碰过难，走投无路。但坚持不放弃，最后苦尽甘来。享受成果。心处之泰然，这就是真正的放下。</p>','2024-08-29 14:22:01.321','2024-08-29 14:22:01.321',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:22:01.32',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('707cee8a-b563-4ffb-9d7d-72a7396e3ba5','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','9f2de0b4-5451-41cb-bded-d537871923dd','<p>放下追求成功，也不要在乎他人对自己眼光，单纯想自己想要的是什么。</p>
<p>转换跑道方式有很多种，不管选择哪一样，要转换的那一刻是痛苦的，但就不要多想，做就对了！&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-18 00:54:44.733','2024-07-18 00:54:44.733',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 00:54:44.732',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('06e64639-a6fc-49dc-8392-1dcfea91b44e','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>改变带来痛苦，犹如火箭发射时消耗的能源比过后续航用的多。但只要坚持，过后就会得到改变后的红利。</p>','2024-07-18 00:56:01.787','2024-07-18 00:56:01.787',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 00:56:01.786',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('319fcf1f-9b90-432c-9a8e-e9e5ed3a976d','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','d287598e-c515-495a-aaab-d93a50a8de1e','<p>转换跑道，需要勇气。当找到自己觉得有意义又有乐趣的职业，那就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-18 01:34:10.03','2024-07-18 01:34:10.03',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 01:34:10.029',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('885bc4ac-8ba7-4461-be4b-a45ac8522b0b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 48 ：7月18日 星期四&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第9章 ：四大策略让你活出生命最大价值 Con&rsquo;t（Page251-254）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4）转换跑道不必走直线</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">四大职业模式</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">A)Linear career 直線型职涯-持续往上爬</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">B)steady state career 稳定型职涯-同一份工作-专业</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">C) transitory career 转换型职涯-一份工换取另外一份工，甚至换领域</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">D)spiral career 螺旋形职涯-一种专业的发展寻求新鲜感。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">进入真正想要的东西，而不是你过去追求的东西。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">其实每个人的心里都有答案。好好聆听你内心世界想跟你讲的答案吧。。</span></p>','2024-07-18 02:07:45.198','2024-07-18 02:07:45.198',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 02:07:45.197',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0ff149de-0b29-478a-a7ce-5805661cc915','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1） 作者看东西看得很深，只是在飞机上看见那位老英雄，就深深感触反映了自己。从而去做研究要怎样不重蹈覆辙。我到现在还记不清两种智力的名称。可是我知道，有小聪明的人不可能一直保留水准到老，就像做电脑编程这个职业，不可能做到老还在编程。到了一定的程度，它可以提升自己作为教导别人、领导别人的那位。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2） 新平台可以预先写好接着下来几天的读后感，是很大的进步。因为我们可以提前安排，如果之后不得空，可以提前完成。</span></p>','2024-07-18 12:50:10.474','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9ca958a0-2687-4363-8507-e93984d6c4d6','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','e92fa812-5847-46d0-9a60-632ef6e84ced','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">看别人就想到自己。当我们醒了以后可以实践本书提到的事，开始不再恐惧。这条公式就是：用物、爱人、敬天。</span></p>','2024-07-18 02:14:15.917','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c2e2ac7b-006c-4b90-a7fe-89690da4d1b7','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>我们能否拥有正直的品格，取决于藏在深处的私密自我。</p>','2024-07-18 11:31:21.909','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('322e5bfb-6517-45ff-9017-c824af007819','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','09891df5-07b0-40c9-8f3c-a23b63aa2cfd','<p>婚姻和感情的本质是牺牲，社会也是。</p>
<p>牺牲能拉近彼此的距离，是人与人之间的桥梁。</p>','2024-07-25 23:24:45.38','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-27 11:02:29.245','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4dc49373-dbf9-4637-aad8-cab6bec74415','39b60895-8b9b-4ad7-b9ab-9f13108ce422','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 28<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>28<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第九章成功槓桿</span>4<span lang="ZH-CN">：抛开个人私心-全心的权力来源，应用与建议</span><span lang="ZH-CN">（</span>P</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">全新的权力来源</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">今日的团队领导人必须寻找新的权力来源。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">权利的来源正在转移：从地位转为说服，从魅力转为pinged，从控制转为服务与牺牲，自负转为谦卑，从证书资历转为持续学习与进步。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">权力必须来自根植于品格的四个来源：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1。明智地运用自觉、想象力、独立意志与良知，加以负责任。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2。花更多时间从事重要但不一定紧急的事。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3。持续学习、改善与进步。运动领导人定期取的行动结果与回馈意见，然后进行必要的修正与改进。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">4。建立双赢与伙伴关系的网络。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们的所有关系都需要团队、伙伴、统合综效与互赖的精神。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">牺牲的先决条件是谦卑处于良知</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">163-168)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">抛开个人私心</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">杰出领导者会为了员工与组织，牺牲自己的自尊心、展现谦卑。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">先去了解别人，同时寻求互惠。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">人们需要先获得安全感才能形成共同的愿景。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">难度最高的牺牲</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">所有的团队成员需要放下不够完善的思维模式，学习秉持真正的原则。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">放下自己珍视的思维，是难度最高的牺牲。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一原则为中心，拥有品格力量，放下试图抓住权力与控制的意图，不再把别人视为达成目标的工具。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">&nbsp;</span></p>','2024-07-27 13:23:19.928','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>当我们以更多爱、善意、礼貌、谦逊、耐心与原谅对待别人,就会促成别人以同样的方式回报我们</p>','2024-07-27 15:42:25.569','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,'f','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005','2024-07-28 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('54038663-8b98-49f8-9047-753ff61ba561','4f3f9931-df18-4738-ad78-82b18106532c','b2120258-4016-43f4-9c32-1f9c0e96bfaf','<p>产生关怀之心的方法：</p>
<p>1）雇佣。雇佣一个能够专注侧听与支持别人做事，天生具备关怀他人的能力或性格。</p>
<p>2）训练。训练他们有团队精神，借助他人的力量合作，才能达成任务。</p>
<p>3）培育。在文化中展现出力量强大的社会规范。要对他人展现善意、尊重与关怀。</p>
<p>公司对待员工的态度，与员工对待顾客的态度有直接的关系，这是连锁反应。</p>','2024-07-18 05:56:55.114','2024-07-31 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005','2024-07-31 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>谦虚的态度，行动的勇气。</p>
<p>持续学习。</p>','2024-07-18 02:53:24.894','2024-07-18 02:53:24.894',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 02:53:24.893',NULL,NULL);
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<p>要脱离因为生活工作生涯造成的苦境，除了增长专业技能，更重要的是学会放下妄想与没意义的坚持，专心自身的提升，累积自己的内涵，才是真正令自己从苦中解脱，在工作岗位上更明智的去应对艰难的挑战。</p>
<pre id="tw-target-text" class="tw-data-text tw-text-large tw-ta" data-placeholder="Translation" aria-label="Translated text" data-ved="2ahUKEwjx9LbUlseIAxVwzDgGHbPXBpwQ3ewLegQICBAU"></pre>','2024-09-16 09:51:26.613','2024-09-19 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-09-19 00:00:00.011','2024-09-19 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('9816f5ce-212b-4481-818a-2a116a855f47','1d3f5360-c219-4129-816c-a0c5b60c44de','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>先听别人说话，才是沟通的开始，与人交流，应用心不用脑</p>','2024-08-29 14:36:51.657','2024-09-03 00:00:00.008',NULL,'f','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007','2024-09-03 00:00:00.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8dd3e42f-dc6d-4097-8830-74f053755ba0','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>度过转型期，如获新生~~重生。</p>
<p>所以，别想了，就跳吧！</p>','2024-07-18 07:51:02.017','2024-07-18 07:51:02.017',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 07:51:02.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4eab6a30-f65c-4071-8952-c12945c7aeda','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','eae33eae-de50-4837-bc3d-f47b0e4b5d76','<p>如獲新生的過度轉型期？相信我還在&ldquo;假&rdquo;期中.... 假惺惺的當没一回事發生，似乎已跳下峭壁但又幻想有降落伞撑着自己慢慢軟着陸..... 而要做的也就如作者所分享的四大策略活出生命價值，做就對了！</p>','2024-07-18 07:52:11.478','2024-07-18 07:52:11.478',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 07:52:11.477',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Because the moment you start explaining, you will find that there are a lot of gaps in your understanding, and you don''t really understand properly at all. This applied also to my school work. I had the unenviable task of giving my friends free tuition back when I was in secondary schools/universities. They would often foce me to use simple language to convey a concept through. So after a session it''s usually me who gained most from the tutoring session. Maybe I should really thank them for sharpening my intuition rather than the other way round.</p>
<h2><br><br>ChatGPT</h2>
<p>你并不真正理解某件事，除非你能把它解释得让一个小学生都明白。这是著名物理学家理查德&middot;费曼的一句名言。</p>
<p>因为当你开始解释时，你会发现自己有很多理解的空白，根本没有真正掌握它。这同样适用于我的学业。当我在中学或大学时，我常常不得不为朋友们免费补习。他们经常逼我用简单的语言来传达概念。通常在一节课之后，受益最多的是我自己，而不是他们。或许我应该感谢他们，正是他们帮助我更好地打磨了自己的直觉，而不是相反。</p>','2024-09-24 10:09:08.1','2024-09-24 10:09:08.1',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 10:09:08.099',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('13ffe499-b54c-432e-b267-e92ec34e451e','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>转换有许多未知，一旦跨过过渡期如获新生。</p>','2024-07-18 08:23:59.563','2024-07-18 08:23:59.563',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 08:23:59.562',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d562bec2-4d69-4719-805a-f68a17b31ee9','6266191f-eead-44af-86c2-036db6004a27','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>抓住道理不放，是人际关系中的障礙，也是事業发展和人生圆满的障礙。</p>
<p>真正的「閉嘴」不單只是「无言」，还要能「无见」卻「有心」。学会这门功夫，人生大部份的问题都巳解決。</p>','2024-09-09 06:48:59.084','2024-09-14 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-09-14 00:00:00.005','2024-09-14 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('e7948936-0748-499b-9b57-25db2fa1f429','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','41de270f-cb91-4cb2-9ab5-71f3aa94d1ad','<p>全然的正直是追求首要成就的第一个杠杆， 个人品德 - 谦卑和勇气, 常自我反省，持续学习。</p>','2024-07-18 09:28:02.863','2024-07-18 09:28:02.863',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 09:28:02.862',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2ae5fb4b-fb5e-47d8-947c-60b2b8260996','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>只要怀抱谦卑与勇气，自然就会成为一个正直的人。持续学习，练习。</p>','2024-07-18 09:50:39.863','2024-07-18 09:50:39.863',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 09:50:39.862',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('6e25fe64-78b8-4174-a419-102cc501b252','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>有机会转，想想转也是不同的机会</p>','2024-07-18 12:05:33.771','2024-07-18 12:05:33.771',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 12:05:33.77',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('006100be-29a9-49f2-b840-8cb3e04fb3d6','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 49 ：7月19日 星期五&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">结语：记住六字诀（Page 257-260）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">東西是拿來用的，而不是拿來愛的。把愛用在錯誤的地方，</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">踏上欲望跑步機，只會徒勞無功。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要盲目的爱。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个字-用物、爱人、敬天</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">用稻盛和夫的名句：敬天爱人</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">作者用问题不在意名词&rdquo;物&rdquo;，而在动词&rdquo;爱&rdquo;，所以东西是拿来用的，不是拿来爱的，所以这本书读的基本就是去爱、去做愿意做的事情。</span></p>','2024-07-18 02:27:36.081','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7fd78303-ed52-4a6a-a2c3-a27204722e4b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','069c59cc-12d1-4b10-aabf-cabe5bfceaaf','<p>18/7/24</p>
<p>【重启人生】Pg 247 - 252</p>
<p>【四大策略让你活出生命最大价值】</p>
<p>&bull; 棉花糖</p>
<p>找到自己要的是什么?</p>
<p>&bull; 工作本身就是奖励</p>
<p>正确的目标，既有服务他人让自己成功，就能让接下来的职涯本身成为奖励。</p>
<p>&bull; 尽可能做有趣的事</p>
<p>【享乐】与【幸福】</p>
<p>享乐与舒服有关</p>
<p>幸福则是活出有意义的生活</p>
<p>平衡乐趣与意义</p>
<p>核心是有趣</p>
<p>趣味属于正面的原始情绪</p>
<p>深感兴趣--必定带有意义</p>
<p>&bull; 转换跑道不必走直线</p>
<p>直线型职涯，稳定性职涯，转换型职涯，螺旋型职涯</p>','2024-07-18 12:54:03.75','2024-07-18 12:54:27.032',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 12:54:27.031',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d830be88-a833-448c-bb37-d7ef4e0049c5','c16bd44d-8eb8-4627-b987-e0cc430691fb','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>学会对自己不重要的事说不</p>
<p>把热切的心思贯穿在重要的是上</p>
<p>努力让你的重要的人对你产生信任感</p>
<p>在创造新，勇气与谦卑中学会平衡</p>
<p>同时要能独立，也要能够互相依赖团队</p>
<p>用不同的观点，视角来跳脱自己的盲点</p>
<p>以上的6大原则突破了我们在企业上的执着，同时也不断与自己征战，好让我们离开急躁的烦心事，从中把最重要的事做好</p>','2024-07-18 13:12:06.625','2024-07-26 00:00:00.015',NULL,'f','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014','2024-07-26 00:00:00.014',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d5ddceea-0237-424c-be36-4155c606d395','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>成功的槓杆1：正直</p>
<p>2大特点：谦卑与勇气</p>','2024-07-18 13:31:25.548','2024-07-18 13:31:25.548',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 13:31:25.548',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('ad7c0e16-e4e8-4d54-9943-ce675e641544','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','5cc137d3-98a1-42ef-8969-4c8d18c3fc7d','<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>抱持谦卑加上勇气自然就成为正直的人。意谓人生已整合于原则之下。安全感来自内心也意谓着展现最高水准的诚实和可信度。</p>','2024-07-18 13:36:26.08','2024-07-18 13:36:26.08',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 13:36:26.079',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('584e96a9-377d-48f1-b544-7abc92eb321a','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>转换跑道需要智慧和勇气，尤其下半生。但值得开拓与学习有关智勇。</p>','2024-07-18 13:53:51.867','2024-07-18 13:53:51.867',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 13:53:51.867',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('07c5e29f-1e23-4012-8c1e-a57950932b04','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','e29cd9ce-0513-46cd-8541-113f3ab52087','<p>唯有全然正直才可以为我们除去重担。</p>','2024-07-18 14:15:55.719','2024-07-18 14:15:55.719',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:15:55.718',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d62f04e1-0dcc-4672-9a83-842d58d6e9f7','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','83e85070-582e-402b-b7a0-d1d2caaca6ca','<p>谦卑与勇气方能长远地正直下去。</p>','2024-07-18 14:18:21.118','2024-07-18 14:18:21.118',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:18:21.118',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('403d1749-23b4-4a9c-a8a1-c0f8312e1ce6','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','6cef5362-7ff5-4fa0-8829-76df28438992','<p>人需要歉卑、勇气与自省迈向人生的每一步。</p>','2024-07-18 14:22:57.535','2024-07-18 14:22:57.535',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:22:57.534',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('515890ae-504b-476e-9c31-e6113d8fedb8','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','3c16baf4-84df-4958-a74c-aa7b7d950e3a','<p>转换跑道不必走直线：</p>
<p>1）直线型职涯</p>
<p>2）稳定型职涯</p>
<p>3）转换型职涯</p>
<p>4）螺旋形职涯</p>
<p>度过转型期，如获新生。</p>','2024-07-18 14:23:19.301','2024-07-18 14:23:19.301',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:23:19.3',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('467281f6-8042-4029-a180-48270d0b1d22','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="MsoNormal">Day 18<span lang="ZH-CN">：</span>7<span lang="ZH-CN">月</span>18<span lang="ZH-CN">日《成功哪有那么难》第二部</span> 12<span lang="ZH-CN">成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">第六章成功槓桿</span>1<span lang="ZH-CN">：正直</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">正直的两大特点（</span>Page103 - 110<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">如果不能站稳自己的立场，无论你做什么事，都会失败。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">全然正直是追求首要成就的第一杆杠。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">首要成就关乎如是what is VS次要成就就关乎似是What seems to be</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">丧失正直的人只懂似是，在一个似是而非的世界里生活与工作，担心别人怎样看待自己，而不想探讨自己是什么样的人、就像演员戴着面具以隐藏自己的秘密行动或维持某个形象。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">正直的两大特点；谦卑与勇气</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">言行一致</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">世上一切均由自然法则与原则主宰。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-18 14:24:09.833','2024-07-18 14:24:09.833',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:24:09.832',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8a0bf8ea-4a7d-489b-8312-eb28d352e51a','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','47cda368-b147-4725-82b1-56340e248f14','<p>需要备有谦虚和勇气成为正直的人。先从了解自己开始下手。</p>','2024-07-18 14:31:19.795','2024-07-18 14:31:33.649',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:31:33.648',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('27c1e3d2-e968-4e03-92d8-f4323e9b119b','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','042e3658-0d45-45d8-92b1-3d973b328b46','<p>转换跑道，就如同重生，刚开始的担忧，到慢慢的着手，肯定需要时间，但只要内心强大，方向清楚，问题就不大了！</p>','2024-07-18 14:32:03.639','2024-07-18 14:32:03.639',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:32:03.639',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4516970a-117d-4791-8926-dffeecfab377','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','7448fec0-0a1b-4d55-b6ab-493cfa3c30e6','<p>好好反思，我们今日真正想要的东西是什么，而不是我们过去追求的东西</p>','2024-07-18 14:33:45.072','2024-07-18 14:33:45.072',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:33:45.071',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1db8d0b0-0c30-486f-952e-4ddd49d0d2bf','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','1131f00f-c162-442f-b3c0-e0ead4f636c3','<p>Nothing to loose! 勇于尝试！</p>','2024-07-18 14:39:00.979','2024-07-18 14:39:00.979',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:39:00.978',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c2d15ace-f683-49de-a24c-58cea4d4abd9','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','459a1283-290a-4d4b-b10f-6504664de97b','<p>阅读到第六章，觉得每一章结尾都有细说如何应用与建议。<br>我们可以跟着去实习应用，会更加体验到12杠杆原理与效果。<br>例如：<br>1. 不妨在生活中采取更正直的行为，然后在日记里记下感想。<br>2. 有没有在生活中表现出勇气与谦卑的典范。也记下得到了什么果实。要是效果是首要成就，那就应该跟着继续这么做吧。</p>','2024-07-18 14:39:08.008','2024-07-18 14:39:08.008',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:39:08.007',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d72f1612-bbd0-4964-9cde-875f98999fc0','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>啊，我应该是无论如何也不敢跳下去作者说的悬崖峭壁。<br>但当我们处在很想转变的过程，那就毅然下定决心。我受够了，我受够了，于是我重新出发，找回自己的价值。<br>这句话说得对：做自己今日想做的，而不是过去追求的。</p>','2024-07-18 14:40:40.352','2024-07-18 14:40:40.352',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:40:40.351',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('829dc800-84ae-48b1-8ceb-928fb6802312','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>开窍的时刻就是接受与放下，</p>
<p>接受自己的不足然后勇于踏前一部。</p>
<p>唯有继续修自己</p>','2024-08-29 14:42:33.156','2024-08-29 14:43:39.658',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:43:39.658',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('539877a5-916f-4f04-9b47-ddb2719692ef','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','82401c82-df66-4556-a63e-3ff096e9ba26','<p>突破是能力上提升，而开窍是思维、格局、心灵上的改变。</p>','2024-08-29 14:48:27.046','2024-08-29 14:48:27.046',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:48:27.045',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c3dde273-63a2-41a4-a9a8-739ae549e66c','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 18：7月18日《成功哪有那么难》第二部 12成功槓桿</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第六章成功槓桿1：正直&ndash; 正直的两大特点（Page103 - 110）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们必须透过诚实的自省，了解自已。喜欢作者说，我们必须时常鞭策自己，坚持自己才能做到书中的七个习惯，这种坚持是值得也带给我们满意的成就感，为我的人生带来了意义，以及爱人、服务与不断尝试的动力，每天起来的时候再告诉是否依循正直而活的挑战。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">对自己要严格。</span></p>','2024-07-18 14:50:02.808','2024-07-18 14:50:02.808',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:50:02.806',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b822fd78-d56a-4335-b075-3b5316d685de','46d25138-8e19-4278-bc6a-95b10ed0c564','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day34：9月20 日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起<br>第七章： 职场的修炼 &nbsp;4. 如同孩子一样&ndash; 5. 培养同察力（Page210-215）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p><br><strong>如同孩子一样</strong><br>成功人士也需要能随時放下，像孩子般的活在當下。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><br><strong>培养洞察力</strong><br>洞察力是成为卓越人物的必要基本条件。<br>有洞察力的人，会随時回到自己最真实的经验，最坦率的内心世界，寻求对事物的理解 (事的本質，话的背后本意，行为的动机，现象后面的意义)。<br>洞察力与童年有关。越多样环境变化，越有可能养成洞察力的习惯。如果觉得自己洞察力不足，可以尝试《补过童年》、打破条条框框，用童真的眼光观察事情。</p>','2024-09-20 15:53:17.02','2024-09-20 15:54:47.661',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:54:47.66',NULL,NULL);
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<p>别人还没开口，我就知道他想说什么，还提醒他「说重点」，也爰插嘴。这一缺点是让人反感的。今后要学习用心听别人说话，練习不插嘴，不妄断，不「心不在焉」。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>欣赏别人的优点，並真心表达，给人「爰」与「温暖」的支持。</p>','2024-09-09 07:03:29.732','2024-09-15 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022','2024-09-15 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">序言 019页 - 024页</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">读后感悟 ：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">史蒂芬的谦卑，把七个习惯的原则整合不是为了个人而是为公丛服务。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">朔造性格而不是获得成功，不仅要帮助人们变成高效能人士，还要能成为更好的领导者。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">从优秀到卓越的关键是坚持核心、刺激进步。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">没有原则就没有效率，没有原则就没有个性。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">做一个领导者首先你要知道自己是谁，这是作事的基础。先朔造自己的个性，不只发挥个人效能，而且培养领导力。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">每一个获得巨大成功的人，一定会有宏大的愿景和目标，好比如盖茨的宏伟目标：每张桌子上都有一台电脑和让疟疾从世界上消失。（习惯二以终为始），他们要实现的终极目标不是为了自己和个人利益。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">把所有能量注入首要目标，要是第一。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">互补，双赢思维，1+1绝对大于2，就是习惯六的统合综效</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原则是互补，但又彼此独立</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 10:06:45.303','2024-09-16 10:06:45.303',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 10:06:45.302',NULL,NULL);
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<p>低价格+高口碑，会员费反哺利润（Page202-206）</p>
<p>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>M2B的优等生代表</p>
<p>好市多：通过稳定的会员制收费盈利，可以更有底气去降低零售价。品类不多，但确保品质优良，建立口碑。直接与生产商链接，减少中间环节的成本，让零售价拥有更大的竞争力。</p>
<p>奥乐齐：将商品到零售据点的中间环节，减到最低，把效率发挥到了极致，降低商品成本。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 15:58:33.594','2024-09-23 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-09-23 00:00:00.022','2024-09-23 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
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<p>M2b, shortern S and B, low price, good quality,&nbsp; trending items👍👍</p>','2024-09-24 10:24:20.951','2024-09-24 10:24:20.951',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 10:24:20.95',NULL,NULL);
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<li>双赢协议是双方对同一件事达成共识，都清楚彼此的期待结果</li>
<li>双赢体系建立在合作，而不是斗看谁赢谁输</li>
</ul>','2024-10-25 15:32:36.985','2024-10-25 15:32:36.985',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-10-25 15:32:36.984',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4113aeee-d790-40cc-a1c8-dd6b0fd4df0f','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>全然的正直是追求首要成就的第一杠杆！为什么？全然的正直代表着&ldquo;清晰&rdquo;的认知到自己是谁？清楚知道自己的原则是什么？而不是似是而非又模凌两可的人生投机者。我在想，佛家讲的&ldquo;如是我闻&rdquo;指的就是这个杠杆吧！全然的正直。唯有全然的正直，我们才能完整的接受自己的弱点，才有持续修行进步的空间。能够承认自己的弱点说起来容易，做起来却不容易，过程中需要具备两项人格特质：谦卑与勇气。谦卑允许我们接受自己的渺小，勇气让我们克服空气，遇难而上。毕竟，所有的美德都源于一颗臣服于现实世界的心。</p>','2024-07-18 14:56:23.719','2024-07-18 14:56:23.719',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 14:56:23.718',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fb1dc5a6-5900-4957-9b23-bdf96602b60f','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','7c90ff31-3cfe-46d0-8204-3b842b9bb44e','<p>转跑道不必走直线，职业模式有四大类别；</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（一）直线型职涯</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（二）稳定型职涯</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（三）转换型职涯</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>（四）螺旋型职涯</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>排除万难，想到就干，度过转型期，如获新生</p>','2024-07-18 15:22:51.136','2024-07-18 15:23:45.158',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:23:45.158',NULL,NULL);
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<li>最高效能的人生，是把突破变成日常。</li>
<li>我们只能放下曾经提起的或已经完成的，否则就叫&ldquo;放弃&rdquo;，而不是&ldquo;放下&rdquo;。</li>
</ul>','2024-08-29 14:52:47.986','2024-08-29 14:52:47.986',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:52:47.985',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('421224e6-7750-4a2d-9127-bb3feb74e5b2','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','bec627e8-6c89-459f-88b5-a8a8f48275ca','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">真正的成长不只是进步，而是彻底的突破。突破就像打破天花板，让自己看到以前看不到的，做到以前做不到的。回想自己，以前有很多次努力，却停在了舒适圈里，没有继续挑战和改变。这让我明白，停滞不前，意味着离真正的丰富人生越来越远。要学会放下已经完成的，不要放弃，而是为了更高的目标。</span></p>','2024-08-29 14:54:42.058','2024-08-29 14:54:42.058',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 14:54:42.057',NULL,NULL);
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<p>生而为之，就为一切感謝。</p>','2024-09-09 07:17:55.897','2024-09-16 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016','2024-09-16 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b96ddc3c-3fbb-4162-b457-7c0f2a61a761','5a680903-37dd-429a-9e8e-17080898ea51','59926472-a7df-4e83-b8b7-27f37f6867d7','<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">Day 1&nbsp; 9月16日 (星期一）📚《 7 Habits 高效能人士的7个习惯 》&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">序言 019页 - 024页</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s3">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">读后感悟 ：</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">很久以前就听過朋友介紹這本書很好，以為只是本励志書，原來本書是柯維花了三十多年學習、研究、實踐、传授,並加以提煉和完善，最終集結成冊的一本書。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">很想通過堅持讀這本書，在不斷學習和實踐中塑造自己更好的性格。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s2">先戰胜自己才能贏得工作上的勝利。讓自己不斷成長成為一個更好的人。</span></p>
<p class="p2"><span class="s3">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-16 10:09:54.253','2024-09-16 10:09:54.253',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 10:09:54.252',NULL,NULL);
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<p>也造就了不一样的看事情角度。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-20 15:53:39.865','2024-09-20 15:53:39.865',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-20 15:53:39.864',NULL,NULL);
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<p>了解了七个习惯的简要定义。</p>','2024-09-24 10:51:29.92','2024-09-24 10:51:29.92',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-24 10:51:29.92',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7162cd39-3b8e-4a2e-acdf-a0bb2dae3a00','f71bead1-7e54-4779-b2af-a97b5b3816a8','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">40：9月 26日 《活学》Part 3 跟人在一起</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">第八章： 领导的修炼6. 都是我的错！ - 8. 领导者的考验（Page248-253）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">以人为本。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">原来都是我的错，不仅头脑哦认错嘴巴认错，连灵魂深处也要认错到底。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">认错有多少，承担就有多少，认错范围有多大，心量就有多大。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">反求诸己</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不断地修正自己，让自己的周遇善缘充满，形成一个因缘聚合的大磁场。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">领导者的考验</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">讲话别人听不懂，一定是自己没说清楚：说话不清楚，一定是自己体悟不深：体悟不深，一定是自己没做到：做到而别人看不见，一定是做的深度不够：已经做到够深，别人仍不受影响，一定是对人的关心不够。。。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一定是自己心不真，所以事不实；愿不广，行不深。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">一个组织里，在上位者的价值观要影响其他人，必须他自己内在的想要的、相信的、感受的、言行一致。不以己度人，只能换位思考。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-26 06:20:11.752','2024-09-26 06:20:11.752',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-26 06:20:11.751',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 谦卑是美德之母。因为所有美德都源自一颗臣服于现实世界的心，世上的一切均由自然法则与原则主宰</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 勇气是美德之父。因为面对考验时，我们能否坚守美德，能否根据自己的核心信念行事，取決于我们的勇气，</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 若要强调公司所重视的法律、伦理与道德标准，就必须让所有阶层的员工身体力行，透过态度与行动展现出来</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 你越了解自己的本质，就越能洞悉适用于所有人的真理</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>～ 拥有狭隘的见识容易让人以为看到了全世界，可能会把投射心态于自省混为一谈。我们必须透过诚实的自省，了解自己</p>','2024-07-18 15:04:05.306','2024-07-18 15:04:05.306',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:04:05.305',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('524aa720-d09f-48f7-b88b-14439ce5cb95','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','c972a3d9-d06c-4c0c-9a05-5fe06761f12c','<p>謙卑是美德之母，因为所有的美德都源自一颗巨服於现实世界的心。勇气是美德之父，因为在面临考验时，我们能否坚守美德，决於个人的勇氣</p>','2024-07-18 15:34:35.882','2024-07-18 15:34:35.882',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:34:35.881',NULL,NULL);
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<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-18 15:35:41.349','2024-07-18 15:35:41.349',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:35:41.348',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('598d7e98-77de-43fe-b3f3-dc4632579d9d','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','ea087d81-378d-4180-ba32-68046993e624','<p>纵身一跃，便能拥抱自由。勇敢地迈出那一步，是一次突破。然而，跳下去的那一刻令人恐惧，但一旦迈出，很快便能体验到重生的美好。</p>','2024-07-18 15:37:33.61','2024-07-18 15:37:33.61',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:37:33.61',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b2fb964f-6ae1-4629-9301-5d667d488ea5','0ab335ce-2156-4aef-b582-02f67ee8f109','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>全然的正直是追求首要成就的第一个槓桿；而谦卑是美德之母，它和勇气都是正直的人格特质的产物。</p>','2024-07-18 15:52:54.243','2024-07-18 15:52:54.243',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:52:54.242',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b9ec2e9d-b447-48e6-a710-5bf6116c9b52','35f9a685-289a-418b-9ce1-8fe1b9866246','c5e069be-e34f-4a00-8866-8ee0e14fd6df','<p>在尝试一个未曾做过的事情以前，难免会怕，会迟疑，然后就会像很多东西吓自己。</p>
<p>只要做了一次，过关后，犹如重获新生。</p>','2024-07-18 15:55:56.948','2024-07-18 15:55:56.948',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 15:55:56.947',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b8ce7e9b-d6a2-49e1-8c12-dc7c9aab623a','418f5975-7d9d-4737-b31d-57b8649c87d2','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>要解 「父母难为」的根源，就是我们自己要活得比父母小！无论父母是什么状态，都要把自己的一切歸功於父母，把父母放在上位，在父母面前把自己變小，听父母的教誨。</p>
<p>父母養育子女是天道。子女孝順父母是孝道，是人超越其他动物的「进化觀」，必須標舉为核心價值以發揚之。</p>
<p>一個不感恩的人，很难自助天助，欲子女人生圆满，必先教以孝。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-09-09 07:46:21.472','2024-09-13 00:00:00.016',NULL,'f','2024-09-13 00:00:00.015','2024-09-13 00:00:00.015',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('49803933-fedc-42db-87dd-3b89beed0836','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>作者提倡的和哈佛大学的75年研究一致：良好的关系让我们健康和幸福。所以，和亲友建立良好关系是关键。我也认同强化灵性生活的重要。</p>','2024-07-18 22:26:14.807','2024-07-18 22:26:14.807',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 22:26:14.806',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('283074e0-9eca-48c4-94ed-e4bcec947e67','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','53929692-27f3-426b-a4ce-9f2a98b8d064','<p>当我们有认知的问题时，往内心寻求答案是正确途径。你的内心有答案。</p>','2024-07-18 22:32:27.074','2024-07-18 22:32:27.074',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-18 22:32:27.073',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aa7ffe92-2c77-4625-9f2e-a4b7adffeb24','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','f9cd75dc-f522-4a2a-a811-ea6c7508b057','<p>用物</p>
<p>爱人</p>
<p>敬天</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>把爱留给人，不要留给东西，不要去崇拜金钱 权利 享乐与名声等，以便不让自己被物化。</p>','2024-07-18 16:05:03.964','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>学会不恐惧并接受衰退为自然法则，把每一天都活成最后一天，尽量不留遗憾； 不想独自走过衰退的话，维系好人际关系很重要。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2）打开study group后要滑到当天的位置有点麻烦..能否把已过期的缩小，或者以月历方面呈现？</p>','2024-07-18 16:12:32.165','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f73e9fb0-a884-441b-b35a-00f45766bda8','c176d961-5acb-4135-aede-d960ce4b556c','db9c25a7-36f9-44ef-a996-fa4cc7803e77','<p>c2c 的发展又减少了经济链流程</p>
<p>但是会担心信任度，对于买卖加<br>淘宝看了这点创建了一个池塘让大家不仅可以share 自己不要的还有加入社交性（晒好物）增加趣味性</p>','2024-09-26 06:57:06.945','2024-09-26 06:57:06.945',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-26 06:57:06.944',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('f35de82f-9d9d-4d28-af5c-c88d505fc9b9','78e17a97-8078-4228-a453-9232aabcc994','224ada56-b4c4-4cee-9baf-0badc4b884c6','<p>学会感恩是一切变好的开始</p>','2024-09-16 10:29:00.755','2024-09-16 10:29:01.546',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-16 10:29:01.546',NULL,NULL);
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<p>心真事实，愿廣行深，只有心真愿廣，才活出自已的好样子。</p>
<p>苦是來自內在的妄想和執著</p>','2024-09-09 07:50:33.097','2024-09-19 00:00:00.012',NULL,'f','2024-09-19 00:00:00.011','2024-09-19 00:00:00.011',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('abc656c9-ab09-4da2-8db6-622afa1a5d54','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','fb3be631-8f71-4db1-adec-776df52da27c','<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一个人的傲人成就不一定带来快乐反而充满沮丧，生活的没有意义，有自杀的念头。我们应该去爱，</span> <span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">做我们爱做的事而不是爱物品</span>-<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">名利，权力，因为追求这一些不会让我们快乐。</span></p>','2024-06-11 14:18:53.887','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7b8f306f-1d39-4de0-ab8e-fb7c7f796f5c','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','26458796-5d5f-468a-ac5f-69a3a6e55885','<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;">Day 19: 19/7/2024 (</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-hansi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">五）</span></strong><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Times New Roman'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB;"> - p.110~114</span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; background: white;">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">每个人都有三个自我：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">公众的自我</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">外在的形象与人格；</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">私人的自我</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">私底下与家人好友相处时所展现的真实自我；</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing" style="margin-left: .25in; text-indent: -.25in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1;"><!-- [if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: Garamond; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt ''Times New Roman'';">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">私密自我</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">&mdash;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">埋藏在內心深处，会检视我们的人生剧本，也就是深植于我们的逃传基因、生活环境与社会刺约的个人动机、倾向与习性。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman''; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">我们能否拥有正直的品格，取决于藏于深处的私密自我。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">高效能人士会透过由內而外的途径，施展私密自我的力量來影响別人。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">愈了解自己，我们的心胸就愈开放，你就愈能影响其他人。你愿意敝开自己接受他人的影响与意见，于是他们也会开始向你敝开自己。唯有先了解自己，才能对他人发挥影响力。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: ''Garamond'',''serif''; mso-fareast-font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">Carl Rogers</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">：內心的平靜被打乱时，我们就会启动各种心理防卫机转，例如否认、理智化、合理化、或是投射。投射指的是，我把自己的动机投射到別人身上。我们根据別人的行为评断別人，根据自己的意图评断自己。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">．</span></p>
<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: DFKai-SB; mso-ascii-font-family: Garamond; mso-hansi-font-family: Garamond; mso-bidi-font-family: ''Times New Roman'';">面对难题时，检视自身的目的与方法是件非常重的事，以避免自己遁入理智化的世界，而逃避人生的责任。</span></p>','2024-07-06 04:12:18.149','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fc3fdf96-754c-417a-a10e-f6ac96022847','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','1a28ed21-9fd6-4880-8fcc-727c43eb36b1','<p>我很少与自己内心深处对话，今后需要花多一点时间与自己对话，了解自己内心想法。</p>','2024-07-13 00:42:37.983','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('86639dfc-3613-452e-825a-cd468023fdb5','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','c9b39003-1a47-4eb9-a447-837aa6128a1b','<p>天性不必成为命运</p>
<p>为了幸福有时必须抗衡天生直觉。</p>
<p>大多数人既然对金钱、权力、快乐、名声的世俗渴望有着冲动 那么就跟着这冲动走 这样做一定让我快乐。</p>
<p>岂不知这是大自然的冷酷骗局。大自然不在乎你快不快乐。</p>
<p>是自己硬硬要把世俗成功与幸福混为一谈、挂钩一起，那是人们的问题，不是大自然。</p>
<p>现代社会大事渲染 &ldquo;只要我喜欢 有什么不可以&rdquo; 的放纵行为&nbsp; 害人不浅。</p>
<p>人需遵循天理 一切道法自然。你喜欢的话，叫太阳明天西边升起吧！</p>
<p>作者总结这本书为6个字：用物、爱人、敬天。</p>
<p>用物：物质丰盛反映老天爷赐福给人们的创意与勤奋 好让人们日常生活中提供舒适与喜悦。</p>
<p>爱人：东西是拿来用的 不是拿来爱的。爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的。崇拜物品，人们会努力用金钱、权力、享乐、名声等物，让人容易陷入物化自己。</p>
<p>敬天：尊重和接受人都会衰退的一天。不要抗拒衰退。顺应天理 我们好好转型跑道&nbsp; 以服务他人为人生目标。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-14 15:03:40.517','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('db85a81c-264a-4c0e-ac51-08ecae396af8','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','5c338adf-cc96-40a4-afe9-8fb6eae2e776','<p>用物。爱人。敬天。</p>
<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-15 13:02:32.001','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b5dd31c4-b499-4958-9928-1e7ed7d9062e','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','063abc02-03e9-474f-8703-b4faf5dbf3ed','<p>金錢、 权力、 快樂和名聲，是一般世俗所渴望的，是我們一生汲汲耕耘。可是實事是非常残酷的，因為這些不會誏我們得到真正的快樂。</p>
<p>唯有六''字訣： 用物、 愛人、 敬天。</p>
<p>上天賜我們丰盛的物質，是誏我們享用的，|也能拯救需要的人，也''反映上天給我們的創意和勤奮，在日常生活中，能过得舒适和喜悅，去愛你願意做的。</p>','2024-07-17 07:22:59.222','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('698e6eb9-db22-455e-a7af-180e8a4e6ed8','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>The author stated that it''s hard for the masses to accept the concepts of the book as we humans are hard-wired to seek wealth, power, happiness, &amp; fame due to the primal system of the brain since aeon ago for materialistic desire.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Yet it doesn''t mean that we could behave like an animal to seek hedonistic desire as what people commonly say and think: ["If I like it, why not?"], we have to live above the primal instinct.&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-17 07:41:50.369','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('aba089fb-289a-4f0b-8334-947fbc08165d','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','9d3a9707-ccc4-4288-8ea9-001fb67da208','<p>正本书用六个字总结。用物，爱人，敬天。</p>
<p>用物，东西是拿来用的。</p>
<p>爱人，爱是动词不是名词。</p>
<p>敬天，天就是天时。就算把人事物做好了，我们还是要等待天命出现。</p>','2024-07-17 13:02:08.775','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('8bafd07e-001f-4b95-b559-f219f2c8e418','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','15796862-86d2-4057-a055-0f7b1bf6f462','<p>私密的自我拥有正直的一颗心。表现出真诚，别人肯定信任你。</p>
<p>了解自己，控制自己，奉献自己。</p>
<p>处理事情不要因为情绪化而过度反应。应该以负责任的态度处理。以德服人</p>
<p>了解四种防卫机制。</p>
<p>理性化合理化自己的决定。</p>
<p>否认这不是我的错，都是别人的错。</p>
<p>投射矛头指向别人，互相猜疑。</p>
<p>静心倾听内在的声音，与内在对话。让良知发挥作用，这样肯定对别人产生正面的影响力。</p>','2024-07-17 23:46:40.329','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<div>成功槓杠2</div>
<div>贡献：</div>
<div>然后重新设计自我。</div>
<div>1. 先找到自己正确的人生方向。</div>
<div>2. 愿意承担风险</div>
<div>3. 众生学习</div>
<div>&nbsp;</div>
<div>不要只会怪罪别人，怪罪组织，怪罪社会或政府。</div>','2024-07-19 01:41:16.326','2024-07-19 01:41:16.326',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 01:41:16.325',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('bb4d30dd-b6d6-4f77-88a5-860809be08cf','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','861e06a4-3e01-404d-a0c4-d2fa9f5bfa16','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们将需要学习一套新的人生技能、一个公式，才能越过越好。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">用物。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">爱人。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">敬天。</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">爱是辛福的震央。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">把爱用在错误的地方，踏上欲望跑步机，设定成超速运转，只会徒劳无功。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">如果你爱的是物品，你会努力用金钱、权利、享乐与名声等偶像来物化自己。你将崇拜自己，或至少是崇拜你自身的平面剪影。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">这个世界向我们保证，只要崇拜那些东西，就能获得快乐，但这个世界说谎了：追求金钱、权利、享乐与名声等偶像，不会让你快乐，也因此你不该崇拜自己。</span></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1">在生活的周遭，只要我们时刻去关注，可能可以让我们有所启发。学会感谢启发我们那些人和事。</span></li>
</ul>','2024-07-18 00:44:19.936','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7cd5d317-84cb-455d-8bf2-2e4370bba9a3','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','bc030323-5b78-4cf5-8c04-0ba4b93a64d1','<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Day 49 ：7月19日 星期五&nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">结语：记住六字诀（Page 257-260）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">東西是拿來用的，而不是拿來愛的。把愛用在錯誤的地方，</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">踏上欲望跑步機，只會徒勞無功。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">不要盲目的爱。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">六个字-用物、爱人、敬天</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">用稻盛和夫的名句：敬天爱人</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">作者用问题不在意名词&rdquo;物&rdquo;，而在动词&rdquo;爱&rdquo;，所以东西是拿来用的，不是拿来爱的，所以这本书读的基本就是去爱、去做愿意做的事情。</span></p>','2024-07-18 02:19:15.667','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('7c54b875-6ef8-4c9f-8c70-51a5daa71a49','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>六字诀：用物。爱人。敬天。</p>
<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。</p>
<p>爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的；</p>
<p>把爱用在错误的地方，踏上欲望跑步机，设定成超速运转，只会徒劳无功。</p>','2024-07-18 05:08:13.789','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b4ad9327-af03-4ad9-96c9-bc4dd182f4b5','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','d144df03-c534-401d-9dee-2939d86b52a2','<p>六字诀：</p>
<p>用物。</p>
<p>爱人。</p>
<p>敬天。</p>
<p>爱是幸福的震央。</p>
<p>爱的进阶版是&ldquo;崇拜&rdquo;，所以不要崇拜&ldquo;物&rdquo;、&ldquo;自己&rdquo;。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-18 07:59:26.748','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>【重启人生】</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Pg 253-254</p>
<p>度过转型期，如获新生</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>坟墓与初春</p>
<p>死亡与重生</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>决心与享受每一个苦乐参半的过程</p>
<p>重生吧</p>
<p>除非我还徘徊在看似已经拥有的一切，握着的有限，还是松开的无限。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>离开那个我以为我知道【我是谁】的地方，职涯可以死亡，生命还无限。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>只用松身一跳，才有机会重生。</p>','2024-07-18 13:09:52.623','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
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<p>这本书始于一次夜间航班，作者展开个人研究，最后做出重大的人生转变，辞去工作，改为从事更侧重晶体智力的职业。作者摆脱执着，花更多时间培养亲友关系，并强化性灵生活，不再物化自己，坦然接受脆弱，彻底了解新使命，致力辅助他人。人类需要学习一套新的人生技能，一个新公式，才能愈过愈美好。</p>
<p>作者用六个字来总结这本书：1.用物 - 物质丰盛，在日常生活中提供舒适与喜悦。2.爱人- 爱是幸福的震央。3.敬天。</p>
<p>作者感谢飞机上的那位先生，让他踏上改变人生的旅程，即便他毫不知情。</p>','2024-07-18 15:07:32.488','2024-07-19 00:00:00.017',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('d6d37a19-cfd9-473a-9aff-234cac958f89','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','93f7feca-2e7e-486e-bdb3-b3decc1e2f3d','<p>Day12：8月29 日 《活学》Part 1 人生最重要的事<br>第三章： 从认错开始 &nbsp;1. 开窍之路 &ndash; 3. 放下的条件（Page080-085）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>开窍之路</strong><br>开窍超越于进步。<br>进步像爬楼梯，认真努力即可。<br>开窍像在天花板打洞，是更上層楼，脱胎换骨。<br>最高效能的人生是把突破变成日常。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>一枝独秀 不如百花齐放</strong><br>一枝独秀并非真正的成功，也成了继续学习和成长的绊脚石。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>放下的条件</strong><br>不冲动的提起，不轻易的放弃。<br>坚持到底而苦尽甘来后潇洒退场才叫放下。</p>','2024-08-29 15:30:03.676','2024-08-29 15:30:03.676',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 15:30:03.675',NULL,NULL);
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<li>用物 &nbsp;爱人 &nbsp;敬天</li>
<li>权利、成功、金钱等东西是拿来用，并不是爱</li>
<li>去爱，做你愿意做的事</li>
<li>选择要崇拜的是什么，因为这会大大影响你爱什么</li>
</ul>','2024-07-19 00:54:31.042','2024-07-19 00:54:31.042',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 00:54:31.041',NULL,NULL);
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<p>作者总结：用物、爱人、敬天。</p>
<ol>
<li>用物：物质丰盛反映创意与勤奋，带来舒适与喜悦。</li>
<li>爱人：爱是留给人的，不是物品。</li>
<li>敬天：尊重生命衰退，以服务他人为目标。</li>
</ol>','2024-07-19 01:05:12.47','2024-07-19 01:05:12.47',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 01:05:12.47',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">新零售：用数据为体验性插上效率的翅膀（</span><span lang="EN-MY">Page083-089</span><span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-MY">🎯</span><span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">新零售：線上賦能，線下體驗，讓零售業從單向轉為雙向，並產生更多的可能性。誰先掌握，誰先奪先機。</span></p>','2024-08-29 15:39:20.628','2024-08-29 15:39:20.628',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 15:39:20.627',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('86482a5f-71dd-4f2d-a99b-a6f68f5e1877','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','80c5d91b-7a3f-4987-82e1-726f6da09e6b','<p>我们每个人都要三个自我：公众的自我（外在的形象与人格）、私人的自我（在亲近人面前所展现的真实自己）和内心深处的私密的自我（这个会检视我们的人生剧本，我们的遗传基因，我们的制约、个人动机、倾向和习性）。我们是否拥有正直的品格是取决于藏在这个深处的私密的自我。通过了解这个自我，我才能控制自己和奉献自己。一切的创造和改变都是来自对私密的自己的觉察。自我觉察，才能看见自己的心理防卫机转，自己的投射在他人身上的动机。通过自我对话，我才能意识到自己到底是如何通过自己的防卫机转（方法）和动机的投射（目的）去应对外在的挑战。在自我对话中，勇气让一个人做到艰难的选择，选择听取自己的良知。这是需要不断的练习，不断的挑战自己。自己也接纳自己有时候会做不到。那么，这也意味着自己还有某一些地方勇气不足。重点是，自己要先有意识到，未来的改变才有可能发生。</p>','2024-07-17 14:02:17.144','2024-07-19 02:56:07.364',NULL,'f','2024-07-19 00:00:00.016','2024-07-19 02:56:07.362',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('35c4a53f-81d3-45c2-88c5-bbc51bded2d6','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','0a652b55-937b-435d-bcb8-4d3fb846b83f','<p>用物。&nbsp; &nbsp;爰人。&nbsp; 敬天。</p>
<p>爰是幸福的震央。</p>
<p>去爰，爰是留给人的，不是留给东西的；</p>
<p>把爰用在错误的地方，踏上欲望跑步机，只会徒劳无功。</p>
<p>不再物化自己，坦然接受脆弱，徹底了解自己的新使命，致力於輔助他人。</p>','2024-07-19 03:03:01.163','2024-07-19 03:03:01.163',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 03:03:01.162',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">内在的三个自我&ndash; 与内在自我进行对话（Page110 - 114）</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">🎯今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">我们有3个自我</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">1）公众的自我</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">2）私人的自我</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3）内心的自我</span></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">3个自我在不同的时间出现。我是否有了解自己？控制自己？和奉献自己。</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">与自己内心沟通很重要。只有肯反省才能觉悟自己的不对，跟自己和解，才能接受不完美的自己。坚持把原则做好。听自己的良知，才是往对的方向走。</span></p>','2024-07-19 05:47:38.191','2024-07-19 05:47:38.191',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 05:47:38.19',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cb52ece8-f7a8-43d3-a4e6-1f065cd3c05c','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','2cb3cebd-6aa8-4a92-bef8-64f85903e6dd','<p>Day 49 ：7月19日 &nbsp; &nbsp; 《重启人生》<br>结语：记住六字诀（Page 257-260）<br>🎯今日读后感悟：</p>
<p>对完这本书，让我印象深刻的是Simon Sinek 自己需要找出自己的为什么？他告诉我们，如果要释放真正的潜能与快乐，就必须说出深层的人生目标，不再做无法达成那个目标的事。你的为什么，将是玉石底下的雕像。</p>
<p>记得坦然接受无法控制的自然衰退。</p>
<p>健康的人际关系</p>
<p>幸福两大支柱；一个是爱，另外一个是找出不会赶走爱的生活方式，爱会战胜一切。</p>
<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。爱是幸福的震央。</p>
<p>爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的。把爱用在错误的地方，踏上欲望跑步机，设定成超速运转，只会徒劳无功。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 07:42:06.917','2024-07-19 07:42:06.917',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 07:42:06.916',NULL,NULL);
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">内在的三个自我</span>&ndash; <span lang="ZH-CN">与内在自我进行对话（</span>Page110 - 114<span lang="ZH-CN">）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">🎯<span lang="ZH-CN">今日读后感悟：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">每个人都有三个自我：</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN">公丛的自我（外在的形象与人格）</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">私人的自我（私底下与家人好友相处时所展现的真实自己）</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">埋藏在内心的私密自我（这个内在自我会检视我们的人生剧本，也就是深植于我们的遗传基因、生活环境与社会制约的个人动机、倾向与习性）</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">正直品格，取决于藏在深处的私密自我。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">人的真诚被人信任。愈了解自己，心胸愈开放，就愈能影响他人。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">与内在自我进行对话</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">勇气是正直的功能之一。</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 08:23:32.129','2024-07-19 08:23:32.129',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 08:23:32.128',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('5a521f0a-21d5-4035-8b20-9ce4c4fc678a','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','aab18fe3-cf5a-440e-a287-6f61a50be74f','<p>每个人的3个自我：</p>
<p>公众的自我（外在的形象与人格）</p>
<p>私人的自我（私底下与家人好友相处时所展现的真实自己）</p>
<p>埋藏在内心深处的私密自我（这个内在自我会检视我们的人生剧本，也就是深植于我们的遗传基因、生活环境与社会制约的个人动机、倾向与习性）</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>我们能否拥有正直的品格，取决于藏在深处的私密自我。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>唯有先了解自己，才能对他人发挥影响力。</p>','2024-07-19 14:06:33.893','2024-07-19 14:06:33.893',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:06:33.892',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b39b6329-4f19-4f13-a699-934ea0559880','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','41f959d3-c932-4657-84ab-137317e3a989','<p>1. The biggest takeaway of all is to accept ageing and impermanence.&nbsp;</p>
<p>It''s easy to judge others, and seeing people struggle to accept the facts of the declination of intelligence from a 3rd party POV seems ridiculous.</p>
<p>But when it occurs to me................. Everything seems justifiable.....</p>
<p>Hopefully, with the wisdom of this book, I too shall await and accept the inevitable with an open heart.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>2. Loved the pre-scheduling system, it helps a lot and now too with more books to choose from concurrently.</p>
<p>Appreciate the upgrade!!!!!!!!!!</p>','2024-07-17 08:25:37.004','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('703bb802-c9f9-476d-9a94-788b4baaed19','8479bc2b-7243-4ae5-9903-a42d35a556f9','9ec019e3-2781-4206-be53-c483ae61a027','<p>不知不觉，在每天设定阅读下，用了1个半多月把260页的《重启人生》读完了。</p>
<p>书虽然读完了，但还要时间消化，毕竟重启人生是人生的大课题。</p>
<p>不过从书中我得到很多启发。作者教会了我不要将自己物化，</p>
<p>追求金钱、权力、享乐与名誉。不会让我快乐。</p>
<p>明白后，我把抓紧的手放开，顿时豁然开朗，变轻松快乐了。</p>
<p>作者教会了我对待人生的方式，不但我本身受益，也改变着我育儿的观念，让我更懂得如何在孩子的人生道路上做相对正确、少后悔的引导。</p>
<p>谢谢读书会平台对此书读书会的推动，要不我可没有机会拜读次书。</p>
<p>谢谢！</p>','2024-07-18 05:37:57.559','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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<p>这个就是贡献的意义所在吧。</p>','2024-07-19 06:16:55.527','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c503ac0c-4115-4d55-8d4c-eb9dca93cdf2','e9c7a1a7-1420-405f-b586-3ca5e0e02fba','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>探索自己的内心勝过探索一切。</p>
<p>－切结果都是由心发出。</p>','2024-07-19 09:06:56.698','2024-07-22 00:00:00.024',NULL,'f','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023','2024-07-22 00:00:00.023',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('cd029e04-4966-4976-becb-48e7a42e35dc','4e120762-333c-4df6-b87a-60d6203864ad','9e0fe8f1-0f91-4d8a-bc9d-09d254944a30','<p>开窍之路<br>进步赶不上无常<br>进步像爬楼梯，认真努力即可<br>开窍像天花板打洞，更上层楼</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>放下的条件<br>放下你曾经提起的，你已经完成的，否则就叫放弃</p>','2024-08-29 15:57:22.77','2024-08-29 15:57:35.284',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-08-29 15:57:35.283',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('64e17a73-e6ce-4bd3-bf41-b1241366d74d','d09cf4d1-cc1b-46ff-83b2-fc45a849404a','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>你想留下什么给后世？</p>
<p>重要的事情要讲三次。</p>
<p>在生命与职业生涯中，想要留下啥给后世。</p>
<p>离开工作岗位后，别人如何评价你？</p>
<p>10年后，家人与朋友又如何评价你？</p>','2024-07-19 09:11:28.786','2024-07-23 00:00:00.021',NULL,'f','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02','2024-07-23 00:00:00.02',NULL,NULL);
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<p>所以每个人都透过自己的过去经验来告知未来</p>
<p>如果这个未来并不能和自己的过去产生链接，那思维转移就会有很大的挑战</p>','2024-09-16 11:04:03.042','2024-10-05 00:00:00.009',NULL,'f','2024-10-05 00:00:00.008','2024-10-05 00:00:00.008',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('304fd325-6276-4de0-a9f7-739effb6ae3f','4278520a-b40d-41be-9394-959e8d143d04','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>很会开车的人，一旦碰到了汽车故障时，他未必懂得如何修好车子</p>
<p>会修车的人，不一定代表他也会开车</p>
<p>懂做生意的人，未必看清自己的行业战略</p>
<p>会看战略的人未必会经营生意</p>','2024-09-16 11:05:24.339','2024-10-06 00:00:00.003',NULL,'f','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002','2024-10-06 00:00:00.002',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0fa99139-aa96-4e02-83f2-ed5473d74d60','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','51d2b0ec-c275-4372-b27e-2aefff3833d3','<p>用物、爱人、敬天</p>
<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。<br>把爱用在错误的地方，<br>踏上欲望跑步机，只会徒劳无功。</p>
<p>尝试理解以上的文字。</p>','2024-07-19 10:06:37.017','2024-07-19 10:06:37.017',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 10:06:37.016',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('1523c643-7515-4775-9fbf-bfefd7f2cc09','70ff3272-f184-4130-ab1f-0a7de3447720','72ce0c9e-c59c-4daf-a31b-84b5558f1948','<p>任何组织的管理者，</p>
<p>✅花1/2 的时间管理自己。</p>
<p>✅花1/4 的时间管理上司。</p>
<p>✅花1/5 的时间管理同辈。</p>
<p>✅剩余的时间管理下属。</p>','2024-09-26 07:00:18.637','2024-10-09 00:00:00.013',NULL,'f','2024-10-09 00:00:00.012','2024-10-09 00:00:00.012',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78ea4f11-ddcc-42b1-82e6-8a0b316a8352','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','b4b15dc1-1ce2-4a8f-92da-fdcadf99c95d','<p>东西是拿来用的，而不是拿来爱的。</p>
<p>我们一直追求的名利和物质都是虚有的东西，认真的思考人生除了名利和物质的追求我们其实还有爱人和家人。</p>
<p>物质和名利是让我们拿来让爱人和家人过得更好的东西，而不是爱物质和名利多余他们。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>','2024-07-19 10:27:16.861','2024-07-19 10:29:41.398',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 10:29:41.397',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b9555fc7-3f39-467a-b923-33dd7f298859','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>学以致用。做你愿意做的，成为你所爱的。以服务他人为目的，贡献自己的力量，人际关系自然健康。</p>','2024-07-19 11:20:19.807','2024-07-19 11:20:19.807',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 11:20:19.806',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('97ac3455-2774-4494-a428-f082d8fd3a3d','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','d7f9d646-34b1-4281-a990-12e3eb93d6ff','<p>有时候问他人，不如回到内心的平静。只有面对自我，面对内心，才找到答案。</p>','2024-07-19 11:23:45.157','2024-07-19 11:23:45.157',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 11:23:45.156',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c25694b5-60cb-429d-8cce-9c5f48b74660','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','724f2776-0f89-4693-96ac-067e7121c40c','<p>每个人都有三个自我层面：公众的自我，展现外在形象与人格；私人的自我，在家人好友面前展现真实自我；以及私密自我，深藏内心深处，包含动机、倾向和习性。我们的正直品格源自私密自我，高效能人士通过由内而外的方法，利用私密自我的力量影响他人。深入了解自己能开放心胸，接纳他人意见并影响他人。Carl Rogers指出，当内心平静被打乱时，我们会启动心理防卫机制，如投射，即将自己的动机投射到他人身上。面对难题时，反思自身目的与方法，避免陷入理智化的陷阱，逃避现实责任。</p>','2024-07-19 11:41:10.322','2024-07-19 11:41:13.246',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 11:41:13.245',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('a94240f3-ea0b-46e6-b360-d233f99a9fe4','7ba9697c-c804-4352-86a2-8e8ad55ef6d1','4c2cb0fa-558c-4a13-ab1b-96b276e5389a','<p>提高转换率，找对社区更重要</p>','2024-09-09 09:18:24.019','2024-09-09 09:18:24.019',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-09-09 09:18:24.018',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('4ee62428-5b37-49c3-bf7b-f9aa90d3d051','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','703da497-c1ec-4835-9b77-624b065d2f68','<p>原来我们每个人都有三个字我，分别是：</p>
<ol>
<li>公众的自我；</li>
<li>私人的自我；</li>
<li>私密的自我。</li>
</ol>
<p>私密自我将决定了我们能否拥有全然的正直，因为要坦然面对私密自我需要勇气，更需要足够的了解自己并接受如是我闻的自己。这不容易，公众的自我与私人的自我会对私密自我进行各种的干扰，让我们&ldquo;信以伪真&rdquo;。</p>
<p>私密自我很容易在平静被打乱时，自然启动各种心理的自我防卫机制，包括：理智化、合理化、否认与投射。我个人是属于理智化的，而读到这一篇让我学习到&ldquo;原来理智化也是一种防卫&rdquo;。</p>','2024-07-19 12:14:44.26','2024-07-19 12:14:44.26',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 12:14:44.259',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('78ee2a17-0d23-4f00-88c9-8f23ed351d93','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','4cfe29dd-714c-41a2-bc6d-306205099ae9','<p>物质上的成功和幸福是两回事，如果没办法看清本质将会失去生命的意义。</p>
<p>用物</p>
<p>爱人</p>
<p>敬天</p>','2024-07-19 12:18:40.369','2024-07-19 12:18:40.369',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 12:18:40.368',NULL,NULL);
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<p>爱人，</p>
<p>敬天！</p>
<p>简单的六个字，背后却是意义重大！</p>
<p>享有当下所拥有！</p>
<p>爱你所该爱的人！</p>
<p>崇拜让你快乐的！</p>','2024-07-19 12:41:46.629','2024-07-19 12:41:46.629',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 12:41:46.628',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('c614bee3-6b63-4c98-8102-97aa51a67c57','b78932fb-83e1-4691-b921-bb9aaa85f17f','6622a3df-096b-488e-b170-793cd6060dd0','<p>我们能否拥有正直的品格，取决于藏在深处的私密自我。唯有先了解自己，才能对他人发挥影响力。</p>','2024-07-19 12:49:22.433','2024-07-19 12:49:22.433',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 12:49:22.432',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('0574243c-e453-4856-aaff-a8bd7a4fced3','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','3b67c9ce-62eb-4cd1-90ba-c5feee36a59d','<p>用物、爱人、敬天</p>
<p>看到了这六字也想到了稻盛和夫的敬天爱人</p>
<p>东西是拿来用的，不是拿来爱的。</p>
<p>爱是留给人的，不是留给东西的。</p>
<p>去爱，做你愿意的，我愿意很重要</p>','2024-07-19 12:57:07.185','2024-07-19 12:57:07.185',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 12:57:07.184',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('369288e0-f09a-478b-83d8-fbeda740fd87','5f27d145-4d49-4b4b-81ff-64120c593a6c','3e48658e-7ce0-40f2-a2b5-968845f2db06','<p>这个世界需要我做些什么？我能为其它人的生命贡献什么？</p>','2024-07-19 11:43:33.637','2024-07-21 00:00:00.007',NULL,'f','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006','2024-07-21 00:00:00.006',NULL,NULL);
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INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('b39ea69c-8562-4367-8fbf-e0203aa7b50c','42551fa4-7142-4c31-ab52-d33af041c3d0','cfced49d-03e5-479a-90f3-590cb0492cdf','<p>永远没有最新的新零售，只有更新的新零售</p>
<p>新零售是在零售本质上多一个创新，多一个竞争力的方式</p>
<p>零售的未来永远存在，因为人是需要链接一个货在场上</p>
<p>而 &ldquo;新&rdquo; 的意思就是不断突破</p>','2024-09-16 11:11:18.023','2024-10-08 00:00:00.023',NULL,'f','2024-10-08 00:00:00.022','2024-10-08 00:00:00.022',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('fcd5e097-5a73-492f-86d2-db03737bf122','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','3bf587cc-973a-43cd-bcac-64b112cd922c','<p>六字公式: 用物,爱人,敬天</p>
<p>去爱，做你愿意做的。<br>东西是拿来用的，不是拿来爱的。<br>爱是留给人的，不要只會留给东西</p>','2024-07-19 14:17:13.149','2024-07-19 14:17:13.149',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:17:13.149',NULL,NULL);
INSERT INTO "study_group_task_comments" ("id","studyGroupTaskId","memberId","comment","createdAt","updatedAt","deletedAt","prePlanned","prePlannedDate","commentDate","parent_id","staffId") VALUES ('2f72248e-2acb-4301-acfe-746cb75d3630','4a73116e-09ac-4934-bb33-2076837871d0','eee922a6-2fca-4575-8202-7274b54bf4c3','<p>18/7/24:</p>
<p>职涯模式有四种：</p>
<p>～ 直线型</p>
<p>～ 稳定型</p>
<p>～ 转换型</p>
<p>～ 螺旋型</p>
<p>不同年龄段有适合的职涯模式。</p>
<p>当进入第二曲线时，螺旋型可能会较为合适。即转换领域，但是衔接先前的职涯中获得的能力。</p>
<p>不要去怀念以前追求的东西，而是想一想，此时此刻，现在，自己真正想要的东西。</p>
<p>要踏出转变的那一步，看似简单，实际上需要勇气。若有人鼓励自己，那就更容易克服恐惧，去做出改变。</p>
<p>新生，是需要有舍，需要有终止，才有机会迎接新生。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>19/7/24</p>
<p>看到其他人晚年沮丧的样子，不想要自己也一样，所以勇敢做出改变。</p>
<p>把人生的追求，从追求成功，变成追求幸福，而爱就是最好的工具。</p>
<p>自己的人生自己做主。自己选择要追求什么。</p>','2024-07-19 14:19:48.458','2024-07-19 14:19:55.405',NULL,'f',NULL,'2024-07-19 14:19:55.404',NULL,NULL);
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<p>唯有学习六字訣，用物、愛人、 敬天，隨''順因緣，感恩的心过好每一天，珍惜身邊的人事物，善利用生命的每一刻，才能活得自在快樂。</p>
<p>2） 感謝Rina 的精心策劃這個讀書會，計劃評論非常方便沒有了時間限制，好高興在短期內己能讀完兩本書，覺得太美好了， 希望這個推動力能繼續，讓更多人获益，培育一個書香社會。</p>','2024-07-19 14:08:38.195','2024-07-20 00:00:00.006',NULL,'f','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005','2024-07-20 00:00:00.005',NULL,NULL);
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